How do you feel when someone you like uses you? - GoFuckYourself.com

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:29 PM

I'm no genious - but i eventually usually get things after i'm banged over the head a few times.

I can figgure it our when someone's using me for advantage/money and not cause they like me. But fuck - always ruins my day when they keep comming back pretending to be nice..

uggggg

been pissed off all night

Rob · 11-23-2005, 09:32 PM

If they use me for sex it's ok. If they use me for anything else, I get pissed.

It never feels good to find out someone is/was using you for anything other than friendship.

Sly · 11-23-2005, 09:32 PM

I get pissed off at myself for letting it happen. Its happened a few times, will happen again.

studiocritic · 11-23-2005, 09:32 PM

i dunno, i killed them and moved on.

Tom_PM · 11-23-2005, 09:32 PM

Feeling used sucks. Sorry to hear it man. Theres still some decent people out there though.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob

If they use me for sex it's ok. If they use me for anything else, I get pissed.

It never feels good to find out someone is/was using you for anything other than friendship.

even when there's sex you feel used - it just takes longer to figgure it out is all - been there.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

I get pissed off at myself for letting it happen. Its happened a few times, will happen again.

i agree - but i don't EVER let it happen again with the same person.

WiredGuy · 11-23-2005, 09:33 PM

I know the feeling, they act all nice and you respond alright but then right after she asks you for something.
WG

seeric · 11-23-2005, 09:33 PM

only chicks have ever done that to me, you gt smarter with each stab in the back. send me an email to the ddress in my sig and i will send you those pics you wanted form the hardrock unbranded in full size.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by PR_Tom

Feeling used sucks. Sorry to hear it man. Theres still some decent people out there though.

i have amazing friends. sucks when you feel you have to cull one from the herd though......

Sly · 11-23-2005, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

i agree - but i don't EVER let it happen again with the same person.

I should hope not. :-)

Have you ever let someone think that they're using you when in all actuality you're using them?

Stupid mind games. Why do we play them...

Rob · 11-23-2005, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

even when there's sex you feel used - it just takes longer to figgure it out is all - been there.

That statement rings so true. I think you give it a little bit more time and are more flexible because with sex at least you're getting something out of it.

I can honestly say that I am a pretty good judge of character and can usually sniff the deadbeats out before they get the opportunity to use me.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by A1R3K

only chicks have ever done that to me, you gt smarter with each stab in the back. send me an email to the ddress in my sig and i will send you those pics you wanted form the hardrock unbranded in full size.

i've had guys and girls do it to me. hurts either way

what really pisses me off is the women who keep you on a string.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob

That statement rings so true. I think you give it a little bit more time and are more flexible because with sex at least you're getting something out of it.

I can honestly say that I am a pretty good judge of character and can usually sniff the deadbeats out before they get the opportunity to use me.

i get it - sooner or later - often later , i'm a slow learner, but i get it

SilentKnight · 11-23-2005, 09:40 PM

I follow the old adage - don't get mad...just get even. It may take awhile, but I never forget.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

I know the feeling, they act all nice and you respond alright but then right after she asks you for something.
WG

that's a recurring feeling

rhon23 · 11-23-2005, 09:42 PM

I have a very generous nature but when I get that feeling of being taken advantage of I gotta cut them off. Its rough but I gotta do whats best for me and users are definitely not worth my time or friendship

rhon23 · 11-23-2005, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by A1R3K

only chicks have ever done that to me, you gt smarter with each stab in the back. send me an email to the ddress in my sig and i will send you those pics you wanted form the hardrock unbranded in full size.

The hard rock was a great time. Glad we all got to hang out there.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by SilentKnight

I follow the old adage - don't get mad...just get even. It may take awhile, but I never forget.

i don't believe in getting even, that's childish and shows NO CLASS .

