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Brad Xtremepay · 12-31-2003, 04:20 PM

Alright. I know GFY isn't the best place to ask this sort of thing... but I know there is good inside of you, I can feel it! (Luke Skywalker)

Anyways. I have a friend I have known for like 6 years. We grew up together. She was always a trouble kid and I was always there to bail her out of situations.

I've sat by idley as I judged every one of her boyfriends and judged correctly on every one of them. I know her better than her parents do.. or for anyone for that matter.

She just broke up with a guy she was with for a year in October. She's over him... but shes now looking around the market for a new guy.

Now the real kicker comes into play here.

I love this kid.

She's everything I want in the world and I have known it for years. But I have never told her how I felt because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I don't think she has EVER clued in... and I have no idea how she feels about me.

What I do know is if I do tell her how I feel I know we could still remain friends. So I am not worried about that. I am worried about the rejection - I want to spill my heart to her... but will she just go "oh..." and say "sorry kid, we're just friends."

How can I go about this the right way... and tell her how I really feel?

detoxed · 12-31-2003, 04:24 PM

Send her to me

GonePhishing · 12-31-2003, 04:26 PM

Have you ever left the door slightly open as a tester? I mean ever mentioned in passing the possiblity that you two could get together?

Also, will you be with her tonight? Drunk and or happy with a girl that is a friend on new year's eve may allow you two some conversation time.

I guess, I would start by taking a small risk, and suggesting it to see if there is a response to it. If there seems to be, try to ease into talking about it more.

I think you would be able to tell if you poked around a the subject a little. I think most people will push along an idea if it is one that they have secretly hoped for. Good Luck with her!

TheJimmy · 12-31-2003, 04:26 PM

"Suck me beautiful..."

ok ok ok...I had to, but sersiously?

be honest and direct, and try to do that during the right time,

...check with and go with your gut feeling...timing and being congruent with what you say and your true feelings is a big factor in pulling off successful communication...

and best of luck to you...if it was meant to work out it will...if not, you choose to be open and honest with your friend...

as for fear of rejection...that's always a possibility, but it's a good thing to learn and break through...I'm of the belief that in order to get what you want in life you have to be willing to be rejected or fail many times along the way...it's just a step towards getting what you want ;)

Wiseman · 12-31-2003, 04:27 PM

DUDE YOU ARE A PUSSY!!!
Fuck her in the ass and if she likes it ask her to marry you!!!

LOLOL
Kidding man
Sounds like you may need to let her know man!!!
Nothing wrong with that!!!

pamphage · 12-31-2003, 04:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brad Xtremepay
Alright. I know GFY isn't the best place to ask this sort of thing... but I know there is good inside of you, I can feel it! (Luke Skywalker)

Anyways. I have a friend I have known for like 6 years. We grew up together. She was always a trouble kid and I was always there to bail her out of situations.

I've sat by idley as I judged every one of her boyfriends and judged correctly on every one of them. I know her better than her parents do.. or for anyone for that matter.

She just broke up with a guy she was with for a year in October. She's over him... but shes now looking around the market for a new guy.

Now the real kicker comes into play here.

I love this kid.
She's everything I want in the world and I have known it for years. But I have never told her how I felt because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I don't think she has EVER clued in... and I have no idea how she feels about me.

What I do know is if I do tell her how I feel I know we could still remain friends. So I am not worried about that. I am worried about the rejection - I want to spill my heart to her... but will she just go "oh..." and say "sorry kid, we're just friends."

How can I go about this the right way... and tell her how I really feel?

it's called oneitus. it's cured by banging 10 other chicks. see http://fastseduction.com for more details. if you still want her after banging 10 other chicks i guarantee you will have no problems having this girl in anyway you want her sexual or long term or otherwise.

and yes i'm being serious, friendly, and helpful.

SCOOTER · 12-31-2003, 04:28 PM

Brad ,
Telling her will not Screw up your friend ship, if you guys are true friends.
I know tons of people were friends before they got hooked up.
So what would you do?
1. Not telling her how you feel. Wonder what if, the rest of your life?
2. Telling her and finding out her feelings?
Good luck Bro

tootie · 12-31-2003, 04:29 PM

New Year's Eve is PERFECT! Go to a celebration with her (or watch it with her on TV.) A few seconds before midnight tell her you can't make it through another year without telling her how much you've loved her for so long. And kiss her RIGHT at the stroke of midnight! I'm getting chills just thinking of the romance!

frippeno · 12-31-2003, 04:30 PM

In all seriousness, it is tough to get a woman to see you as a lover once she has seen you as a friend.

