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Cyndalie · 01-25-2007, 09:08 AM

Curious as to how many guys like to be sexually dominated by a woman and what comes to mind as most arrousing... you know...getting stepped on, slapped around, roughed up, talked down to, enslaved, pissed on, strapped on, feminized/demasculinated, tied up, face sat on, choked/leashed, sensory deprivation, etc.

With valentines day coming up and all, just looking for ideas to make it special...I'm not really an agressive bitch, but I could be

I don't think I could get into the whole slave/humiliation thing ... so anyone got unique or subtle yet effective experiences of femdom they want to share? Is it more attitude than actions?...

Pimpin_J · 01-25-2007, 09:47 AM

Not my cup of tea but good luck with that one. Hope your b/f likes stuff like that. Better stick your tongue up his ass, sounds more comfortable to me...

spasmo · 01-25-2007, 09:48 AM

You might as well go all the way and just kick him in the nuts.

Phoenix · 01-25-2007, 09:49 AM

um no not really...looks likeit might not be too much fun on valentines day at your place

Sydney Sin · 01-25-2007, 09:54 AM

yeah...not so sure so many guys would like that :S

bobby666 · 01-25-2007, 12:01 PM

sorry for doublepost

bobby666 · 01-25-2007, 12:02 PM

sorry for doublepost

madawgz · 01-25-2007, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by spasmo

You might as well go all the way and just kick him in the nuts.

LOL

_Richard_ · 01-25-2007, 12:05 PM

might work simply by being different.. lol

R

bobby666 · 01-25-2007, 12:06 PM

even better: getting controlled by a woman:
http://www.mistress-chasity.com

RuthB · 01-25-2007, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Curious as to how many guys like to be sexually dominated by a woman and what comes to mind as most arrousing... you know...getting stepped on, slapped around, roughed up, talked down to, enslaved, pissed on, strapped on, feminized/demasculinated, tied up, face sat on, choked/leashed, sensory deprivation, etc.

With valentines day coming up and all, just looking for ideas to make it special...I'm not really an agressive bitch, but I could be

I don't think I could get into the whole slave/humiliation thing ... so anyone got unique or subtle yet effective experiences of femdom they want to share? Is it more attitude than actions?...

I'd say it's a combination of attitude and actions, but if you don't have the attitude the actions won't really feel the same to the 'sub', imo.

Spanking his ass is always good, or using a whip across his ass/back/back of thighs...

If you really want to get into it then wear something black/leather/red/pvc/rubber - something that says DOM rather than some lacy get up that could go either way - dress up like catwoman! He'll be even hotter for it then...

Use your mouth.. words are incredibly powerful during play like this.. talk to him, especially if you're tying him up.. wrists and ankles bound means he can't do anything so now he's at your mercy and you can taunt and tease him as much as you like and command him to do things to or for you.. find some feathers.. or ice cubes.. or something teasing like that.. trace them down his body while you tell him what it's going to feel like when you shove your strapon in his ass/spank him/face fuck him/etc.. this combines the physical tease with the mental build up and can be exceptionally hot...

From pics I've seen of you I'd say you're a shortie like me

so you might want to grab some big boots/platforms/stilettos (oh a stiletto is too good to be true if you want to tease his balls and cock by lightly pressing the end of the stiletto heel in there to apply pressure, but nothing piercing

) .. also being taller impresses more of the 'I'm the one in charge' type feel to the whole scene (which might help you get into the role of being his 'mistress' if you're completely new to it)

It all depends how far you want to go.. you could give him a golden shower, spraying it directly into his mouth is more dom though, but some people have a hard time with that kind of play..

Whatever you decide, make sure you have a safe word!

and make sure you share all the gruesome details!!

You have my ICQ girl!

Cyndalie · 01-25-2007, 12:31 PM

Can't I just find a hot female, tie him up and force him to watch?
I'm not very good at being mean

RuthB · 01-25-2007, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Can't I just find a hot female, tie him up and force him to watch?
I'm not very good at being mean

oooh yes for sure you could! hahaha.. he'd probably prefer it too

with him tied up you could still tease him without being mean.. and maybe later if he's really good you could let him join in!

hope you have fun Cynd! I bet your man will

maxidrom11 · 01-25-2007, 12:37 PM

no way - women should be lower ...

Halcyon · 01-25-2007, 12:38 PM

you can go many places without ever touching upon degradation. Why not tie him up and blindfold him. Then "use" him as you like. feed him things, touch him with strange objects. offer parts of you into his mouth...then take them away. Give him a "sensual journey."

