Heres convo with her?? is she a gold digger? - GoFuckYourself.com

xxweekxx · 05-26-2004, 01:10 PM

ME (3:54:30 PM): ive been talking to this dude
HER (3:54:34 PM): ?
ME (3:54:34 PM): wanna invest in some shit, but
ME (3:54:44 PM): it means like all my $$ will be tied away for sometime.lol
ME (3:54:47 PM): so i'll be broke
ME (3:54:48 PM): haha
HER (3:54:48 PM): whoaa
HER (3:54:55 PM): are u gonna do it>?
ME (3:54:57 PM): yup
HER (3:55:04 PM): what?
ME (3:55:07 PM): yea
HER (3:55:09 PM): thats sooo werid
ME (3:55:11 PM): yea
HER (3:55:18 PM): do u know if its gonna work?
ME (3:55:29 PM): yup 100% sure
ME (3:55:32 PM): only downside is
ME (3:55:38 PM): u have no money for sometime
HER (3:56:04 PM): how long/
HER (3:56:09 PM): couple of months?
ME (3:57:01 PM): maybe more.hehe i mean i can still afford to pay bills like car/phone
ME (3:57:06 PM): just wont have $$ to do other shit
HER (3:57:12 PM): like eat?
ME (3:57:27 PM): lol i can eat, just not expensive places..
HER (3:57:37 PM): lol
ME (3:57:46 PM): BK here i come :-)
ME (3:57:48 PM): mcdonalds too
HER (3:58:03 PM): awww
HER (3:58:05 PM): bum bum
HER (3:58:46 PM): bum bum, come on a train
ME (3:58:50 PM): oh
ME (3:58:51 PM): when
HER (3:59:10 PM): um
HER (3:59:18 PM): whenever u can
ME (3:59:35 PM): when do u want me to come
HER (3:59:42 PM): today!
HER (4:02:10 PM): um...
HER (4:02:14 PM): today?
ME (4:04:09 PM): naw
ME (4:04:12 PM): not today
HER (4:04:26 PM): oh
HER (4:04:56 PM): ok
HER (4:08:28 PM): ok..since ive been put on hold
HER (4:08:31 PM): by you
HER (4:08:40 PM): ill tell you some stuff that i like about you
HER (4:08:44 PM): um....lets see
HER (4:09:02 PM): first of all, you're sweet and nice and oh! so lovable
HER (4:09:08 PM): ur like my bum bum for life
HER (4:09:11 PM): and beyond
HER (4:09:38 PM): and
HER (4:09:42 PM): i miss you
HER (4:09:48 PM): everday second that ur not with me
HER (4:09:55 PM): and i think about you everyday
HER (4:09:58 PM): every minute
HER (4:10:00 PM): every hour

COMMENTS?

Jeff aka NIGHTfall · 05-26-2004, 01:12 PM

can you not see it youself?

ME (3:55:38 PM): u have no money for sometime
HER (3:56:04 PM): how long/

candyflip · 05-26-2004, 01:13 PM

Doesn't sound like a gold digger to me. You said you'd be broke for a few months and she still had nice things to say about you.

Screaming · 05-26-2004, 01:13 PM

from that i would say no shes not a gold digger but hun they all can play the role if they want to or suspect you think they are and dont want them to be, some men dont care if they are there for the money or not just want them there

Phoenix · 05-26-2004, 01:16 PM

how old is she?

xxweekxx · 05-26-2004, 01:17 PM

18, 19 in 2 weeks

candyflip · 05-26-2004, 01:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by xxweekxx
18, 19 in 2 weeks

I've got one of those now too. Just turned 19, but just UNDER my 10 year limit. Thank God I'm only 28

okny · 05-26-2004, 01:21 PM

I seen worse.

Basic_man · 05-26-2004, 01:22 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by candyflip
Doesn't sound like a gold digger to me. You said you'd be broke for a few months and she still had nice things to say about you.

Yeah right! She looks okay to me!

candyflip · 05-26-2004, 01:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Basic_man
Yeah right! She looks okay to me!

