So my girlfriend of 2 years dumped me.. - GoFuckYourself.com

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:01 PM

Did it right in central park in front of all the couples holding hands walking by..
Pretty much the worst place to do it.. then i was hopping on a train to go back home someone tried to steal my bag/jacket, THEN the entire train was full of people dressed in goth attire, makeup and all. In a nutshell one of the worst days I've had in a long long time...

Anyone have any advice for me to get over the breakup? I've had a relationship nearly this long and i have usually been the one ending the relationship..

u-Bob · 10-19-2007, 03:05 PM

work, work, work.

Sansa · 10-19-2007, 03:06 PM

The best thing to do is to chill the fuck out, go out and have some good fun, whatever that might be for you. Reconnect with friends. Enjoy being single and do some things for yourself.

Once you chill out, air your mind out, sit down and do some work. It's probably one the most creative times ever.

RogerV · 10-19-2007, 03:06 PM

the only thing you can do is keep busy, date alot and in time you will move on

Phoenix · 10-19-2007, 03:07 PM

work hard for awhile...get something new going and devolop it

its halloween coming up...you can find a new girl on that night

but sucks to hear man...chin up

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:09 PM

thanks for the support guys.. man it really sucks being at this end of a breakup. the worst part is i still want to be with her knowing she doesnt want to be with me..

starpimps · 10-19-2007, 03:14 PM

that sucks dude, i feel for ya.
Tonight call up the homies, go out drink hard and holler at some females

XSecurityAudit · 10-19-2007, 03:15 PM

banthis,

My sympathies. My gf of almost 3 years dumped me recently as well. At least yours did it properly, face to face, and in person. Mine did it over txt message and the bitch lives in queens, and I a few stops from her.

It was hard at first because although 2/3 years does not sound like much--we had made a lot of future plans/arrangements and went through some serious struggles.

All I can tell you buddy is to go out, splurge on yourself (new clothes, new gear, new everything) and go out by yourself. Leave the cockblocking friends at home. Go to the East Village and bar hop this weekend and be free. You will have fun, I promise you that mate.

regards,
X

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by XSecurityAudit

banthis,

My sympathies. My gf of almost 3 years dumped me recently as well. At least yours did it properly, face to face, and in person. Mine did it over txt message and the bitch lives in queens, and I a few stops from her.

It was hard at first because although 2/3 years does not sound like much--we had made a lot of future plans/arrangements and went through some serious struggles.

All I can tell you buddy is to go out, splurge on yourself (new clothes, new gear, new everything) and go out by yourself. Leave the cockblocking friends at home. Go to the East Village and bar hop this weekend and be free. You will have fun, I promise you that mate.

regards,
X

I really appreciate that man, and txt message break up has to be one of the worst things ive ever heard.. 3 years deserves a face to face.. yeah she sent me a text saying "We need to talk" so naturally i was like worried so when i responded with "should i be nervous" she didnt answer

baddog · 10-19-2007, 03:17 PM

How old are you? Under 25? Then send her some flowers and say "thank you." Best favor she ever did you.

Oh, and getting laid is a good way to forget about her, but do yourself a favor and make sure it is with multiple chicks.

RevengeBucks_Monica · 10-19-2007, 03:17 PM

You need to work really really hard to convince yourself that you WANT to move on, that you NEED to get over her, and that you will do anything to be ready for the new miss right when it's time.

I had a bad breakup once, and convinced myself that I was going to do everything I could to get over it as fast as possible. How I did it was completely avoiding any contact with my ex whatsoever. No phonecalls, NO emails, no internet messaging, NOTHING, absolutely no personal contact.

Next, I went out and began doing all the things I thought I couldn't do in the past because of him. I started taking classes, going dancing, being social, and just having a good time. I also started spending lots of time working.

Sometimes, I had to just be sad and take care of myself... read in bed, take a hot bath, cry a bit. Then I would stop wallowing and get up and move forward again.

It takes time, as you know.. but one day, you'll be over her, and believe it or not, you'll even feel glad you aren't with her.

Evil E · 10-19-2007, 03:18 PM

At least she didn't leave you for someone she was playing WoW with. But at least she had the ovaries to do it in person with you... not in a email or a txt message.

Wow that sucks, SecAudit ... what a dumb bitch.

