How do you deal with a goodbye....without any closure???? Help!
 

How do you deal with a goodbye....without any closure???? Help!
An icq end after almost a year and a half sucks!!! Time to move on.....especially when they continue to say things just to hurt you. You try to support them....Sometimes people just suck!!!!!! How do you get the closure to end things in your mind???? Because you will never have a way to end it in person....they won't give you that, EVER! Can't deal with reality, I guess???

just give it some time....

time heals all wounds.

time

who needs closure? that must be a chick thing

smart people don't take personal issues to the boards.

I agree with you sometimes people do suck :thumbsup

Find someone much better! :)

Got to agree with Sleazy.....

Just do some praying and move on.... its the best thing.....learn. grow and go.....

this is reality.

nobody OWES you anything in this life.

That's real life and what each and what every one of us has to deal with OURSELVES. You cannot ask someone else for YOUR closure, that has to come from within YOU.

Find a hobby, I know it sounds bad, but if you find something to do, it will keep your mind off of things.

Or for a faster way REBOUND

there's sooo much more sex in a rebound - DEF the way to go....

have some pride for god's sake

that's what'll save you in the end

Don't listen to any of these people.


Pay someone to have him killed.

:1orglaugh

I guess I'm another idiot, whatever

Clear your mind, and be a monk. :thumbsup

:1orglaugh Fuck all these idiots in this thread...that's perfect!!! Yeah, like a fucking man knows anything??? LOL

last month has been hell for myself personally... hope things work out for ya though

Well, you could cry and mope if you think that will make you feel better, but I have my doubts that it will

Don't stay attached to feelings and dreams that no longer exist. You must pretend that it never happened and that you're just living another normal day. As your daily routine takes your mind off more painful situations, you will be able to slowly remove yourself from what you once felt for that person. The worst you can do is to cling on and refuse to let it go. It will be hell for a few weeks, maybe months, but you will once again breathe normally and enjoy life the way you once did.

Or maybe you should kill yourself.

pretty much.

One thing that always helped me in a situation like this is stabbing myself in the face. You should try it. It really works.

:thumbsup

The story of life is quicker than the wink of an eye. The story of love is hello and goodbye, until we meet again.
--Jimi Hendrix