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p1mpdogg · 08-11-2004, 11:40 PM

ok ok.. I golf about 3 times a week locally. there is this girl that works at the course that is simply amazing. beautiful, blonde, great body, great sense of humor, natural beauty(no makeup or very very ilight) and i love that about her. nice rack too, but that doesnt matter to me.

anyways let me lay it out for you.
i have had a crush on her for atleast 3 months, but she has a idiot boyfriend, but i am not one to get in the way of love, so i keep my distance. its getting ahrder and harder to stay away.

today my buddy put me on the spot cause he knows i like her a ton and said some shit infront of her and i told him to stop, that i dont need him to speak for me and it was embarassing and i made a joke out of it to not look stupid. she laughed a bit and a second later said 'well maybe he just hasnt found a girl worth going after' while she was looking right at me and was smiling.

WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?

i know she is bored with her current dumbass boyfriend.. so thats a plus, and i always treat her well and am very polite to her, but she knows i party and get wasted and have a good time etc...

MetaMan · 08-11-2004, 11:42 PM

she knows u go golfing 3 times a week, probly buy a few beers each time u pass her which equals she knows u got money, and r probly influenced by good looking girls.

stay away and fucking chill fooo

p1mpdogg · 08-11-2004, 11:43 PM

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Originally posted by MetaMan
she knows u go golfing 3 times a week, probly buy a few beers each time u pass her which equals she knows u got money, and r probly influenced by good looking girls.

stay away and fucking chill fooo

man thats the last thing i want to hear!

BradM · 08-11-2004, 11:44 PM

meta is right. tap it and leave the tire biter at home.

AVM · 08-11-2004, 11:46 PM

How cute. Go for it!

WiredGuy · 08-11-2004, 11:47 PM

Find a situation where you can take her out, maybe not just you and her, invite her for drinks or something after a round of golf (I assume there's a bar at the golf place), and just have her drop by. Won't be that awkward for her since its not just you two and you can lay down the pimp hand.

WG

kmanrox · 08-11-2004, 11:47 PM

play it cool, you'll hit it... she'll go nuts wondering what itd be like to be with ya

p1mpdogg · 08-11-2004, 11:49 PM

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Originally posted by WiredGuy
Find a situation where you can take her out, maybe not just you and her, invite her for drinks or something after a round of golf (I assume there's a bar at the golf place), and just have her drop by. Won't be that awkward for her since its not just you two and you can lay down the pimp hand.

WG

actually no bar, they are remodeling it.. no bar for 5 months lol.. the bar now consistes of a counter and a glass rack with drinks and shit.. pretty ghetto

p1mpdogg · 08-11-2004, 11:50 PM

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Originally posted by kmanrox
play it cool, you'll hit it... she'll go nuts wondering what itd be like to be with ya

thats what im thinking, i just wish i could read her mind...

aSStig · 08-11-2004, 11:51 PM

i guess she's a flirt . . . . .

drop her out of ya mind . . . .. .

unless you wanna play with her . . . . .

kelly · 08-11-2004, 11:52 PM

Time your game to finish around the time that her shift ends and tell her that you're going for drinks/pizza/cocktails - why doesn't she come along. To make things lighter why not invite another girl on her shift and your golfing buddy?

WiredGuy · 08-11-2004, 11:52 PM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg
actually no bar, they are remodeling it.. no bar for 5 months lol.. the bar now consistes of a counter and a glass rack with drinks and shit.. pretty ghetto

Well you get the idea, try to find a situation where she can come out with you and a couple of other people to start so she's not pressured to feel like its a date. That way you can swindle your way in there why you're better than the other guy.

WG

pine · 08-11-2004, 11:54 PM

Dude, you run a fucking program. Get a grip. You have no time for golf OR babes. Get back to work.

candyflip · 08-11-2004, 11:58 PM

Women are made to be loved, not understood.

