Tutorial: How To Get A Womans Phone Number And Email - GoFuckYourself.com

WoW! · 09-07-2005, 06:40 PM

Here's something interesting:

I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers.
I've found that Email addresses are far better.
( I still get the phone number too of course )

If I see a woman I like, I can walk up to her and get her
number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I have found
that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESN'T EQUAL SUCCESS.

Women have many different reasons for giving out
their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot
of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are
actually interested. But in my personal experience,
women act different on the phone than they do in person.

When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often
start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It's
almost like she's a different person than the one you met.

I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only
easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It's
almost as if women appreciate it that you've taken the time to
think about what you're going to say when you write an email
to them, and they think of you more like someone they know.

The other benefit of email is that it can be written and
answered anytime. If you call, you have to actually reach them.
But an email can be answered anytime. I've found that emails are
answered FAR more often than voicemail messages.

HERE'S THE HOW TO:
After I've talked to a woman for a couple minutes,
I'll often say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you.
I'm going to get back to my friends."

They usually don't know what to do, as they're used to guys
clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice
meeting you too..." Then, just as I'm turning to walk away,
and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say "HEY! Do you
have email?"

The "HEY!" is a bit surprising, and "Do you have email"
is non-threatening. In fact, I'm technically asking her if
she HAS email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME.

If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say
"Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down.
(This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they
give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they've
almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE
MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write your number down there too."

When you ask for email, it's very low risk for a woman,
so she'll think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out
an email address without thinking about it, because they know
that they can choose later to just not answer.

The magic of asking them to write their phone number down
WHILE they're in the middle of writing down their email is
all about the psychology of human behavior.

She's already mentally said "OK, I'll give you my email
address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When
you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only
NATURAL to just write it.

In other words, it's a MUCH smaller step than giving out
the phone number all by itself. It took me a while to
figure out this one out, but it works! You
will have women writing their phone numbers down without even
thinking twice.

Just realize that all you have to do is ask.
I've tried all kinds of things. And I've
gotten hundreds of phone numbers. I use this exact
sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her
phone number. I've gotten to the point where I can often do
this in a minute or two - not kidding !

Good Luck!

Triple 6 · 09-07-2005, 06:44 PM

awww how cute

Spunky · 09-07-2005, 06:44 PM

I have tried that approach and it works pretty good

LauraLee · 09-07-2005, 06:45 PM

i will give you credit, you have definitely put some thinking into this and i can see where it would work.
happy ho hunting! ;)

brand0n · 09-07-2005, 06:45 PM

they HEY is important

SetTheWorldonFire · 09-07-2005, 06:45 PM

Been chatting online with babes

Rice_Master · 09-07-2005, 06:51 PM

definitely gotta give this method a try lol

GoNe · 09-07-2005, 06:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rice_Master

definitely gotta give this method a try lol

Same here.. thanks for the tutorial lol

*thread bookmarked* lol

Pipecrew · 09-07-2005, 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LauraLee

i will give you credit, you have definitely put some thinking into this and i can see where it would work.
happy ho hunting! ;)

This is sold in some big dating kid, I've seen the infomercials, some guy from montreal wrote it, but it's all around the web haha..

"They usually don't know what to do, as they're used to guys
clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice
meeting you too..."

Dont ask for the email, just walk away, they will volunteer the # always, then you have the upper hand haha

georgeyw · 09-07-2005, 07:02 PM

lol - not such a bad idea.

WiredGuy · 09-07-2005, 07:07 PM

Opt-in list galore

Imagine if the rolls were reversed and a hot chick was going around a bar collecting emails? What a mailing list that would be

WG

BrettJ · 09-07-2005, 07:11 PM

nobody fears looking like a mega dork ... falling back to the impersonal email ?

Ycaza · 09-07-2005, 07:13 PM

hmmmm good thinkin

Empress_JoinRightNow · 09-07-2005, 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WoW!

I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only
easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It's
almost as if women appreciate it that you've taken the time to
think about what you're going to say when you write an email
to them, and they think of you more like someone they know.

You're absolutely right dude. Women love words...I myself find it very cute and romantic if a guy drops me an email expressing just anything under the sun. It's an easy way to know the real person the way he composes his thoughts into words. I find a guy very sexy and romantic if he knows how to write a poem expressing his admiration towards me. An email a day of poems would absolutely brightens any lady's day.

