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Marshal · 10-20-2007, 10:34 AM

go find someone else!

BlackCrayon · 10-20-2007, 10:46 AM

Gfy is probably not the best place for advice...seems most people think the meaning of life is fucking as many women as you can.

advokat · 10-20-2007, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Beaver Bob

no dude, of course you want to talk to her. thats what sucks about it. believe me dude i been there. no good can come of it tho. if she wants you back she will come to you. otherwise its best to just move on.

I Agree

Fap · 10-20-2007, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

Gfy is probably not the best place for advice...seems most people think the meaning of life is fucking as many women as you can.

yeah im starting to realize this now..

sweetcuties · 10-20-2007, 11:20 AM

been there, don't that... work and focus on yourself.

SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE

s9ann0 · 10-20-2007, 01:25 PM

drink beer and get laid and find a better one

Fap · 10-20-2007, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ

Move on. My advice is NEVER call her or talk with mutual friends about her. Act as if she died and you have no option, but to move forward alone. I be willing to bet if you follow this advice she will contact you in the next 90 days. Then when she does contact you treat her a like a telemarketer.

not a bad plan..
we have so many mutual friends and they all ask about her and i now and what happened, very annoying

RichCashMike · 10-20-2007, 02:48 PM

Its times like this that make you a man, yeah its hard but you just gotta sack up and deal with it. You'll be better for it, less naive. Like others have said no contact - if she calls you again hangup.

Also not sure of your past experience, but for me every girl I've been with has been better than the last - in other words, the next one will make it all worthwhile. Hang in there.

Cash · 10-20-2007, 11:51 PM

Don't lose faith, another good looking girl will show up ...

Fap · 10-21-2007, 12:10 AM

i decided im not going to talk to her and im going to move on

baddog · 10-21-2007, 12:24 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

i decided im not going to talk to her and im going to move on

I will believe it when I see it.

Fap · 10-21-2007, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

I will believe it when I see it.

dont really know how you will see it.. but ill keep you updated

D · 10-21-2007, 12:41 AM

work... keep yourself busy... and, when you're ready, pick up a one-nighter, and you'll be feeling better that next morning.

baddog · 10-21-2007, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

dont really know how you will see it.. but ill keep you updated

I will see it when you post that you are back together and had a great time in Cancun.

Fap · 10-21-2007, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

I will see it when you post that you are back together and had a great time in Cancun.

I assure you wont be seeing that.. you have my word if anything does happen i will tell you. even though it wont.
I already got my bud to replace her to cancun, and best of all he will pay for his spot, so it was like i never bought her the ticket/hotel at all! just need to work on room arrangements

Star 69 · 10-21-2007, 12:45 AM

I had nearly the same story, now 5 month has passed and i feel much better. So you need time.
P.S. But I still love her (i mean my ex girlfriend)

baddog · 10-21-2007, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

just need to work on room arrangements

Keep the one bed, you will be horny by then.

Fap · 10-21-2007, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Keep the one bed, you will be horny by then.

are you confusing me for boyalley?

Angie77 · 10-21-2007, 09:01 AM

hey, good luck. I'm sorry you have to go through this but one day you'll wake up and realize she did you a favor!

10-21-2007, 09:58 AM

Two week vacation in Philippines or Thailand may cure what ails you. Have some fun. Don't "hate" her. Thank her for the good times and move on.

Fap · 10-21-2007, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by CamDoughCommando

Two week vacation in Philippines or Thailand may cure what ails you. Have some fun. Don't "hate" her. Thank her for the good times and move on.

If i was in the adult biz i would have no problem going there.. which is why i need to move into that line of work now that she isnt in the picture heh

MetaMan · 10-21-2007, 10:48 PM

Everything in life should be taken as an expierience, learn from it to make you stronger.

After every realationship i try to look at wat i did wrong and then learn from it and try to make the next one better.

Every serious realationship i have had has gotten better and better.

Move on now there is so many diff kinds of girls out there.

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