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  • SleazyDream
    I'm here for SPORT
    • Jul 2001
    • 41470

    #1

    How do you feel when someone you like uses you?

    I'm no genious - but i eventually usually get things after i'm banged over the head a few times.

    I can figgure it our when someone's using me for advantage/money and not cause they like me. But fuck - always ruins my day when they keep comming back pretending to be nice..


    uggggg

    been pissed off all night
    This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

    Now read without the word dog.
  • Rob
    I'm a great bowler.
    • Nov 2003
    • 13310

    #2
    If they use me for sex it's ok. If they use me for anything else, I get pissed.

    It never feels good to find out someone is/was using you for anything other than friendship.

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    • Sly
      Let's do some business!
      • Sep 2004
      • 31378

      #3
      I get pissed off at myself for letting it happen. Its happened a few times, will happen again.
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      • studiocritic
        Confirmed User
        • Jun 2005
        • 2442

        #4
        i dunno, i killed them and moved on.
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        • Tom_PM
          Porn Meister
          • Feb 2005
          • 16443

          #5
          Feeling used sucks. Sorry to hear it man. Theres still some decent people out there though.
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          • SleazyDream
            I'm here for SPORT
            • Jul 2001
            • 41470

            #6
            Originally posted by Rob
            If they use me for sex it's ok. If they use me for anything else, I get pissed.

            It never feels good to find out someone is/was using you for anything other than friendship.
            even when there's sex you feel used - it just takes longer to figgure it out is all - been there.
            This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

            Now read without the word dog.

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            • SleazyDream
              I'm here for SPORT
              • Jul 2001
              • 41470

              #7
              Originally posted by Sly
              I get pissed off at myself for letting it happen. Its happened a few times, will happen again.

              i agree - but i don't EVER let it happen again with the same person.
              This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

              Now read without the word dog.

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              • WiredGuy
                Pounding Googlebot
                • Aug 2002
                • 34512

                #8
                I know the feeling, they act all nice and you respond alright but then right after she asks you for something.
                WG
                I play with Google.

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                • seeric
                  ..........
                  • Aug 2004
                  • 41917

                  #9
                  only chicks have ever done that to me, you gt smarter with each stab in the back. send me an email to the ddress in my sig and i will send you those pics you wanted form the hardrock unbranded in full size.

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                  • SleazyDream
                    I'm here for SPORT
                    • Jul 2001
                    • 41470

                    #10
                    Originally posted by PR_Tom
                    Feeling used sucks. Sorry to hear it man. Theres still some decent people out there though.

                    i have amazing friends. sucks when you feel you have to cull one from the herd though......
                    This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                    Now read without the word dog.

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                    • Sly
                      Let's do some business!
                      • Sep 2004
                      • 31378

                      #11
                      Originally posted by SleazyDream
                      i agree - but i don't EVER let it happen again with the same person.
                      I should hope not. :-)

                      Have you ever let someone think that they're using you when in all actuality you're using them?

                      Stupid mind games. Why do we play them...
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                      • Rob
                        I'm a great bowler.
                        • Nov 2003
                        • 13310

                        #12
                        Originally posted by SleazyDream
                        even when there's sex you feel used - it just takes longer to figgure it out is all - been there.
                        That statement rings so true. I think you give it a little bit more time and are more flexible because with sex at least you're getting something out of it.

                        I can honestly say that I am a pretty good judge of character and can usually sniff the deadbeats out before they get the opportunity to use me.

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                        • SleazyDream
                          I'm here for SPORT
                          • Jul 2001
                          • 41470

                          #13
                          Originally posted by A1R3K
                          only chicks have ever done that to me, you gt smarter with each stab in the back. send me an email to the ddress in my sig and i will send you those pics you wanted form the hardrock unbranded in full size.
                          i've had guys and girls do it to me. hurts either way


                          what really pisses me off is the women who keep you on a string.
                          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                          Now read without the word dog.

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                          • SleazyDream
                            I'm here for SPORT
                            • Jul 2001
                            • 41470

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Rob
                            That statement rings so true. I think you give it a little bit more time and are more flexible because with sex at least you're getting something out of it.

                            I can honestly say that I am a pretty good judge of character and can usually sniff the deadbeats out before they get the opportunity to use me.
                            i get it - sooner or later - often later , i'm a slow learner, but i get it
                            This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                            Now read without the word dog.

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                            • SilentKnight
                              Megan Fox's fluffer
                              • Oct 2005
                              • 24812

                              #15
                              I follow the old adage - don't get mad...just get even. It may take awhile, but I never forget.