DaddyHalbucks · 09-07-2005, 07:23 PM

Sounds like a decent approach. Women don't like guys who are too pushy.

I am married, so I won't be needing it right now, but it's an interesting strategy. Thanks for sharing.

slapass · 09-07-2005, 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Empress_JoinRightNow

You're absolutely right dude. Women love words...I myself find it very cute and romantic if a guy drops me an email expressing just anything under the sun. It's an easy way to know the real person the way he composes his thoughts into words. I find a guy very sexy and romantic if he knows how to write a poem expressing his admiration towards me. An email a day of poems would absolutely brightens any lady's day.

I hope you are a ten as I got tired after just reading your post.

Can you say high maintenance??

Mako · 09-07-2005, 07:56 PM

Come on people, why are you all always so gulliable?

Cut and pasted.

Spunky · 09-07-2005, 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mako

Come on people, why are you all always so gulliable?

Cut and pasted.

Lol..that never happens on here

Empress_JoinRightNow · 09-07-2005, 07:59 PM

Whatever...It's quite informative though.

tranza · 09-07-2005, 08:01 PM

it's an interesting tutorial...but it could be shorter!!

dynastoned · 09-07-2005, 08:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BrettJ

nobody fears looking like a mega dork ... falling back to the impersonal email ?

haha yeah i never ask for an email... its an ego thing more then anything..

Hue G. Pness · 09-07-2005, 08:18 PM

Best way to cut through all that bullshit:

Simply ask the woman for coffee, after you have had a conversation of course.

This works in several ways. Coffee is not intimdating and requires no large amount of time togeather should things not start out right. It is casual and doesn't reak of the get drinks thing which says, "Hey I want to get you drunk in the hope that you will have sex with me later." it also is better than a dinner invite for the same reason, dinner means atleast an hour togeather, and should things not click seems an intimidating offer. Keep in mind, once the invite is out the every thing that can go wrong scenario fast forwards through the brain.

Coffee, on the other hand, is a light casual activitiy with minimal time commitment, but room to move from there should things click. Also, coffee invites let the woman know you want to share some time talking and getting to know each other in a relaxed atmosphere. It doesn't blast out, "He is hitting on me because he wants to blast a load in my left eye" It says, "He wants to hang out and chat." It's almost too friendly in a way, but it works.

The local coffee shops know me well. :D

Young · 09-07-2005, 08:30 PM

They created http://www.PaperNapkin.net for innovators such as yourself ;) so no....its not all good.

Holly · 09-07-2005, 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slapass

I hope you are a ten as I got tired after just reading your post.

Can you say high maintenance??

As much as it pains me to agree with any of the JRN engrish posting monkeys, she's sort of right. I love guys who write and express themselves well. I'd much rather read someone's stories, experiences, or thoughts, than have him spewing a line of bullshit to me in a bar, when he's half drunk. Doesn't have to be poetry, though.

Young · 09-07-2005, 08:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hue G. Pness

Best way to cut through all that bullshit:

Simply ask the woman for coffee, after you have had a conversation of course.

This works in several ways. Coffee is not intimdating and ....... :D

Not if shes played Grand Theft Auto : San Andreas

Holly · 09-07-2005, 08:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Young

They created http://www.PaperNapkin.net for innovators such as yourself ;) so no....its not all good.

ahahaha

That's fabulous. Bookmarked.

(I won't ask you how you knew about that site, btw ;-} )

Young · 09-07-2005, 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Holly

ahahaha

That's fabulous. Bookmarked.

(I won't ask you how you knew about that site, btw ;-} )

Haha it was an a Boston Herald article about a year back.

I had even created a similar site at http://www.sorryforyou.com and had multiple fake e-mail domain names for people to choose from but I ended up losing interest and the domain just expired. Some of the e-mails from some of these guys were just pathetic. It was mostly my female friends on myspace who used them.

Th!nk · 09-07-2005, 08:41 PM

hey! nice approach. very gentle and very intelligent approach in getting infos from a girl.

