A friend needs help. drugs. should I help? - Page 3 - GoFuckYourself.com

quesadilla · 03-25-2008, 10:23 AM

the lack of understanding and experience in dealing with addiction is apparent in this thread.

utterly amazing that you'd attempt this at a webmaster event.

so retarded i can't even begin to understand it.

Voodoo · 03-25-2008, 10:23 AM

This is a great idea Sleazy... I know who it is and I think helping will show what a true friend you are.

Wiseman · 03-25-2008, 10:25 AM

Interventions are great!! Awesome way to help a good friend out!

Purple Haze · 03-25-2008, 10:27 AM

I just got off the phone with Scott. He asked me if I'd like to participate in the intervention, now knowing who this person is, I have to agree that it needs to be done. Most of this persons closest friends, will be in Phoenix..and good and bad, this person needs to know that they are loved and surrounded by people that care. They need to stop with the drugs as its taken over their lives and is about to lose everything....almost has really.

Penthouse Tony · 03-25-2008, 10:32 AM

This is a great thing you are doing for a friend.

Zebra · 03-25-2008, 10:36 AM

I have a pretty good idea who you are talking about, and you could not honestly call yourself their friend if you did not go through with this.
Sometimes you just have to do things for others, even if you know it might not have a good outcome for yourself.

SHANESWORLD · 03-25-2008, 10:38 AM

i just called the hotel to see why they would allow this to go on. i told them to have extra securities around and ask sleazy, (gave them his name), if he needs any help when he checks in. you can never be too safe. they said they were going to notify the sheriffs department and have some more undercovers in the hotel to make sure everything goes smoothly. i guess if you're gonna do this, do it right. i know this person needs help so why not, fuck it, you got my blessing now.

good luck.

AL4A · 03-25-2008, 10:39 AM

Sleazy, You and Me both know that this person really needs the help! To bad I will not be Phoenix this time.

AL ;)

Elli · 03-25-2008, 10:39 AM

Great idea, Scott. This person definitely needs a wake-up call.

Deej · 03-25-2008, 11:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SHANESWORLD

i just called the hotel to see why they would allow this to go on. i told them to have extra securities around and ask sleazy, (gave them his name), if he needs any help when he checks in. you can never be too safe. they said they were going to notify the sheriffs department and have some more undercovers in the hotel to make sure everything goes smoothly. i guess if you're gonna do this, do it right. i know this person needs help so why not, fuck it, you got my blessing now.

good luck.

undercover sherrifs?

what are you people doing?

i dont have anything to worry about, but im sure others will encounter issues within this environment...

Im mixed on this...

i like your thoughts and intentions Sleazy, but in the middle of a show?

Im all about people correcting their ways, especially when someone loved as much as this person seems to be...

I dunno, i hope all goes well for you and your friend... I hope he takes the help....

the girls just better be able to stay naked :D

i'll nutt up on any authorities trying to clothe the hunnies

Evil E · 03-25-2008, 11:29 AM

Not sure if it's a troll thread or not... but I don't think it's a good idea to do it there. Might want to do it just before or after...

Of course, if the dude ODs during the forum, then you would all say... damn why didn't I do something before...

Anyways, best of luck.

Fuck drugs.

Deej · 03-25-2008, 11:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil E

Not sure if it's a troll thread or not... but I don't think it's a good idea to do it there. Might want to do it just before or after...

Of course, if the dude ODs during the forum, then you would all say... damn why didn't I do something before...

Anyways, best of luck.

Fuck drugs.

Thats IS a good point... i guess Sleazy has a lock on getting the important people in his life together... and im sure if and when done properly that it WILL be secluded ...

Sleazy has never hit me as a morally stupid or uncaring person so if this is all going down, id think hed do it "right"...

i wish you and your friend luck too...

other than all that... i'll see you all (attending) soon...

lets drink and point out idiots...

Eric · 03-25-2008, 11:46 AM

Knowing who this is it pains me to think about how far they have fallen from grace. Some of you may not agree with this, but this is probably the best chance this person has to be surrounded by so many people who care about them and that they respect enough to actually listen to.

