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TexasDreams · 11-23-2005, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

every night i goto sleep wondering if this will be the night spannow will tell me he loves me

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Originally Posted by S P A N N O W

You've known that since we passionately spread tanning lotion all over each others nekked bodies dude!

Should I ban S P A N N O W for being a tease?!?!?!

We'll start the bidding at

iBanker · 11-23-2005, 10:31 PM

thought I had a shot at 50....

S P A N N O W · 11-23-2005, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by TexasDreams

Should I ban S P A N N O W for being a tease?!?!?!

We'll start the bidding at

I bid 10 cents!

TexasDreams · 11-23-2005, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by S P A N N O W

I bid 10 cents!

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

Its one of those things where you just have to take one step backwards, take a deep breath, and don't let it bug you. It happens. I don't say that to sound insensitive, but it happens to a lot of us more often than we'd like.

Taking that step backwards allows you to look at the issue, and then figure out how to rectify it. Sometimes though, that involves confrontation.

sometimes it requires confrontation , but when you're dealing with someone who has only seemed to give you info when it benefited them and kept you hanging a LOT I think i might just wait and see what happens.

The person is getting the idea i think SLOWLY that i'm pissed at them - although i honestly don't think they really know the REAL reason why. in fact i'm willing to bet they don't know know the real reason, but when i ran it across a few close friends to see if i had a right to be pissed they all pretty much wanted to BITCH SLAP this person for how they treated me. it wasn't nice to say the least...........

sandman! · 11-23-2005, 10:40 PM

a certain % of people are just like that nothing you can do but get rid of them and move on.

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by sandman!

a certain % of people are just like that nothing you can do but get rid of them and move on.

yep - culling the herd

BT · 11-23-2005, 10:44 PM

that is why hookers are better cause you use each other..... "adios" when its

all said and done

SleazyDream · 11-23-2005, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by BT_TrafficCashGold

that is why hookers are better cause you use each other..... "adios" when its

all said and done

you pay a hooker to leave.

to be brutally honest i want someone to stay..............

SilentKnight · 11-23-2005, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

only to someone who thinks of themself as a target.

You can believe in the darker nature of humanity and live by that - I CHOOSE to think people are good and am willing to take a loss cause when you take the high road when it pays off it pays off 100X more.

and i feel sorry for those that think human nature is evil. sad way to live

sure i get hurt once in awhile - lets me appreciate the highs more.

I said "the world is full of an awful lot of assholes" - no where did say all human nature is evil or that I live my life according to the darker nature of humanity.

Sly · 11-23-2005, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

(I still think Sly uses me for my pocketbooks.........)

Nope. Its the anal. The pocketbooks are just an excuse to get your attention.

Somebody please use me!

reed_4 · 11-23-2005, 11:26 PM

sweetums · 11-23-2005, 11:46 PM

Sleazy...if a person can't see your true value, the one that goes beyond your net worth or any "stuff" you may have, then that genuinely is their loss - period. That's all I'm saying.... ox

SleazyDream · 11-24-2005, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by sweetums

Sleazy...if a person can't see your true value, the one that goes beyond your net worth or any "stuff" you may have, then that genuinely is their loss - period. That's all I'm saying.... ox

thanks babe - smooch

Adultnet · 11-24-2005, 11:01 AM

This always sucks when people use you ...I hate when some thing like this happen

MaxCandy · 11-24-2005, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by S P A N N O W

Yes, and those two big "pineapples" were just pineapples...

you both scare me!

SleazyDream · 11-24-2005, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Adultnet

This always sucks when people use you ...I hate when some thing like this happen

i'm happy to know what the person is really about

Phoenix · 11-24-2005, 11:11 AM

that sucks....we all go through it im sure

Nifield · 11-24-2005, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I'm no genious - but i eventually usually get things after i'm banged over the head a few times.

I can figgure it our when someone's using me for advantage/money and not cause they like me. But fuck - always ruins my day when they keep comming back pretending to be nice..

uggggg

been pissed off all night

dude i use you for your ass you know that.

Jman · 11-24-2005, 11:27 AM

Hahaha you and me both knows how it feel bro and it sucks.

