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Originally Posted by bausch
Well, then the person will "Is that all I'm worth to you, just a few hundred dollars? Is it all about money? I thought I was your baby..." etc and try to make me feel guilty like I caused it.
Plus we've been together for over 2 years now, it's kind of a long time. I'm very attached to this person so it's hard to walk away just cause of this.
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i totally understand what it's like to be with someone and put up with their antics because you genuinely care for them and enjoy them. but, it doesn't seem like this person feels the same way for you as you do for them. while it's ultimately your decision what you will put up with and allow someone to do to you, from a third party, unbiased opinion, i think what they're doing to you is wrong on so many levels. and their excuses (or at least what you THINK their excuses would be) are lousy and manipulative.
if you are financially stable enough to continue letting them get away with stealing from you and are comfortable with their reasoning for it, then who are we to tell you not to? however, i'd get as far away as possible IF I WERE YOU.
either way, best of luck with the situation. i would just hate for this to continue happening for a year or two longer, then the relationship just fizzles or it finally gets to you, etc, and then you're out even more money and you're even more attached and even more broken hearted. so just be careful.