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Old 09-29-2004, 11:46 AM   #1
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Im looking for some advice(relationship)

Well here it goes. I have been a lucky guy. I have everything I want and business is going well too. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. We have had our breaks here and then and I have messed up a few times. I've experienced all sorts of girls but I know and feel she is the one. We have discussed getting married and I would like to ask her to marry me. I am sure she will say yes but I don't wan't to jinx it(i am superstitious). I just bought her a very expensive enguagement ring. I love her to death and I see myself being with her for my life. Thing is I am only 19. I mean I just bought my own house in vegas. So she has somewhere to live when she comes out here. I am flying back to cali to ask her on friday. We fight a lot tho but we still love eachother. What should I do. Could the fighting be becuase we have been apart for liek 3 weeks? I mean I know once I get there things will be good but i'm just so confused. I really don't wan't to make a mistake with my life and throw away my good years you know. But I think I can have them with her.. kinda stressful but exciting! Well I have to go continue moving in. Im basically with my brother here and we have a lot of work. Please give me somne advice guys and girls. Thanks.
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Old 09-29-2004, 11:46 AM   #2
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Old 09-29-2004, 11:47 AM   #3
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Old 09-29-2004, 11:50 AM   #4
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Your 19? You can't even drink... bah don't get married, go be nuts.
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Old 09-29-2004, 11:51 AM   #5
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I doubt it. I will post some pics of us. When I get everything situated. My garages are like full of boxes. My living room is full of boxes its a mess. Haha. My parents are flying in today to give me some help. On a different note. I have been betting on football for awile. This week im picking the patriots over the bills. Pats have to win by 6. Raiders over texans. Raiders have to win by two. For my third and final pick I think im going to take the saints over the cardinals. Saints have to win by 4. Anyone have any insider tips? Or do any of you guys bet on sports? Drop me a message lets talk.
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Old 09-29-2004, 11:52 AM   #6
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I can drink. I've had fake id's since I was like 16.
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Old 09-29-2004, 11:52 AM   #7
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Wow, at 19 I never thought about marriage once... I was too busy...

The fighting thing is a component of some relationships but if it is a lot I would be a little concerned. However you are still young and as time goes by we all (well most of us) calm down a bit.

Anyways congrats and good luck... Marriage has a lot of pluses if you are with the right One... And if you feel this way at 19 on top of being so well grounded it sounds like you are on to something.

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Old 09-29-2004, 11:54 AM   #8
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hmm profile on wesfx says 'age: 22'... So what is it 19 or 22?
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:00 PM   #10
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:00 PM   #11
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If you really love her ask her...Do it in a crazy manner in the most romantic exciting way you could think of..If she loves you she will move to vegas and everything will be fine...Being apart is very stress ful i have been down this road before

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Well here it goes. I have been a lucky guy. I have everything I want and business is going well too. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. We have had our breaks here and then and I have messed up a few times. I've experienced all sorts of girls but I know and feel she is the one. We have discussed getting married and I would like to ask her to marry me. I am sure she will say yes but I don't wan't to jinx it(i am superstitious). I just bought her a very expensive enguagement ring. I love her to death and I see myself being with her for my life. Thing is I am only 19. I mean I just bought my own house in vegas. So she has somewhere to live when she comes out here. I am flying back to cali to ask her on friday. We fight a lot tho but we still love eachother. What should I do. Could the fighting be becuase we have been apart for liek 3 weeks? I mean I know once I get there things will be good but i'm just so confused. I really don't wan't to make a mistake with my life and throw away my good years you know. But I think I can have them with her.. kinda stressful but exciting! Well I have to go continue moving in. Im basically with my brother here and we have a lot of work. Please give me somne advice guys and girls. Thanks.
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:05 PM   #12
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I doubt it. I will post some pics of us. When I get everything situated. My garages are like full of boxes. My living room is full of boxes its a mess. Haha. My parents are flying in today to give me some help. On a different note. I have been betting on football for awile. This week im picking the patriots over the bills. Pats have to win by 6. Raiders over texans. Raiders have to win by two. For my third and final pick I think im going to take the saints over the cardinals. Saints have to win by 4. Anyone have any insider tips? Or do any of you guys bet on sports? Drop me a message lets talk.
wes, how is your older bro? when is he going to hit me up? i'll be in Glendale this week.....
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:09 PM   #13
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Its 19. I say 22 to snag older customers. And it has worked. Well Shirley I think we will be in Glendale this week. He is flying with me. If you wan't to meet up with us maybe we can snag a bite to eat. Pm your number or email it to me. I think you still have my email.
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:10 PM   #14
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19? eeks! Why the rush to get married?