I think what hurts more is that they go out of the way to be real nice to you, to make you feel IMPORTANT to them and then slowly fades, then they come back again slowly creeping on getting your attention, distractign you buy being really nice, pay attention to you and then... Bam you realize they are wanting somethign from you AGAIN.

I have no problem giving all to someone that only wants my friendship and that are attracted to me for me...But if they play the game and at the end of the day they want more from me then those 2 simple things... BeuBye!!!

Ross · 11-24-2005, 11:44 AM

Never happened to me before in a big way thats gonna bust my balls too much.

Sorry it happened to you, can only imagine what it would be like.

SleazyDream · 11-24-2005, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by JMan

Hahaha you and me both knows how it feel bro and it sucks.

I think what hurts more is that they go out of the way to be real nice to you, to make you feel IMPORTANT to them and then slowly fades, then they come back again slowly creeping on getting your attention, distractign you buy being really nice, pay attention to you and then... Bam you realize they are wanting somethign from you AGAIN.

I have no problem giving all to someone that only wants my friendship and that are attracted to me for me...But if they play the game and at the end of the day they want more from me then those 2 simple things... BeuBye!!!

yeah i think i'll write this one off. i'll still be nice to them but i won't be giving them any more that's for sure.

SleazyDream · 11-24-2005, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Ross

Never happened to me before in a big way thats gonna bust my balls too much.

Sorry it happened to you, can only imagine what it would be like.

you just feel disapointed - mostly in yourself for thinking they were more than they really are, but oddly happy in knowing what they are really about

slapass · 11-24-2005, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

you just feel disapointed - mostly in yourself for thinking they were more than they really are, but oddly happy in knowing what they are really about

It is crazy that the truth is a relief. Just went through this and knowing the truth was more important then anything. I always had the nagging feeling but ignored it.

JFK · 11-24-2005, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

have several GREAT lesbian friends in this biz!!!!!

I'm a lesbian

SleazyDream · 11-24-2005, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by JFK

I'm a lesbian

that's not what you told me in the bedroom!!!!!!!!!!

Maxy · 11-24-2005, 12:43 PM

jimseats.com

ilbb · 11-24-2005, 01:06 PM

I know this situation it pisses me off for a long time

Ross · 11-24-2005, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

you just feel disapointed - mostly in yourself for thinking they were more than they really are, but oddly happy in knowing what they are really about

Depending how far/long its gone on, I guess you should be a better person for knowing about it now. Its not nice to have someone use you, but at least you now know.

Try put a positive spin on things, it seems better in some small way!

Kevsh · 11-24-2005, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

I know the feeling, they act all nice and you respond alright but then right after she asks you for something.
WG

I agree, usually it's something like "can you get off me now?"

SleazyDream · 11-24-2005, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ross

Depending how far/long its gone on, I guess you should be a better person for knowing about it now. Its not nice to have someone use you, but at least you now know.

Try put a positive spin on things, it seems better in some small way!

somehow it does

GlydeGirl · 11-24-2005, 03:45 PM

It's up to each of us to create the kind of filtering system that ensures people in our lives don't take advantage of us. For me, I simply won't do anybody any favours in the first 6 months of knowing them -- the predatory people usually don't have enough patience to stick around long enough, and the people who just want to be my friends don't need any favours.

Live and learn.

Shaddam IV · 11-24-2005, 03:57 PM

Sleazy, no offence, but when was the last time you looked in the mirror?

How can anyone use you for something other than money?

If you didn't have the cash, no one would give two shits about you.

atomicbomb · 11-24-2005, 03:59 PM

such is life
Someone once said the definition of friends is ..someone who uses you and they allow you to use them...
but when its one sided and you got beat to the punch then it hurts. In love when you wear your heart on your sleeve then youre asking for it. But no love is gained without taking risks. So it is better to live one day as a tiger than a thousand years as a sheep...

ok , back to drinking...

Diego · 11-24-2005, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by rhon23

I have a very generous nature but when I get that feeling of being taken advantage of I gotta cut them off. Its rough but I gotta do whats best for me and users are definitely not worth my time or friendship

rhon23...that fits my thoughts too. Also, I've had moments when it is all said and done...that I realized I got the shit end of the stick.

