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187 · 06-10-2004, 03:28 PM

I stayed up all night so I had to sleep all day, I talked to her this morning

I told her she could hang out with her brother Jimmy and his and her friend Matt, but if Jimmy left or if any guys showed up she had to leave

Well some mentally handicapped person named Stevie showed up, Jimmy's girlfriend picked him up and she stayed at Matt's house with Matt and Stevie. My friends Amber and Jessica showed up there and they all hung out for a little

She told me that Her, Jimmy, Matt, Amber, and Jess hung out

She didn't tell me that her brother wasn't there for some of the day

I called up Amber and asked who was there

"Jimmys girlfriend picked him up it was just Matt Danielle and Stevie when I got there"

Now I can't trust her anymore, What's a relationship without trust?

Did I do the right thing? Is it wrong for me to give her another chance? I need some good insight, GFY probably isn't the best place to ask for some but I know a bunch of you are older and more intelligent than I am

Discuss

digi · 06-10-2004, 03:30 PM

at you dictating who she can be friends with, she should dump you.

aflex · 06-10-2004, 03:30 PM

so what exactly did she do wrong?

sexyclicks · 06-10-2004, 03:30 PM

sorry for that bro,
Stevie

187 · 06-10-2004, 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by digi
at you dictating who she can be friends with, she should dump you.

she does the same to me and I don't hang out with ANY girls because of it

Quote:

Originally posted by aflex
so what exactly did she do wrong?

she lied to me about who she was hanging out with, she was alone with 2 guys and said she was with her brother

alecb · 06-10-2004, 03:32 PM

consider yourself lucky enough to have a girlfriend stay with you if you feel it necessary to try to tell her under what circumstances she can hang out with other people

Syl · 06-10-2004, 03:33 PM

You have issues. Even though it was a small lie she shouldn't have lied, but she probably knew you would over react as you obviously have. Phew I am glad to be single sometimes.

187 · 06-10-2004, 03:33 PM

hellooo

SHE LIED TO ME, THAT'S WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT

JSA Matt · 06-10-2004, 03:34 PM

I think the more you try to control her, the more she will want to stray. It's like telling kids not to smoke cigarettes...

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 06-10-2004, 03:34 PM

realtionship will not last.. you don't trust one another..

It is no way to live..get over it or move on

187 · 06-10-2004, 03:36 PM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
realtionship will not last.. you don't trust one another..

It is no way to live..get over it or move on

sigh that's what i was thinking

LuvJen · 06-10-2004, 03:36 PM

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I think the more you try to control her, the more she will want to stray. It's like telling kids not to smoke cigarettes...

What he said...

Rankings · 06-10-2004, 03:37 PM

do you have to have a good reason? do what you want to do

Jace · 06-10-2004, 03:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by digi
at you dictating who she can be friends with, she should dump you.

187 · 06-10-2004, 03:39 PM

yeah and at her lying i dumped her

cherrylula · 06-10-2004, 03:40 PM

damn do you pick out her clothes too?

Monique Niccole · 06-10-2004, 03:42 PM

And I thought the O.C. was done for the season.

Rob · 06-10-2004, 03:42 PM

Damn dude, how old are you? 15? Get some confidence in yourself and try not to give a fuck who your girl hangs out with. The reason she lied to you was because she knew you'd get all fucked up over it: which you did.

Don't dictate who she hangs out with and maybe she won't lie to you about it. Ever think of that?

phpslave · 06-10-2004, 03:43 PM

you all have some serious trust issues. doesn't sound like either one of your trust yourself or one another. doesn't sound like a serious relationship, however i hope it was fun.

aSStig · 06-10-2004, 03:44 PM

you're such a possessive guy . . . . . .

man like you should be loved more,

but a man like you should buy TRUST . . . . . not a rubber but Trust to your GF.....

