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Old 10-08-2004, 12:52 AM   #1
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How do you deal with a goodbye....without any closure???? Help!

How do you deal with a goodbye....without any closure???? Help!
An icq end after almost a year and a half sucks!!! Time to move on.....especially when they continue to say things just to hurt you. You try to support them....Sometimes people just suck!!!!!! How do you get the closure to end things in your mind???? Because you will never have a way to end it in person....they won't give you that, EVER! Can't deal with reality, I guess???
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Old 10-08-2004, 12:56 AM   #2
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just give it some time....
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:00 AM   #3
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time heals all wounds.
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:15 AM   #4
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:16 AM   #5
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who needs closure? that must be a chick thing
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:20 AM   #6
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smart people don't take personal issues to the boards.
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:22 AM   #7
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I agree with you sometimes people do suck

Find someone much better!
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:23 AM   #8
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time heals all wounds.
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:24 AM   #9
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smart people don't take personal issues to the boards.
Got to agree with Sleazy.....

Just do some praying and move on.... its the best thing.....learn. grow and go.....
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:25 AM   #10
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this is reality.

nobody OWES you anything in this life.

That's real life and what each and what every one of us has to deal with OURSELVES. You cannot ask someone else for YOUR closure, that has to come from within YOU.
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:27 AM   #11
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Find a hobby, I know it sounds bad, but if you find something to do, it will keep your mind off of things.

Or for a faster way REBOUND
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:28 AM   #12
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Find a hobby, I know it sounds bad, but if you find something to do, it will keep your mind off of things.

Or for a faster way REBOUND
there's sooo much more sex in a rebound - DEF the way to go....
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:30 AM   #13
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have some pride for god's sake

that's what'll save you in the end
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:45 AM   #14
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Don't listen to any of these people.


Pay someone to have him killed.
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:46 AM   #15
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Don't listen to any of these people.


Pay someone to have him killed.
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:47 AM   #16
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I guess I'm another idiot, whatever
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Old 10-08-2004, 01:51 AM   #17
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Old 10-08-2004, 02:11 AM   #18
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Don't listen to any of these people.


Pay someone to have him killed.
Fuck all these idiots in this thread...that's perfect!!! Yeah, like a fucking man knows anything??? LOL
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Old 10-08-2004, 02:12 AM   #19
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last month has been hell for myself personally... hope things work out for ya though
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Old 10-08-2004, 02:13 AM   #20
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Fuck all these idiots in this thread...that's perfect!!! Yeah, like a fucking man knows anything??? LOL
Well, you could cry and mope if you think that will make you feel better, but I have my doubts that it will
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Old 10-08-2004, 07:31 AM   #21
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Don't stay attached to feelings and dreams that no longer exist. You must pretend that it never happened and that you're just living another normal day. As your daily routine takes your mind off more painful situations, you will be able to slowly remove yourself from what you once felt for that person. The worst you can do is to cling on and refuse to let it go. It will be hell for a few weeks, maybe months, but you will once again breathe normally and enjoy life the way you once did.

Or maybe you should kill yourself.
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Old 10-08-2004, 11:18 AM   #22
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time heals all wounds.
pretty much.
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Old 10-08-2004, 12:28 PM   #23
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One thing that always helped me in a situation like this is stabbing myself in the face. You should try it. It really works.
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Old 10-08-2004, 12:35 PM   #24
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The story of life is quicker than the wink of an eye. The story of love is hello and goodbye, until we meet again.
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