It is a tough call and initially I thought this was a bad idea till I was able to reach Scott and find out who it was and how bad the problem has truely become.

When all is said and done I have a feeling that many of you who have disagreed will change your minds and understand a little better what we are trying to accomplish here.

SleazyDream · 03-25-2008, 11:56 AM

THANKS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT GUYS.

This person has touched a lot of lives. the amount of money soo many people from large online companies have donated to help is a testament to that.

Juicy D. Links · 03-25-2008, 11:59 AM

yo UPDATE

i saw a shitload of cops outside the hotel with a staging bus..... i saw like 3 dogs also ....

damn

Juicy D. Links · 03-25-2008, 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eric

Knowing who this is it pains me to think about how far they have fallen from grace. Some of you may not agree with this, but this is probably the best chance this person has to be surrounded by so many people who care about them and that they respect enough to actually listen to.

It is a tough call and initially I thought this was a bad idea till I was able to reach Scott and find out who it was and how bad the problem has truely become.

When all is said and done I have a feeling that many of you who have disagreed will change your minds and understand a little better what we are trying to accomplish here.

same here man , but it is necessary for his own good ....

_Danielle_ · 03-25-2008, 12:05 PM

If it's who I think it is...then you DEFINITELY need to do it!

Nader · 03-25-2008, 12:24 PM

Scott i can't guess you it is since there is so many that party
in our industry

Black Dog · 03-25-2008, 12:28 PM

I'm glad somebody is finally doing something about this person's drug problem. However I'm afraid they might have already figured it out since I know for a fact that the person visits GFY on a regular basis. I hope he/she still shows up for the Phoenix Forum.

Let me know if I can be of assistance.

Barry

s9ann0 · 03-25-2008, 12:36 PM

put a webcam on GFY so we can see him smack you in the face live

Porno Dan · 03-25-2008, 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L-Pink

"Cocaine is not addicting ... I have friends that have been doing cocaine everyday for more than ten years and they're not addicted"

(Quote, Richard Pryor)

Now that is a great quote.

Jim_Gunn · 03-25-2008, 12:40 PM

I cannot believe that this is even being contemplated in a serious manner. Someone ask an interventionist at NA or other organization that has experience with this if a bunch of "bros" and business associates should be confronting the person in question at a porn convention. Close friends and family only need to do this only with the help of an experienced interventionist and also have a rehab to send him to immediately that day. Otherwise you people all have no business messing with this. It's just completely inappropriate and counter-productive.

SHANESWORLD · 03-25-2008, 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eric

Knowing who this is it pains me to think about how far they have fallen from grace. Some of you may not agree with this, but this is probably the best chance this person has to be surrounded by so many people who care about them and that they respect enough to actually listen to.

It is a tough call and initially I thought this was a bad idea till I was able to reach Scott and find out who it was and how bad the problem has truely become.

When all is said and done I have a feeling that many of you who have disagreed will change your minds and understand a little better what we are trying to accomplish here.

i agree with you tender bones. at first i said "NO WAY" but now knowing who and the circumstances involved, i say go ahead. i still don't wanna be around when it happens but i'm happy that scott is doing this. he's a good guy. it's all for the best.

Nikki_Licks · 03-25-2008, 12:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

yo UPDATE

i saw a shitload of cops outside the hotel with a staging bus..... i saw like 3 dogs also ....

damn

You have to be kidding me, right?

candyflip · 03-25-2008, 01:01 PM

Without the proper people in place to handle the "intervention" it's just going to blow up in your face.

Posting here and announcing it seems a bit self serving, regardless of what your true intentions might be.

Just because you've seen the Intervention show on A&E doesn't give you the right to stage an intervention.

CherryLipsRosa · 03-25-2008, 01:14 PM

Well if you are a good and close friend and you think it is a good idea to do it then go for it. But at a show people are there to have fun and having an intervention might not be well received. This should be done privately and without a fuss cause at the end of the day it is caring for a person and showing them that they are loved.
Good luck!