Good idea to go out in the East/ABC village I love that place. Just chill out with the boys, go out, have fun, and meet new people(girls)

RevengeBucks_Monica · 10-19-2007, 03:19 PM

OH YES, and make lots of plans for your future. Start thinking about what you'd like to do this year. Getting rid of the old plans and replacing them with new ones helps.

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

How old are you? Under 25? Then send her some flowers and say "thank you." Best favor she ever did you.

Oh, and getting laid is a good way to forget about her, but do yourself a favor and make sure it is with multiple chicks.

Im under 25.. and i guess you are right.. multiple chicks would be pretty sweet

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Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

You need to work really really hard to convince yourself that you WANT to move on, that you NEED to get over her, and that you will do anything to be ready for the new miss right when it's time.

I had a bad breakup once, and convinced myself that I was going to do everything I could to get over it as fast as possible. How I did it was completely avoiding any contact with my ex whatsoever. No phonecalls, NO emails, no internet messaging, NOTHING, absolutely no personal contact.

Next, I went out and began doing all the things I thought I couldn't do in the past because of him. I started taking classes, going dancing, being social, and just having a good time. I also started spending lots of time working.

Sometimes, I had to just be sad and take care of myself... read in bed, take a hot bath, cry a bit. Then I would stop wallowing and get up and move forward again.

It takes time, as you know.. but one day, you'll be over her, and believe it or not, you'll even feel glad you aren't with her.

Yeah i want to talk to her so badly.. its only been a day and i want to convince her she made a mistake, i treated her like gold.. but i know i shouldnt contact her. it's hard though when you are used to speaking to someone all the time. she told me she wanted to be friends and i told her i didnt think i could do that

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Originally Posted by knew

At least she didn't leave you for someone she was playing WoW with. But at least she had the ovaries to do it in person with you... not in a email or a txt message.

Wow that sucks, SecAudit ... what a dumb bitch.

Good idea to go out in the East/ABC village I love that place. Just chill out with the boys, go out, have fun, and meet new people(girls)

That is just horrible.. someone from WoW? Geez...

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

OH YES, and make lots of plans for your future. Start thinking about what you'd like to do this year. Getting rid of the old plans and replacing them with new ones helps.

Doesn't help i was surprising her with a trip to cancun in december.. hotel/tickets are paid for. But i guess i could do down with a buddy and tear it up down there

XSecurityAudit · 10-19-2007, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Doesn't help i was surprising her with a trip to cancun in december.. hotel/tickets are paid for. But i guess i could do down with a buddy and tear it up down there

Just be glad you weren't surprising her with an engagement ring. Going to pick up your deposit isn't a fun experience.

But baddog is on point, life is too short for any of this drama.

knew, no doubt. I actually live in the area and recommend everyone to come through. There is so much action going on it is seemingly impossible not to find someone.

Monica, very good insight. Thats currently what I am doing -- severing communication altogether. Packed up all the pics, belongings and UPS'd that shit out. It actually helps.

banthis+knew, drinks on me if you find yourselves in the village.

regards,
X

baddog · 10-19-2007, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Im under 25.. and i guess you are right.. multiple chicks would be pretty sweet

As I tell my kids, do not get involved in a monogamous relationship until you are at least 25. Then when you do, make sure she is at least 25, never been married, and has no kids. If she is a property owner, that is icing on the cake.

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But i guess i could do down with a buddy and tear it up down there

Now you are thinking. Do not tell her what your plans were as all that might accomplish is get her to come back long enough for the trip.

Vick! · 10-19-2007, 03:30 PM

* Always keep more than one girlfriend at a time.
* Assume every relation will end some day, and keep yourself ready to live without any of them.
* Don't get involved too much in any of them, and never be too sincere (means, say yes to cheating)
* Never ever fucking love in your goddamn life.

Follow the simple rules, and breakups wont hurt you.

sorry if its wrong for someone, but 90% of the chicks deserve this.

baddog · 10-19-2007, 03:32 PM

You don't lose your girl, you lose your turn.

DirtyProfits · 10-19-2007, 03:32 PM

1. step: write her an sms saying fuck you whore, don't consider contacting ever again ;). this will make sure that you can cut off the contact forever and she won't try to stay friends... worst thing you could do.

