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You said you are fighting now....
---when you get married, things do not get easier: THEY GET HARDER. If you are fighting constantly now, you will fight harder, longer and more frequently after you wed.
Don't do it yet. You are not the person at 19 that you will be at 25 or 29. Neither will she.
Believe me, I found this out the hard and expensive way.
Start talking about long term commitments if you want. Even have her move in...BUT do NOT get married until you are at least 23....If she really loves you, she will wait.
If she doesn't then she's not the one who would stand by you if you lost everything, or got really sick, etc.
---Please take this advice. Best wishes to you.
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