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AaronM · 10-13-2006, 11:14 PM

My bestest friend in the whole wide world got married today. I told him two weeks ago that I wasn't going to be able to make it.

So I feel guilty for choosing to come to Stuart's wedding but even guiltier for being happy that I didn't go to my other friends because I think he is fucking up by marrying this chick.

Although I am VERY happy that I made the choice to be here, I think it's safe to say that I just lost one hell of a good friend over that decision.

Life is full of tough choices.

People move on.

After Shock Media · 10-13-2006, 11:15 PM

Yes they are.
Glad my tough choice for the day was to click reply or link to main area.

Vasago Reno · 10-13-2006, 11:16 PM

Must've been a shallow friendship if the dude isn't willin' to accept your reasons for not attending.

AaronM · 10-13-2006, 11:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vasago Reno

Must've been a shallow friendship if the dude isn't willin' to accept your reasons for not attending.

Kindergarten.

You're probably right though.

biftek · 10-13-2006, 11:40 PM

i once told my friend that i wont be going to his marriage as i don't want to see him ruin his life , we are no longer friends and i was right his life was ruined

he-fox · 10-13-2006, 11:53 PM

Fucking up his life or not, it's an important moment in your friends life. It's normal feeling guilty about not going, imagine how he's feeling...

Adultnet · 10-13-2006, 11:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by biftek

i once told my friend that i wont be going to his marriage as i don't want to see him ruin his life , we are no longer friends and i was right his life was ruined

words like this should not be told before the marriage,better is to just not be at the event

fibble · 10-14-2006, 12:09 AM

You havent lost a friend maybe your friend might understand why you cant make it to his wedding and little talk with him can make you feel relieve for feeling being guilty about it.

Tanker · 10-14-2006, 12:12 AM

hmmm no worries in 3 months she wouldnt want him speaking to you anyways

AaronM · 10-14-2006, 12:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fibble

You havent lost a friend maybe your friend might understand why you cant make it to his wedding and little talk with him can make you feel relieve for feeling being guilty about it.

People move on.

10-14-2006, 12:30 AM

only because you think he is making a bad decision doesn't mean that you should intentionally miss the (at the time) happiest day of his life.

as you said you might have lost a very good friend... do you think its worth it for just having to suck it up for a few hours and supporting him?

not trying to bash or anything, just giving my POV

rodney25 · 10-14-2006, 05:55 AM

Well, your friend is mature enough to know what he's into. If you are indeed his friend then why don't you just show your support to him?

Crasy Bitch · 10-14-2006, 05:57 AM

Friends come and go, the best ones stick around no matter what !

reynold · 10-14-2006, 11:56 AM

Well, at least greet him or show to him that you're just there whatever happens.

Elli · 10-14-2006, 12:44 PM

Ouch, that's a tough one.

ae-sc · 10-14-2006, 12:46 PM

fuck em, no one can make your choices for you and life is full of choices

xNetworx · 10-14-2006, 12:47 PM

He is/was drunk, surrounded by people, having sex, honeymoon etc. and doesn't care you weren't there

Screaming · 10-14-2006, 12:49 PM

yeah i would agree thats a tough call there

TimBlaze · 10-14-2006, 12:51 PM

its a messed up situation, ive seen friends in situations w8ith girls i think are really shitty but they are their own men and need to do what they need to do

10-13-2006, 11:14 PM	#1
AaronM Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: ┌∩┐ ◣_◢ ┌∩┐ Posts: 46,909	Here's something I truly feel guilty about. My bestest friend in the whole wide world got married today. I told him two weeks ago that I wasn't going to be able to make it. So I feel guilty for choosing to come to Stuart's wedding but even guiltier for being happy that I didn't go to my other friends because I think he is fucking up by marrying this chick. Although I am VERY happy that I made the choice to be here, I think it's safe to say that I just lost one hell of a good friend over that decision. Life is full of tough choices. People move on.

10-13-2006, 11:15 PM	#2
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10-14-2006, 12:09 AM	#8
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10-13-2006, 11:16 PM	#3
Vasago Reno So Fucking Banned Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 483	Must've been a shallow friendship if the dude isn't willin' to accept your reasons for not attending.

10-13-2006, 11:40 PM	#5
biftek So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 1,030	i once told my friend that i wont be going to his marriage as i don't want to see him ruin his life , we are no longer friends and i was right his life was ruined

10-13-2006, 11:53 PM	#6
he-fox Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Playa del Carmen, Mexico Posts: 2,884	Fucking up his life or not, it's an important moment in your friends life. It's normal feeling guilty about not going, imagine how he's feeling...

10-14-2006, 12:30 AM	#11
buddyjuf Guest Posts: n/a	only because you think he is making a bad decision doesn't mean that you should intentionally miss the (at the time) happiest day of his life. as you said you might have lost a very good friend... do you think its worth it for just having to suck it up for a few hours and supporting him? not trying to bash or anything, just giving my POV

10-14-2006, 05:57 AM	#13
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10-14-2006, 11:56 AM	#14
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	Well, at least greet him or show to him that you're just there whatever happens.

10-14-2006, 12:44 PM	#15
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10-14-2006, 12:47 PM	#17
xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	He is/was drunk, surrounded by people, having sex, honeymoon etc. and doesn't care you weren't there

10-14-2006, 12:49 PM	#18
Screaming I can change this!!!!! Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 18,972	yeah i would agree thats a tough call there __________________

10-14-2006, 12:51 PM	#19
TimBlaze Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,625	its a messed up situation, ive seen friends in situations w8ith girls i think are really shitty but they are their own men and need to do what they need to do