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                              • SleazyDream
                                I'm here for SPORT
                                • Jul 2001
                                • 41470

                                #16
                                Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                I know the feeling, they act all nice and you respond alright but then right after she asks you for something.
                                WG
                                that's a recurring feeling
                                This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                Now read without the word dog.

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                                • rhon23
                                  Rebel Girl
                                  • Jun 2003
                                  • 3275

                                  #17
                                  I have a very generous nature but when I get that feeling of being taken advantage of I gotta cut them off. Its rough but I gotta do whats best for me and users are definitely not worth my time or friendship

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                                  • rhon23
                                    Rebel Girl
                                    • Jun 2003
                                    • 3275

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by A1R3K
                                    only chicks have ever done that to me, you gt smarter with each stab in the back. send me an email to the ddress in my sig and i will send you those pics you wanted form the hardrock unbranded in full size.
                                    The hard rock was a great time. Glad we all got to hang out there.

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                                    • SleazyDream
                                      I'm here for SPORT
                                      • Jul 2001
                                      • 41470

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by SilentKnight
                                      I follow the old adage - don't get mad...just get even. It may take awhile, but I never forget.
                                      i don't believe in getting even, that's childish and shows NO CLASS .

                                      I walk away and say "have a nice day"

                                      then i come to gfy to cry
                                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                      Now read without the word dog.

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                                      • gdog
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Aug 2004
                                        • 1550

                                        #20
                                        I hear ya Sleazy, that is why I just hang with my friends because most of my "new friends" are always trying to work an angle so they can get ahead at my expense. Pretty much why I stopped going to shows too for the most part, its like "rent a friend" for a few days and once they get some knowledge you never hear from them again.

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                                        • Babagirls
                                          Text Writer
                                          • Feb 2001
                                          • 18812

                                          #21
                                          disappointed that i put myself in the position to get fucked over.




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                                          • SleazyDream
                                            I'm here for SPORT
                                            • Jul 2001
                                            • 41470

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by gdog
                                            I hear ya Sleazy, that is why I just hang with my friends because most of my "new friends" are always trying to work an angle so they can get ahead at my expense. Pretty much why I stopped going to shows too for the most part, its like "rent a friend" for a few days and once they get some knowledge you never hear from them again.

                                            G
                                            i have some GREAT friends from shows that I LOVE hanging around. People that I would take a bullet for. Some have money - some don't - they are just good people. and you often see me with them breaking away from the crowd and going somewhere else. My best friends are in this business.
                                            This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                            Now read without the word dog.

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                                            • 2HousePlague
                                              CURATOR
                                              • Jul 2004
                                              • 14572

                                              #23
                                              I'm usually so worried that anybody will get the wrong idea, I go overboard the other way. Then the other person gets to see what has value to you and what's important. If you're prepared to give blood, and they know that, it kinda sets a tone --


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                                              • SleazyDream
                                                I'm here for SPORT
                                                • Jul 2001
                                                • 41470

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Babagirls
                                                disappointed that i put myself in the position to get fucked over.
                                                to be honest no. I like helping people. I feel better knowing the true person and am able to move on.
                                                This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                Now read without the word dog.

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                                                • seeric
                                                  ..........
                                                  • Aug 2004
                                                  • 41917

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by rhon23
                                                  The hard rock was a great time. Glad we all got to hang out there.

                                                  definitely. send me an email too and i will send you the big unbranded pics

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                                                  • Peaches
                                                    Old broad
                                                    • Oct 2002
                                                    • 13933

                                                    #26
                                                    Tis the beauty of not having anything - there's really nothing to use me for

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                                                    • SleazyDream
                                                      I'm here for SPORT
                                                      • Jul 2001
                                                      • 41470

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by Peaches
                                                      Tis the beauty of not having anything - there's really nothing to use me for
                                                      cept you're cute. happens on that level too......................
                                                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                      Now read without the word dog.

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                                                      • S P A N N O W
                                                        Everywhere You Wanna Be!
                                                        • Mar 2004
                                                        • 11941

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                        I'm no genious - but i eventually usually get things after i'm banged over the head a few times.

                                                        I can figgure it our when someone's using me for advantage/money and not cause they like me. But fuck - always ruins my day when they keep comming back pretending to be nice..


                                                        uggggg

                                                        been pissed off all night
                                                        Don't be an asshole man, I've never asked you for anything ('cept advice)....




















