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SuckOnThis · 06-06-2004, 12:11 AM

I've known this girl for about 12 years and she was married for most of the time. About a year ago she left her husband and not long after that we started seeing each other. During that time all I ever heard was how she couldnt stand her husband and there was no way she would ever go back to him.

Then about 2 months ago I noticed she started talking to him more and in a much nicer tone, and was complaining about money problems so I knew what was coming. By then I was completely in love with her but I know you can't force someone to stay with you so I accepted the probable outcome. I asked her if she was thinking of going back to him and she told me she was thinking about it because of the kids and financial reasons, but she didnt know what to do because I was the one she really loved. I told her she should go back to him, I knew if she did it wouldnt last and I didnt want to be with her if she wasnt sure if it was the right decision.

So over the past 2 months she has been going back and forth between me and him. Even though I knew it was just a matter of time I figured I would enjoy it while I could. The whole time she would tell me she's confused, that she never loved anyone like me, she can't let me go, and that she can't even stand being touched by her husband.

Then a few days ago her husband calls me and tells me that she's been telling him the only reason she talks to me is because I help her with her bills, which is untrue, and she's been telling him how much she loves him and can't stand me. Basically everything she has said to me about him.

I was devastated someone I thought I knew so well and loved could be so deceptive. So I printed out all the chat logs between me and her for the past few weeks (about 30 pages) of her telling me how she loves me and he makes her sick, etc...all kinds of good shit. Then I faxed them to the business he owns where his most of his family works, including his mom, for all to see. Well they all saw the fax.

Even though a part of me thinks she had it coming I now feel like shit for doing it. Whether or not she loved me is irrelevant, I loved her and should not have tried to fuck her up no matter what she did.

Am I wrong for feeling bad about this?

OY · 06-06-2004, 12:20 AM

69pornlinks · 06-06-2004, 12:22 AM

can you sum it up in 4 words or less......

Anna_O · 06-06-2004, 12:24 AM

That was actually pretty childish of you... You hurt him and his family more than you hurt her.

69pornlinks · 06-06-2004, 12:27 AM

now if he kill the tramp becasue of these logs, her blood is on your hands.....why you put salt in the game, you supposed to stayed true and kept what went on between you two....fucking sissy......

EviLGuY · 06-06-2004, 12:31 AM

Sounds about right to me.. but then I live for revenge.. so...

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 06-06-2004, 12:37 AM

Ya did the perfect dawg

Nice one

Lycanthrope · 06-06-2004, 12:40 AM

Sounds like she was playing both of you so I say she deserved it. Yes it might have hurt him and his family more than her, (and if this is so, she is heartless), but sometimes brutal honesty is the only thing that works. Women can sometimes talk to "the other" women and figure out their man is a snake... but men can't do it without thumping each other's heads in.

I'd say you did the best possible thing... now walk away and don't look back.

sinkiss · 06-06-2004, 12:41 AM

what u did might not have been nice or right, but what she is doing isnt nice or right either. sounds like she was playing you both to see which one of u would give her the better deal. sorry, but thats how it sounds

Chris · 06-06-2004, 12:47 AM

are you stupid or what? she straight told you she had to go back to him for $$$ reasons and she has to keep HIM happy aswell so she can get that cheddah from him ... so she had to make it seem like your worthless or whatever so he doesnt catch on to anything

you FUCKED your self here buddy

say good bye to the girl you are " in love " with

think before you fax shit over

SuckOnThis · 06-06-2004, 12:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lycanthrope
Sounds like she was playing both of you so I say she deserved it. Yes it might have hurt him and his family more than her, (and if this is so, she is heartless), but sometimes brutal honesty is the only thing that works.

In some ways I think she did deserve it and I felt the truth needed to be shown. But I can't help to feel all I did was cause more problems for her.

BTW, I seriously doubt it hurt his family, they did not like her at all and from what I heard they all thought it was great. Him I'm sure it hurt but he also deserves to know the truth.

majortom · 06-06-2004, 12:59 AM

Local Joke;

It's your girlfriend?
No, it's a rental...

Co-ownership can have it's advantages when maintenance cost are high..

Well, you still have the vids I hope....

Relax, c'est la vie...

bringer · 06-06-2004, 01:00 AM

you could of handled it better
instead of faxing for the whole family to see, you could of mailed it to him. atleast he could of saved face with his family

SuckOnThis · 06-06-2004, 01:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by JupZChris
are you stupid or what? she straight told you she had to go back to him for $$$ reasons and she has to keep HIM happy aswell so she can get that cheddah from him ... so she had to make it seem like your worthless or whatever so he doesnt catch on to anything

you FUCKED your self here buddy

say good bye to the girl you are " in love " with

think before you fax shit over

Yep, you're right. But what bothered me is that she constantly lied to me about it. She knew I was okay with her going back, and I'd ask her what she was telling him about me and she would always say 'I tell him that what me and you have is special but for the kids maybe we should give it another chance'. I should have known better but she is pretty damn convincing.

bringer · 06-06-2004, 01:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SuckOnThis
Yep, you're right. But what bothered me is that she constantly lied to me about it. She knew I was okay with her going back, and I'd ask her what she was telling him about me and she would always say 'I tell him that what me and you have is special but for the kids maybe we should give it another chance'. I should have known better but she is pretty damn convincing.

was she convincing or did you just want some oral?