I walk away and say "have a nice day"

then i come to gfy to cry

gdog · 11-23-2005, 09:45 PM

I hear ya Sleazy, that is why I just hang with my friends because most of my "new friends" are always trying to work an angle so they can get ahead at my expense. Pretty much why I stopped going to shows too for the most part, its like "rent a friend" for a few days and once they get some knowledge you never hear from them again.

G

Babagirls · 11-23-2005, 09:46 PM

disappointed that i put myself in the position to get fucked over.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by gdog

I hear ya Sleazy, that is why I just hang with my friends because most of my "new friends" are always trying to work an angle so they can get ahead at my expense. Pretty much why I stopped going to shows too for the most part, its like "rent a friend" for a few days and once they get some knowledge you never hear from them again.

G

i have some GREAT friends from shows that I LOVE hanging around. People that I would take a bullet for. Some have money - some don't - they are just good people. and you often see me with them breaking away from the crowd and going somewhere else. My best friends are in this business.

2HousePlague · 11-23-2005, 09:47 PM

I'm usually so worried that anybody will get the wrong idea, I go overboard the other way. Then the other person gets to see what has value to you and what's important. If you're prepared to give blood, and they know that, it kinda sets a tone --

2hp

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Babagirls

disappointed that i put myself in the position to get fucked over.

to be honest no. I like helping people. I feel better knowing the true person and am able to move on.

seeric · 11-23-2005, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by rhon23

The hard rock was a great time. Glad we all got to hang out there.

definitely. send me an email too and i will send you the big unbranded pics

Peaches · 11-23-2005, 09:53 PM

Tis the beauty of not having anything - there's really nothing to use me for

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

Tis the beauty of not having anything - there's really nothing to use me for

cept you're cute. happens on that level too......................

S P A N N O W · 11-23-2005, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I'm no genious - but i eventually usually get things after i'm banged over the head a few times.

I can figgure it our when someone's using me for advantage/money and not cause they like me. But fuck - always ruins my day when they keep comming back pretending to be nice..

uggggg

been pissed off all night

Don't be an asshole man, I've never asked you for anything ('cept advice)....

harhar

pussyluver · 11-23-2005, 09:57 PM

Scott, I have never used you. Other than GFY, don't even know you. I have enjoyed the banter.

Sounds like there is a story behind all this. Sincerely have a happy Thanksgiving is that is a practice in Canada. Guess I should know that - duh.

Been getting ready for the big feast tomorrow. Sig other has been cleaning house and bitching about it.... A little Scotch takes the edge off. So I don't even hear it now.

Shit man, we've all been used. So, get over it I guess and move on. There is a flip side. You've prolly used someone emotionally and weren't even aware of it.

Could be worse. Millions of turkeys have given their lives so Americans could be happy and full.

pussyluver · 11-23-2005, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

cept you're cute. happens on that level too......................

We all agree Peaches is cute!!!!

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by S P A N N O W

Don't be an asshole man, I've never asked you for anything ('cept advice)....

harhar

every night i goto sleep wondering if this will be the night spannow will tell me he loves me

Peaches · 11-23-2005, 10:01 PM

OK, you guys have just made my night - no one's called me cute in years

I'm going to be able to live on this high for several days - thanks!

(I still think Sly uses me for my pocketbooks.........)

S P A N N O W · 11-23-2005, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

every night i goto sleep wondering if this will be the night spannow will tell me he loves me

You've known that since we passionately spread tanning lotion all over each others nekked bodies dude!

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by pussyluver

Scott, I have never used you. Other than GFY, don't even know you. I have enjoyed the banter.

Sounds like there is a story behind all this. Sincerely have a happy Thanksgiving is that is a practice in Canada. Guess I should know that - duh.

Been getting ready for the big feast tomorrow. Sig other has been cleaning house and bitching about it.... A little Scotch takes the edge off. So I don't even hear it now.

Shit man, we've all been used. So, get over it I guess and move on. There is a flip side. You've prolly used someone emotionally and weren't even aware of it.

