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Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:10 AM

I am just curious, based on non-talent, industry circle of friends....

How many people would you say the average male, versus female sleep with in their life time?

I am thinking males, 50-100, females, 15-30.

Libertine · 04-15-2009, 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

I am just curious, based on non-talent, industry circle of friends....

How many people would you say the average male, versus female sleep with in their life time?

I am thinking males, 50-100, females, 15-30.

The actual number is 7-10, according to most studies I've read.

Also, keep in mind what "average" means... the average for men and women, considering only straight sex involving 2 persons, is by definition the same. The median will probably differ hugely, though.

SBJ · 04-15-2009, 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

I am just curious, based on non-talent, industry circle of friends....

How many people would you say the average male, versus female sleep with in their life time?

I am thinking males, 50-100, females, 15-30.

50-100 sounds kinda high for the average guy.. now if you mean the average guy in this biz sure.. I would say 30-60 for the guys. the female number sounds about right

I'm sure there are many girls that only sleep with 3-5 guys in their lifes but there are enough bar sluts to make your 15-30 sound about right

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Libertine

The actual number is 7-10, according to most studies I've read.

Also, keep in mind what "average" means... the average for men and women, considering only straight sex involving 2 persons, is by definition the same. The median will probably differ hugely, though.

So, for both sexes, it is a 7-10 per lifetime?
Wow.

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Silent Bob Jedi

I'm sure there are many girls that only sleep with 3-5 guys in their lifes but there are enough bar sluts to make your 15-30 sound about right

CurrentlySober · 04-15-2009, 05:18 AM

I dunno...

I just like poo...

Marquis85 · 04-15-2009, 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

I am just curious, based on non-talent, industry circle of friends....

How many people would you say the average male, versus female sleep with in their life time?

I am thinking males, 50-100, females, 15-30.

I second the 7-10 average. That's what I've read anyway. And for fucks sake, I've never met an average man who's number is in the triple digits.

fris · 04-15-2009, 05:22 AM

why is it if a guy sleeps with a lot of girls hes a player, but if a girl sleeps with a lot of guys shes a slut?

Some Guy · 04-15-2009, 05:24 AM

Most of the guys I know (who aren't in this business) probably average 20 or so. But then, a lot of the guys I know have zero game.

Most of the girls I know have already been with 10 guys by the time they're 25-years-old.

polish_aristocrat · 04-15-2009, 05:25 AM

I'm not the best at math but is it even possible that the average female sleeps with 15 guys in her life and the average guy with 50 women?

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Some Guy

Most of the guys I know (who aren't in this business) probably average 20 or so. But then, a lot of the guys I know have zero game.

Most of the girls I know have already been with 10 guys by the time they're 25-years-old.

Yeah, I am thinking not in regards to PA's age group, or the old timers with values.

A lot of the models I talk to, for example, are already at 5-10 by 18-21.

Marquis85 · 04-15-2009, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

I'm not the best at math but is it even possible that the average female sleeps with 15 guys in her life and the average guy with 50 women?

Sure, why not? In my experience (from talking to people and reading about it) most of the partners are racked up when people are in college.

Libertine · 04-15-2009, 05:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

So, for both sexes, it is a 7-10 per lifetime?
Wow.

Two things to keep in mind.

First, these are necessarily old numbers. Polling lifetime totals for people in their 20s, 30s or 40s would be rather pointless, since they obviously have no idea what those will be yet. So, the numbers are based on past generations.

Second, lots of people are "serial daters". And while serial daters might have lots of sex, their number of sexual partners is usually fairly limited.

polish_aristocrat · 04-15-2009, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

So, for both sexes, it is a 7-10 per lifetime?
Wow.

there are people who married their second boyfriend/girlfriend and never cheated

also, you can't really talk about averages here.... because the question "how many sexual partners in life" can be only answered by those who won't have any partners anymore

I mean, the question makes no sense if you ask 25-year olds.... they might have had 5 partners and have 1 more in future or 30 more...

and keep in mind that the older generations were different in this regard

edit: I see Libertine said basically the same

Libertine · 04-15-2009, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

I'm not the best at math but is it even possible that the average female sleeps with 15 guys in her life and the average guy with 50 women?