SuckOnThis · 06-06-2004, 12:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by bringer
was she convincing or did you just want some oral?

Both.

MetaMan · 06-06-2004, 12:16 PM

HAHAHHAAHAHAHA NICE!

i fucking love when scandelous bitches get shot down, hopefully u fucked that bitch in the ass hard before u sent her back to hubby.

i would have done the same things, some girls need to get a foot in their ass to wake up.

Spunky · 06-06-2004, 12:16 PM

Agreed...that was a dumb thing to do,but you should have known her baggage will get in the way...shouldn't have been invovled in the first place

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 06-06-2004, 12:19 PM

ya live, ya learn..sounds like she got what she deserved.. play games with people emotions for her own sake.. if she was thinking about her children.. you would have never been in the picture as a boyfriend.

what the fuck is wrong with honesty between people these days.. idiots.. lies are harder to remember and harder to keep going.

Diabolical Cord · 06-06-2004, 12:25 PM

You really think they passed the fax around the office for everyone to see?

angelsofporn · 06-06-2004, 12:25 PM

i have a bong to clean

eiht_98 · 06-06-2004, 12:42 PM

haha...nice...I don't know if I'd do the same but congrats to you

Hank_Heartland · 06-06-2004, 12:44 PM

SuckOnThis,

That was fuckin great

If I ever get fucked my some two-timing, lying bitch like that...I hope you are around to get some advice from

She didn't get near what she deserves...you should have kicked her ass and then sent her to her ex for him to kick her ass...

Move on to the next babe and forget that bitch! She ain't worth it!!!

Cheers my brutha...you my hero

marko13 · 06-06-2004, 12:54 PM

you could write it in 5 sentence... long text are not for board like this

bad_girl · 06-06-2004, 04:24 PM

I feel for the children. Oh what a tangled web we wieve.

thumbsUP · 06-06-2004, 06:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by EviLGuY
Sounds about right to me.. but then I live for revenge.. so...

true in my book

Doctor Dre · 06-06-2004, 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Anna_O
That was actually pretty childish of you... You hurt him and his family more than you hurt her.

Ugh ? I think he did the right thing ... women that use mans for money or whatever deserve to be exposed .

doober · 06-06-2004, 06:43 PM

there are always 3 sides to a story and you my friend have acted solely on emotion....

summary: >> You fucked up large <<

Mr. Marks · 06-06-2004, 07:40 PM

sorry to say this, man. but i think you did the wrong thing. i do believe you should have confronted her and all about it, but you should have left her family alone--theyre innocent.

shes the one who was screwin you up, not her fam.

confrontaions are ok, not arguments.

dont forget your lesson next time.

spamofon · 06-06-2004, 07:46 PM

smokingdawn · 06-06-2004, 07:54 PM

Sounds kinda childish to me

cypocrypt · 06-06-2004, 07:58 PM

really immature IMO
now on a diff note, always keep in mind you cant turn a whore into a housewife...and her going back and forth with you and him should have set off the alarms

misty_dayz · 06-06-2004, 08:05 PM

Well obviously I can't say for sure since I don't know any of you....but in my humble opinion you fucked up big time.

First, read your own words "she told her husband that i helped her out with bills and that was the only reason she talked to me"
But you say you never helped her with bills, that means she was lying to her husband...why would she lie? to cover the real reason she talked to you...and since it wasn't money...had to be you but she couldn't exactly tell him that.

I won't even get into the crap about the fax, you already know you fucked up there...but i'm not so sure you have figured out that there is a chance she never lied or decieved you...it was her husband she was lying to...not you.

reynold · 06-06-2004, 08:16 PM

Grow up, dude!

alias · 06-06-2004, 08:19 PM

swoit

tranza · 06-06-2004, 08:21 PM

Post too long, I didn't read it....

ThunderBalls · 06-06-2004, 08:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by smokingdawn
Sounds kinda childish to me

Funny how the females in here are putting this dude down for exposing this bitch for what she was, guess you all can relate to playing games and fucking with peoples emotions.

pimplink · 06-06-2004, 10:46 PM

Fucked it big time!!!
Golly it was always enlightening to see some dude have conscience afterall. Well anyway the girl's a certified bitch and so try not to be an easy prey next time!