Could be worse. Millions of turkeys have given their lives so Americans could be happy and full.

yeah there is - not gona spill it on here, could hurt someone and I don't like doing that even when people piss me off. just something i'll keep inside and hopefully the angry flame about it will die down over time.

but shit - i'm fucking raw about it tonight - thought i was past it but it seems i'm nowhere near that now.

pussyluver · 11-23-2005, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

OK, you guys have just made my night - no one's called me cute in years

I'm going to be able to live on this high for several days - thanks!

(I still think Sly uses me for my pocketbooks.........)

OK, Sexy!

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by S P A N N O W

You've known that since we passionately spread tanning lotion all over each others nekked bodies dude!

YOU TOLD ME THAT WAS LUBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

S P A N N O W · 11-23-2005, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

YOU TOLD ME THAT WAS LUBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, and those two big "pineapples" were just pineapples...

pussyluver · 11-23-2005, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

yeah there is - not gona spill it on here, could hurt someone and I don't like doing that even when people piss me off. just something i'll keep inside and hopefully the angry flame about it will die down over time.

but shit - i'm fucking raw about it tonight - thought i was past it but it seems i'm nowhere near that now.

Ok, stupid thought. Cuddle with your dog. It always helped me... A pet is always on your side. Best to ya.

GTS Mark · 11-23-2005, 10:05 PM

Fool me once, shame on you...

Fool me twice, shame on me...

DH

SilentKnight · 11-23-2005, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

i don't believe in getting even, that's childish and shows NO CLASS .

I walk away and say "have a nice day"

then i come to gfy to cry

Then label me childish and without class. But I ain't nobody's doormat.

Walking away and turning a blind eye puts out the message you're a sucker, and the world today is unfortunately full of an awful lot of assholes willing to take full advantage of that.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DrinkingHARDER

Fool me once, shame on you...

Fool me twice, shame on me...

DH

you nailed it brother.

cept with me it's usually about round 4 till i get it but EVENTUALLY i get it

bashbug · 11-23-2005, 10:08 PM

coming to gfy for relationship advice. bad idea.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by SilentKnight

Then label me childish and without class. But I ain't nobody's doormat.

Walking away and turning a blind eye puts out the message you're a sucker, and the world today is unfortunately full of an awful lot of assholes willing to take full advantage of that.

only to someone who thinks of themself as a target.

You can believe in the darker nature of humanity and live by that - I CHOOSE to think people are good and am willing to take a loss cause when you take the high road when it pays off it pays off 100X more.

and i feel sorry for those that think human nature is evil. sad way to live

sure i get hurt once in awhile - lets me appreciate the highs more.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by bashbug

coming to gfy for relationship advice. bad idea.

actually i'm gotten some amazing advise from here on all aspects of my life. there are some VERY wise people that hang out on this board - you just need to sift though the idiots like you to find the gold is all.

bashbug · 11-23-2005, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

actually i'm gotten some amazing advise from here on all aspects of my life. there are some VERY wise people that hang out on this board - you just need to sift though the idiots like you to find the gold is all.

just hang out with lesbians.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by bashbug

just hang out with lesbians.

have several GREAT lesbian friends in this biz!!!!!

Mutt · 11-23-2005, 10:22 PM

it sucks - you can't let it gnaw away at you - either you have the ability to just let it go or you do whatever it takes to make you feel right about the situation. the phrase 'don't get mad ........ get even' isn't without merit occassionally.

taking the high road all the time isn't the best thing.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Mutt

it sucks - you can't let it gnaw away at you - either you have the ability to just let it go or you do whatever it takes to make you feel right about the situation. the phrase 'don't get mad ........ get even' isn't without merit occassionally.

taking the high road all the time isn't the best thing.

that distinguishes those with class from those who should have stayed in the basement

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:27 PM

fuck i can't believe the page views this thread is getting - wow

iBanker · 11-23-2005, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

i get it - sooner or later - often later , i'm a slow learner, but i get it

Its one of those things where you just have to take one step backwards, take a deep breath, and don't let it bug you. It happens. I don't say that to sound insensitive, but it happens to a lot of us more often than we'd like.

