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Paraskass · 12-26-2004, 02:54 PM

been a long time already and thoughts of her are always popping back into my head.

Especially around Christmas, New Years and my Birthday.

I miss her so much.

shima · 12-26-2004, 03:00 PM

so why won't you try to bring it all back to life? Why not?

2HousePlague · 12-26-2004, 03:02 PM

Break-Up Medicine

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Paraskass · 12-26-2004, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by shima

so why won't you try to bring it all back to life? Why not?

I wish, she wants nothing of that now.

We broke up a long time ago. Probably 8 months ago. After that it was up, down, up down...

now she is really cutting the links between the both of us. Not calling anymore, making plans with other people on my birthday...

It hurts.

Pete · 12-26-2004, 03:28 PM

Time to let her go man. Carry on now.

wyldblyss · 12-26-2004, 03:30 PM

Sometimes life is like that and there is nothing that you can do. You could however try being just her friend, lay off the "remember when" or the "please come back" and just do the "so how are ya, what is new and how about meeting for coffee"

shima · 12-26-2004, 03:33 PM

got kids?

Furious_Female · 12-26-2004, 03:34 PM

I'm sorry

I know how you feel. Broken hearts are the worst.

emthree · 12-26-2004, 03:54 PM

Stop that gay boohoo shit and MANUP, breakups are all about mindgames. If you and her had a longtermed relationship, she's not just going to "forget" you but she will "try. You're better off showing her that you're happier than her and doing way better than she is. She will probably cave in down the line (like you're doing) and want to hang out again.

D-man · 12-26-2004, 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paraskass

been a long time already and thoughts of her are always popping back into my head.

Especially around Christmas, New Years and my Birthday.

I miss her so much.

do what I did - land a 22 year old stripper - worked for me!

Paraskass · 12-26-2004, 03:58 PM

Well, alcohol will be my remidy tonight, along with hitting the club with some friends.

Drunk with the friends can cure anything.

Now that I have plans, I'm not so depressed. I just need to keep busy.

eMonk · 12-26-2004, 03:59 PM

move on bro. she isn't the same person you fell in love with. she can't be.

SmutGiant · 12-26-2004, 04:04 PM

You're in the same place as my good buddy Neil right now. Broke up with his girl about a month ago and can't get over it. I'm gonna tell you the same thing I told him, but he wont take my advice. Cut ALL contact with her for the time being. You need to flush her out of your system, no phone calls, no going out for coffee... just pretend she dropped off the face of the earth. Worked for me anyways.

eMonk · 12-26-2004, 04:08 PM

i agree. also put away or throw out anything that reminds you of her.

eMonk · 12-26-2004, 04:10 PM

also if/when you do talk to her DON'T bring up the relationship and the past. just stay cool.

Basic_man · 12-26-2004, 04:11 PM

I hope you'll get over it and find a new girl to :love-smil

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solonline · 12-26-2004, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Paraskass

been a long time already and thoughts of her are always popping back into my head.

Especially around Christmas, New Years and my Birthday.

I miss her so much.

Look fuck it you gotta move on!!! It aint easy , not meant to be ... but stand up take a walk , take a dump, do anything to move your head away from her. I been their more than one time .... Christmas, new year makes no differnce... you are allowing yourself to be take over by sentimentel baggage!
When i used to get thoughts "popping up in my head " of the X i would go for a walk and take a long look at da pussy on the steet and ask myself "could I fuck her" In the first few weeks my answer was no... then a few weeks went by and a few more walks on the street ... and then I started to think Yep I could fuck her... and so on ... then i knew i was moving on ,,,
post script : Now im a happy married webmaster, kids, ugly dog by myside, slippers, fat belly and exactly where i thought i never could be.

Paraskass · 12-26-2004, 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by solonline

Look fuck it you gotta move on!!! It aint easy , not meant to be ... but stand up take a walk , take a dump, do anything to move your head away from her. I been their more than one time .... Christmas, new year makes no differnce... you are allowing yourself to be take over by sentimentel baggage!
When i used to get thoughts "popping up in my head " of the X i would go for a walk and take a long look at da pussy on the steet and ask myself "could I fuck her" In the first few weeks my answer was no... then a few weeks went by and a few more walks on the street ... and then I started to think Yep I could fuck her... and so on ... then i knew i was moving on ,,,
post script : Now im a happy married webmaster, kids, ugly dog by myside, slippers, fat belly and exactly where i thought i never could be.

