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CuriousToyBoy · 06-18-2006, 06:55 PM

50 Aaron Assholes.

;-)

baddog · 06-18-2006, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Relish XXX

You have guys who are nothing but think they are something because they are employed by people who are ie 12 Clicks. 12 Clicks thinks because he works for a guy who came up with some great ideas and made a shit load of cash that he is him. Same kind of thing goes for Baddog. Badbog is a gambler who is always chasing his losses. Without Goodgirl he would be fuck all.

Chasing my losses?

It is funny to hear this kind of crap from some guy that calls my up drunk and crying one day because his girlfriend is leaving him, and the next day wants to pay me to take him on a personal tour of the Unite States.

You have always been a loser in my book, and always will be.

12clicks · 06-18-2006, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

I was the same person doing the same shit when I was getting boned in my ass.

say what?

12clicks · 06-18-2006, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Chasing my losses?

It is funny to hear this kind of crap from some guy that calls my up drunk and crying one day because his girlfriend is leaving him,

hahaha, and this loser called me nothing?

you gotta wonder about GFY scum who prattle on about things they don't know (even if it is who their girlfriend is banging)

baddog · 06-18-2006, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

hahaha, and this loser called me nothing?

you gotta wonder about GFY scum who prattle on about things they don't know (even if it is who their girlfriend is banging)

What I couldn't believe is that he thought I gave a shit.

CuriousToyBoy · 06-18-2006, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

say what?

Nice quote change dude.

12clicks · 06-18-2006, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

What I couldn't believe is that he thought I gave a shit.

who is he?
I've never really noticed the moron before and I tend to still keep my eye out for people with a clue in this biz.

12clicks · 06-18-2006, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

Nice quote change dude.

yeah, that whole "change the quote when it flips to page two" thing is great.
I made you look twice, didn't I?

baddog · 06-18-2006, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

who is he?
I've never really noticed the moron before and I tend to still keep my eye out for people with a clue in this biz.

"He" is some multiple personality numbnut that would like us to all think that he is the richest person in all of England.

I think he sells condoms in those machines you find in the pubs of London . . . something like that.

Of course, he also tries to tell me that 3 or 4 different people post with this screen name. He used to go by Krome.

12clicks · 06-18-2006, 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

"He" is some multiple personality numbnut that would like us to all think that he is the richest person in all of England.

I think he sells condoms in those machines you find in the pubs of London . . . something like that.

Of course, he also tries to tell me that 3 or 4 different people post with this screen name. He used to go by Krome.

ah, a troll.
No wonder I don't know who he is.

reynold · 06-18-2006, 07:22 PM

Why choose to be bad if you can be good and then be loved by people around you?

MaddCaz · 06-18-2006, 07:22 PM

seems like porn would not be the business to adopt the asshole mentality. Fucking for everyone!

baddog · 06-18-2006, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

ah, a troll.
No wonder I don't know who he is.

Not just a troll, the richest troll in all the land

RogerV · 06-18-2006, 07:47 PM

I've been in the biz 10 years now and try to always remain humble and nice..

mfps · 06-18-2006, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Not just a troll, the richest troll in all the land

J$tyle$ · 06-18-2006, 08:49 PM

The worst are people that have "power positions" like managers/supervisors in retail or airlines or credit card companies.

It's not that they have success or money - it's the little shit that they could do to affect your day in a good way but don't because they're so unhappy with their miserable peon fuckin' existences!

There's a guy, this little arrogant prick that manages the local Rite Aid by my house - It's a long story I won't get into here BUT I'd like to throw this douche a "blanket party" the "ski mask way" and teach him a nice lesson for fucking with my day!

I guess his punishment is having to go out and collect the wagons at closing. I saw him the other day and beeped my horn laughing and pointing at him

CumPacker · 06-18-2006, 08:53 PM

66......

Grapesoda · 06-18-2006, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by StuartD

Sadly, it seems to be true.

I find that people treat friends, acquintances and other's in business with a certain level of equality and fairness... until they begin to gain a certain level of success, at which point they begin to not only value some people more.. but feel others aren't worth their time.

It's almost comical to see these people fully dismiss others simply because they don't have enough to offer them in return, $$ wise.

I've had issues with my personal success and friends . . I've found that most of the 'friends' I had, assumed that I would cover all cost, all the time, every time we went to dinner, lunch etc. . . expected me to loan $$ as needed etc . . and it was pointed out to me that I took away all their excuses to be losers too

and very many dropped me due to the nature of my work . . think about, they were pissed because I wouldn't let them come hang out while I shoot, wouldn't hook them up with the models . .

now the people that know what I do and don't know me personally don't make close associations with me and I don't push it . . the friend I have, I've had for 25 years and that's about it for me . . (he's a working musician, and even he doesn't really understand the nature of my work, like most of this forum has no concept of shooting sex from the comments I've seen and read) everyone else is just an association or someone I do biz with . . that's all.