Taking that step backwards allows you to look at the issue, and then figure out how to rectify it. Sometimes though, that involves confrontation.

11-23-2005, 09:29 PM	#1
SleazyDream I'm here for SPORT Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phone # (401) 285-0696 Posts: 41,470	How do you feel when someone you like uses you? I'm no genious - but i eventually usually get things after i'm banged over the head a few times. I can figgure it our when someone's using me for advantage/money and not cause they like me. But fuck - always ruins my day when they keep comming back pretending to be nice.. uggggg been pissed off all night __________________ This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog! Now read without the word dog.

11-23-2005, 09:32 PM	#2
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11-23-2005, 09:32 PM	#3
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11-23-2005, 09:33 PM	#8
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11-23-2005, 09:33 PM	#9
seeric .......... Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: .......... Posts: 41,917	only chicks have ever done that to me, you gt smarter with each stab in the back. send me an email to the ddress in my sig and i will send you those pics you wanted form the hardrock unbranded in full size.

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11-23-2005, 09:45 PM	#20
gdog Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: San Diego Posts: 1,550	I hear ya Sleazy, that is why I just hang with my friends because most of my "new friends" are always trying to work an angle so they can get ahead at my expense. Pretty much why I stopped going to shows too for the most part, its like "rent a friend" for a few days and once they get some knowledge you never hear from them again. G __________________ Busty Amateurs is Back - Meet the Girls \| Read the BLOG \| See the UPDATES High conversions and high retention, almost 1000 hosted galleries 995 PAYS Samples Big Boobs \| Busty Babes \| Strap Ons \| Hardcore \| Amateurs \| Videos

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11-23-2005, 09:47 PM	#23
2HousePlague CURATOR Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: the attic Posts: 14,572	I'm usually so worried that anybody will get the wrong idea, I go overboard the other way. Then the other person gets to see what has value to you and what's important. If you're prepared to give blood, and they know that, it kinda sets a tone -- 2hp __________________ tada!

11-23-2005, 09:53 PM	#26
Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	Tis the beauty of not having anything - there's really nothing to use me for

11-23-2005, 09:57 PM	#29
pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	Scott, I have never used you. Other than GFY, don't even know you. I have enjoyed the banter. Sounds like there is a story behind all this. Sincerely have a happy Thanksgiving is that is a practice in Canada. Guess I should know that - duh. Been getting ready for the big feast tomorrow. Sig other has been cleaning house and bitching about it.... A little Scotch takes the edge off. So I don't even hear it now. Shit man, we've all been used. So, get over it I guess and move on. There is a flip side. You've prolly used someone emotionally and weren't even aware of it. Could be worse. Millions of turkeys have given their lives so Americans could be happy and full.

11-23-2005, 10:01 PM	#32
Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	OK, you guys have just made my night - no one's called me cute in years I'm going to be able to live on this high for several days - thanks! (I still think Sly uses me for my pocketbooks.........)

11-23-2005, 10:05 PM	#39
GTS Mark Vrume Mark Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 20,912	Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, shame on me... DH

11-23-2005, 10:08 PM	#42
bashbug Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Boston Posts: 929	coming to gfy for relationship advice. bad idea.

11-23-2005, 10:22 PM	#47
Mutt Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 34,431	it sucks - you can't let it gnaw away at you - either you have the ability to just let it go or you do whatever it takes to make you feel right about the situation. the phrase 'don't get mad ........ get even' isn't without merit occassionally. taking the high road all the time isn't the best thing. __________________ I moved my sites to Vacares Hosting. I've saved money, my hair is thicker, lost some weight too! Thanks Sly!

11-23-2005, 10:27 PM	#49
SleazyDream I'm here for SPORT Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phone # (401) 285-0696 Posts: 41,470	fuck i can't believe the page views this thread is getting - wow __________________ This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog! Now read without the word dog.