2. step: get out, get drunk, get some fresh pussy. sounds stupid but I think those 2 things are the best you can do, you need to find another girl as soon as possible. it doesn't have to be serious or long-term relationship but it will help you to forget about her.

I didn't do these two things when my girlfriend broke up with me and I stayed friends with her for about 2 years. As I was seeing her regularly it wasn't possible for me to get over it and I wasted a lot of time and effort.

Vitasoy · 10-19-2007, 03:35 PM

Ouch.. Sorry to hear. Yea forcus on other things. Go out to clubs and enjoy yourself

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Vitasoy

Ouch.. Sorry to hear. Yea forcus on other things. Go out to clubs and enjoy yourself

Not much of a "clubber" myself, she is the one who goes to all the clubs like bunaglo eight and what not

baddog · 10-19-2007, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyProfits

1. step: write her an sms

dumb suggestion . . . just delete her from your phone, mind, life

ridikuloz · 10-19-2007, 03:48 PM

set your eyes on a new girl.

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:49 PM

we have a lot of friends in common.. most of our friends actually.
so text would make complications with mutual friends i wasnt planning on doing that

baddog · 10-19-2007, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by ridikuloz

set your eyes on a new girl.

jeez . . . some kids never learn. G-I-R-L-S

BlackCrayon · 10-19-2007, 03:51 PM

Why did she do it? not that its any of our business but i always wonder whats going through the heads of girls when they do such things. Better now than later at least.

And to Vick!, give me a break dude. If thats how you treat chicks expect to be treated the same. Of course some chicks are pieces of shit that deserve to be treated as such but often there are usually signs that guys want to ignore because they rather not face the reality.

BlackCrayon · 10-19-2007, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

jeez . . . some kids never learn. G-I-R-L-S

Not everyone is a pimp, baddog.

tony286 · 10-19-2007, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by u-Bob

work, work, work.

Yep work will set you free and in your mind make her dead to you. Delete anyway you can contact her, so you can move forward.

Beaver Bob · 10-19-2007, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyProfits

1. step: write her an sms saying fuck you whore, don't consider contacting ever again ;). this will make sure that you can cut off the contact forever and she won't try to stay friends... worst thing you could do.

2. step: get out, get drunk, get some fresh pussy. sounds stupid but I think those 2 things are the best you can do, you need to find another girl as soon as possible. it doesn't have to be serious or long-term relationship but it will help you to forget about her.

I didn't do these two things when my girlfriend broke up with me and I stayed friends with her for about 2 years. As I was seeing her regularly it wasn't possible for me to get over it and I wasted a lot of time and effort.

i have to agree with some of this advice.

no way are you going to want to be friends.. why do girls always want to do that? then they tell you you're selfish for not being friends.

it just takes time bro.

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

Why did she do it? not that its any of our business but i always wonder whats going through the heads of girls when they do such things. Better now than later at least.

She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

DirtyProfits · 10-19-2007, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

dumb suggestion . . . just delete her from your phone, mind, life

Nope. In my opinion you have to make her clear that you don't want to stay in contact anymore and from my experience ex-girlfriends always try to contact you once in a while and become friends again. But if you insult her and act like an asshole she will not want to stay in contact with you anyway.

tony286 · 10-19-2007, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Beaver Bob

i have to agree with some of this advice.

no way are you going to want to be friends.. why do girls always want to do that? then they tell you you're selfish for not being friends.

it just takes time bro.

They want to still be friends so they can manipulate more shit from you. Who ever loves the least wins.

Fap · 10-19-2007, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404

They want to still be friends so they can manipulate more shit from you. Who ever loves the least wins.

sadly it looks like im loser.

DamageX · 10-19-2007, 03:56 PM

Fuck her sister/mother/best friend. Then go get drunk.

woj · 10-19-2007, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Vick!

* Always keep more than one girlfriend at a time.
* Assume every relation will end some day, and keep yourself ready to live without any of them.
* Don't get involved too much in any of them, and never be too sincere (means, say yes to cheating)
* Never ever fucking love in your goddamn life.

Follow the simple rules, and breakups wont hurt you.

sorry if its wrong for someone, but 90% of the chicks deserve this.

If you are pretty young, sounds about right

Beaver Bob · 10-19-2007, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

yea dude bad idea for sure. I've found almost every time in a situation like this the girl is going to lie her ass off and make up bullshit excuses. and when you find out they were lies, it hurts soooo much worse. she wants to end it, just cut it off and eventually she'll come crawling back and then you can laugh at her

tony286 · 10-19-2007, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

Plan on there being another guy, that sounds like a lie.

