You ever been around someone cheating, and they ask you not to tell? - GoFuckYourself.com

Ramos · 09-07-2005, 10:49 AM

Has this ever happened to you too?

Young · 09-07-2005, 10:50 AM

I've been around people that are cheating. You don't tell...unless its your best friends boyfriend/girlfriend, or a family members girlfriend/boyfriend.

wdsguy · 09-07-2005, 10:51 AM

Yo man I told you not to tell and u bring it to the boards, wtf!!

Tuga · 09-07-2005, 10:52 AM

No, I just dont tell.

JUSTB · 09-07-2005, 10:52 AM

yes I have and I don't tell. Not my business and not a good thing to be in the middle of.

american pervert · 09-07-2005, 10:53 AM

jeeze ramos, can't you keep your mouth shut!!!!

Ramos · 09-07-2005, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by wdsguy

Yo man I told you not to tell and u bring it to the boards, wtf!!

wait until I post the ICQ convo's

Dwreck · 09-07-2005, 10:54 AM

Ramos, it was just one night i didnt know a reacharound was cheating.

I love you, I always will.

beemk · 09-07-2005, 10:55 AM

yup, not my place to get involved. if someone i wasnt friends with was cheating on a family/friend i would tell though.

DateDoc · 09-07-2005, 10:55 AM

If its a friend and he/she is going to blow a good thing they have with their partner ask him WTF he's doing. If it is a friend's partner that you saw cheating call them out. Tell them to come clean or you'll have to tell your bud.

EviLGuY · 09-07-2005, 10:55 AM

I don't see what business it is of mine. I am not a snitch, but I am not an enabler either. For example I won't lie to someone's gf and give them an alibi or anything like that.

Ramos · 09-07-2005, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Dwreck

Ramos, it was just one night i didnt know a reacharound was cheating.

I love you, I always will.

It's not cheating.....neither is Bukkake!

Thumbking · 09-07-2005, 10:56 AM

Unless it was a close personal friend/relative getting cheated on, I would not tell... None of my business.

But I don't think I could watch it happen to a close personal friend/relative, then try explaining to them after they find out, oh they will find out, they always do, that you knew the whole time and said nothing

that would not be a good situation, would break trust forever.

MikeVega · 09-07-2005, 10:56 AM

I wouldn't say anything .. some people have different agreements with there loved ones that are private ....

MrIzzz · 09-07-2005, 10:57 AM

everyone i know cheats

Ninja Scripts · 09-07-2005, 10:58 AM

How would you feel if the person you didn't tell got aids cause of you? Wheeeeeeeeeeeeee

Oh, and sometimes they'll tell them you knew the whole time during their going away fight. Enjoy

Thumbking · 09-07-2005, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

everyone i know cheats

You just outed alot of people, hehe your in shit now man!

Young · 09-07-2005, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Ninja Scripts

How would you feel if the person you didn't tell got aids cause of you? Wheeeeeeeeeeeeee

Ramos · 09-07-2005, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

everyone i know cheats

Getting cheating on sucks.....

MrIzzz · 09-07-2005, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Thumbking

You just outed alot of people, hehe your in shit now man!

i am even sadder now

sicone · 09-07-2005, 11:08 AM

Dude... I already promised I wouldnt tell on you

Rinaldo · 09-07-2005, 11:10 AM

I didn't think you'd have the balls to talk about this. Derek you were supposed to be mine forever !

Ramos · 09-07-2005, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Rinaldo

Derek you were supposed to be mine forever !

Phoenix · 09-07-2005, 11:16 AM

just keep it to yourself man

RuthB · 09-07-2005, 11:17 AM

yeah, I've been asked not to tell - I've observed that and also spoken up and it has given me different outcomes on those few occasions it's happened

if you speak up then you run the risk of the whole 'shoot the messenger' situation and losing the friendship - or being told it's none of your business and why couldn't you just leave it alone - blah blah (people love to blame and they also love denial

)

if you don't speak up then you may start to treat your friend a little differently cos you 'know' and WANT to tell them but don't know if you should and for me that created difficulty with communication and affected friendships

tough one Ramos, I certainly don't envy you for that kind of thing!

Ramos · 09-07-2005, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by WEGRuth

tough one Ramos, I certainly don't envy you for that kind of thing!

If someone I care about is getting cheated on, I am going to let them know asap. That is the bottom line!

hydro · 09-07-2005, 11:32 AM

depends who's cheating on who, if one of my buddies is banging 3 other chicks on the side i won't say anything but if it was the other way around i would. Yea yea i know double standard sucks.

stev0 · 09-07-2005, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Young

I've been around people that are cheating. You don't tell...unless its your best friends boyfriend/girlfriend, or a family members girlfriend/boyfriend.