(Just imagine a 51 year old heavily tattooed guy pulls up in a new caddy or vette, somewhat quiet and reserved, and you know that he gets his pole waxed by 18-20 year old hotties and gets paid for it . . How does that hit you? . . Makes people a little uncomfortable in my experience)

anyone I've tried to work with and be 'friends' with has gone 'side-ways' on me in a major way and I no longer allow anyone close that shoots . .

so have success changed me? you bet . . am I an asshole? . . nope . . . I just play it very close, staying focused on the work. I'm always polite and courteous to everyone . . that's called professionalism.

-bmb

edit: also I'm busy as hell . . work 70-100 hrs per week and spend the down time with my daughter . . .

SleazyDream · 06-18-2006, 11:52 PM

i saw myself change. i was happy with the changes though

tony286 · 06-18-2006, 11:56 PM

it happens in all industries, I read books on Elvis,Jim Morrison and Frank Sinatra.Some of the most insecure people on the planet. I decided to stop reading biographies on entertainment people it was too depressing ,they had the world by the balls and never really saw it.

Zuss · 06-19-2006, 01:50 AM

The real question is: Do they succeed because they turn into assholes, or do they turn into assholes because of success? I guess it'S a bit of both ....

gooddomains · 06-19-2006, 01:59 AM

assholes galore

CuriousToyBoy · 06-19-2006, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

yeah, that whole "change the quote when it flips to page two" thing is great.
I made you look twice, didn't I?

Yep.

Dagwolf · 06-19-2006, 02:02 AM

You know, when all's said and done, I hope people will remember me as a gentleman, or at least a pretty nice guy.

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by AaronM

There are a number of people I have seen grow into various success stories in this business. Not all, but MOST of them changed along the way. For the most part, they became assholes.

I'm glad I chose to be an asshole from day one. When I reach their level of success then I will either be the same asshole or maybe I will be a bit nicer.

Time will tell.

I haven't changed. I was asshole BEFORE and remain asshole after and will piss with anybody, anywhere even though there are no money in it for me.
I cherish CONSISTENCY.

How is life, Aaron?

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

i saw myself change. i was happy with the changes though

oh puuuhleeze!

12 clicks changed and now drinks good wines,
while you still drink some crap!
;)

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 02:10 AM

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Originally Posted by RogerV

I've been in the biz 10 years now and try to always remain humble and nice..

I learned to be humble and nice from Fantasy Man...and this si why I am no longer in the business.

Stop being a prick! If Bill gates hasn't bought DOS for 50k and "conned" IBM into royalty agreement, he'd be some GFY poster now
;)

CumPacker · 06-19-2006, 02:12 AM

76........

Paul Markham · 06-19-2006, 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

This subject comes up from time to time and its only ever an issue for the small guy who thinks he should be treated better.
"oh, we used to be friends and now you're a big shot with no time for me, boo hoo"

here's a clue, they're successful now and its much harder to find time for people who bring nothing to the table. This is a business, you want friends? spend more time on myspace.

People who gain success have done so by prioritizing their time. If you're getting less of their time, look at yourself for answers, not them.

I so rarely agree with you but on this I do.

This is business not a social club.

You need to be honest and reliable.

But like Aaron I was unbearable as a failure.

Hang on I'm still a failure.

karlm · 06-19-2006, 02:59 AM

Cant stand stuck up people

V_RocKs · 06-19-2006, 03:06 AM

The only changes I have made is less time to work with everyone...

But I do help a lot of people still.

When I have time.

StuartD · 06-19-2006, 04:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Relish XXX

You have guys who are nothing but think they are something because they are employed by people who are ie 12 Clicks. 12 Clicks thinks because he works for a guy who came up with some great ideas and made a shit load of cash that he is him. Same kind of thing goes for Baddog. Badbog is a gambler who is always chasing his losses. Without Goodgirl he would be fuck all.

I'm thinking that you are very confused and have little idea what's going on with either of the people in your post.

12clicks · 06-19-2006, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by StuartD

I'm thinking that you are very confused and have little idea what's going on with either of the people in your post.