It has all the fun of power play without having to pretend like you are an angry bitch. (And he'll like it.)

dailyduke · 01-25-2007, 12:41 PM

There are guys out there that like a little domination... it does not have to be about being mean, it can be about control and sensuality and the biggest tease. I would try to think of it as a whole sensual experience where you are the person in control.

Klen · 01-25-2007, 12:46 PM

Depend what kind of domination.Not anything can be accepted.

wyldblyss · 01-25-2007, 01:14 PM

Maybe my hubby is different, but I don't think he would want me to beat him up, piss on him, strangle him and then fuck him up the ass with a strap-on as a way of showing my love on Valentine's Day.

He is a much simpler kind of guy...steak and a blowjob and he feels like a king

DirtyDreamer · 01-25-2007, 01:17 PM

Strip him naked, put a ball and chain around his ankle, then order him to clean the house

Violetta · 01-25-2007, 01:18 PM

yeah... I dont mind

klinton · 01-25-2007, 01:21 PM

of course

Honez · 01-25-2007, 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wyldblyss

Maybe my hubby is different, but I don't think he would want me to beat him up, piss on him, strangle him and then fuck him up the ass with a strap-on as a way of showing my love on Valentine's Day.

He is a much simpler kind of guy...steak and a blowjob and he feels like a king

That post made me chuckle

4Man · 01-25-2007, 01:38 PM

I like it....
You don't need to do anything......lol

HAPPYPEEKERS · 01-25-2007, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDreamer

Strip him naked, put a ball and chain around his ankle, then order him to clean the house

NOW YOU HAVE IT!!

Cyndalie · 01-25-2007, 01:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Halcyon

you can go many places without ever touching upon degradation. Why not tie him up and blindfold him. Then "use" him as you like. feed him things, touch him with strange objects. offer parts of you into his mouth...then take them away. Give him a "sensual journey."

It has all the fun of power play without having to pretend like you are an angry bitch. (And he'll like it.)

NOW WE'RE TALKING!!!

Thanks Hal

Verity · 01-25-2007, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wyldblyss

Maybe my hubby is different, but I don't think he would want me to beat him up, piss on him, strangle him and then fuck him up the ass with a strap-on as a way of showing my love on Valentine's Day.

He is a much simpler kind of guy...steak and a blowjob and he feels like a king

Cyndalie · 01-25-2007, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wyldblyss

Maybe my hubby is different, but I don't think he would want me to beat him up, piss on him, strangle him and then fuck him up the ass with a strap-on as a way of showing my love on Valentine's Day.

He is a much simpler kind of guy...steak and a blowjob and he feels like a king

Hahah yea I have no desire to do any of that above.

Steak and a BJ is pretty normal night for us tho hahaha

wyldblyss · 01-25-2007, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Hahah yea I have no desire to do any of that above.

Steak and a BJ is pretty normal night for us tho hahaha

Uhhh...I said Valentine's Day....don't want hubby to think I'm going to do that EVERY night...sheesh...I put my time in already lol

Cash · 01-25-2007, 04:18 PM

You need a bdsm board

Cyndalie · 01-25-2007, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Cash

You need a bdsm board

Naw, i'm looking for more erotic than extreme

Being in control doesn't mean abusing the crap out of him, I'm married man, that shit will come back to haunt me one night

Scott McD · 01-25-2007, 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Curious as to how many guys like to be sexually dominated by a woman and what comes to mind as most arrousing... you know...getting stepped on, slapped around, roughed up, talked down to, enslaved, pissed on, strapped on, feminized/demasculinated, tied up, face sat on, choked/leashed, sensory deprivation, etc.

Nah i think i'd pass on any of that shit...

RuthB · 01-25-2007, 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Naw, i'm looking for more erotic than extreme

Being in control doesn't mean abusing the crap out of him, I'm married man, that shit will come back to haunt me one night

you can dominate without being abusive Cynd

I'm married too, and I play dom with my hubby all the time, he loves it! It's just a matter of what works for YOU as a couple

Cyndalie · 01-25-2007, 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WEGRuth

you can dominate without being abusive Cynd

I'm married too, and I play dom with my hubby all the time, he loves it! It's just a matter of what works for YOU as a couple

You're a badass!