06-06-2004, 12:11 AM	#1
SuckOnThis So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: In my head Posts: 6,844	Damn, I really fucked up this time I've known this girl for about 12 years and she was married for most of the time. About a year ago she left her husband and not long after that we started seeing each other. During that time all I ever heard was how she couldnt stand her husband and there was no way she would ever go back to him. Then about 2 months ago I noticed she started talking to him more and in a much nicer tone, and was complaining about money problems so I knew what was coming. By then I was completely in love with her but I know you can't force someone to stay with you so I accepted the probable outcome. I asked her if she was thinking of going back to him and she told me she was thinking about it because of the kids and financial reasons, but she didnt know what to do because I was the one she really loved. I told her she should go back to him, I knew if she did it wouldnt last and I didnt want to be with her if she wasnt sure if it was the right decision. So over the past 2 months she has been going back and forth between me and him. Even though I knew it was just a matter of time I figured I would enjoy it while I could. The whole time she would tell me she's confused, that she never loved anyone like me, she can't let me go, and that she can't even stand being touched by her husband. Then a few days ago her husband calls me and tells me that she's been telling him the only reason she talks to me is because I help her with her bills, which is untrue, and she's been telling him how much she loves him and can't stand me. Basically everything she has said to me about him. I was devastated someone I thought I knew so well and loved could be so deceptive. So I printed out all the chat logs between me and her for the past few weeks (about 30 pages) of her telling me how she loves me and he makes her sick, etc...all kinds of good shit. Then I faxed them to the business he owns where his most of his family works, including his mom, for all to see. Well they all saw the fax. Even though a part of me thinks she had it coming I now feel like shit for doing it. Whether or not she loved me is irrelevant, I loved her and should not have tried to fuck her up no matter what she did. Am I wrong for feeling bad about this?

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EviLGuY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: malta Posts: 12,745	Sounds about right to me.. but then I live for revenge.. so...

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Lycanthrope Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 4,517	Sounds like she was playing both of you so I say she deserved it. Yes it might have hurt him and his family more than her, (and if this is so, she is heartless), but sometimes brutal honesty is the only thing that works. Women can sometimes talk to "the other" women and figure out their man is a snake... but men can't do it without thumping each other's heads in. I'd say you did the best possible thing... now walk away and don't look back. __________________

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sinkiss Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 666	what u did might not have been nice or right, but what she is doing isnt nice or right either. sounds like she was playing you both to see which one of u would give her the better deal. sorry, but thats how it sounds __________________ erotic writer for all your writing needs! email sinkiss AT sinfulkisses.com icq: 220-642-229

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Chris Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: icq: 71462500 Skype: Jupzchris Posts: 27,880	are you stupid or what? she straight told you she had to go back to him for $$$ reasons and she has to keep HIM happy aswell so she can get that cheddah from him ... so she had to make it seem like your worthless or whatever so he doesnt catch on to anything you FUCKED your self here buddy say good bye to the girl you are " in love " with think before you fax shit over __________________ [email protected]

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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	HAHAHHAAHAHAHA NICE! i fucking love when scandelous bitches get shot down, hopefully u fucked that bitch in the ass hard before u sent her back to hubby. i would have done the same things, some girls need to get a foot in their ass to wake up.

06-06-2004, 12:16 PM	#18
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C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	ya live, ya learn..sounds like she got what she deserved.. play games with people emotions for her own sake.. if she was thinking about her children.. you would have never been in the picture as a boyfriend. what the fuck is wrong with honesty between people these days.. idiots.. lies are harder to remember and harder to keep going.

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Diabolical Cord Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 447	You really think they passed the fax around the office for everyone to see?

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eiht_98 Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: EU Posts: 6,103	haha...nice...I don't know if I'd do the same but congrats to you

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06-06-2004, 06:43 PM	#28
doober Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: in yoOoo kitchen Posts: 6,984	there are always 3 sides to a story and you my friend have acted solely on emotion.... summary: >> You fucked up large <<

06-06-2004, 07:40 PM	#29
Mr. Marks Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Wherever I want Posts: 7,517	sorry to say this, man. but i think you did the wrong thing. i do believe you should have confronted her and all about it, but you should have left her family alone--theyre innocent. shes the one who was screwin you up, not her fam. confrontaions are ok, not arguments. dont forget your lesson next time.

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cypocrypt Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: New York and on icq 108422465 Posts: 1,851	really immature IMO now on a diff note, always keep in mind you cant turn a whore into a housewife...and her going back and forth with you and him should have set off the alarms

06-06-2004, 08:05 PM	#33
misty_dayz Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: The bank with all the cash Posts: 475	Well obviously I can't say for sure since I don't know any of you....but in my humble opinion you fucked up big time. First, read your own words "she told her husband that i helped her out with bills and that was the only reason she talked to me" But you say you never helped her with bills, that means she was lying to her husband...why would she lie? to cover the real reason she talked to you...and since it wasn't money...had to be you but she couldn't exactly tell him that. I won't even get into the crap about the fax, you already know you fucked up there...but i'm not so sure you have figured out that there is a chance she never lied or decieved you...it was her husband she was lying to...not you.

06-06-2004, 08:16 PM	#34
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06-06-2004, 10:46 PM	#38
pimplink Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Closer than you think Posts: 9,535	Fucked it big time!!! Golly it was always enlightening to see some dude have conscience afterall. Well anyway the girl's a certified bitch and so try not to be an easy prey next time! __________________ Need Mainstream Content and SEO? SEO * Website Copy * Blogs Blogging - PR Work - Forum Marketing - Social Marketing - Link building - Articles 100% Guaranteed Content!