But if you're really going to do it, do it up right. Nice dress-up dinner, then a walk on the beach or somewhere suitably romantic, and pop the question when she leasts expects it. Call me cynical, but don't show her the ring until after you ask the question. You don't want her reaction to be 'yes I want that ring' instead of 'yes I want to marry you'.

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Old 09-29-2004, 12:11 PM   #15
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You said you are fighting now....


---when you get married, things do not get easier: THEY GET HARDER. If you are fighting constantly now, you will fight harder, longer and more frequently after you wed.

Don't do it yet. You are not the person at 19 that you will be at 25 or 29. Neither will she.

Believe me, I found this out the hard and expensive way.

Start talking about long term commitments if you want. Even have her move in...BUT do NOT get married until you are at least 23....If she really loves you, she will wait.

If she doesn't then she's not the one who would stand by you if you lost everything, or got really sick, etc.

---Please take this advice. Best wishes to you.
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Its 19. I say 22 to snag older customers. And it has worked. Well Shirley I think we will be in Glendale this week. He is flying with me. If you wan't to meet up with us maybe we can snag a bite to eat. Pm your number or email it to me. I think you still have my email.

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Old 09-29-2004, 12:23 PM   #17
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Hey, think twice before getting married. I guess u can live together 4 a while 2-3 years and then get married. Marriage- officially, is just a sig! There's no need to get married at such age! U're young...

Think of it and best wishes!!

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Old 09-29-2004, 12:25 PM   #18
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DUDE!!!

you are 19. you are going to evolve and grow on yearly basis..

in 3-5 years , you will most likely be a much different person than u are now..same applies to her

u said u love her..but u fight..there is your sign

you created an illusion with her that doesnt even seem perfect.

you are too young.


be a P.I.M.P.

money hoes and clothes..thats whats up

start thinking about this shit in 10yrs !!!
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:30 PM   #19
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Thanks for all the help guys. Im going to give it some thought. And take what you guys have told me. I will also talk to her about it. See what she says about if I had nothing etc. You guys are great. I think I should add something in, we do fight but on the other side we do have some great fun times together. Thanks again.
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:38 PM   #20
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Thanks for all the help guys. Im going to give it some thought. And take what you guys have told me. I will also talk to her about it. See what she says about if I had nothing etc. You guys are great. I think I should add something in, we do fight but on the other side we do have some great fun times together. Thanks again.

"See what she says about if I had nothing etc"?????

c'mon. You seem like a smart kid. It doesn't matter what she says now: what matters is what she does 15 years from now.

Neither you nor she knows that at this point.

Please don't do it. You want to know if she is "the one" ?
---that chick will stay with you no matter what. If you say that you want to mary her "but not until we're 26 or so" and she's stays with you until then...

What's the rush anyway?
In a hurry to give her 1/2 your house?
make babies?
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:43 PM   #21
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:46 PM   #22
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"See what she says about if I had nothing etc"?????

c'mon. You seem like a smart kid. It doesn't matter what she says now: what matters is what she does 15 years from now.

Neither you nor she knows that at this point.

Please don't do it. You want to know if she is "the one" ?
---that chick will stay with you no matter what. If you say that you want to mary her "but not until we're 26 or so" and she's stays with you until then...

What's the rush anyway?
In a hurry to give her 1/2 your house?
make babies?
Very true, I must admit I have been thinking this also. Like at nite when I lay down I just ponder. And shit.. I already am saving the master bedroom for both of us. As for her she wants to become a nurse. Once she gets out here she will start going to college to become that. I mean if her mind changes I will support her either way. I am going to talk to her about all that stuff you said and see what she has to say. This is a great test. Thanks.
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Very true, I must admit I have been thinking this also. Like at nite when I lay down I just ponder. And shit.. I already am saving the master bedroom for both of us. As for her she wants to become a nurse. Once she gets out here she will start going to college to become that. I mean if her mind changes I will support her either way. I am going to talk to her about all that stuff you said and see what she has to say. This is a great test. Thanks.


I wouldn't ask her "would you still be with me if I were broke?"

--what do you think she's going to say. Anyone, weather or not they mean it, will say "yes"


just tell her how you feel. Tell her you want to commit, but do not want to marry until you are at least 26---and you're not going to change your mind about the age.


don't try and test her. Time will do that for you both.

just remember what everyone says when they get divorced:
"we were too young"
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