We get kinky sure, but I'm looking to create an experience over just an act...I've got some good ideas going...tantalize for awhile with a suprise ending that may not be new under the sun for us but hell, the buildup will make it explosive and more memorable than ever. Firm but loving

I think i'm on to something here. I've got a birthday and Vday in the next 2 weeks so I think i'll test some waters this weekend and then get him on Vday when he leasts expects it!!!

hehehee fun fun

Anihilator · 01-25-2007, 06:14 PM

Woman should be treaded like a flower!!!!

Spunky · 01-25-2007, 06:23 PM

Only on the weekends

humiliatrix · 02-15-2007, 08:41 AM

[QUOTE=I've got a birthday and Vday in the next 2 weeks so I think i'll test some waters this weekend and then get him on Vday when he leasts expects it!!!

hehehee fun fun

[/QUOTE]

hope you had a happy bday 'n vday!

great thread!

One of best book I've read in the last 10 years is Veronica Monet's Sex Secrets of Escorts: What Men Really Want.

Written by a sophisticated retired escort who had a regular clientele, she has a way of being subtly and sensually dominant and taking the lead, without being too domme-y. Also tips on setting the mood, timing, ambiance: she makes rituals like giving the guy a short body rub to start things off so he relaxes... then she takes over from there.

One of my slaves bought the book for me. Of course.

LiveDose · 02-15-2007, 09:00 AM

Not my style personally.

CDSmith · 02-15-2007, 10:40 AM

I don't mind if a woman takes charge and gets aggressive in bed, but I'm not one for whips and chains and pain etc.

The problem I find with women like this is that they tend to always want it that way all the time. Me, I like it different ways... but usually just normal good naked fun, toys not required.

Some women "just gotta have it their way" all the time. One chick many years ago was stuck on using hot candle wax. Another one HAD to have the lights off completely and ALWAYS had to have me undress her. BORRRINGGG.

Another one needed the ropes or handcuffs on her guy every time. One-trick pony women like that never lasted beyond one or two lays with me. Same with the baby-talkers.... I've been with a few who started in with that as soon as they got between the sheets with me. Buh-bye.

Cash · 02-16-2007, 12:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spunky

Only on the weekends

OUCH !!!!!

baddog · 02-16-2007, 12:33 AM

I like getting tied up

madawgz · 02-16-2007, 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spunky

Only on the weekends

OMG...

DaddyHalbucks · 02-16-2007, 01:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Curious as to how many guys like to be sexually dominated by a woman and what comes to mind as most arrousing... you know...getting stepped on, slapped around, roughed up, talked down to, enslaved, pissed on, strapped on, feminized/demasculinated, tied up, face sat on, choked/leashed, sensory deprivation, etc.

With valentines day coming up and all, just looking for ideas to make it special...I'm not really an agressive bitch, but I could be

I don't think I could get into the whole slave/humiliation thing ... so anyone got unique or subtle yet effective experiences of femdom they want to share? Is it more attitude than actions?...

No interest. I was married to a doctor once.

Adultnet · 02-16-2007, 01:41 AM

I say just try humiliate as much you can and then force him into doing what you like. Tell him he must start to change and you have some thing in mind that can do better for him at your look

SomeCreep · 02-16-2007, 01:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spunky

Only on the weekends

Lol, his mother would be so proud.

Pandemos · 02-16-2007, 02:51 AM

I love to be dominated and am fortunate that I can make a living in that field as well :D

gecko · 02-16-2007, 03:15 AM

really depends on my mood

Kimo · 02-16-2007, 06:08 AM

hell naw, ill slap a bitch

lol jk

Vitasoy · 02-16-2007, 06:16 AM

Once in a blue moon. But really, does not float my boat.

Mr.Right - Banned For Life · 02-16-2007, 06:21 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

I like getting tied up

I will remeber that when i am with you

TBrown · 02-16-2007, 06:28 AM

I would love my girl sittin on my face mmmmmmmmm

01-25-2007, 09:08 AM	#1
Cyndalie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Cherry Hill, NJ Posts: 3,615	Like to be dominated by a woman? Curious as to how many guys like to be sexually dominated by a woman and what comes to mind as most arrousing... you know...getting stepped on, slapped around, roughed up, talked down to, enslaved, pissed on, strapped on, feminized/demasculinated, tied up, face sat on, choked/leashed, sensory deprivation, etc. With valentines day coming up and all, just looking for ideas to make it special...I'm not really an agressive bitch, but I could be I don't think I could get into the whole slave/humiliation thing ... so anyone got unique or subtle yet effective experiences of femdom they want to share? Is it more attitude than actions?... __________________ Cyndalie Marketing Director StoriesTraffic.com

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