~Oscar Wilde

p1mpdogg · 08-11-2004, 11:59 PM

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Originally posted by pine
Dude, you run a fucking program. Get a grip. You have no time for golf OR babes. Get back to work.

lol

love comes first

kak_azn · 08-11-2004, 11:59 PM

Just ask her out! one of 2 things will happen 50/50 chance yes or no! if she says no then become friends with her bf then you will be around her get him and her all wasted get some of your buddys to kick it with him and get him drunk then find a nice quit place and fuck the shit out of her!

p1mpdogg · 08-11-2004, 11:59 PM

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Originally posted by kak_azn
Just ask her out! one of 2 things will happen 50/50 chance yes or no! if she says no then become friends with her bf then you will be around her get him and her all wasted get some of your buddys to kick it with him and get him drunk then find a nice quit place and fuck the shit out of her!

that has to be the smartest thing i think you have ever said

Monkey Babe · 08-15-2004, 05:48 PM

Does she golf or just work there? If she golfs, invite her to play (maybe at a diffferent course) and that'll give you a good 4 hours to get the scoop about her and the boyfriend. By the 18th hole you'll know whether there's opportunity or if she's just a flirt. If there seems to be a possibility, THEN as her out. But just start with a casual "round of golf" and use it to gather info and scope her situation. You may even find her totally irritating by the end of the round and your crush gone.

DarkJedi · 08-15-2004, 05:53 PM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg
WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?

she wants you to put your penis into her vagina

TheGoldenChild · 08-15-2004, 05:54 PM

Ask her next time if she is available to come out and help you wash your balls-

It should definitely provoke some reaction-

If that doesn't work...tell her you'd like to " birdie her hole"

fr8 · 08-15-2004, 05:57 PM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg
that has to be the smartest thing i think you have ever said

I was thinking the same thing. lol

stocktrader23 · 08-15-2004, 06:00 PM

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Originally posted by DarkJedi
she wants you to put your penis into her vagina

Just tell her friends you have the biggest crush on her but you aren't one to get in the way of somebody's relationship. Tell them that if she ever breaks up with her current boyfriend to let you know so you can tell her how you feel and leave your phone number with them.

Wait on them to blab immediately and find out how she feels.

tical · 08-15-2004, 06:04 PM

1. bring her and her friend to vegas
2. we'll get hammered
3. you can bone her and i'll bone her friend
4. take them home
5. get on gfy and start a new thread

cherrylula · 08-15-2004, 06:18 PM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg

WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?

It means now she knows you have a thing for her, but she has a boyfriend that you are aware of, and she knows this too.

So either she is a total slut and wants to cheat on her man with you, or she is just being a hahahaha and smiling at you cause she likes the attention and will now use that to her advantage somehow regardless.

But if you are getting signals though at this point, plan on being a rebound guy. Or her back door man.

p1mpdogg · 08-15-2004, 06:31 PM

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Originally posted by cherrylula
It means now she knows you have a thing for her, but she has a boyfriend that you are aware of, and she knows this too.

So either she is a total slut and wants to cheat on her man with you, or she is just being a hahahaha and smiling at you cause she likes the attention and will now use that to her advantage somehow regardless.

But if you are getting signals though at this point, plan on being a rebound guy. Or her back door man.

always elegance with you

i like it

Steen2 · 08-15-2004, 06:35 PM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg
ok ok.. I golf about 3 times a week locally. there is this girl that works at the course that is simply amazing. beautiful, blonde, great body, great sense of humor, natural beauty(no makeup or very very ilight) and i love that about her. nice rack too, but that doesnt matter to me.

anyways let me lay it out for you.
i have had a crush on her for atleast 3 months, but she has a idiot boyfriend, but i am not one to get in the way of love, so i keep my distance. its getting ahrder and harder to stay away.

today my buddy put me on the spot cause he knows i like her a ton and said some shit infront of her and i told him to stop, that i dont need him to speak for me and it was embarassing and i made a joke out of it to not look stupid. she laughed a bit and a second later said 'well maybe he just hasnt found a girl worth going after' while she was looking right at me and was smiling.

WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?

i know she is bored with her current dumbass boyfriend.. so thats a plus, and i always treat her well and am very polite to her, but she knows i party and get wasted and have a good time etc...

She felt uncomfortable with your buddy's comment and came up with a sweet thing to say.

How do you know her boyfriend?

