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Old 07-07-2006, 12:02 PM   #1
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Do you live for yourself or for others?

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Old 07-07-2006, 12:40 PM   #10
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Old 07-07-2006, 03:15 PM   #15
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Old 07-07-2006, 03:27 PM   #16
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Old 07-07-2006, 03:53 PM   #17
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Small question with a not so simple answer ;)
Got to be for others

People matter far more than much else. Superfluous material stuff like the latest car etc has little to do with "actually" living.

Only my worth - and probably simplified a lot. There are two types of people - takers and givers. A taker knows no bounds and appears to live for self-gratification 24 hours/day. There are "takers" everywhere - even in stuff like a commercial partnership/shareholding scenario. Kinda funny in a way - they are like small birds with their mouths open asking to be fed

Flip side is "givers" - there are some massive givers around, but most have been like that all their lives. Often they live fairly modest lifestyles, despite having millions or billions - or very little. Hard to say, but inclined to ally with the givers - not least because they generally are also "doer's" and appear to be more constructive.
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Old 07-07-2006, 04:04 PM   #18
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Old 07-07-2006, 04:15 PM   #19
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You ask a very profound question, Rui. It is a basic question on which whole ECONOMIC and SPIRITUAL/PHILOSOPHICAL systems are based on and are fought over.

MOST of religion is based on the idea of TRANSENDENCE...of living for something other than yourself. This may arise from a HIGHER REALITY that is greater than the individual OR (as some might argue) the greater SELFISHNESS of the group over the individual. There's still a debate among scientists whether such a thing as REAL altruism (altruism for organisms that don't have your genes or even belong to the same species as you) exists...

Regardless, when we die, I can guarantee 99% that we will be evaluated and REMEMBERED by the larger society (outside our group of friends and family) not so much for what we did for ourselves but but for what we did for others.

One thing is clearer though.... in terms of economics, living for one's self yields greater and better results than living for others. Just compare CAPITALISM with COMMUNISM and you'll get my drift.
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When all I do is work and sleep, which, having been a workaholic since I was a kid, has been most of my life, things work out pretty well. I'm not sure that is living for myself exactly, there just isn't anyone else around to worry about.

The few times I have taken a stab at a "normal" life I have maybe gone too far in the other direction, putting whoever I'm with way up on a pedestal. The results have been dismal, so I don't recommend doing the same
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