So, how do YOU feel about Gays getting married?
 

It doesnt get any more liberal than an adult webmaster...I'm curious what everyones feeling is regarding gays getting married?

It is soon to become a legal reality very soon.
http://apnews1.iwon.com//article/200...=home&SEC=news

They need to get off the marriage shit and just go enjoy whatevers left of their aids ridden life. But no, they need something to bitch about to feel important

no problem for me with that

It'd be great.......to see a divorce where the GUY gets the house!!!

:1orglaugh

Anyone who's against it probably have lots of insecurity problems.

I'm suprised how many homophobes we have in this industry.

I'm all for it- I don't see how it threatens anyone.

seriously though, I don't have a big problem with gay marriage, as long as they don't adopt children..

letting gay couples adopt children means forcing gay lifestyle and gay parents on the children, and I don't support that

Do Christians have something against momos getting married due to religious beliefs? I personally could care less what the queers do as long as it doesn't splill over into my life.

Who does it hurt?

agree with you on this one

I don't see any reason to tell them they can't. It's simply a religious thing. Crazy conservative christians that think gays are the devil. They'd just as soon have them all burned at the stake then recognize them as actual people with rights. Just another form a rascism and prejudice. :2 cents:

So you're for forcing hetrosexual lifestyles on children...some of whom may in fact be gay?

I'd say if they adopt children that are over a certein age, it's fine, because the child can decide whether he wants gay parents or not, but letting them adopt baby age children would be forcing on the child.

you're not FORCING hetrosexual lifestyle on anyone...
when the child is old enough and discovers he's gay, he can have a gay lifestyle.

Gay marriage doesnt affect me one bit since Im not gay, and I dont forsee becoming gay in the near future. Im pretty sure if I was hat I still would not marry.

Now, if they feel they want to marry for whatever reason they please they should be able to.
We arent living in the 40's and 50's anymore.

The only thing that would bother me is like Alexg said if they were to adopt then they would be forcing their shit on kids and that just ain't right.

If you put all the homos on their own continent and tell them to survive without help from the outside hetero world they couldn't. Their population would dry up in less than a century.

I agree on this too.

What if that kid goes to shhool and is in the same class as your kid... what would you do? :)

So you're saying that there's a problem with the gay lifestyle.

Now we've gone from "they can't marry" to "ok...they can marry so long as we don't give them children". That just as wrong on all the same levels.

I'm ok with that, it's their lives.

Mmmkay.

Why should we care? They're marrying for the same reason that most hetero couples marry: they love each other. Many of those who are trying to obtain legal marriages have been together for literally years. In their hearts, they're already "married" and only want the legality to be awarded all the same benefits that hetero couples have when they marry.

It shouldn't matter who marries whom. Since when is it the job of the government to dictate who can marry? That's nothing but bullshit. What really gets to me is how proponents of this whole amendment thing are saying that gay marriage underminds the family and they want to ban it "to protect our children."

So who's gonna protect our children from them? :feels-hot

Yep and gays are not FORCING homosexual lifestyle on anyone either. Or is it different with gay people?

I think some form of civil union is ok, but marriage is kinda dumb.

The problem is judges who are making rulings that go against state laws on the books, and opening a can of worms.

whether there's a problem with the gay lifestyle is not relevant at all to this issue.

It is for sure, that having gay parents will influence the child's lifestyle, beliefs, self esteem and social life. therefore, such thing must not be forced on him.

yes but like I said. having gay parents would influence the child for sure. having straight male and female parents is the default, you must agree. it's the child who has gay parents who will be considered different. therefore, this should be made of choice and not by force.

I say let the gay couples have children when they can make them on their own :1orglaugh

They deserve the same legal rights entitled to hetero married couples. Like health insurance, life insurance etc.

People who just see marriage as a religious union are fucked in the head anyways. God has nothing to do with relationships.

I say just let them be!

If they wanna mary, mary! But don't try to impose some priest to mary them, just so they feel good about being married in the front of God. I don't remember the Bible saying anything about marriage between 2 fags/dikes. So a plain-old "legal wedding" will be ok. Just don't involve any religion in it, nobody is going to agree to this.

How do you know that for sure?
You're saying that having male and female parents who keep arguing will have a better influence on them? And is it better to have no parents than to have gay parents?
Besides, if I'm not mistaken, gay couples can already adopt children. Marriage is another issue.

You are too ignorant on this topic to really even deserve a reply.