If it was any of my friends bf/gf i'd tell... i'd expect them to do the same for me.

Ramos · 09-07-2005, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by hydro

depends who's cheating on who, if one of my buddies is banging 3 other chicks on the side i won't say anything but if it was the other way around i would. Yea yea i know double standard sucks.

Double Standards are what makes this country a great place to live!

BlackCrayon · 09-07-2005, 12:19 PM

had a friend do that to me once. i was tempted to tell based on at the time i was alone and felt that he didn't deserve to be with such a beautiful girl that his girlfriend was. in the end i didn't tho. he often lied about cheating on her to show off to me i guess, tho the one girl i know he did cheat with he even invited over while his girlfriend was there.

JFK · 09-07-2005, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninja Scripts

How would you feel if the person you didn't tell got aids cause of you? Wheeeeeeeeeeeeee

Oh, and sometimes they'll tell them you knew the whole time during their going away fight. Enjoy

If they caught aids its NOT because of YOU...........its because of the unfaithful partner !

BellaSeaira · 09-07-2005, 12:26 PM

If its not imediate family or my best friend I could care less.

newbreed · 09-07-2005, 12:27 PM

The cheating is one thing, and certainly bad enough. What's worse is the constant lying and hiding of shit by the cheating couple to cover it all up. A long term trusting relationship hardly seems worth the time once you start to find out all the little things that went on behind your back, and worse if it's amongst people who you consider friends.

Kevsh · 09-07-2005, 12:27 PM

An ex-friend of mine was a complete "playa". He was married with a beautiful wife and daughter but was the poster boy for infidelity. One night we went to a bar and he left to deal with things, telling me if his wife called me (I don't know why she had my number) to tell her we went to the hockey game.

I decided to stay at the bar and flirt with the bartender for a bit. The hockey game (Leafs and someone else) was on the TV so I watched here and there. Well things were going well with the bartender and we talked for a good hour or more. I left just after the game finished.

Shortly after I get home, sure enough, his wife calls and I lie to her saying we went to the game together and he's on his way home. She seemed content and then, just before hanging up, added "so who won the game?" Smart girl she is! I told her we won and said goodbye.

I called my boy up after and told him how lucky he was I was hitting on the bartender - and that we hit it off! If not, I would have left and never knew what happened in the game. I told him it was an omen and that I wouldn't lie to his wife again.

Of course, sometime down the road they divorced, thankfully, but he's still the same - some things never change ...

Th!nk · 09-08-2005, 12:05 AM

no i wont tell especially when its my friend or someone close to me that is asking me not to...

kmanrox · 09-08-2005, 12:18 AM

ummm.. it's common 'man protocol' not to say anything... dont be a chump

kmanrox · 09-08-2005, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

had a friend do that to me once. i was tempted to tell based on at the time i was alone and felt that he didn't deserve to be with such a beautiful girl that his girlfriend was. in the end i didn't tho. he often lied about cheating on her to show off to me i guess, tho the one girl i know he did cheat with he even invited over while his girlfriend was there.

you were on the chess team in HS, weren't you?

Stacey_JoinRightNow · 09-08-2005, 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

just keep it to yourself man

Yeah, one way for being true is to express yourself...
cheating/lies <----- we couldnt avoid this, surely... it's either intentional or the othery way around!

DutchTeenCash · 09-08-2005, 01:15 AM

yup a collegue he fucked around everywhere, I hated it, had to face his wife on every occassion since they lived close to where I used to live...

Furious_Female · 09-08-2005, 01:28 AM

Yeah and cheaters SUCK

I can't stand lying, cheating, scum bags! That goes for men and women!

Ramos · 09-08-2005, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by kmanrox

you were on the chess team in HS, weren't you?

Don't forget about the Frisbee club..it meets right after Chess Club

BlackCrayon · 09-11-2005, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by kmanrox

you were on the chess team in HS, weren't you?

no, tho i was a loser with the ladies in high school. im not afraid to admit it. i was more of a stoner shop kid than anything.

u-Bob · 09-11-2005, 12:55 PM

It's just another opportunity to make money... blackmail them

tranza · 09-11-2005, 06:06 PM

keeping it as a secret sucks

Wiggles · 09-11-2005, 06:12 PM

thank god i haven't been in that position, i hate secrets like that.

Jer · 09-11-2005, 11:00 PM

I've never seen someone cheating, thank God... but I don't like people who cheat and/or lye.