Loved the last part.

SomeCreep · 12-26-2004, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Paraskass

been a long time already and thoughts of her are always popping back into my head.

Especially around Christmas, New Years and my Birthday.

I miss her so much.

Yep, thats life. The pain never goes away either.

Pornkings · 12-26-2004, 05:49 PM

Everything happens for a reason. Only time will heal

Illicit · 12-26-2004, 05:50 PM

Hey loser, go get yourself a new bitch and make new memories

r3ap3r · 12-26-2004, 05:55 PM

This may seem corny but "There are other fish in the sea". Once you find another chick you ex will become a distant memory.

Dirty D · 12-26-2004, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by D-man

do what I did - land a 22 year old stripper - worked for me!

Hell yeah! That's what I'm talkin bout.

Best advice I have seen on GFY.
Works every time

Entropy · 12-26-2004, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ajpiii

Hey loser, go get yourself a new bitch and make new memories

Said the 40 year old virgin.

sean416 · 12-26-2004, 08:06 PM

Man up bro, seriously. Put all the weight on your shoulders and carry on. You'll be a stronger man in the end. Stop thinking "I cant do it" and just do it.

TheSenator · 12-26-2004, 08:10 PM

Best cure for the blues is to fuck one of her best friends.

Entropy · 12-26-2004, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSenator

Best cure for the blues is to fuck one of her best friends.

Right on.

UniversalPassLorence · 12-26-2004, 08:20 PM

Got to move on and find a new :love-smil

thePelican · 12-26-2004, 08:21 PM

8 months? get over it!

Illicit · 12-26-2004, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Entropy

Said the 40 year old virgin.

Dude Im sure Ive had more women then you by a factor of at least 5

Screaming · 12-26-2004, 08:26 PM

time heals all wounds and after that get a hobby i guess

graphicsbytia · 12-26-2004, 08:35 PM

aww sweetie, that sucks.. but listen

everything happens for a reason.. and something good will happen for you very soon.. and breaking up with your ex had to happen in order for that good thing to come about.. you'll look back and see this is true

Entropy · 12-26-2004, 08:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ajpiii

Dude Im sure Ive had more women then you by a factor of at least 5

Life is full of mysteries.

mrthumbs · 12-26-2004, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by graphicsbytia

aww sweetie, that sucks.. but listen

everything happens for a reason.. and something good will happen for you very soon.. and breaking up with your ex had to happen in order for that good thing to come about.. you'll look back and see this is true

oh boy..

but actually you're right.

graphicsbytia · 12-26-2004, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by mrthumbs

oh boy..

but actually you're right.

yeah I know.. cliche I just feel so sorry for him

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shima Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: Office, as usual Posts: 1,753	so why won't you try to bring it all back to life? Why not?

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wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	Sometimes life is like that and there is nothing that you can do. You could however try being just her friend, lay off the "remember when" or the "please come back" and just do the "so how are ya, what is new and how about meeting for coffee"

12-26-2004, 03:33 PM	#7
shima Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: Office, as usual Posts: 1,753	got kids?

12-26-2004, 03:58 PM	#11
Paraskass Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: QC Posts: 5,829	Well, alcohol will be my remidy tonight, along with hitting the club with some friends. Drunk with the friends can cure anything. Now that I have plans, I'm not so depressed. I just need to keep busy. __________________

12-26-2004, 03:59 PM	#12
eMonk Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 2,310	move on bro. she isn't the same person you fell in love with. she can't be.

12-26-2004, 04:04 PM	#13
SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	You're in the same place as my good buddy Neil right now. Broke up with his girl about a month ago and can't get over it. I'm gonna tell you the same thing I told him, but he wont take my advice. Cut ALL contact with her for the time being. You need to flush her out of your system, no phone calls, no going out for coffee... just pretend she dropped off the face of the earth. Worked for me anyways.

12-26-2004, 04:08 PM	#14
eMonk Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 2,310	i agree. also put away or throw out anything that reminds you of her.

12-26-2004, 04:10 PM	#15
eMonk Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 2,310	also if/when you do talk to her DON'T bring up the relationship and the past. just stay cool.

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graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	aww sweetie, that sucks.. but listen everything happens for a reason.. and something good will happen for you very soon.. and breaking up with your ex had to happen in order for that good thing to come about.. you'll look back and see this is true