03-25-2008, 01:17 PM

Sounds like fake BS to me.

I don't think even Sleazy is stupid enough to hold an intervention at a PARTY.

Big Red Machine · 03-25-2008, 01:53 PM

People need a bottom to bounce from...hopefully this will help.
Best of Luck

RogerV · 03-25-2008, 02:24 PM

I have an idea on who it is.. Go for it LOL

polle54 · 03-25-2008, 02:27 PM

I can tell you from bitter experience that if you pass just a little justment on them there's no way they will listen to you.

You really gotta meet the person where he is and find out why he thinks what he does is alright, and maybe that way you can make him realize how stupid his own arguments are...

uno · 03-25-2008, 03:33 PM

Sierra Tucson in Tucson AZ is a really good place.

CuriousToyBoy · 03-25-2008, 03:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I can tell someone who I think is a friend is doing way too many drugs.

they need help.

should I initiate an intervention in phoenix?

Ha !!!

Bad luck !

I won't be in Phoenix mate, so you'll be intervening yourself !

SHANESWORLD · 03-25-2008, 03:44 PM

I don't even like this guy, but no one should be left alone to implode from drugs and alcohol.

i hope they get him to a place to help him out of all this.

SleazyDream · 03-25-2008, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn

I cannot believe that this is even being contemplated in a serious manner. Someone ask an interventionist at NA or other organization that has experience with this if a bunch of "bros" and business associates should be confronting the person in question at a porn convention. Close friends and family only need to do this only with the help of an experienced interventionist and also have a rehab to send him to immediately that day. Otherwise you people all have no business messing with this. It's just completely inappropriate and counter-productive.

this person's REAL family and close friends that care about this person are the people from they know from the porn business.

How is that sooo hard to understand?

SleazyDream · 03-25-2008, 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

Ha !!!

Bad luck !

I won't be in Phoenix mate, so you'll be intervening yourself !

lol - wish you were coming mate!!!!!

lesbodojo · 03-25-2008, 04:27 PM

This intervention should have been done a long time ago. He's an arrogant mooch, but maybe that was the drugs talking...and not who he really was.

btw thanks for the chat, Scott ;)

xxxjay · 03-25-2008, 04:39 PM

oh lord, sleazy told me who this was and the DO need help...if I'm saying that you know it is bad!

Porno Dan · 03-25-2008, 04:42 PM

Normally I wouldn't be behind something like this, given my own fondness for the smell of certain of substances, but in this case I am all for it.

I just spoke with Scott and this person really does need all of our help.

seeric · 03-25-2008, 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxjay

oh lord, sleazy told me who this was and the DO need help...if I'm saying that you know it is bad!

seconded for effect. damn.

xxxjay in reference to janis joplin one night

"I watched the human heavyweight cocaine-snorting champion (we'll call her Janis Joplin) do more coke, faster than anyone I’ve ever seen! Someday, I hope she gets help. That’s quite a statement coming from me."

I haven't heard you say anything like that forever.

Jim_Gunn · 03-25-2008, 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream

this person's REAL family and close friends that care about this person are the people from they know from the porn business.

How is that sooo hard to understand?

Even if you mean to suggest that this person's blood relatives also work in the porn biz, with them or separately from them, organizing the intervention at a business convention is still the wrong time and wrong place to do this, not to mention that you shouldn't be giving them advance notice on a public website. Let the few people are who actually blood related to them or who are very closely involved in their lives on a day to day basis handle this intervention with aid of a responsible interventionist at a private residence or other location away from a gathering of their peers.

D · 03-25-2008, 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream

we won't let the media know who it is out of respect for ccbill.

no one will know what happened - it'll occur in a closed room and the person will be quietly removed when we go forward with it.

Seeing as how half of the thread already knows who it is, I doubt that'll be the case...

Not knowing who it is or what's up specifically, myself, I can only really offer that lots of people in the world have contributed significantly while being heavy drug users.

I often wonder what would have come of Hunter S. Thompson had those around him forced an intervention on him; or on Edgar Allen Poe; or on Samuel Taylor Coleridge...