If u couldn't trust her , hangin' with other guys, you must be akind of man who doesn't deserve a TRUST . . . . yoOU'RE A GREAT PLAYER and that's for sure . . . .

phpslave · 06-10-2004, 03:44 PM

shouldn't put your girlfriend in a situation where she feels she has to lie

Steen2 · 06-10-2004, 03:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 187
she does the same to me and I don't hang out with ANY girls because of it

Quote:

My friends Amber and Jessica showed up

187 · 06-10-2004, 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Steen2

I don't hang out with Amber and Jess anymore

candyflip · 06-10-2004, 03:52 PM

That sounds perfectly reasonable...FOR SOMEONE IN HIGHSCHOOL!

bad_girl · 06-10-2004, 03:53 PM

I told her she could hang out with her brother Jimmy and his and her friend Matt, but if Jimmy left or if any guys showed up she had to leave

A little controlling, arent we?

PlayGirl · 06-10-2004, 04:00 PM

you did the right thing

cherrylula · 06-10-2004, 04:02 PM

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Originally posted by Afrekete
And I thought the O.C. was done for the season.

90210 rerun

Strife · 06-10-2004, 04:03 PM

Both of you have trust issues

Syl · 06-10-2004, 04:04 PM

So what was her response when you dumped her???

BigG · 06-10-2004, 04:07 PM

Remember that guys never want to be ?just friends? with a girl. If a guy is hanging out with a girl (or girls) he is only doing so with the hope of it somehow leading to sex or a sex act of some sort.

Rule #1

A guy will only hang out with a girl if:

1. He has already had sex with her
2. He wants to have sex with her
3. He wants to have sex with her friend

Rule #2

Girls are well aware of Rule #1 so if your girlfriend is hanging out with guys, she:

1. Already had sex with one (or more) of the guys
2. Wants to have sex with one (or more) of the guys
3. Wants to steal one (or more) of the guys who want to have sex with her friend

serious · 06-10-2004, 04:08 PM

Is this a joke?

PlayGirl · 06-10-2004, 04:11 PM

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Originally posted by serious
Is this a joke?

he sounds pretty .. serious

BigG · 06-10-2004, 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by serious
Is this a joke?

I'm sure you've heard this a million times but your post would have been really funny had you said it this way,

"Are you serious?"

See? It would become a who's on first thing.

Are you serious?
No, you are serious.
Ya, but are you serious?
How can I be serious if you are serious?
Exactly.
Well, I am not joking.
So you are serious?
No, I told you . . . you are serious!
Etc.

Doctor Dre · 06-10-2004, 04:16 PM

Did you ever lie to her ? small lies kill nobody

BigG · 06-10-2004, 04:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Doctor Dre
Did you ever lie to her ? small lies kill nobody

When a man lies he murders
Some part of the world
These are the pale deaths which
Men miscall their lives
All this I cannot bear
To witness any longer
Cannot the kingdom of salvation
Take me home

Strife · 06-10-2004, 04:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BigG
Remember that guys never want to be ?just friends? with a girl. If a guy is hanging out with a girl (or girls) he is only doing so with the hope of it somehow leading to sex or a sex act of some sort.

Rule #1

A guy will only hang out with a girl if:

1. He has already had sex with her
2. He wants to have sex with her
3. He wants to have sex with her friend

Rule #2

Girls are well aware of Rule #1 so if your girlfriend is hanging out with guys, she:

1. Already had sex with one (or more) of the guys
2. Wants to have sex with one (or more) of the guys
3. Wants to steal one (or more) of the guys
who want to have sex with her friend

Rule #1 is true for the most part but I don't agree at all with Rule#2. While guys may not want to be "just friend" girls do.

strobi · 06-10-2004, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Doctor Dre
Did you ever lie to her ? small lies kill nobody

AMADude · 06-10-2004, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by digi
at you dictating who she can be friends with, she should dump you.

molotov · 06-10-2004, 04:24 PM

dont worry get another girl

NoCarrier · 06-10-2004, 04:25 PM

You have to face the fact that some girls love 2 dicks at the same time. And they love it when it's done illegally.

goBigtime · 06-10-2004, 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 187

she lied to me about who she was hanging out with, she was alone with 2 guys and said she was with her brother

Well she definitely had a gangbang then.

