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![]() Did it right in central park in front of all the couples holding hands walking by..
Pretty much the worst place to do it.. then i was hopping on a train to go back home someone tried to steal my bag/jacket, THEN the entire train was full of people dressed in goth attire, makeup and all. In a nutshell one of the worst days I've had in a long long time... Anyone have any advice for me to get over the breakup? I've had a relationship nearly this long and i have usually been the one ending the relationship.. |
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work, work, work.
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The best thing to do is to chill the fuck out, go out and have some good fun, whatever that might be for you. Reconnect with friends. Enjoy being single and do some things for yourself.
Once you chill out, air your mind out, sit down and do some work. It's probably one the most creative times ever. |
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the only thing you can do is keep busy, date alot and in time you will move on
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work hard for awhile...get something new going and devolop it
its halloween coming up...you can find a new girl on that night ![]() but sucks to hear man...chin up ![]() |
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thanks for the support guys.. man it really sucks being at this end of a breakup. the worst part is i still want to be with her knowing she doesnt want to be with me..
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that sucks dude, i feel for ya.
Tonight call up the homies, go out drink hard and holler at some females
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banthis,
My sympathies. My gf of almost 3 years dumped me recently as well. At least yours did it properly, face to face, and in person. Mine did it over txt message and the bitch lives in queens, and I a few stops from her. It was hard at first because although 2/3 years does not sound like much--we had made a lot of future plans/arrangements and went through some serious struggles. All I can tell you buddy is to go out, splurge on yourself (new clothes, new gear, new everything) and go out by yourself. Leave the cockblocking friends at home. Go to the East Village and bar hop this weekend and be free. You will have fun, I promise you that mate. regards, X |
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How old are you? Under 25? Then send her some flowers and say "thank you." Best favor she ever did you.
Oh, and getting laid is a good way to forget about her, but do yourself a favor and make sure it is with multiple chicks. |
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You need to work really really hard to convince yourself that you WANT to move on, that you NEED to get over her, and that you will do anything to be ready for the new miss right when it's time.
I had a bad breakup once, and convinced myself that I was going to do everything I could to get over it as fast as possible. How I did it was completely avoiding any contact with my ex whatsoever. No phonecalls, NO emails, no internet messaging, NOTHING, absolutely no personal contact. Next, I went out and began doing all the things I thought I couldn't do in the past because of him. I started taking classes, going dancing, being social, and just having a good time. I also started spending lots of time working. Sometimes, I had to just be sad and take care of myself... read in bed, take a hot bath, cry a bit. Then I would stop wallowing and get up and move forward again. It takes time, as you know.. but one day, you'll be over her, and believe it or not, you'll even feel glad you aren't with her.
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At least she didn't leave you for someone she was playing WoW with. But at least she had the ovaries to do it in person with you... not in a email or a txt message.
Wow that sucks, SecAudit ... what a dumb bitch. Good idea to go out in the East/ABC village I love that place. Just chill out with the boys, go out, have fun, and meet new people(girls)
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OH YES, and make lots of plans for your future. Start thinking about what you'd like to do this year. Getting rid of the old plans and replacing them with new ones helps.
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Doesn't help i was surprising her with a trip to cancun in december.. hotel/tickets are paid for. But i guess i could do down with a buddy and tear it up down there
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But baddog is on point, life is too short for any of this drama. knew, no doubt. I actually live in the area and recommend everyone to come through. There is so much action going on it is seemingly impossible not to find someone. Monica, very good insight. Thats currently what I am doing -- severing communication altogether. Packed up all the pics, belongings and UPS'd that shit out. It actually helps. banthis+knew, drinks on me if you find yourselves in the village. regards, X |
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Now you are thinking. Do not tell her what your plans were as all that might accomplish is get her to come back long enough for the trip. |
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* Always keep more than one girlfriend at a time.
* Assume every relation will end some day, and keep yourself ready to live without any of them. * Don't get involved too much in any of them, and never be too sincere (means, say yes to cheating) * Never ever fucking love in your goddamn life. Follow the simple rules, and breakups wont hurt you. ![]() sorry if its wrong for someone, but 90% of the chicks deserve this. ![]()
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You don't lose your girl, you lose your turn.
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1. step: write her an sms saying fuck you whore, don't consider contacting ever again ;). this will make sure that you can cut off the contact forever and she won't try to stay friends... worst thing you could do.
2. step: get out, get drunk, get some fresh pussy. sounds stupid but I think those 2 things are the best you can do, you need to find another girl as soon as possible. it doesn't have to be serious or long-term relationship but it will help you to forget about her. I didn't do these two things when my girlfriend broke up with me and I stayed friends with her for about 2 years. As I was seeing her regularly it wasn't possible for me to get over it and I wasted a lot of time and effort. |
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Ouch.. Sorry to hear. Yea forcus on other things. Go out to clubs and enjoy yourself
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set your eyes on a new girl.
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we have a lot of friends in common.. most of our friends actually.
so text would make complications with mutual friends i wasnt planning on doing that |
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Why did she do it? not that its any of our business but i always wonder whats going through the heads of girls when they do such things. Better now than later at least.
And to Vick!, give me a break dude. If thats how you treat chicks expect to be treated the same. Of course some chicks are pieces of shit that deserve to be treated as such but often there are usually signs that guys want to ignore because they rather not face the reality.
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Not everyone is a pimp, baddog.
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![]() no way are you going to want to be friends.. why do girls always want to do that? then they tell you you're selfish for not being friends. it just takes time bro.
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She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.
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Nope. In my opinion you have to make her clear that you don't want to stay in contact anymore and from my experience ex-girlfriends always try to contact you once in a while and become friends again. But if you insult her and act like an asshole she will not want to stay in contact with you anyway.
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They want to still be friends so they can manipulate more shit from you. Who ever loves the least wins.
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Fuck her sister/mother/best friend. Then go get drunk.
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the sad part is which i know i will lose some respect right now for saying this.. i still want to talk to her i want her in my life because she played such a big role.
But i know i have to resist, i dont want to send her the message im okw ith what she did |
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Your not a loser,when we are blinded by love we dont want to see reality.When you look back on all of this clues will come screaming out that you choose not to see at the time. Man Ive been there it hurts like a bitch but each day will get better if you dont have contact with her. I made that mistake from a clean break it became an extra two yrs of pain.
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no dude, of course you want to talk to her. thats what sucks about it. believe me dude i been there. no good can come of it tho. if she wants you back she will come to you. otherwise its best to just move on.
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That sux dude! but SofiaRain sends her love!
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This is bullshit ... if she really wanted to be with you she wouldnt want to be single. My buddy just had a serious 2 yr relationship end bcuz the girl wanted to "figure herself out" too much pressure on a relationship.. etc etc bullshit the other day i saw her with this guy all over him... Fuck em.... 1. change your phone number 2. delete her outta of there 3. do not contact her 4. Go have sex with as many girls as u can thats how youll get over it. Listen to baddog he knows what hes talking about. ![]() |
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I fucked her.
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Time to focus on you and what the next step is in YOUR life.
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I have to say the having sex is a good way to heal. One of my breakups, she said we are done. In two weeks I fucked 10 different girls on telepersonals lol, old ,young, fat ,skinny black and white. It gave me the confidence to go forward and really forget about her. The first break up I stood home and all I did was think about it.
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Concentrate on making money, reconnect with your single pals and and get yourself some fresh pussy. Problem solved.
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