No, it's not.

The main reason "averages" between men and women tend to differ in studies is that sex workers aren't usually polled for this sort of thing. Since quite a few men have sex with prostitutes, that boosts the outcome for men. Aside from that, men tend to exaggerate their numbers, while women tend to downplay them.

SBJ · 04-15-2009, 05:38 AM

also you have to take into factor the "I only go down on guys cause I'm saving myself for marriage" girls or my favorite girl that I have yet to meet.. "I only do anal cause I don't wanna get pregnant"

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Libertine

men tend to exaggerate their numbers, while women tend to downplay them.

Good point.

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

I mean, the question makes no sense if you ask 25-year olds.... they might have had 5 partners and have 1 more in future or 30 more...
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The question is simple. Stop complicating it with Polish, and aristocratic value system gramps.

I am saying simply, "today's generation(s), the average sexual partners (meaning you fucked them) is...."

Very simple, and straight forward.

However, Libertine seems to be on the case.

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Silent Bob Jedi

also you have to take into factor the "I only go down on guys cause I'm saving myself for marriage" girls or my favorite girl that I have yet to meet.. "I only do anal cause I don't wanna get pregnant"

'Close' only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades,...

or maybe junior high school.

JamesK · 04-15-2009, 05:47 AM

You're way off bro. Not everyone is a playa like you

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by JamesK

You're way off bro. Not everyone is a playa like you

LMFAO....

Keep in mind, I deal with a lot of models who are younger, so the are a generation different then myself, and already out there spreading them cheeks.

My circle of friends (non-industry) is the lower end of the average, but I was thinking for non-talent, JamesK's, what the average is.

Miz_Wright · 04-15-2009, 05:58 AM

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Originally Posted by fris

why is it if a guy sleeps with a lot of girls hes a player, but if a girl sleeps with a lot of guys shes a slut?

Hasn't that been the question for years?

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 06:01 AM

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Originally Posted by LizAEBN

Hasn't that been the question for years?

polish_aristocrat · 04-15-2009, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

LMFAO....

Keep in mind, I deal with a lot of models who are younger, so the are a generation different then myself, and already out there spreading them cheeks.

My circle of friends (non-industry) is the lower end of the average, but I was thinking for non-talent, JamesK's, what the average is.

If JamesK is still friends with Reak, i'd expect him to be higher than the average as well

polish_aristocrat · 04-15-2009, 06:04 AM

also, Barefootsies, you deal with models who get naked on camera... yeah, they surely have more sex than the ugly girls or those who want to be a lawyer or so

Voodoo · 04-15-2009, 06:04 AM

Whatever number a guy says he's been with, divide by 3.
Whatever number a woman says she's been with, multiply by 3.

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 06:06 AM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

also, Barefootsies, you deal with models who get naked on camera... yeah, they surely have more sex than the ugly girls or those who want to be a lawyer or so

Incorrect tootsie. I shoot mostly NN.

Remember?

Miz_Wright · 04-15-2009, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

As for your question - I think the 30/100 ration probably isn't too far off as an actual number, when one accounts for standard deviation/ Wilt Chamberlain/ nuns.

There are those who will marry their high school honey and never sleep with anyone else, and there are those who live a much freer sexual life. Serial monogomists probably make up the bulk of the figures, I would think -- I'd be curious what the average number of relationships had by a person is, also.

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 06:22 AM

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Originally Posted by LizAEBN

I'd be curious what the average number of relationships had by a person is, also.

As would I dear tootsie...

Vicious_B · 04-15-2009, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by LizAEBN

Hasn't that been the question for years?

Of course and will always be heavily debated. To me intentions are way more important than numbers.

Between a guy sleeps with 10 girls but lies and tells them that he loves them ect to get them into bed and a guy sleeps with 100 girls but did it honestly, letting the girl know he wasn't interested in a relationship ect I would have more respect for the guy with the higher number.

As for the ladies. To me if a female sleeps with 10 guys based on the criteria of, what can I get out of this guy if I have sex with him, shes a whore. If a female sleeps with 100 guys but does it because she likes sex and is just having fun (like men like to do) then I don't judge that person.