Rankings · 08-15-2004, 06:53 PM

Good luck with that.

chase · 08-15-2004, 07:07 PM

Well, she has a man....so you'll want to watch how she deals with this situation carefully, because if she takes you on the side, even if she "plans on" leaving him, she'd do it to you too if things cool off between you.
That said, I would take her aside, and CALMLY tell her that you respect her relationship, but that you would really like to get to know her better if the opportunity ever arose...she'll either take it as, when/if she is single again, in which case, you know she's an honest girl who is worth waiting for (not saying don't get your groove on in the meantime, that's not necessary....I'm sure she's getting some while she's with the dude so there's no reason you shouldn't get some ass, too) or she'll think you mean on the side, and in that case, ride it as long as it lasts, but don't plan on anything else because she cheats.
If she's not interested, it shouldn't make things weird b/c you didn't exactly ask her out, ya know.
It's nice to see you sound so sincere about a chick...I hope she's worth it!
Hugs,
Chase

graphicsbytia · 08-15-2004, 07:10 PM

if you do go after this girl.. just remember, you'll be in the position of being the next dumbass boyfriend standing there while she flirts with the next guy

DarkJedi · 08-15-2004, 07:10 PM

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Originally posted by stocktrader23
Just tell her friends you have the biggest crush on her but you aren't one to get in the way of somebody's relationship. Tell them that if she ever breaks up with her current boyfriend to let you know so you can tell her how you feel and leave your phone number with them.

Wait on them to blab immediately and find out how she feels.

I like this plan.

chase · 08-15-2004, 07:13 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
if you do go after this girl.. just remember, you'll be in the position of being the next dumbass boyfriend standing there while she flirts with the next guy

It doesn't sound to me like she's crossing the line..if she was being blatantly slutty he wouldn't need advice on what to do because he would know she wanted to bang him.

graphicsbytia · 08-15-2004, 07:16 PM

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Originally posted by chase
It doesn't sound to me like she's crossing the line..if she was being blatantly slutty he wouldn't need advice on what to do because he would know she wanted to bang him.

She wasn't crossing the line.. not at all.. that's the worst kind of flirt in my opinion, one that does it in a subtle way.. she was flirting with him all right.. he asked the ladies what it meant.. well.. that's what it means in my book

chase · 08-15-2004, 07:59 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
She wasn't crossing the line.. not at all.. that's the worst kind of flirt in my opinion, one that does it in a subtle way.. she was flirting with him all right.. he asked the ladies what it meant.. well.. that's what it means in my book

Hmmm, I see your point.
I personally think that it's acceptable to be subtle...it's harmless, in itself. But, it is the gate into more significant transgressions, so I do have to acknowledge your point, lol.

misterme · 08-15-2004, 08:02 PM

Best thing for you to do

Show her this THREAD!

pussyluver · 08-15-2004, 08:03 PM

In the end, she'll break your heart! Date older woman that have their feet on the ground.

You're in too deep to treat this as just a sex thing...

beergood · 08-15-2004, 08:04 PM

serial snuggler her

Tom_PMs · 08-15-2004, 08:10 PM

How about you be truthful about your feelings. No I'm not BS'ing you or being a dick.

Just tell her that you're not sure if it's appropriate or not, and you dont know how she'll feel about it, but would she like to get together sometime for a drink or a meal?

A woman will spot a line you didn't even know was a line man..

Just lay it out there like it really is, and do it when you're capable of hearing a yes *or* a no. Good luck.

Screaming · 08-15-2004, 08:17 PM

invite her to a social event like a party or such and see if she comes and then go from there

p1mpdogg · 08-15-2004, 08:42 PM

tomorrow i should know how she really feels cause her friends are gonna tell me after they talk to her and feel her out

no way in hell am i putting my ass out on a line risking the chance of being shot down. i like to go in prepared knowing the outcome of certian sitations. this is one of them...

so asking her out isnt gonna happen till i can confirm she is interested.. if she isnt, then this was alla huge waste and i feel like a total idiot lol

Spunky · 08-15-2004, 08:46 PM

Ask her if she needs her feet rubbed...chicks dig that

pushpills · 08-15-2004, 08:49 PM

kill her and put her in the freezer. thaw her out as needed.