Mr Pheer · 09-11-2005, 11:12 PM

I dont tell, but I dont hang out with them anymore either. That just shows me they cannot be trusted.

je_rome · 09-12-2005, 02:07 AM

It happened to me a lot and its a perfect tool for blackmail. I had a great time LOL.

Pornopat · 09-12-2005, 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

everyone i know cheats

Your new wife?

reed_4 · 09-12-2005, 04:36 AM

I have been in that situation and i can say that it is very hard to carry. You don't want to disappoint the one asking you a favor but then you can't hide/ lie all the time.
We cannot always hide the truth 'coz it will come out in due time.

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wdsguy Ryde or Die Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: California-Shanghai Posts: 19,568	Yo man I told you not to tell and u bring it to the boards, wtf!!

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JUSTB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: tampa Posts: 1,740	yes I have and I don't tell. Not my business and not a good thing to be in the middle of.

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beemk CLICK HERE Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 20,829	yup, not my place to get involved. if someone i wasnt friends with was cheating on a family/friend i would tell though. __________________ I host with Vacares

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EviLGuY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: malta Posts: 12,745	I don't see what business it is of mine. I am not a snitch, but I am not an enabler either. For example I won't lie to someone's gf and give them an alibi or anything like that.

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Thumbking Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Canadabis Posts: 1,067	Unless it was a close personal friend/relative getting cheated on, I would not tell... None of my business. But I don't think I could watch it happen to a close personal friend/relative, then try explaining to them after they find out, oh they will find out, they always do, that you knew the whole time and said nothing that would not be a good situation, would break trust forever.

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RuthB Let's Get Paxumized! Industry Role: Join Date: May 2005 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 7,247	yeah, I've been asked not to tell - I've observed that and also spoken up and it has given me different outcomes on those few occasions it's happened if you speak up then you run the risk of the whole 'shoot the messenger' situation and losing the friendship - or being told it's none of your business and why couldn't you just leave it alone - blah blah (people love to blame and they also love denial ) if you don't speak up then you may start to treat your friend a little differently cos you 'know' and WANT to tell them but don't know if you should and for me that created difficulty with communication and affected friendships tough one Ramos, I certainly don't envy you for that kind of thing! __________________ Send & Receive Mass Global Payments - Mass P2P/Wire/EFT/SEPA - Adult Industry Friendly - Award Winning Payment Service - Fast, Reliable & Secure! Paxum ...... Paxum Bank Email: [email protected] ~ Telegram: PaxumRuth

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hydro Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Dirty 3rd Posts: 4,216	depends who's cheating on who, if one of my buddies is banging 3 other chicks on the side i won't say anything but if it was the other way around i would. Yea yea i know double standard sucks.

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BlackCrayon Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Ottawa Posts: 19,631	had a friend do that to me once. i was tempted to tell based on at the time i was alone and felt that he didn't deserve to be with such a beautiful girl that his girlfriend was. in the end i didn't tho. he often lied about cheating on her to show off to me i guess, tho the one girl i know he did cheat with he even invited over while his girlfriend was there. __________________ you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day.. Last edited by BlackCrayon; 09-07-2005 at 12:22 PM..

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Kevsh Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: TO Posts: 8,619	An ex-friend of mine was a complete "playa". He was married with a beautiful wife and daughter but was the poster boy for infidelity. One night we went to a bar and he left to deal with things, telling me if his wife called me (I don't know why she had my number) to tell her we went to the hockey game. I decided to stay at the bar and flirt with the bartender for a bit. The hockey game (Leafs and someone else) was on the TV so I watched here and there. Well things were going well with the bartender and we talked for a good hour or more. I left just after the game finished. Shortly after I get home, sure enough, his wife calls and I lie to her saying we went to the game together and he's on his way home. She seemed content and then, just before hanging up, added "so who won the game?" Smart girl she is! I told her we won and said goodbye. I called my boy up after and told him how lucky he was I was hitting on the bartender - and that we hit it off! If not, I would have left and never knew what happened in the game. I told him it was an omen and that I wouldn't lie to his wife again. Of course, sometime down the road they divorced, thankfully, but he's still the same - some things never change ...

09-08-2005, 12:05 AM	#35
Th!nk Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 6,996	no i wont tell especially when its my friend or someone close to me that is asking me not to...

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09-12-2005, 04:36 AM	#50
reed_4 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 9,640	I have been in that situation and i can say that it is very hard to carry. You don't want to disappoint the one asking you a favor but then you can't hide/ lie all the time. We cannot always hide the truth 'coz it will come out in due time. __________________