Here's something I truly feel guilty about.
 

My bestest friend in the whole wide world got married today. I told him two weeks ago that I wasn't going to be able to make it.

So I feel guilty for choosing to come to Stuart's wedding but even guiltier for being happy that I didn't go to my other friends because I think he is fucking up by marrying this chick.

Although I am VERY happy that I made the choice to be here, I think it's safe to say that I just lost one hell of a good friend over that decision.

Life is full of tough choices.

People move on.

Yes they are.
Glad my tough choice for the day was to click reply or link to main area.

Must've been a shallow friendship if the dude isn't willin' to accept your reasons for not attending.

Kindergarten.

You're probably right though.

i once told my friend that i wont be going to his marriage as i don't want to see him ruin his life , we are no longer friends and i was right his life was ruined

Fucking up his life or not, it's an important moment in your friends life. It's normal feeling guilty about not going, imagine how he's feeling...

words like this should not be told before the marriage,better is to just not be at the event :pimp

You havent lost a friend maybe your friend might understand why you cant make it to his wedding and little talk with him can make you feel relieve for feeling being guilty about it.

hmmm no worries in 3 months she wouldnt want him speaking to you anyways

People move on.

only because you think he is making a bad decision doesn't mean that you should intentionally miss the (at the time) happiest day of his life.

as you said you might have lost a very good friend... do you think its worth it for just having to suck it up for a few hours and supporting him?

not trying to bash or anything, just giving my POV :)

Well, your friend is mature enough to know what he's into. If you are indeed his friend then why don't you just show your support to him?

Friends come and go, the best ones stick around no matter what !

Well, at least greet him or show to him that you're just there whatever happens.

Ouch, that's a tough one.

fuck em, no one can make your choices for you and life is full of choices

He is/was drunk, surrounded by people, having sex, honeymoon etc. and doesn't care you weren't there :2 cents:

yeah i would agree thats a tough call there

its a messed up situation, ive seen friends in situations w8ith girls i think are really shitty but they are their own men and need to do what they need to do