She's young...only 19. If she's anything like my little yummy, she's more high maintainence than she is gold digger.

Chris · 05-26-2004, 01:24 PM

what is with bum bum ?

drpimp · 05-26-2004, 01:25 PM

pic?

xxweekxx · 05-26-2004, 01:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by candyflip
She's young...only 19. If she's anything like my little yummy, she's more high maintainence than she is gold digger.

yeah shes high maintenance... and she calls me bum bum as her special name for me.lol

Is high maintenance bad??

XxXotic · 05-26-2004, 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by xxweekxx

Is high maintenance bad??

is that a question you really need to ask?

jmarzlak · 05-26-2004, 01:28 PM

don't get attached, she is still young and dumb dumb

fudpuck · 05-26-2004, 01:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jeff aka NIGHTfall
can you not see it youself?

ME (3:55:38 PM): u have no money for sometime
HER (3:56:04 PM): how long/

Indeed. First thing I noticed.

clickhappy · 05-26-2004, 01:32 PM

why didn't you respond when she said to see you today? you just sat there making her feel uncomfortable.

xxweekxx · 05-26-2004, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by fudpuck
Indeed. First thing I noticed.

lol some say she is, some say she isnt, what do i go with

Linguist · 05-26-2004, 01:38 PM

It's obvious that this thread requires a pic before any other decision can be made

Kassidy · 05-26-2004, 01:44 PM

gold digger - no

Annyoing and immature - yes

xxweekxx · 05-26-2004, 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kassidy
gold digger - no

Annyoing and immature - yes

infecto · 05-26-2004, 01:48 PM

at least she says nice things about you....Ill just get a nice slap in the face after a $120 dinner.

smokingdawn · 05-26-2004, 01:50 PM

Who cares? make up your own mind

Elli · 05-26-2004, 01:51 PM

I'll just pretend you asked for my opinion.

She has golddigger tendencies, even if she's not conciously aware of them.

She's young. She thinks investing in a business is "weird". She thinks a month without money is a long time.

She's rather clingy.

She seems nice at heart, and playful.

It's up to you, but I'd treat her casually, as a fun girl to take out on the town now and then, but not as a long term committment. But that's just my 1.347 cents.

cluck · 05-26-2004, 01:57 PM

Pics please.

StuartD · 05-26-2004, 02:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jeff aka NIGHTfall
can you not see it youself?

ME (3:55:38 PM): u have no money for sometime
HER (3:56:04 PM): how long/

Sounds like concern to me, not for your ability to buy her stuff. If you told me you were putting every last penny into something, I'd probably ask if you're sure and for how long as well. Just seems like a dumb move.

Anyway... that's just my opinion. She just has concern for your well being. Doesn't sound much like a gold digger at all.

Just stop trying to "find a reason" that she'd be with you instead of those other "better looking" guys. The reason is you... not your money. Just accept it, and enjoy it.

All these games and trying to find that "reason" will only end up pushing her away in the end, no matter what the reason ultimately is.

She wants to be with you, accept it.

bizmak · 05-26-2004, 02:34 PM

no she's not! c'mon now .. how many threads do you need to see the obvious

Syl · 05-26-2004, 02:38 PM

Sounds very sweet to me.

candyflip · 05-26-2004, 02:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Elli
It's up to you, but I'd treat her casually, as a fun girl to take out on the town now and then, but not as a long term committment. But that's just my 1.347 cents.

This is the route that I'm taking at the moment. But she's beginning to grow on me. We'll have to revisit this thread a few months from now and see where things stand

bad_girl · 05-26-2004, 02:48 PM

The best way to see if someone is "using" you is this.

Next time you go for dinner, does she buy the movie tickets? When she goes shopping, does she ever pick you up anything? Or if she doesn't have a job, does she do something nice for you -cleanup, cook etc?

She doesnt sound like one, I know if my bf was going through a deal, I would ask him too how long his money would be tied up.