                                                        harhar

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                                                        • pussyluver
                                                          Clueless OleMan
                                                          • Mar 2003
                                                          • 11009

                                                          #29
                                                          Scott, I have never used you. Other than GFY, don't even know you. I have enjoyed the banter.

                                                          Sounds like there is a story behind all this. Sincerely have a happy Thanksgiving is that is a practice in Canada. Guess I should know that - duh.

                                                          Been getting ready for the big feast tomorrow. Sig other has been cleaning house and bitching about it.... A little Scotch takes the edge off. So I don't even hear it now.

                                                          Shit man, we've all been used. So, get over it I guess and move on. There is a flip side. You've prolly used someone emotionally and weren't even aware of it.

                                                          Could be worse. Millions of turkeys have given their lives so Americans could be happy and full.

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                                                          • pussyluver
                                                            Clueless OleMan
                                                            • Mar 2003
                                                            • 11009

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                            cept you're cute. happens on that level too......................
                                                            We all agree Peaches is cute!!!!

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                                                            • SleazyDream
                                                              I'm here for SPORT
                                                              • Jul 2001
                                                              • 41470

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by S P A N N O W
                                                              Don't be an asshole man, I've never asked you for anything ('cept advice)....

                                                              harhar
                                                              every night i goto sleep wondering if this will be the night spannow will tell me he loves me
                                                              This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                              Now read without the word dog.

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                                                              • Peaches
                                                                Old broad
                                                                • Oct 2002
                                                                • 13933

                                                                #32
                                                                OK, you guys have just made my night - no one's called me cute in years I'm going to be able to live on this high for several days - thanks!

                                                                (I still think Sly uses me for my pocketbooks.........)

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                                                                • S P A N N O W
                                                                  Everywhere You Wanna Be!
                                                                  • Mar 2004
                                                                  • 11941

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                  every night i goto sleep wondering if this will be the night spannow will tell me he loves me
                                                                  You've known that since we passionately spread tanning lotion all over each others nekked bodies dude!

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                                                                  • SleazyDream
                                                                    I'm here for SPORT
                                                                    • Jul 2001
                                                                    • 41470

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by pussyluver
                                                                    Scott, I have never used you. Other than GFY, don't even know you. I have enjoyed the banter.

                                                                    Sounds like there is a story behind all this. Sincerely have a happy Thanksgiving is that is a practice in Canada. Guess I should know that - duh.

                                                                    Been getting ready for the big feast tomorrow. Sig other has been cleaning house and bitching about it.... A little Scotch takes the edge off. So I don't even hear it now.

                                                                    Shit man, we've all been used. So, get over it I guess and move on. There is a flip side. You've prolly used someone emotionally and weren't even aware of it.

                                                                    Could be worse. Millions of turkeys have given their lives so Americans could be happy and full.

                                                                    yeah there is - not gona spill it on here, could hurt someone and I don't like doing that even when people piss me off. just something i'll keep inside and hopefully the angry flame about it will die down over time.

                                                                    but shit - i'm fucking raw about it tonight - thought i was past it but it seems i'm nowhere near that now.
                                                                    This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                    Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                    • pussyluver
                                                                      Clueless OleMan
                                                                      • Mar 2003
                                                                      • 11009

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by Peaches
                                                                      OK, you guys have just made my night - no one's called me cute in years I'm going to be able to live on this high for several days - thanks!

                                                                      (I still think Sly uses me for my pocketbooks.........)
                                                                      OK, Sexy!

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                                                                      • SleazyDream
                                                                        I'm here for SPORT
                                                                        • Jul 2001
                                                                        • 41470

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by S P A N N O W
                                                                        You've known that since we passionately spread tanning lotion all over each others nekked bodies dude!
                                                                        YOU TOLD ME THAT WAS LUBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
                                                                        This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                        Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                        • S P A N N O W
                                                                          Everywhere You Wanna Be!
                                                                          • Mar 2004
                                                                          • 11941

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                          YOU TOLD ME THAT WAS LUBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
                                                                          Yes, and those two big "pineapples" were just pineapples...

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                                                                          • pussyluver
                                                                            Clueless OleMan
                                                                            • Mar 2003
                                                                            • 11009

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                            yeah there is - not gona spill it on here, could hurt someone and I don't like doing that even when people piss me off. just something i'll keep inside and hopefully the angry flame about it will die down over time.

                                                                            but shit - i'm fucking raw about it tonight - thought i was past it but it seems i'm nowhere near that now.
                                                                            Ok, stupid thought. Cuddle with your dog. It always helped me... A pet is always on your side. Best to ya.

