Originally Posted by Halcyon

you can go many places without ever touching upon degradation. Why not tie him up and blindfold him. Then "use" him as you like. feed him things, touch him with strange objects. offer parts of you into his mouth...then take them away. Give him a "sensual journey."

It has all the fun of power play without having to pretend like you are an angry bitch. (And he'll like it.)