I mean, this person's at least functional enough to maintain employmentand be able to make shows, right - and for some time now? That doesn't quite seem like rock-bottom.

...but it seems some people that I respect seem to know what's up and think it's a good idea, including yourself... so do what you feel is right, I guess.

chadknowslaw · 03-25-2008, 05:37 PM

I have been sober for over 9 years. I was one FUCKED UP alcoholic. I have been going to meetings ever since and seen many many many people come and go into the program. Most do not stay clean or sober. With 9 years sober, I am one of the lucky ones that made it this far.

It has been my experience that interventions do NOT work. An intervention means that the friends and family are ready for the addict to quit; it does not mean the _addict_ is ready to quit. Interventions usually result in hard feelings HOWEVER it does get the addict to start thinking about it. The intervention probably won't work, but it might speed up his realization that he has hit bottom.

You are not in a good spot. I think the best way to show an addict how much you care is to push them away from you. An intervention may not get the addict to agree to get into treatment but it gives the friends and family the opportunity to say "We love you but we just cannot be around you when you are using". That is what really needs to happen -- ALL means of support need to be removed so that the only choice left and that is to get clean and sober.

Barefootsies · 03-25-2008, 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chadknowslaw

I have been sober for over 9 years. I was one FUCKED UP alcoholic. I have been going to meetings ever since and seen many many many people come and go into the program. Most do not stay clean or sober. With 9 years sober, I am one of the lucky ones that made it this far.

It has been my experience that interventions do NOT work. An intervention means that the friends and family are ready for the addict to quit; it does not mean the _addict_ is ready to quit. Interventions usually result in hard feelings HOWEVER it does get the addict to start thinking about it. The intervention probably won't work, but it might speed up his realization that he has hit bottom.

You are not in a good spot. I think the best way to show an addict how much you care is to push them away from you. An intervention may not get the addict to agree to get into treatment but it gives the friends and family the opportunity to say "We love you but we just cannot be around you when you are using". That is what really needs to happen -- ALL means of support need to be removed so that the only choice left and that is to get clean and sober.

True dat

Keep y'er pimp hand strong

Fap · 03-25-2008, 08:07 PM

hook me up

SleazyDream · 03-25-2008, 08:08 PM

some kind words of support here.

lets hope this goes well and the person sees the problem when everyone presents it in a calm and loving manor.

nico-t · 03-25-2008, 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn

I cannot believe that this is even being contemplated in a serious manner. Someone ask an interventionist at NA or other organization that has experience with this if a bunch of "bros" and business associates should be confronting the person in question at a porn convention. Close friends and family only need to do this only with the help of an experienced interventionist and also have a rehab to send him to immediately that day. Otherwise you people all have no business messing with this. It's just completely inappropriate and counter-productive.

exactly what i am thinking.... sleazy dont you have any real social skills besides the broventions? this is seriously the shittiest idea ever to get someone off dope... if you cant see that you have some serious problems

JFK · 03-25-2008, 08:23 PM

Fantastic Idea Sleazy, I'm all for it

after reading all the posts I think I may have an inkling as to who it is ;)

SleazyDream · 03-25-2008, 08:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nico-t

exactly what i am thinking.... sleazy dont you have any real social skills besides the broventions? this is seriously the shittiest idea ever to get someone off dope... if you cant see that you have some serious problems

bros take care of bros

Mayor · 03-25-2008, 08:30 PM

At first I really thought this was a terrible idea scott but having spoken with you at length and knowing this person PERSONALLY I think they will respond to this and I think it is the best thing for them. I only wish I could be there. Feel free to skype me when you guys do it so I can lend a hand.
Let me know if I should fly in. For this person I would.

03-25-2008, 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nico-t

exactly what i am thinking.... sleazy dont you have any real social skills besides the broventions? this is seriously the shittiest idea ever to get someone off dope... if you cant see that you have some serious problems

see post 127.