Oracle Porn · 09-07-2005, 09:03 PM

where the fuck would I get a pen and a paper from in a middle of no where?

gideongallery · 09-07-2005, 09:20 PM

the technique is called permission marketing, it a proven technique taught to inside sales people.

woj · 09-07-2005, 09:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oracle Porn

where the fuck would I get a pen and a paper from in a middle of no where?

paper -> use your business card
pen -> it's not hard to carry one around when you are going out...

xxxdesign-net · 09-07-2005, 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oracle Porn

where the fuck would I get a pen and a paper from in a middle of no where?

use your lipstick..

latinasojourn · 09-07-2005, 11:33 PM

yes, clever approach.

buy why beat around the bush, or waste time trying to induce a positive response.

if she's interested she'll give you her number.

polite cool guy after talking a couple minutes with nice girl says, "hey, i've gotta run but i sure would like to call you some time---would you give me your phone #?. (big smile here)

90% of those phone numbers will result in pussy. less game playing.

Mr. Rhee · 09-08-2005, 12:22 AM

direct cut & paste from:
"Dating Advice by David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating"

good info, but a bit outdated - because lots of people are so frustrated with spam that asking for their "myspace" sometimes yields better results. <-- obviously it depends on your target demographic.

but don't waste time with email/etc, just exchange #'s - but always offer to give them your number first, (that way they are in control of the situation) and they usually reciprocate.

I pretend like I can't find a piece of paper to write my # on (frantically searching), and so I take out my wallet and pull out a dollar bill, tear it in half and write my name/# down on one half and give it to her. she'll usually write down her # on the other half for you because you've already proven to her that you're deeply interested in her (invested in her, LOL) - interested enough to rip a $ bill in half just to get her #. they are always impressed (mildly/wildly) and trust me, the girl will keep your number (sentimental value and something to show off to her friends). She'll call you soon or she will definitely remember you if you're the one calling. if she's the kind of girl that get lots of phone numbers when she goes out, your half-dollar will always stand out and not get thrown away. Works very well. and a small price to pay.

another tactic involves using your mobile cam-phone, but I won't discuss it right now...

kmanrox · 09-08-2005, 12:43 AM

hey wow, is your name David DeAngelo by any chance?

kmanrox · 09-08-2005, 12:43 AM

oops, i see someone else has owned you also lol!

FelixFlow · 09-08-2005, 02:25 AM

and ummm...

what if she says "No" that she doesn't have email, when you ask??

lol

Dugmor · 09-08-2005, 02:44 AM

Was this posted somewhere else.......... because of the way it displays on the the page..... it seems to be copied and pasted ? ? ?

Antonio · 09-08-2005, 03:07 AM

this is how I do it:
me: HEY, do you have short ICQ?
she: no
me: fuck off, bitch

Kanon · 09-08-2005, 03:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by latinasojourn

yes, clever approach.

buy why beat around the bush, or waste time trying to induce a positive response.

if she's interested she'll give you her number.

polite cool guy after talking a couple minutes with nice girl says, "hey, i've gotta run but i sure would like to call you some time---would you give me your phone #?. (big smile here)

90% of those phone numbers will result in pussy. less game playing.

Because not everyone is interested in just pussy. Life and the success of business is mostly revolved around how good you are at networking. Not every girl will be interested and give you her number, but the less intimidating route as described will still get you the contact. If you keep in contact, even seldomly, they can open up new options down the road.

09-07-2005, 06:40 PM	#1
WoW! Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 579	Tutorial: How To Get A Womans Phone Number And Email Here's something interesting: I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I've found that Email addresses are far better. ( I still get the phone number too of course ) If I see a woman I like, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I have found that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESN'T EQUAL SUCCESS. Women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person. When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It's almost like she's a different person than the one you met. I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It's almost as if women appreciate it that you've taken the time to think about what you're going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you more like someone they know. The other benefit of email is that it can be written and answered anytime. If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be answered anytime. I've found that emails are answered FAR more often than voicemail messages. HERE'S THE HOW TO: After I've talked to a woman for a couple minutes, I'll often say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to get back to my friends." They usually don't know what to do, as they're used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting you too..." Then, just as I'm turning to walk away, and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say "HEY! Do you have email?" The "HEY!" is a bit surprising, and "Do you have email" is non-threatening. In fact, I'm technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME. If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they've almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write your number down there too." When you ask for email, it's very low risk for a woman, so she'll think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just not answer. The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human behavior. She's already mentally said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only NATURAL to just write it. In other words, it's a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a while to figure out this one out, but it works! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice. Just realize that all you have to do is ask. I've tried all kinds of things. And I've gotten hundreds of phone numbers. I use this exact sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I've gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two - not kidding ! Good Luck! __________________ Shemale Porn Reviews Asian Porn Reviews

