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Originally Posted by whatif_3
naw, i feel like i had a great thing going and could have had a great time with her the whole time just hanging out, and the kiss attempt was a stupid move, way too early and made things uncomfortable and weird, just have to deal with us and maybe salvage omething out of it, ......
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actually, if there was going to be something there, you weren't way too early, in fact it looks like you saved yourself some time and heartache by going for it and finding out she wasn't into it right off the bat..... women generally know if they are going to sleep with a guy very soon after they meet them, the longer you go generally if there was a chance the chances go down the longer you wait, so you did the right thing, she wasn't into it, she did the right thing in letting you know right away, you both were cool, move on and forget about her, you want a new girl that is receptive to you from the start, it is never cool to think you need to convince a girl to like you..... and don't get into the worrying about being friends thing, nothing wrong with being civil, but there are lots of friends out there so with one like this where you wanted more from the start you'd just be fooling yourself with the "friends" thing and hoping for more... don't get into that game. like I said, treat her like she is someone's grandma, where you would be civil and nice to her but not looking to hang out or anything