I'm thinking the really HORRIFIC ones aren't webmasters, but just kids looking for free porn on here. Those that are webmasters..well, I feel sorry for THEIR kids.

It doesn't bother me if they get married, so why not.

Then DUH..if sexuality is INBORN, how the HECK do gay parents FORCE a gay life on an adopted baby.

Please give SOME sort of scientific proof for your pathetic posts instead of the usualy generally platitudes.

I wish there were more gays.
Cause it means more women for me :glugglug

not sure.
but having GAY parents who keep arguing will have an even greater influence on the child.

of course not, but it's not like there aren't enough straight couples who want to adopt children. gay couples are a minority. don't forget that.

this is not the issue. these laws probably vary from different states/ countries

if this is the law, as you said, then I oppose it. I would rather have it the other way around.

i dont care, its their life they can do what they want with it

The heterosexual inbreeding among cousins is quite evident in this thread!

What the fuck do you mean if your kid goes to the same school as a gay adopted kid? What would they do? THey would do what ALL kids do in school!

Such total stupidity is hilarious! :1orglaugh

ok here you go:
a kid has gay parents.
he goed to school for the first time.
his teacher asks for his parents' names as part of an introduction activity, and the kid goes: "i have two daddies"

don't you think the other kids' reaction would influence the kid?

NIMROD! Read ANY scientific study done on this (and there have been many) and they have found gay parents has absolutely ZERO effect on the child's sexual preference.

Try understanding this concept: You are BORN gay or straight!
If you're saying you are not, when did YOU choose to be straight?

And the ONLY reason any problem would exist with the kids are because of parents like YOU that will feed THEIR kids homobophic nonsense.

:thumbsup

that's the same as saying: "shit i don't support your beliefs, so just fuck you ok?"

I think most kids wouldn't give a tinker's damn about what was said in class unless they had an idiot parent like you TELLING them that these kids are "wrong"!

Indeed I am! :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

The only think that I can see being a problem is that they're gonna feel different because they have gay parents. But then again, nowadays who doesn't feel different? Plenty of children have some situation at home.

From what I know, no there aren't enough people who want to adopt children.

This thread should be closed..Never on any circumstance should this topic be talked about lol

please define "homophob" and then explain how I am one

very clever:thumbsup

keep up the good work

Alex, I think that is an ignorant statment to make. You think its ok for homosexuals to get married, but you don't think its appropriate for them to adopt?WHY?

Do you have any idea just how many children there are in foster homes and adoption centers just waiting, dying for a loving family to take them into their home?

I know first hand, because my aunt and uncle were medically unable to have children on their own, so they decided to adopt. After waiting for paperwork, and verifications,and backround checks to go through, they were able to go to the adoption center to choose which baby they wanted to take home. When my aunt got home, she broke down in tears because of the condition of these types of places (they adopted from Russia because the waiting list for a newborn was too long in Canada) and the way the children are treated there. They were basically tied to the sides of the basinette because the volume of babies far exceeded the amount of hands they had to take care of them.They were only fed once a day because the adoption centers do not recieve enough funding to feed the children properly.

Anyway, I dont understand why some people have a problem if two capable, loving, caring individuals (if they are homosexual) adopt a baby. Wouldnt you rather be raised by two loving people (regardless of their sex) in a good home, then be tossed into some foster home and left to rot, with subpar supervision, and no one on one attention?? Just because a gay couple adopts a child, it doesnt necessarily mean the child will turn out to be gay, and if they do, SO WHAT. Why should it bother you? Every gay person I know what raised by STRAIGHT parents.

Anyway, carry on. This is just my :2 cents:

i like watching the christians squirm.

these people cant imagine gays marrying but lie to themselves and say they are not separatists and hypocrits, and are honorable christians.

ha ha

your end is coming christians

Here Alexg, trying wrapping your brain around this:
It's called SCIENCE and FACTS:

"A new study has reaffirmed what many gay parents have already known by declaring that gay and lesbian parents have no significant negative effect on the children they raise.

The report, from the Canadian Psychological Association (CPA), also claims that there is no medical or empirical evidence to suggest that children raised by gay and lesbians will turn out gay themselves.

However, the CPA says that the key to ensuring children are raised to be happy and well-adjusted adults lies in the acceptance of their parents and their family structure.

"All children deserve to feel that society accepts and recognises their families," association president Dr. Patrick O'Neill said yesterday.

"Children of same-sex couples are no exception."

This is just ONE of hundreds of studies done all reaching (unless done by a right wing christian outfit) the same conclusion.

Look in the mirror.