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                                                                            • GTS Mark
                                                                              Vrume Mark
                                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                                              • 20912

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Fool me once, shame on you...

                                                                              Fool me twice, shame on me...

                                                                              DH

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                                                                              • SilentKnight
                                                                                Megan Fox's fluffer
                                                                                • Oct 2005
                                                                                • 24812

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                i don't believe in getting even, that's childish and shows NO CLASS .

                                                                                I walk away and say "have a nice day"

                                                                                then i come to gfy to cry
                                                                                Then label me childish and without class. But I ain't nobody's doormat.

                                                                                Walking away and turning a blind eye puts out the message you're a sucker, and the world today is unfortunately full of an awful lot of assholes willing to take full advantage of that.

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                                                                                • SleazyDream
                                                                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                                                  • 41470

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by DrinkingHARDER
                                                                                  Fool me once, shame on you...

                                                                                  Fool me twice, shame on me...

                                                                                  DH
                                                                                  you nailed it brother.


                                                                                  cept with me it's usually about round 4 till i get it but EVENTUALLY i get it
                                                                                  This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                  Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                  • bashbug
                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                    • Oct 2005
                                                                                    • 929

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    coming to gfy for relationship advice. bad idea.

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                                                                                    • SleazyDream
                                                                                      I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                      • Jul 2001
                                                                                      • 41470

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by SilentKnight
                                                                                      Then label me childish and without class. But I ain't nobody's doormat.

                                                                                      Walking away and turning a blind eye puts out the message you're a sucker, and the world today is unfortunately full of an awful lot of assholes willing to take full advantage of that.
                                                                                      only to someone who thinks of themself as a target.

                                                                                      You can believe in the darker nature of humanity and live by that - I CHOOSE to think people are good and am willing to take a loss cause when you take the high road when it pays off it pays off 100X more.

                                                                                      and i feel sorry for those that think human nature is evil. sad way to live


                                                                                      sure i get hurt once in awhile - lets me appreciate the highs more.
                                                                                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                      Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                      • SleazyDream
                                                                                        I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                        • Jul 2001
                                                                                        • 41470

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by bashbug
                                                                                        coming to gfy for relationship advice. bad idea.
                                                                                        actually i'm gotten some amazing advise from here on all aspects of my life. there are some VERY wise people that hang out on this board - you just need to sift though the idiots like you to find the gold is all.
                                                                                        This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                        Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                        • bashbug
                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                          • Oct 2005
                                                                                          • 929

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                          actually i'm gotten some amazing advise from here on all aspects of my life. there are some VERY wise people that hang out on this board - you just need to sift though the idiots like you to find the gold is all.
                                                                                          just hang out with lesbians.

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                                                                                          • SleazyDream
                                                                                            I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                            • Jul 2001
                                                                                            • 41470

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by bashbug
                                                                                            just hang out with lesbians.
                                                                                            have several GREAT lesbian friends in this biz!!!!!
                                                                                            This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                            Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                            • Mutt
                                                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                              • Sep 2002
                                                                                              • 34431

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              it sucks - you can't let it gnaw away at you - either you have the ability to just let it go or you do whatever it takes to make you feel right about the situation. the phrase 'don't get mad ........ get even' isn't without merit occassionally.

                                                                                              taking the high road all the time isn't the best thing.
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                                                                                              • SleazyDream
                                                                                                I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                • Jul 2001
                                                                                                • 41470

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by Mutt
                                                                                                it sucks - you can't let it gnaw away at you - either you have the ability to just let it go or you do whatever it takes to make you feel right about the situation. the phrase 'don't get mad ........ get even' isn't without merit occassionally.

                                                                                                taking the high road all the time isn't the best thing.
                                                                                                that distinguishes those with class from those who should have stayed in the basement
                                                                                                This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                                • SleazyDream
                                                                                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                                                                  • 41470

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  fuck i can't believe the page views this thread is getting - wow
                                                                                                  This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                  Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                                  • iBanker
                                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                                    • Dec 2004
                                                                                                    • 2758

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                                    i get it - sooner or later - often later , i'm a slow learner, but i get it
                                                                                                    Its one of those things where you just have to take one step backwards, take a deep breath, and don't let it bug you. It happens. I don't say that to sound insensitive, but it happens to a lot of us more often than we'd like.

                                                                                                    Taking that step backwards allows you to look at the issue, and then figure out how to rectify it. Sometimes though, that involves confrontation.
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