When people start to doubt your sham, break out the ICQ list and get your acquaintances to back up your story. This is called the "truth by numbers" troll. If enough people back up your story, then it just has to be real.

This is all clearly laid out in "Jet's Guide to Message Board Trolling, Volume 3".

03-25-2008, 10:23 AM	#102
Voodoo ♥ ♦ ♣ ♠ Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 10,592	This is a great idea Sleazy... I know who it is and I think helping will show what a true friend you are. __________________ "I'm selflessly supporting the common good, but only coincidentally looking out for No.1."

03-25-2008, 10:25 AM	#103
Wiseman Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 2,990	Interventions are great!! Awesome way to help a good friend out! __________________ []E-mail: [email protected][]ICQ: 109726012[*]AIM: QbWiseman

03-25-2008, 10:27 AM	#104
Purple Haze Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 1,021	I just got off the phone with Scott. He asked me if I'd like to participate in the intervention, now knowing who this person is, I have to agree that it needs to be done. Most of this persons closest friends, will be in Phoenix..and good and bad, this person needs to know that they are loved and surrounded by people that care. They need to stop with the drugs as its taken over their lives and is about to lose everything....almost has really. __________________ Live Pay-Per-View Feeds Cobranded with YOUR LOGO Tons of FREE CONTENT Unique MARKETING TOOLS Check out WebcamFeeds See Who I Am At AdultWhosWho.com! TURNING WEBCAMS INTO CASH FOR OVER 8 YEARS -- WE'RE BUILT TO CONVERT

03-25-2008, 10:32 AM	#105
Penthouse Tony Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Mountain View, CA Posts: 5,835	This is a great thing you are doing for a friend. __________________ aamos AT FFN dot com Penthouse.com Business Development ICQ: 49090846 \| Yahoo IM: ff_aamos

03-25-2008, 10:36 AM	#106
Zebra Banned from Kimmy's couch Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Down at Fraggle Rock Posts: 5,091	I have a pretty good idea who you are talking about, and you could not honestly call yourself their friend if you did not go through with this. Sometimes you just have to do things for others, even if you know it might not have a good outcome for yourself. __________________ Old School

03-25-2008, 10:23 AM	#101
quesadilla Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 360	the lack of understanding and experience in dealing with addiction is apparent in this thread. utterly amazing that you'd attempt this at a webmaster event. so retarded i can't even begin to understand it.

03-25-2008, 10:38 AM	#107
SHANESWORLD Eric Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 577	i just called the hotel to see why they would allow this to go on. i told them to have extra securities around and ask sleazy, (gave them his name), if he needs any help when he checks in. you can never be too safe. they said they were going to notify the sheriffs department and have some more undercovers in the hotel to make sure everything goes smoothly. i guess if you're gonna do this, do it right. i know this person needs help so why not, fuck it, you got my blessing now. good luck. __________________ SHANES WORLD ONLINE! - BETA IN 11 DAYS! Last edited by SHANESWORLD; 03-25-2008 at 10:40 AM..

03-25-2008, 10:39 AM	#108
AL4A Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: SC Posts: 15	Sleazy, You and Me both know that this person really needs the help! To bad I will not be Phoenix this time. AL ;) __________________ http://www.shemaleprofit.com ICQ 272-477 (I rarely turn it on) al {attt} ragingmedia {dottt} c o m

03-25-2008, 10:39 AM	#109
Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	Great idea, Scott. This person definitely needs a wake-up call. __________________ email: [email protected]

03-25-2008, 11:29 AM	#111
Evil E Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Lazyness is a lifestyle Posts: 3,201	Not sure if it's a troll thread or not... but I don't think it's a good idea to do it there. Might want to do it just before or after... Of course, if the dude ODs during the forum, then you would all say... damn why didn't I do something before... Anyways, best of luck. Fuck drugs.