BD

Illicit · 05-26-2004, 02:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by candyflip
I've got one of those now too. Just turned 19, but just UNDER my 10 year limit. Thank God I'm only 28

good combination, train her well

stevecore · 05-26-2004, 02:52 PM

poor bum bum

SmutGiant · 05-26-2004, 03:57 PM

"bum bum" kinda reminds me of that Saved By The Bell episode where Screech makes a ton of money by selling spaghetti sauce and gets that gold digger girlfriend... "awww screechie poo". Not saying she's a gold digger. Just don't spend any money on her for a while and see what happens. If she leaves you, be happy that she did before things got serious. I've been where you are before dude, don't worry about it, eventually you'll see the light hehe.

lilj · 05-26-2004, 03:59 PM

Hmm ok..

maxdaname · 05-26-2004, 04:04 PM

She's a keeper!

dropped9 · 05-26-2004, 04:06 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sjelefall
It's obvious that this thread requires a pic before any other decision can be made

Baal · 05-26-2004, 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kassidy
gold digger - no

Annyoing and immature - yes

I concur.
But there is really no way to tell until you're unemployed and move in with her for a few years

DutchTeenCash · 05-26-2004, 04:08 PM

shes gonna be SO happy when she read this here

VeriSexy · 05-26-2004, 04:10 PM

Sounds like a nice girl

RugbyChode · 05-26-2004, 04:16 PM

doesnt sound gold diggerish to me. I think she is interested in your money situation because you have to go visit her and now she doesnt know when the next time she will get a good meal.

riosluts · 05-26-2004, 04:45 PM

is that how the conversation ended or did u just not paste the rest

init · 05-26-2004, 05:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Elli
I'll just pretend you asked for my opinion.

She has golddigger tendencies, even if she's not conciously aware of them.

She's young. She thinks investing in a business is "weird". She thinks a month without money is a long time.

She's rather clingy.

She seems nice at heart, and playful.

It's up to you, but I'd treat her casually, as a fun girl to take out on the town now and then, but not as a long term committment. But that's just my 1.347 cents.

can i send all my future g/f's to you so you can screen them out for me and only give me the non gold diggers?

TweetyBird · 05-26-2004, 05:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jmarzlak
don't get attached, she is still young and dumb dumb

hehe

SmutGiant · 05-26-2004, 05:55 PM

HER (3:55:18 PM): do u know if its gonna work?
ME (3:55:29 PM): yup 100% sure

I don't know, you should have said something about "the risks involved." What you said almost makes it sound like guaranteed money.

keenertim · 05-26-2004, 05:57 PM

why are you so paranoid about this girl?? sure she doesn't have cash and you have, and that's reason to stay aware... but if your average conversation with her is like this one, what's the reason this is your trillionth post on this subject??

pimplink · 05-26-2004, 06:19 PM

Nah, I don't think she's a gold digger. She's just naturally thoughtful.

chodadog · 05-26-2004, 07:57 PM

Not a gold digger.

fudpuck · 05-26-2004, 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Elli
I'll just pretend you asked for my opinion.

She has golddigger tendencies, even if she's not conciously aware of them.

She's young. She thinks investing in a business is "weird". She thinks a month without money is a long time.

She's rather clingy.

She seems nice at heart, and playful.

It's up to you, but I'd treat her casually, as a fun girl to take out on the town now and then, but not as a long term committment. But that's just my 1.347 cents.

Give yourself credit. That's worth at least

B40 · 05-27-2004, 05:21 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SmutGiant
HER (3:55:18 PM): do u know if its gonna work?
ME (3:55:29 PM): yup 100% sure

I don't know, you should have said something about "the risks involved." What you said almost makes it sound like guaranteed money.

Good point...tell her you could lose everything if this fucks up

TheMob · 05-27-2004, 05:24 AM

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	"bum bum" kinda reminds me of that Saved By The Bell episode where Screech makes a ton of money by selling spaghetti sauce and gets that gold digger girlfriend... "awww screechie poo". Not saying she's a gold digger. Just don't spend any money on her for a while and see what happens. If she leaves you, be happy that she did before things got serious. I've been where you are before dude, don't worry about it, eventually you'll see the light hehe.

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