Fap · 10-19-2007, 04:01 PM

the sad part is which i know i will lose some respect right now for saying this.. i still want to talk to her i want her in my life because she played such a big role.

But i know i have to resist, i dont want to send her the message im okw ith what she did

tony286 · 10-19-2007, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

sadly it looks like im loser.

Your not a loser,when we are blinded by love we dont want to see reality.When you look back on all of this clues will come screaming out that you choose not to see at the time. Man Ive been there it hurts like a bitch but each day will get better if you dont have contact with her. I made that mistake from a clean break it became an extra two yrs of pain.

BlackCrayon · 10-19-2007, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

Yeah, its a bad idea. As much as its driving you crazy, this usually just pushes girls away even further. I know, i've done it. For whatever reason acting like you don't give a shit seems to drive them nuts. Is she much younger than you? Does she have a lot of single friends? She could be just thinking the grass is greener on the other side but might change her mind, though probably not a good idea to take her back if her reason for breaking up is a 2 year relationship is "too long".

Beaver Bob · 10-19-2007, 04:04 PM

no dude, of course you want to talk to her. thats what sucks about it. believe me dude i been there. no good can come of it tho. if she wants you back she will come to you. otherwise its best to just move on.

Ditosta · 10-19-2007, 04:07 PM

That sux dude! but SofiaRain sends her love!

Persius · 10-19-2007, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

This is bullshit ... if she really wanted to be with you she wouldnt want to be single. My buddy just had a serious 2 yr relationship end bcuz the girl wanted to "figure herself out" too much pressure on a relationship.. etc etc bullshit the other day i saw her with this guy all over him... Fuck em....

1. change your phone number
2. delete her outta of there
3. do not contact her
4. Go have sex with as many girls as u can thats how youll get over it.

Listen to baddog he knows what hes talking about.

BigDeanEvans · 10-19-2007, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Not much of a "clubber" myself, she is the one who goes to all the clubs like bunaglo eight and what not

dont you have to be 21 to get in there? how old are you?

boneprone · 10-19-2007, 04:09 PM

I fucked her.

baddog · 10-19-2007, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long.

Sounds like she is pretty smart. Now, follow my advice and you can be smart like her.

Herb Kornfield · 10-19-2007, 04:10 PM

Time to focus on you and what the next step is in YOUR life.

My advice - Get together with some good friends and tear the city up tonight

tony286 · 10-19-2007, 04:17 PM

I have to say the having sex is a good way to heal. One of my breakups, she said we are done. In two weeks I fucked 10 different girls on telepersonals lol, old ,young, fat ,skinny black and white. It gave me the confidence to go forward and really forget about her. The first break up I stood home and all I did was think about it.

Jim_Gunn · 10-19-2007, 04:35 PM

Concentrate on making money, reconnect with your single pals and and get yourself some fresh pussy. Problem solved.

10-19-2007, 03:01 PM	#1
Fap Just Du It Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 12,094	So my girlfriend of 2 years dumped me.. Did it right in central park in front of all the couples holding hands walking by.. Pretty much the worst place to do it.. then i was hopping on a train to go back home someone tried to steal my bag/jacket, THEN the entire train was full of people dressed in goth attire, makeup and all. In a nutshell one of the worst days I've had in a long long time... Anyone have any advice for me to get over the breakup? I've had a relationship nearly this long and i have usually been the one ending the relationship..

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RevengeBucks_Monica Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 775	You need to work really really hard to convince yourself that you WANT to move on, that you NEED to get over her, and that you will do anything to be ready for the new miss right when it's time. I had a bad breakup once, and convinced myself that I was going to do everything I could to get over it as fast as possible. How I did it was completely avoiding any contact with my ex whatsoever. No phonecalls, NO emails, no internet messaging, NOTHING, absolutely no personal contact. Next, I went out and began doing all the things I thought I couldn't do in the past because of him. I started taking classes, going dancing, being social, and just having a good time. I also started spending lots of time working. Sometimes, I had to just be sad and take care of myself... read in bed, take a hot bath, cry a bit. Then I would stop wallowing and get up and move forward again. It takes time, as you know.. but one day, you'll be over her, and believe it or not, you'll even feel glad you aren't with her. __________________ The ORIGINAL & BEST CONVERTING EX-GIRLFRIEND REVENGE site! Revenge Bucks - Now with Morphing RSS Feeds! Email: monica @ revengebucks.com \| ICQ:138-027-662 \| AIM:RevengeMonica

