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fuck, tried to kiss a girl and i got turned down
boy did i fuck up. right now im on the second day of a 7 day cruise with family. my dad invited the daughter of one of his friends on the cruise because he wanted to try to set us up. right from the start we started getting along, since i got in around noon, we wouk together, she would look at me a lot, touch me, etc. then after dinner last night she wanted to have a cigarette, so we went out on the deck.
she was smoking, we were kind of huddled behind a locker to protect from the wind, her face was like a foot away from mind, and all of the sudden, i dont know why, but i just moved my head closer to try to kiss her, and she turned her head so i just got her cheek. after that it was all different, we walked back to where everyone else was and the vibe was weird. they were at a show, then she said she didnt feel like watching it and wanted to go get coffee, and suggested that if i wanted to continue to see the show i should stay. so i asked, so you want me to stay, and she kind of nodded and got up to leave now im stuck for the next 6 days and im afraid its going to be weird. it was going great before and now i think im fucked. man, i wish i would have taken more time. so at this point is it a lost cause? should i apoligize or dont say anything? anything i can salvage here? |
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Let slip the dogs of war.
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The only thing you can do now is the thing you should have done in the first place. Pay her no attention what so ever. Just have a good time, talk to other women and relax.
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Get naked and hop in her bed tonight.
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Doin fine
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What if it was your breath? lol Jk Girls are goofy who knows.
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You have to literally hop. She will totally be turned on by your wang flopping around. Hell, pretend you are a bunny, it IS easter after all.
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Not sure what to tell you! Its a hard one!!!
If you had a good vibes at first place maybe she did too! Maybe you just push it too fast with this kissing stuff! My advice is to relax, cause you already made a first step! Be patient and see what she will do next! |
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forget about her and have fun.
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She was smoking.. Maybe she had a mouth full of smoke?
Nobody does this but me.. I ask the girl "Wtf?" when they do things that make me go "Wtf?" Especially if i'm forced to spend time with her in a confined space.. Girls are also really bad with mis-leading guys.. |
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Own up to your mistake (to yourself) and forget about it. The more you act as if you are embarrassed that she rejected you, the more weird things will get. And what was up with you asking her if she wanted you to stay? At that moment you should have got up, played it off and had a nice cup of coffee. That would have cleared the air or at least given you more of an idea about her intentions. Maybe she wanted to find out where the rest of the family was so that you and her could definitely have some uninterrupted time together. Have fun. You're on a cruise! Besides, she is one girl out of how many? If you can't handle it, move on kid...Move on. You aren't trying to win a wife here. And please don't get all serious on her trying to talk about it either. You'll definitely scare her away then.
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That's horrible...
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there is only one thing you can do. jump.
don't think, just do it.
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I feel bad for you guys that have small dicks when it comes to situations like this, you had a massive dick this thread would have never been started, you will be stuffing it in her tight snatch. You should just get a sex operation man, at least then you won't have to worry about it, you'll just have a pussy and go on the hunt for guys like yourself to fuck in the ass.
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What he said!
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Congrats to the winners
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tell her you fap over her at night..
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Sounds like she wasn't attracted to you quite yet while you were feeling attracted to her. No big deal just bad calibration.
Never ever make excuses or apologies for your desires as a man. Ignore her, but don't be rude about it. Just act like you lost interest. Act like nothing happened at all and start chatting up some other women. Once she sees other girls having fun hanging out with you, she will get more interested. |
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from now on you need to forget about her and pretend she is someone's grandma that happens to be in the same group as you... in other words do your own thing and don't even let her cross your mind, at least she didn't lead you on like some girls do for attention when they are not really interested, so she was cool in that she was clear about it...... forget about her
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To give you a straight answer I will need to know what you look like and what she looks like... ;)
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Go pickup someone else on the cruise.
WG
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Do you feel like a reject?
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Apologize, say you thought SHE wanted you to kiss her and you were just being nice. Tell her you dont find her attractive. Thats your best bet. Trust me.
