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I am not as concerned about the treatment she received as I am about the lack of support for the model and Unseen. He is %100 right in his post. This model, and all other models have received more disrespect here than she did from the photographer. As CDSmith said, these girls are the backbone or our industry. It surprises me how many people here find it acceptable to bite the hand that feeds them. |
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although (not this particular situation) this shit happens to photographers too... every have a model show up for a shoot and go to make a scan of her ID only to find out she's 17? The whole day is fucked from that point on. (unless you're a golfer... ![]() All I'm sayin' is that people everywhere get screwed. The guy in question is undoubtedly an ass. But a legal one. The girl was either desperate for cash or very very stupid if she didn;t wanna do it and did it anyway. Either way... she owns that one. We can't babysit everyone. And especially if they're of legal enough age to be doing photo shoots in the first place. I blame them both. Photographer is a shit + girl was uneducated or desperate = one crappy deal. In the end, the girl will be wiser, (hopefully), and enough word will spread that the guy will change his practices or move on to doing something else. (Models especially have a huge network of word-of-mouth referrals) |
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I have read all the posts, and came to this conclusion...Amp is right, and so is Bryany...
The deal is the chic was given a job..she was paid..get on with life...ya there may have been some unforeseen issues regarding who was there, but it's not a perfect world. It's the damn PORN biz, the pictures she was taking where for entertainment..no one was holding a damn gun to her head... She learned a lesson, I am sure. She will smarten up and it won't happen again...As with life we all(well most) learn from our mistakes. That is most likely why Labret was an only child ![]() |
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I don't know why you didn't give this model a heads up on the assholes running that show. You knew they were dicks, and sent a timid young kid over there? And you're pissed at smart ass webmasters joking about buying tickets? (this is GFY, not a MENSA convention). I think you are lashing out in anger to compensate for your guilt. Yeah, GUILT. You let that kid go over there to be exploited.
If I see a buddy of mine is trading traffic with a hitbot user, I tip him off. If I see a buddy is using a lame ass sponsor, I tip him off. And vice versa. You should have done the same. Do you think this kid is going to be trusting you? You don't think she's wondering why you didn't spell it out in small words and big letters? I know I am. |
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Straight up Steve.
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"I'm always right... I'm 12clicks' evil bastard spawn"
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I'm not saying that the photographer was right but she should have left if she was not comfortable with anything.
And if the guy really is an asshole and you know he's done shit like this in the past... then you two (Aaron and Unseen) are partly to blame for letting this girl go into that situation. You said the two of you were looking out for her, right? Where were ya on that one? And Unseen, wasn't just a few months ago that you were complaining that women were racist cause they wanted to get paid more for having sex with Black men?? Doesn't sit well with you complaining that she didn't get paid more for other people simply watching. I hate to see someone get taken advantage of but this time it looks like she could have simply said "NO". |
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Finally, a post that can make me feel proud to be part of the adult industry. It's a comforting feeling to know that our industry does have morals, ethics and human compassion.
To those of you how said such things as "And just because she's broke is no excuse. If she didn't wanna do the shoot.... walk the fuck out. Problem solved. She chose to stay"... I would like to ask how long you stayed in a job that you didn't particularily like before starting in this business. And how many of your friends complain that they hate their jobs. What don't they just walk away... Why, because it's simply not that easy. My biggest worry...someday a journalist will get onto this board and quote some of the entries on this board in the media. I doubt that the public will be very sympathetic to our industry when they get wind of our "it's a tough life...deal with it" attitudes. |
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And I never looked back. It IS just that easy. And if someone doesn't have the fuckin' dignity or common sense to trake matters into their own hands in a shitty situation, then they will forever be walked upon by the predators in this world. And I have no fucking sympathy.... because I've been there. |
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Thank you - very well put.
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btw, you want a good girl manager that will get your girls work, and has had a fox news documentary done on his work email [email protected]
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Aaron's comment to child porn was not the majority of his argument, and shouldn't be used solely to judge him..
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I do not feel guilty about a damn thing. This girl resonded to MY ad. I referred her to Unseen not to these other assholes. I told her what I had heard about them before she even knew they existed. I was not even aware that she worked with them until Unseen informed me. You are all right that she could have walked away. This is not the point though. Tenletters, don't be so quick to point a finger and us. What do you expect us to do? She made her own decision. How am I supposed to change her mind about working with somebody that I was not even aware she was considering working with. This is exactly what I am talking about when I say I do not run my mouth without knowing all the facts or had personal experience with the situation. When I was told about these guys by other models, I did not know the other girls as well as I know this one. I had no reason to to believe or disbelieve them. I simply made a mental note of it. Now I have no doubt about them and I will strongly express my feelings in the future. |
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Sorry, Aaron, it's my opinion and if you don't like it.. tough shit.
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The smarter people in this world get all the facts in order to avoid stating a fucked up opinion that could make themselves look like an asshole though. Now that you have replied to my relpy, I have the facts on you. You are a prick. no offense... that is just MY opinion. ![]() |
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Okay, Aaron... please accept my apology as it looked like an attack to me.