Good thing you broke up with her.

NaughtyAllie · 06-10-2004, 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by digi
at you dictating who she can be friends with, she should dump you.

That's what I was thinking.

bopha · 06-10-2004, 04:26 PM

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Originally posted by HighOnAcid
Damn dude, how old are you? 15?

That was my first response. Doesn't sound like a very mature relationship.

jawanda · 06-10-2004, 04:28 PM

You and your girlfriend both suffer from an extreme inability to trust and deep-rooted insecurity when it comes to relationships.

You need to forget about her and figure out why you would put yourself in a situation of 'being' with someone who you can't even trust to be in the room with other guys.

Is that really anyway to live?

Come on man, what's REALLY going on with you?

BigG · 06-10-2004, 04:29 PM

OJ Simpson thinks you should decapitate your girlfriend. He feels that it would be symbolic for you to do it on this Saturday (the 12th) because it will be exactly 10 years to the day that he killed Nicole and Ron.

Matt Frackas · 06-10-2004, 04:30 PM

yep

Time to grow up.

She lied because your placing unreasonable rules on her.

Whats the big deal about the company shes's hanging around?
Is it an ex-boyfriend? or whats the deal?

NBDesign · 06-10-2004, 04:31 PM

Quote:

I told her she could hang out with her brother Jimmy and his and her friend Matt, but if Jimmy left or if any guys showed up she had to leave

Sounds like you didn't trust her to begin with.

Matt Frackas · 06-10-2004, 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BigG
Remember that guys never want to be ?just friends? with a girl. If a guy is hanging out with a girl (or girls) he is only doing so with the hope of it somehow leading to sex or a sex act of some sort.

Rule #1

A guy will only hang out with a girl if:

1. He has already had sex with her
2. He wants to have sex with her
3. He wants to have sex with her friend

Rule #2

Girls are well aware of Rule #1 so if your girlfriend is hanging out with guys, she:

1. Already had sex with one (or more) of the guys
2. Wants to have sex with one (or more) of the guys
3. Wants to steal one (or more) of the guys who want to have sex with her friend

a ha ha.
Thats funny and true ...but also depending on the situation.

DutchTeenCash · 06-10-2004, 04:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 187
hellooo

SHE LIED TO ME, THAT'S WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT

believe me thats not it like many others here said if you tell her what to do and she tells you what to do you dont have a relationship its give and take not command

BigG · 06-10-2004, 04:36 PM

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Originally posted by jawanda
Come on man, what's REALLY going on with you?

If you are a guy, then tell me what you would think if your girlfriend/wife told you she was hanging out with her brother and you found out she wasn't? In fact, she was hanging out with some guys that you KNOW she would be physically attracted to and her brother was nowhere in sight.
What do you do later when you are getting ready for bed and she is telling you that you are "obsessive" and "immature" but as she takes off her pants you notice her underwear is on backwards and it also has cum on it??? Then what?

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187 Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: ICQ: 59-10-33 Posts: 493	I just broke up with my girlfriend, do you think this is a good enough reason? I stayed up all night so I had to sleep all day, I talked to her this morning I told her she could hang out with her brother Jimmy and his and her friend Matt, but if Jimmy left or if any guys showed up she had to leave Well some mentally handicapped person named Stevie showed up, Jimmy's girlfriend picked him up and she stayed at Matt's house with Matt and Stevie. My friends Amber and Jessica showed up there and they all hung out for a little She told me that Her, Jimmy, Matt, Amber, and Jess hung out She didn't tell me that her brother wasn't there for some of the day I called up Amber and asked who was there "Jimmys girlfriend picked him up it was just Matt Danielle and Stevie when I got there" Now I can't trust her anymore, What's a relationship without trust? Did I do the right thing? Is it wrong for me to give her another chance? I need some good insight, GFY probably isn't the best place to ask for some but I know a bunch of you are older and more intelligent than I am Discuss __________________ wtf? free traffic? ww.netr.nu is slick business you sheep

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