Stuart, don't confuse this clown. after all, he *knows*

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 05:01 AM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

Stuart, don't confuse this clown. after all, he *knows*

I remember 12 clicks when he was humble....

mrthumbs · 06-19-2006, 05:15 AM

well there you have it, you will never reach their level of succes because you are an asshole.. well.. you try so hard to be that is.

divashow · 06-19-2006, 05:20 AM

It depends on the person....
One can stop and say... hey I am fuckin cool, i am damn rich! Ho, Yo and whatever. And he defenetly will become shit.
But tere are others... who work not for money but for their product. They work for idea and for growing... And they keep growing, they do not stop.
By the way, join us!

StuartD · 06-19-2006, 06:16 AM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

Stuart, don't confuse this clown. after all, he *knows*

Yes well... let's not forget that he is "one of the richest people in the world" according this thread:

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=500616

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by divashow

But tere are others... who work not for money but for their product. They work for idea and for growing... And they keep growing, they do not stop.
By the way, join us!

Am I the first one to tell you that you are one of the most stupid people I ever met on GFY?

jayeff · 06-19-2006, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by VividTim

Some acquire confidence that they were lacking before and don't know how to deal with it.

At the risk of delving into psychobabble, the problem is more likely lack of confidence...

If you are used to money or status, you take them for granted and don't feel the need to make sure the world knows you have them. If you achieve either after a long, slow climb, they tend to sit on you quite comfortably too.

But when success and money come in a rush, very few people handle them well. Suddenly they can afford a lifestyle their friends cannot, yet they don't know how to handle themselves around people who are used to what they can now afford. Attitude becomes a substitute for confidence.

seeric · 06-19-2006, 06:56 AM

roger is a great example of just being himself too and styles. i love aaron's, sleazy's, and trey's attitudes as well. if you let people fuck with you they will.

12clicks · 06-19-2006, 07:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Winetalk

I remember 12 clicks when he was humble....

so you ADMIT I've had some success.

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 07:16 AM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

so you ADMIT I've had some success.

"You've come a looong way, baby!"

Of course I do, and claim partial credit for it.

E$_manager · 06-19-2006, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by AaronM

There are a number of people I have seen grow into various success stories in this business. Not all, but MOST of them changed along the way. For the most part, they became assholes.

I'm glad I chose to be an asshole from day one. When I reach their level of success then I will either be the same asshole or maybe I will be a bit nicer.

Time will tell.

If you know you are not going to become a bad person after your siccess you willl not become the one. You must always know that it may come and it may go.

E$_manager · 06-19-2006, 07:57 AM

Wintalk! What a sig!

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Cristie

Wintalk! What a sig!

Pay me 5 cents per post royalties and I'll lease you my sig for 3 months.

12clicks · 06-19-2006, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Winetalk

"You've come a looong way, baby!"

Of course I do, and claim partial credit for it.

only partial?
you're slipping

AaronM · 06-19-2006, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Winetalk

I haven't changed. I was asshole BEFORE and remain asshole after and will piss with anybody, anywhere even though there are no money in it for me.
I cherish CONSISTENCY.

How is life, Aaron?

You say you will piss with anybody and that you cherish consistency...yet...Your old sig from years past specifically said "I don't piss with amateurs."

So much for consistency.

I'm doing great man. No complaints here.

media · 06-19-2006, 09:02 AM

I hope no one ever thinks I'm an asshole... I've always tried to be cool to everyone, no matter who they are... Sometimes I have a different opinion, but I hope that does not qualify me to be an asshole...

2HousePlague · 06-19-2006, 09:26 AM

Keep it real --

2hp

NoComments · 06-19-2006, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by 12clicks

only partial?
you're slipping

yes, partial, I have to save some for Mojo....his original e-mail of introduction and how he joined Voyeur Online to promote it better has touched my heart!

But...that was BEFORE your days, ask him. Where are your 2 other parners in the company and what are they doing now? Did guy finally retired from the police force?

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J$tyle$ Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Sunny San Diego Posts: 11,500	The worst are people that have "power positions" like managers/supervisors in retail or airlines or credit card companies. It's not that they have success or money - it's the little shit that they could do to affect your day in a good way but don't because they're so unhappy with their miserable peon fuckin' existences! There's a guy, this little arrogant prick that manages the local Rite Aid by my house - It's a long story I won't get into here BUT I'd like to throw this douche a "blanket party" the "ski mask way" and teach him a nice lesson for fucking with my day! I guess his punishment is having to go out and collect the wagons at closing. I saw him the other day and beeped my horn laughing and pointing at him

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tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	it happens in all industries, I read books on Elvis,Jim Morrison and Frank Sinatra.Some of the most insecure people on the planet. I decided to stop reading biographies on entertainment people it was too depressing ,they had the world by the balls and never really saw it.

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