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Evil E Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Lazyness is a lifestyle Posts: 3,201	At least she didn't leave you for someone she was playing WoW with. But at least she had the ovaries to do it in person with you... not in a email or a txt message. Wow that sucks, SecAudit ... what a dumb bitch. Good idea to go out in the East/ABC village I love that place. Just chill out with the boys, go out, have fun, and meet new people(girls) __________________ A girl once told me "Give me 8 inches and make it HURT". So, I fucked her twice and hit her with a brick.

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Sansa Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 293	The best thing to do is to chill the fuck out, go out and have some good fun, whatever that might be for you. Reconnect with friends. Enjoy being single and do some things for yourself. Once you chill out, air your mind out, sit down and do some work. It's probably one the most creative times ever.

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RogerV Banned! Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 12,591	the only thing you can do is keep busy, date alot and in time you will move on

10-19-2007, 03:09 PM	#6
Fap Just Du It Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 12,094	thanks for the support guys.. man it really sucks being at this end of a breakup. the worst part is i still want to be with her knowing she doesnt want to be with me..

10-19-2007, 03:15 PM	#8
XSecurityAudit Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 79	banthis, My sympathies. My gf of almost 3 years dumped me recently as well. At least yours did it properly, face to face, and in person. Mine did it over txt message and the bitch lives in queens, and I a few stops from her. It was hard at first because although 2/3 years does not sound like much--we had made a lot of future plans/arrangements and went through some serious struggles. All I can tell you buddy is to go out, splurge on yourself (new clothes, new gear, new everything) and go out by yourself. Leave the cockblocking friends at home. Go to the East Village and bar hop this weekend and be free. You will have fun, I promise you that mate. regards, X

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baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	How old are you? Under 25? Then send her some flowers and say "thank you." Best favor she ever did you. Oh, and getting laid is a good way to forget about her, but do yourself a favor and make sure it is with multiple chicks.

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DirtyProfits Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 1,885	1. step: write her an sms saying fuck you whore, don't consider contacting ever again ;). this will make sure that you can cut off the contact forever and she won't try to stay friends... worst thing you could do. 2. step: get out, get drunk, get some fresh pussy. sounds stupid but I think those 2 things are the best you can do, you need to find another girl as soon as possible. it doesn't have to be serious or long-term relationship but it will help you to forget about her. I didn't do these two things when my girlfriend broke up with me and I stayed friends with her for about 2 years. As I was seeing her regularly it wasn't possible for me to get over it and I wasted a lot of time and effort.

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DamageX Marketing & Strategy Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Former nomad Posts: 14,293	Fuck her sister/mother/best friend. Then go get drunk. __________________ Whitehat is for chumps If you don't do it, somebody else will - true story!

10-19-2007, 04:01 PM	#39
Fap Just Du It Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 12,094	the sad part is which i know i will lose some respect right now for saying this.. i still want to talk to her i want her in my life because she played such a big role. But i know i have to resist, i dont want to send her the message im okw ith what she did

10-19-2007, 04:04 PM	#42
Beaver Bob Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 1,099	no dude, of course you want to talk to her. thats what sucks about it. believe me dude i been there. no good can come of it tho. if she wants you back she will come to you. otherwise its best to just move on. __________________ Spunky Dollars \| Need Content? Paysite Owners: Protect Your Members Area with Strongbox 361-574-229

10-19-2007, 04:07 PM	#43
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10-19-2007, 04:09 PM	#46
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10-19-2007, 04:10 PM	#48
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Time to focus on you and what the next step is in YOUR life. My advice - Get together with some good friends and tear the city up tonight

10-19-2007, 04:17 PM	#49
tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	I have to say the having sex is a good way to heal. One of my breakups, she said we are done. In two weeks I fucked 10 different girls on telepersonals lol, old ,young, fat ,skinny black and white. It gave me the confidence to go forward and really forget about her. The first break up I stood home and all I did was think about it.

10-19-2007, 04:35 PM	#50
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