Face (o_0) · 08-15-2004, 08:51 PM

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Originally posted by kak_azn
Just ask her out! one of 2 things will happen 50/50 chance yes or no! if she says no then become friends with her bf then you will be around her get him and her all wasted get some of your buddys to kick it with him and get him drunk then find a nice quit place and fuck the shit out of her!

worst plan EVAR

PurrrsianPussyKat · 08-15-2004, 11:37 PM

Hot chick working in a place rich men hang out = 98% chance of her being a gold digger.

p1mpdogg · 08-15-2004, 11:45 PM

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Originally posted by PurrrsianPussyKat
Hot chick working in a place rich men hang out = 98% chance of her being a gold digger.

you got a point

pxxx · 08-15-2004, 11:50 PM

I think that you should just give her some attention but not a lot. Let her know that you are digging her, but at the same time, make her understand that she is expandable. Girls love guys that don't try to hard, or try to get shady with things. I don't think having her friends with her is a good idea, but thats me. I understand you don't want to put yourself on the line but if she finds out about the whole friend thing, it will lower the way she looks at you.

There are many ways you can handle this, but either way you choose, good luck p1mp.

Tam · 08-16-2004, 12:17 AM

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Originally posted by stocktrader23
Just tell her friends you have the biggest crush on her but you aren't one to get in the way of somebody's relationship. Tell them that if she ever breaks up with her current boyfriend to let you know so you can tell her how you feel and leave your phone number with them.

Wait on them to blab immediately and find out how she feels.

There you go... ANYONE who knows girls, knows they are going to talk.. and they are going to talk fast. BUT, be nice to the girls so they will like you enough to talk you up if she ever does dump the guy....... IF you piss off the girls, you are dead in the water before you even get your foot in it.

I AM a girl..... yeah, so I know damn well how this works and it WILL, if she isn't interested in him anymore, and is interested in you, chances are, she may be waiting for an opening to see where you are on it. She isn't going to dump this guy and have nothing, she'll wait and see if she has a chance with you first.... IF she is interested in you, that is. But telling her friends/co-workers is the best way to get it to her..... but be casual about it. LOL

08-11-2004, 11:40 PM	#1
p1mpdogg Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 16,714	ok serious post.. dating question! ladies help! ok ok.. I golf about 3 times a week locally. there is this girl that works at the course that is simply amazing. beautiful, blonde, great body, great sense of humor, natural beauty(no makeup or very very ilight) and i love that about her. nice rack too, but that doesnt matter to me. anyways let me lay it out for you. i have had a crush on her for atleast 3 months, but she has a idiot boyfriend, but i am not one to get in the way of love, so i keep my distance. its getting ahrder and harder to stay away. today my buddy put me on the spot cause he knows i like her a ton and said some shit infront of her and i told him to stop, that i dont need him to speak for me and it was embarassing and i made a joke out of it to not look stupid. she laughed a bit and a second later said 'well maybe he just hasnt found a girl worth going after' while she was looking right at me and was smiling. WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!? i know she is bored with her current dumbass boyfriend.. so thats a plus, and i always treat her well and am very polite to her, but she knows i party and get wasted and have a good time etc... __________________ A fast fortune is easy to earn! Just go with a winner!

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WiredGuy Pounding Googlebot Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 34,485	Find a situation where you can take her out, maybe not just you and her, invite her for drinks or something after a round of golf (I assume there's a bar at the golf place), and just have her drop by. Won't be that awkward for her since its not just you two and you can lay down the pimp hand. WG __________________ I play with Google.

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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	she knows u go golfing 3 times a week, probly buy a few beers each time u pass her which equals she knows u got money, and r probly influenced by good looking girls. stay away and fucking chill fooo

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BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	meta is right. tap it and leave the tire biter at home.

08-11-2004, 11:46 PM	#5
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kmanrox aka K-Man Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: The Gutter Posts: 29,292	play it cool, you'll hit it... she'll go nuts wondering what itd be like to be with ya

08-11-2004, 11:54 PM	#13
pine Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: The Falls, eh Posts: 1,373	Dude, you run a fucking program. Get a grip. You have no time for golf OR babes. Get back to work.