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09-07-2005, 07:11 PM	#12
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09-07-2005, 07:23 PM	#15
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09-07-2005, 07:56 PM	#17
Mako Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: The OC baby! Posts: 1,986	Come on people, why are you all always so gulliable? Cut and pasted. __________________

09-07-2005, 07:59 PM	#19
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tranza ICQ: 197-556-237 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: BRASIL !!! Posts: 57,559	it's an interesting tutorial...but it could be shorter!! __________________ I'm just a newbie.

09-07-2005, 08:18 PM	#22
Hue G. Pness Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Variable Posts: 1,237	Best way to cut through all that bullshit: Simply ask the woman for coffee, after you have had a conversation of course. This works in several ways. Coffee is not intimdating and requires no large amount of time togeather should things not start out right. It is casual and doesn't reak of the get drinks thing which says, "Hey I want to get you drunk in the hope that you will have sex with me later." it also is better than a dinner invite for the same reason, dinner means atleast an hour togeather, and should things not click seems an intimidating offer. Keep in mind, once the invite is out the every thing that can go wrong scenario fast forwards through the brain. Coffee, on the other hand, is a light casual activitiy with minimal time commitment, but room to move from there should things click. Also, coffee invites let the woman know you want to share some time talking and getting to know each other in a relaxed atmosphere. It doesn't blast out, "He is hitting on me because he wants to blast a load in my left eye" It says, "He wants to hang out and chat." It's almost too friendly in a way, but it works. The local coffee shops know me well. :D __________________ GFY Voice of Reason

09-07-2005, 08:30 PM	#23
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09-07-2005, 08:41 PM	#28
Th!nk Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 6,996	hey! nice approach. very gentle and very intelligent approach in getting infos from a girl.

09-07-2005, 09:03 PM	#29
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09-07-2005, 09:20 PM	#30
gideongallery Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 7,082	the technique is called permission marketing, it a proven technique taught to inside sales people. __________________ “When crimes occur through the mail, you don’t shut the post office down,” Steve Wozniak

09-07-2005, 11:33 PM	#33
latinasojourn Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 3,191	yes, clever approach. buy why beat around the bush, or waste time trying to induce a positive response. if she's interested she'll give you her number. polite cool guy after talking a couple minutes with nice girl says, "hey, i've gotta run but i sure would like to call you some time---would you give me your phone #?. (big smile here) 90% of those phone numbers will result in pussy. less game playing.

09-08-2005, 12:22 AM	#34
Mr. Rhee Registered User Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Under The Radar Posts: 13	direct cut & paste from: "Dating Advice by David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating" good info, but a bit outdated - because lots of people are so frustrated with spam that asking for their "myspace" sometimes yields better results. <-- obviously it depends on your target demographic. but don't waste time with email/etc, just exchange #'s - but always offer to give them your number first, (that way they are in control of the situation) and they usually reciprocate. I pretend like I can't find a piece of paper to write my # on (frantically searching), and so I take out my wallet and pull out a dollar bill, tear it in half and write my name/# down on one half and give it to her. she'll usually write down her # on the other half for you because you've already proven to her that you're deeply interested in her (invested in her, LOL) - interested enough to rip a $ bill in half just to get her #. they are always impressed (mildly/wildly) and trust me, the girl will keep your number (sentimental value and something to show off to her friends). She'll call you soon or she will definitely remember you if you're the one calling. if she's the kind of girl that get lots of phone numbers when she goes out, your half-dollar will always stand out and not get thrown away. Works very well. and a small price to pay. another tactic involves using your mobile cam-phone, but I won't discuss it right now... __________________ _________________________________________________ "Lead me not into temptation, I can find the way myself."

09-08-2005, 12:43 AM	#35
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09-08-2005, 02:25 AM	#37
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09-08-2005, 02:44 AM	#38
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09-08-2005, 03:07 AM	#39
Antonio Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Spartaaaaaaaaa Posts: 14,136	this is how I do it: me: HEY, do you have short ICQ? she: no me: fuck off, bitch