ContentSHOOTER · 04-15-2009, 07:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

I am just curious, based on non-talent, industry circle of friends....

How many people would you say the average male, versus female sleep with in their life time?

I am thinking males, 50-100, females, 15-30.

Right now nobody

Deej · 04-15-2009, 07:18 AM

girls have more sex than men

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ContentSHOOTER

Right now nobody

Achmed's Wife Halimah · 04-15-2009, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

based on non-talent
males, 50-100,

Hello BarelyFootsies
Halimah know you bang the feet & this counts as '10 footsies' for each lady so your number is only 5-10
Thank you.

Deesnuts · 04-15-2009, 11:21 AM

flip that #

DrChango · 04-15-2009, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by LizAEBN

Hasn't that been the question for years?

The girl I've started seeing recently has only been with three guys including me...she's number 21 for me, which I actually find rather embarrassing, especially since she is actually older than I am. Sometimes I feel like a man-whore, and I have friends whose tallies are in the hundreds, which I guess make them uber-man-whores

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by DrChango

which I guess make them uber-man-whores

How old? Same? In the 20's??

Yen_HerbalRevenue · 04-15-2009, 04:09 PM

It is hard to average how many sexual partners men and women have because the numbers are all over place depending on the generation. I think in past generations men had more sexual partners than women, However I think it is the opposite now. I think women can openly say they want sex now... and it is much easier for a women to get laid than a man.

SexualDragon · 04-15-2009, 04:20 PM

I'm a virgin

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Yen_HerbalRevenue

It is hard to average how many sexual partners men and women have because the numbers are all over place depending on the generation. I think in past generations men had more sexual partners than women, However I think it is the opposite now. I think women can openly say they want sex now... and it is much easier for a women to get laid than a man.

Agreed.

I am not saying the people I know, or ask represent the society on the whole. However, I think the woman's number have gone up. Seems like 'back in the day', 5-10 would have been the woman's norm.

CrazyHunk · 04-15-2009, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by SexualDragon

I'm a virgin

Sob me too...

StaceyJo · 04-15-2009, 09:17 PM

Numbers are trophies for men.

Barefootsies · 04-15-2009, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by StaceyJo

Numbers are trophies for men.

Agreed. In regards to the number count.

Men, proud.
Women, ashamed.

Miz_Wright · 04-16-2009, 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by 12clicksMichele

Of course and will always be heavily debated. To me intentions are way more important than numbers.

Between a guy sleeps with 10 girls but lies and tells them that he loves them ect to get them into bed and a guy sleeps with 100 girls but did it honestly, letting the girl know he wasn't interested in a relationship ect I would have more respect for the guy with the higher number.

As for the ladies. To me if a female sleeps with 10 guys based on the criteria of, what can I get out of this guy if I have sex with him, shes a whore. If a female sleeps with 100 guys but does it because she likes sex and is just having fun (like men like to do) then I don't judge that person.

DING! You are my favourite today

UFGators2007 · 04-16-2009, 09:13 AM

Depends on industry vs non-industry. Industry I would say your numbers are good. Non-industry I would say men 6-10, women 7-15.

Vicious_B · 04-17-2009, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by LizAEBN

DING! You are my favourite today

Thank you

LatinCams · 04-17-2009, 09:36 AM

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LiveDose · 04-17-2009, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

I am just curious, based on non-talent, industry circle of friends....

How many people would you say the average male, versus female sleep with in their life time?

I am thinking males, 50-100, females, 15-30.

Average? I would say your numbers are way high. Your male number is the amount of girls many guys say they've slept with and the female number is a segment but not average me thinks...

On that note I've banged over 1000 chicks.

Barefootsies · 04-17-2009, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by UFGators2007

Non-industry I would say men 6-10, women 7-15.

Wow!

People actually get married only having sampled a dozen people?

Madness.

_Richard_ · 04-17-2009, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Libertine

The actual number is 7-10, according to most studies I've read.

Also, keep in mind what "average" means... the average for men and women, considering only straight sex involving 2 persons, is by definition the same. The median will probably differ hugely, though.

haha i always thought that was an religious myth!

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