08-11-2004, 11:59 PM	#16
kak_azn So Fucking Banned Join Date: May 2004 Location: TEXAS BAN Posts: 3,055	Just ask her out! one of 2 things will happen 50/50 chance yes or no! if she says no then become friends with her bf then you will be around her get him and her all wasted get some of your buddys to kick it with him and get him drunk then find a nice quit place and fuck the shit out of her!

08-15-2004, 05:48 PM	#18
Monkey Babe Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 6	Does she golf or just work there? If she golfs, invite her to play (maybe at a diffferent course) and that'll give you a good 4 hours to get the scoop about her and the boyfriend. By the 18th hole you'll know whether there's opportunity or if she's just a flirt. If there seems to be a possibility, THEN as her out. But just start with a casual "round of golf" and use it to gather info and scope her situation. You may even find her totally irritating by the end of the round and your crush gone.

08-15-2004, 05:54 PM	#20
TheGoldenChild Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Pacific Palisades Posts: 6,940	Ask her next time if she is available to come out and help you wash your balls- It should definitely provoke some reaction- If that doesn't work...tell her you'd like to " birdie her hole" __________________

08-15-2004, 06:04 PM	#23
tical Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 6,504	1. bring her and her friend to vegas 2. we'll get hammered 3. you can bone her and i'll bone her friend 4. take them home 5. get on gfy and start a new thread

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08-15-2004, 07:07 PM	#28
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	Well, she has a man....so you'll want to watch how she deals with this situation carefully, because if she takes you on the side, even if she "plans on" leaving him, she'd do it to you too if things cool off between you. That said, I would take her aside, and CALMLY tell her that you respect her relationship, but that you would really like to get to know her better if the opportunity ever arose...she'll either take it as, when/if she is single again, in which case, you know she's an honest girl who is worth waiting for (not saying don't get your groove on in the meantime, that's not necessary....I'm sure she's getting some while she's with the dude so there's no reason you shouldn't get some ass, too) or she'll think you mean on the side, and in that case, ride it as long as it lasts, but don't plan on anything else because she cheats. If she's not interested, it shouldn't make things weird b/c you didn't exactly ask her out, ya know. It's nice to see you sound so sincere about a chick...I hope she's worth it! Hugs, Chase

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graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	if you do go after this girl.. just remember, you'll be in the position of being the next dumbass boyfriend standing there while she flirts with the next guy

08-15-2004, 08:02 PM	#34
misterme Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 59	Best thing for you to do Show her this THREAD!

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pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	In the end, she'll break your heart! Date older woman that have their feet on the ground. You're in too deep to treat this as just a sex thing...

08-15-2004, 08:04 PM	#36
beergood Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: United States Posts: 2,918	serial snuggler her

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Tom_PMs Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 2,049	How about you be truthful about your feelings. No I'm not BS'ing you or being a dick. Just tell her that you're not sure if it's appropriate or not, and you dont know how she'll feel about it, but would she like to get together sometime for a drink or a meal? A woman will spot a line you didn't even know was a line man.. Just lay it out there like it really is, and do it when you're capable of hearing a yes or a no. Good luck. __________________ You've read it, you can't unread it.

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Screaming I can change this!!!!! Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 18,972	invite her to a social event like a party or such and see if she comes and then go from there __________________

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p1mpdogg Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 16,714	tomorrow i should know how she really feels cause her friends are gonna tell me after they talk to her and feel her out no way in hell am i putting my ass out on a line risking the chance of being shot down. i like to go in prepared knowing the outcome of certian sitations. this is one of them... so asking her out isnt gonna happen till i can confirm she is interested.. if she isnt, then this was alla huge waste and i feel like a total idiot lol __________________ A fast fortune is easy to earn! Just go with a winner!

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08-15-2004, 08:49 PM	#41
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08-15-2004, 11:37 PM	#43
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08-15-2004, 11:50 PM	#45
pxxx First African GFY Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,114	I think that you should just give her some attention but not a lot. Let her know that you are digging her, but at the same time, make her understand that she is expandable. Girls love guys that don't try to hard, or try to get shady with things. I don't think having her friends with her is a good idea, but thats me. I understand you don't want to put yourself on the line but if she finds out about the whole friend thing, it will lower the way she looks at you. There are many ways you can handle this, but either way you choose, good luck p1mp.