Oh, and I did base my opinion on facts and stated "if" when basing my opinion. I never said you were to blame... I said "if" you knew then you were to blame. You have since stated that you had only heard rumors. And take back the "you're a prick" statement. It hurt my feelings, haha. [This message has been edited by tenletters (edited 11-08-2001).] |
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![]() Seriously though, if this is where you stand then I do take it back. Chalk it up to a misunderstanding. If anybody cares, I just called the guy that did the shoot in question. I told him what I have seen and heard and put his ass right on the spot. He tells me that they do not and have not ever sold tickets or let their members or friends attend a shoot. I do not know if this is true or not. His explanation for the additional people is: makeup lady, and different assistants along with 2 "body guards" of the other girls. I strongly suggested he exercise more caution on his shoots and consider a closed set rule. The guy is as newbiest as they come. We are doing lunch tomorrow so I can get a better feel for what kind of guy he is. He is also going to be at AdultDex. |
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They dont sell tickets.. The guys watching and cheering were members of the boneprone family.
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So, your attitude, I take it, is that the gals who make the stuff we like to see and sell are just whores. Do I understand the undertone of your response correctly? And that because of that there is no ethical aspect to tricking them. In that case, YOU are a snake. ------------------ Check out the new content at Wonders of the Unseen World |
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Inexperience is one thing... stupidity is quite another. I tend to think that anyone of the age of 18 or better is quite capable of asking a question or two. Especially if it concerned something that was bothering her about a situation. And if she's too stupid to open her mouth about it, then yes... she's probably gonna keep gettin' walked on for many years by many people.
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My best piece of advice for you Amp it go Amputate Your Head. You will be much better off. |
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You got somethin' against drugs now too?
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Here's my take on this;
The girl is p/o'd I "hope" that the guys doing the shoot crossed all their "t's" and dotted all their "I's" because if they did not... well; legal problems with this sort of crap could well mean that you will be paying $3000.00 for a cd full of images instead of $300 funny for some, exploitive for others, I have no doubt that this will cost us money in the future, there is no end to the number of content providers who are being drummed out of town or regulated out of existance in small town America now... without reason, I would say, don't give them any more reasons to try and get rid of you ![]() It only takes one or two jerks to screw things up, and the local chamber of commerce ain't gonna support you ![]() ------------------ $$ DIRTY GOLD $$ Revenue Program JackThumbsTGP - - - VideoKAT-ViDeOpOsT - Post Gallieries - - - - - - - Trade Traffic - |
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On an interesting note... I was out to dinner with a client last night and I mentioned this thread. Without knowing what board I was talking about, he said "it sounds like a bunch of young webmasters" he went on to specifically mention this board and 2 others. He also suggested that I review the replies again to see how many of the asshole replies were webmasters and how many were content providers. Guess what I found? Why is it that the people who rarely deal with the girls have so much fucked up shit to say on this subject? <---Retorical question Sorry for the big word AMP. You can feel free to look it up. |
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As for having a problem with you... I think your views are fair but a bit out of wack at the same time. The bottom line here is that you do not support how she was treated. This makes you a good man in my book. The only reason I am giving you a hard time is because this girl is very intelligent, more so than any other model I have worked with, and you keep suggesting that she is not. I do not feel that my comments were childish either. I think they were kinda clever. It is not my fault that they were over your head. Case in point... had you bothered to look up the word "Retorical" you most likely would not have replied to the post. This is not about you or me. This is about how people treat models and what they think of them in general. |
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Just a thought -- she could be using your sympathy against you. Even 18 y/o's know that they can mind fuck just about any guy. Don't trust women. They don't have a penis -- so they fuck us in other ways.
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Fair enough... I can live with that.
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just my take on the subject,
I saw with my own eyes how girls get abused in this industry(by the wrong people). I have seen where they ended up and I have one thing to say: 'respect these girls' and protect them! cause if you don't some asshole WILL take advantage of here and the weak position she's often in (lack of money, drug problems, etc.) It is our moral duty to watch over these girls and watch out for thes practices, as we are the only ones with some power and influence. ------------------ JOIN4EVER Partnership program! http://www.join4ever.com |
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By the way, you folks that think this is not rape should read the definition:
Main Entry: 2rape Function: transitive verb Inflected Form(s): raped; rap·ing Etymology: Middle English, from Latin rapere Date: 14th century 1 a archaic : to seize and take away by force b : DESPOIL 2 : to commit rape on To seize and take away by force - Wasn't the girls trust violated, thus taking it away. And don't by force because she had no knowledge of it? You decide ------------------ http://www.lostbush.com/sub.html High conversion Cheerleader Fetish |
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so now I'm confused.
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ehhe wanna add this thread is this weeks dvd winner thread
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Wow.. It almost sounds like we are in the "exploitation industry"
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"Utilization of another person or group for selfish purposes: exploitation of unwary consumers." Using this definition, the models would be considered the unwary party. I do not believe in having the people I work with unwary of what is going on. Feel free to market your sites as you see fit but keep in mind that by "exploiting" people, your are only looking for legal troubles. That would mean more community service for you Pronebone. If you want to write crap about exploitation then I suggest you quit the web business and get into journalism. |
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This deserves a bump.
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