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naw, i feel like i had a great thing going and could have had a great time with her the whole time just hanging out, and the kiss attempt was a stupid move, way too early and made things uncomfortable and weird, just have to deal with us and maybe salvage omething out of it, not a big deal in the scheme of things, but right now, and last night i was hitting myself for rushing it the cruise is filled with old people, kids, and married couples, i just got out of dinner early to check this thread, i wasnt going to post it, but glad i did some great responses, dnull, nubiles, at least i feel a little better, well see what happens, but not keeping hopes up |
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show us your photo
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get a picture of her cunt
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From what the OP has said so far, he would mess up that sort of "play" - especially if she is keen enough to call him on his newfound sense of "bravado".
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LOL. What? Apologize for misreading signals and trying to start a relationship? No way. Just move on... it's nothing to feel bad or sorry about, it happened, big deal. In two weeks you will have forgotten it even happened.
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'Apologizing' and playing it off as if she was trying to kiss him would have led her to believe that there were no hurt feelings or self-consciousness issues. AND would have shown her that the OP was confident enough to take rejection. Which, by the very existence of this thread, isn't true.
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Next time try asking her if she wouldn't mind trying some anal... works every time!
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Are you seriously paying for slow cruise ship internet to post this lame shit on gfy? I liked it better when I thought it was a joke.
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Oh, it's def gna be weird. LOL!
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You should have whipped it out and say can you handle this before you attempt a kiss
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But there is self-conscious issues! If there wasn't, this thread would not exist. I'm sure someone can pull off "I'm sorry, it's two days later after the fact and I finally figured out how to respond to the situation but I thought you wanted me to kiss you"... but I really don't think it is this thread starter.
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I'm no Casanova by any means but here's what I'd say happened and what you should do. However much it may have seemed like things are going well, it can be hard to separate friendliness and flirtatiousness, and you were on night 1 of a 7 day cruise - I think you went for it too early is all - early enough to the point where you probably didn't have enough to go off of to determine if she was interested or not, and she may have not had enough interaction with you to BE interested. Not every chick will get cockhungry for a guy on night 1 of knowing them.
That said, all you can do is say "oh well" and move on. From the point of "and suggested that if i wanted to continue to see the show i should stay" you should have assumed that she was telling you to back off at least for the night and not have outright asked what you did...given there's plenty of time left you MAY have had a chance but when you force her to come outright with the rejection (her nod answer to your question), you can't pull a Costanza and pretend the next day like everything's fine and nothing happened, and no one takes cruises for drama so it's not like you can expect to talk things out with her and have a chance. And to quote a good movie line from Training Day, "the shit's chess, it ain't checkers"...looking for love at least. A one-time hop in the sack might be checkers to some guys. I think you may have had a chance with her with more time spent but went in for the early attack and lost your queen - game over. Quote:
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Ahhh, I remember when I was 13 too....
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went walking with my brother, drinking red wine and a few shots of vodak, ended you seeing her and some people from our group, we sat down with them, were talking and so on, i gestured to her if she wanted a cigarette, she nodded, i went down and got then, walked back, and went to the back of the boat with her to smoke, just happy she felt comfortable enough to be in a dark spot alone in the back of the boat with me, just happy she felt ok being along with me lol. then went back down and i excused myself a bit later to crash out, have an atv excursion at 7am
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sound advice....
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you are on a cruise ship full of pussy, who cares!
you need not pay onebit of attention to her for the rest of the time you're there go find some other girls to hang out with even if just in a friendly way. try and find some other chick just to hangout with as soon as possible. even if girl #1 wasn't interested in you at all she's not going to be able to take that you give her zero attention now. eventually she'll come around and say something to you or see if you want to do something when she gets comfortable enough with you backed off. you are there together in a group afterall. from there it's as simple, as "no, i'm gonna go to the deck and hang out with sandy , sarah, sally, samantha, or whatever the fuck her name is and get some sun" cut her off, chicks HATE when you move on and act as though they weren't a big deal anyways... |
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