03-25-2008, 11:46 AM	#113
Eric Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: The Helm! Posts: 8,818	Knowing who this is it pains me to think about how far they have fallen from grace. Some of you may not agree with this, but this is probably the best chance this person has to be surrounded by so many people who care about them and that they respect enough to actually listen to. It is a tough call and initially I thought this was a bad idea till I was able to reach Scott and find out who it was and how bad the problem has truely become. When all is said and done I have a feeling that many of you who have disagreed will change your minds and understand a little better what we are trying to accomplish here. __________________ No One

03-25-2008, 11:56 AM	#114
SleazyDream I'm here for SPORT Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phone # (401) 285-0696 Posts: 41,470	THANKS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT GUYS. This person has touched a lot of lives. the amount of money soo many people from large online companies have donated to help is a testament to that. __________________ This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog! Now read without the word dog.

03-25-2008, 11:59 AM	#115
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	yo UPDATE i saw a shitload of cops outside the hotel with a staging bus..... i saw like 3 dogs also .... damn

03-25-2008, 12:05 PM	#117
_Danielle_ Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: The OC Posts: 949	If it's who I think it is...then you DEFINITELY need to do it! __________________

03-25-2008, 12:24 PM	#118
Nader Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Los Angeles, Ca Posts: 5,086	Scott i can't guess you it is since there is so many that party in our industry

03-25-2008, 12:28 PM	#119
Black Dog Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Toronto, Earth Posts: 1,108	I'm glad somebody is finally doing something about this person's drug problem. However I'm afraid they might have already figured it out since I know for a fact that the person visits GFY on a regular basis. I hope he/she still shows up for the Phoenix Forum. Let me know if I can be of assistance. Barry __________________ Looking for a great program that converts ANY traffic? Me too! :-P

03-25-2008, 12:36 PM	#120
s9ann0 Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Boston Posts: 4,873	put a webcam on GFY so we can see him smack you in the face live

03-25-2008, 12:40 PM	#122
Jim_Gunn Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Where The Teens Are Posts: 5,702	I cannot believe that this is even being contemplated in a serious manner. Someone ask an interventionist at NA or other organization that has experience with this if a bunch of "bros" and business associates should be confronting the person in question at a porn convention. Close friends and family only need to do this only with the help of an experienced interventionist and also have a rehab to send him to immediately that day. Otherwise you people all have no business messing with this. It's just completely inappropriate and counter-productive.

03-25-2008, 01:01 PM	#125
candyflip Carpe Visio Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 43,067	Without the proper people in place to handle the "intervention" it's just going to blow up in your face. Posting here and announcing it seems a bit self serving, regardless of what your true intentions might be. Just because you've seen the Intervention show on A&E doesn't give you the right to stage an intervention. __________________ Spend you some brain. Email Me

03-25-2008, 01:14 PM	#126
CherryLipsRosa Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Costa Rica Posts: 3,603	Well if you are a good and close friend and you think it is a good idea to do it then go for it. But at a show people are there to have fun and having an intervention might not be well received. This should be done privately and without a fuss cause at the end of the day it is caring for a person and showing them that they are loved. Good luck! __________________ Rosalia M. ICQ.12150439 Skype. cherrylipsrosa

03-25-2008, 01:17 PM	#127
evildick Guest Posts: n/a	Sounds like fake BS to me. I don't think even Sleazy is stupid enough to hold an intervention at a PARTY.

03-25-2008, 01:53 PM	#128
Big Red Machine Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: XXXBigRed@Twitter Posts: 9,586	People need a bottom to bounce from...hopefully this will help. Best of Luck __________________ ICQ:475437214

03-25-2008, 02:24 PM	#129
RogerV Banned! Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 12,591	I have an idea on who it is.. Go for it LOL

03-25-2008, 02:27 PM	#130
polle54 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: The Beach Posts: 4,626	I can tell you from bitter experience that if you pass just a little justment on them there's no way they will listen to you. You really gotta meet the person where he is and find out why he thinks what he does is alright, and maybe that way you can make him realize how stupid his own arguments are... __________________ ICQ# 143561781

03-25-2008, 03:33 PM	#131
uno RIP Dodger. BEST.CAT.EVER Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: NYC Area Posts: 18,450	Sierra Tucson in Tucson AZ is a really good place. __________________ -uno icq: 111-914 CrazyBabe.com - porn art MojoHost - For all your hosting needs, present and future. Tell them I sent ya!

