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Originally Posted by Cyndalie
Curious as to how many guys like to be sexually dominated by a woman and what comes to mind as most arrousing... you know...getting stepped on, slapped around, roughed up, talked down to, enslaved, pissed on, strapped on, feminized/demasculinated, tied up, face sat on, choked/leashed, sensory deprivation, etc.
With valentines day coming up and all, just looking for ideas to make it special...I'm not really an agressive bitch, but I could be 
I don't think I could get into the whole slave/humiliation thing ... so anyone got unique or subtle yet effective experiences of femdom they want to share? Is it more attitude than actions?... |
I'd say it's a combination of attitude and actions, but if you don't have the attitude the actions won't really feel the same to the 'sub', imo.
Spanking his ass is always good, or using a whip across his ass/back/back of thighs...
If you really want to get into it then wear something black/leather/red/pvc/rubber - something that says DOM rather than some lacy get up that could go either way - dress up like catwoman! He'll be even hotter for it then...
Use your mouth.. words are incredibly powerful during play like this.. talk to him, especially if you're tying him up.. wrists and ankles bound means he can't do anything so now
he's at your mercy and you can taunt and tease him as much as you like and command him to do things to or for you.. find some feathers.. or ice cubes.. or something teasing like that.. trace them down his body while you tell him what it's going to feel like when you shove your strapon in his ass/spank him/face fuck him/etc.. this combines the physical tease with the mental build up and can be exceptionally hot...
From pics I've seen of you I'd say you're a shortie like me
so you might want to grab some big boots/platforms/stilettos (oh a stiletto is too good to be true if you want to tease his balls and cock by lightly pressing the end of the stiletto heel in there to apply pressure, but nothing piercing
) .. also being taller impresses more of the 'I'm the one in charge' type feel to the whole scene (which might help you get into the role of being his 'mistress' if you're completely new to it)
It all depends how far you want to go.. you could give him a golden shower, spraying it directly into his mouth is more dom though, but some people have a hard time with that kind of play..
Whatever you decide, make sure you have a safe word!
and make sure you share all the gruesome details!!
You have my ICQ girl!