Rather than regret about how other people are....be glad for all you have done for them and others.

Your sense of self worth shouldn't lie in what other people do...only in what you do.

Joesho · 11-24-2005, 06:21 PM

That always sucks man, sorry to hear it , but unfortunatly it wil happen again in life too many people are not genuine wich is really sad but true.

Not that it matters one way or another man, but you are alright in my book, at leatst people know where they stand with you and that is all a person can ask of someone I think.

SleazyDream · 11-25-2005, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Shaddam IV

Sleazy, no offence, but when was the last time you looked in the mirror?

How can anyone use you for something other than money?

If you didn't have the cash, no one would give two shits about you.

thanks. i hope you spend time in the childrens hospital too removing hope from the terminally ill kids

SleazyDream · 11-25-2005, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by MaskTVMaura

It's up to each of us to create the kind of filtering system that ensures people in our lives don't take advantage of us. For me, I simply won't do anybody any favours in the first 6 months of knowing them -- the predatory people usually don't have enough patience to stick around long enough, and the people who just want to be my friends don't need any favours.

Live and learn.

i don't buy into that at all. I bought a poor person i just met a warm jacket today. they didn't ask, but all they had was a spring jacket and in winnipeg you NEED a lot more than that.

tony286 · 11-25-2005, 12:53 AM

it does suck and can be hurtful

SleazyDream · 11-25-2005, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404

it does suck and can be hurtful

bahhh - lesson learned

Renny · 11-25-2005, 01:45 PM

used...,...

SleazyDream · 11-25-2005, 01:49 PM

i hear ya!

Redrob · 11-25-2005, 01:54 PM

When a friend uses you, look at how many friends the person had when they met you.
When you realize they had none, know that you are just the last person in a long line of abused people and watch where they go next.

Sly · 11-25-2005, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by MaskTVMaura

It's up to each of us to create the kind of filtering system that ensures people in our lives don't take advantage of us. For me, I simply won't do anybody any favours in the first 6 months of knowing them -- the predatory people usually don't have enough patience to stick around long enough, and the people who just want to be my friends don't need any favours.

Live and learn.

You won't help people until you know them for 6 months? Wow.

I try to help people when I can regardless of how long I've known them. Pay it forward. It takes little effort to help out others. Yeh, being taken advantage of sucks, but it doesn't suck enough to turn me into an unhelpful person.

You don't ask your friends for favors and vice-versa? Wow.

Sly · 11-25-2005, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Redrob

When a friend uses you, look at how many friends the person had when they met you.
When you realize they had none, know that you are just the last person in a long line of abused people and watch where they go next.

I think a better gauge is watching how many friends that person goes through while being your "friend".

Maxy · 11-25-2005, 01:59 PM

Hey Sleazy, are you still friends with people you grew up with?

RogerV · 11-25-2005, 02:09 PM

everyone uses eachother in some way or other.. I have a big heart so it happens often but when I get fucked or used I just brush it off .
unless its thrown in my face then I get revenge and even

Aly · 11-25-2005, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

Tis the beauty of not having anything - there's really nothing to use me for

I only want you for your pug...

SleazyDream · 11-25-2005, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxy

Hey Sleazy, are you still friends with people you grew up with?

several I am

TheLegacy · 11-25-2005, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I'm no genious - but i eventually usually get things after i'm banged over the head a few times.

I can figgure it our when someone's using me for advantage/money and not cause they like me. But fuck - always ruins my day when they keep comming back pretending to be nice..

uggggg

been pissed off all night

sorry to hear that - it does suck when someone manipulates you like that.

Hey, if it makes you feel better - theres nothing you can do for me such as advancement or money - and yet I still have respect for you as I mentioned in Qwebec. so there are some real people out there.

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GlydeGirl Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 1,516	It's up to each of us to create the kind of filtering system that ensures people in our lives don't take advantage of us. For me, I simply won't do anybody any favours in the first 6 months of knowing them -- the predatory people usually don't have enough patience to stick around long enough, and the people who just want to be my friends don't need any favours. Live and learn.

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Shaddam IV So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 810	Sleazy, no offence, but when was the last time you looked in the mirror? How can anyone use you for something other than money? If you didn't have the cash, no one would give two shits about you.

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