03-25-2008, 03:44 PM	#133
SHANESWORLD Eric Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 577	I don't even like this guy, but no one should be left alone to implode from drugs and alcohol. i hope they get him to a place to help him out of all this. __________________ SHANES WORLD ONLINE! - BETA IN 11 DAYS!

03-25-2008, 04:27 PM	#136
lesbodojo Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: San Francisco Posts: 2,839	This intervention should have been done a long time ago. He's an arrogant mooch, but maybe that was the drugs talking...and not who he really was. btw thanks for the chat, Scott ;) __________________ Adult DVDs + Amateur Video Mobile Porn (iPad, Android, iPhone, + Palm Pre) Promote SkinVideo! Payoneer Payouts Available! Let's talk! icq 328.047.782 aim/yim/skype: lesbodojo or lesbodojo at skinvideo dot com Last edited by lesbodojo; 03-25-2008 at 04:29 PM..

03-25-2008, 04:39 PM	#137
xxxjay Tube groupie. Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: LoScandalous, CA Posts: 13,482	oh lord, sleazy told me who this was and the DO need help...if I'm saying that you know it is bad! __________________ http://donttellmehowtoruinmylife.com/ - http://www.jmdigitalmarketing.com/my...s-and-reviews/ - http://www.wouldyouhitit.org - http://shinyobjectreviews.com/

03-25-2008, 04:42 PM	#138
Porno Dan Court Jester Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: Budapest Posts: 6,342	Normally I wouldn't be behind something like this, given my own fondness for the smell of certain of substances, but in this case I am all for it. I just spoke with Scott and this person really does need all of our help. __________________ Reality TV Star, AVN Hall of Fame, Five-Time XBIZ Winner 2021 XBIZ Europe Winner Best Director Site Promote the sites where members get paid to get laid by their favorite porn stars

03-25-2008, 05:37 PM	#142
chadknowslaw Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Phoenix, Arizona Posts: 343	I have been sober for over 9 years. I was one FUCKED UP alcoholic. I have been going to meetings ever since and seen many many many people come and go into the program. Most do not stay clean or sober. With 9 years sober, I am one of the lucky ones that made it this far. It has been my experience that interventions do NOT work. An intervention means that the friends and family are ready for the addict to quit; it does not mean the _addict_ is ready to quit. Interventions usually result in hard feelings HOWEVER it does get the addict to start thinking about it. The intervention probably won't work, but it might speed up his realization that he has hit bottom. You are not in a good spot. I think the best way to show an addict how much you care is to push them away from you. An intervention may not get the addict to agree to get into treatment but it gives the friends and family the opportunity to say "We love you but we just cannot be around you when you are using". That is what really needs to happen -- ALL means of support need to be removed so that the only choice left and that is to get clean and sober. __________________ ChadKnowsLaw

03-25-2008, 08:07 PM	#144
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03-25-2008, 08:08 PM	#145
SleazyDream I'm here for SPORT Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phone # (401) 285-0696 Posts: 41,470	some kind words of support here. lets hope this goes well and the person sees the problem when everyone presents it in a calm and loving manor. __________________ This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog! Now read without the word dog.

03-25-2008, 08:23 PM	#147
JFK FUBAR the ORIGINATOR Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: FUBARLAND Posts: 67,374	Fantastic Idea Sleazy, I'm all for it after reading all the posts I think I may have an inkling as to who it is ;) __________________ FUBAR Webmasters - The FUBAR Times - FUBAR Webmasters Mobile - FUBARTV.XXX For promo opps contact jfk at fubarwebmasters dot com Last edited by JFK; 03-25-2008 at 08:24 PM..

03-25-2008, 08:30 PM	#149
Mayor Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 497	At first I really thought this was a terrible idea scott but having spoken with you at length and knowing this person PERSONALLY I think they will respond to this and I think it is the best thing for them. I only wish I could be there. Feel free to skype me when you guys do it so I can lend a hand. Let me know if I should fly in. For this person I would.