Tough, but not impossible. If you don't try, you will regret it. So do your best, make your move, and let the cards fall as they will.

Yes, I am dear Fucking Abby

pamphage · 12-31-2003, 04:30 PM

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Originally posted by pamphage

it's called oneitus. it's cured by banging 10 other chicks. see http://fastseduction.com for more details. if you still want her after banging 10 other chicks i guarantee you will have no problems having this girl in anyway you want her sexual or long term or otherwise.

and yes i'm being serious, friendly, and helpful.

i also might add that in your current AFC status (average frustrated chump), you have NO chance in hell with her. so bite the bullet and spend the next few weeks hitting on every single other chick you meet. trust me. i was the biggest fucking AFC that ever lived.

JFPdude · 12-31-2003, 04:31 PM

If she is that good of a freind you need to ask yourself what will happen if the relationship (if she agrees to one) if you and her don't work out as a couple.

Also you need to sit her down and tell her how you really feel and listen to how she feels.

The key is not only telling her how you feel but listening to her also.

stocktrader23 · 12-31-2003, 04:32 PM

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Originally posted by tootie
New Year's Eve is PERFECT! Go to a celebration with her (or watch it with her on TV.) A few seconds before midnight tell her you can't make it through another year without telling her how much you've loved her for so long. And kiss her RIGHT at the stroke of midnight! I'm getting chills just thinking of the romance!

Samples?

SCOOTER · 12-31-2003, 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tootie
New Year's Eve is PERFECT! Go to a celebration with her (or watch it with her on TV.) A few seconds before midnight tell her you can't make it through another year without telling her how much you've loved her for so long. And kiss her RIGHT at the stroke of midnight! I'm getting chills just thinking of the romance!

Nice

you had me at Hello

EZRhino · 12-31-2003, 04:32 PM

Sounds like you are the only one that believes that there is something to ruin. You obviously you know her better then she knows you.
Believe me if she thinks of you as you do her you guys can be a great couple.
If she doesnt, then lose the friendship becuase she is just using you to bail her out when she needs it.
BTW, she will never change, so dont even attempt to go out with her to fix her. She stomp your heart before she even realizes what has happened.

xanx · 12-31-2003, 04:34 PM

she probably thinks your GAY for knowing so much about her other men

jimmy3way · 12-31-2003, 04:36 PM

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Originally posted by xanx
she probably thinks your GAY for knowing so much about her other men

True dat!

Peter Romero · 12-31-2003, 04:37 PM

Don't be a wimpy guy. Make her pick up on you, or make her attracted to you - www.doubleyourdating.com

tootie · 12-31-2003, 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by scooter

Nice

you had me at Hello

Hehe

Trent Edison · 12-31-2003, 04:39 PM

WTF? Another one?

Ice · 12-31-2003, 04:42 PM

Hope my advice helps ya bro....

Brad Xtremepay · 12-31-2003, 04:46 PM

Hey Ice... you'll be happy to know I just called her, going to get together with her tonite at a small new years party.

Going to take her aside... and pull tooties line on her, mixed with whatever my heart spits out at the time.
Thank you all for the advice. I don't think I have ever been this confident.

I'm a little shaky from being nervous - but I will be happy to get it off my chest at least. And of course I want the optimal answer... but at least I will have said my peace. Because I honestly didn't know how long I could keep bottled up for.

Peter Romero · 12-31-2003, 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tootie
New Year's Eve is PERFECT! Go to a celebration with her (or watch it with her on TV.) A few seconds before midnight tell her you can't make it through another year without telling her how much you've loved her for so long. And kiss her RIGHT at the stroke of midnight! I'm getting chills just thinking of the romance!

That's kinda good if you leave out the "I've secretly stalkered you forever" bit. Tell her that she's just a friend, before she does to you. Get her on the prowl for you, instead of you to her. Cook her dinner, warm up the jacuzzi & rub her feet... and tell her it's getting late and get outta the hot tub if you get turned on. But, whatever you do, don't hit on her. Drive her crazy and make her beg you to fuck her. And ICQ me in the morning & tell me how it goes.

NetRodent · 12-31-2003, 05:00 PM

Good luck!

Brad Xtremepay · 12-31-2003, 05:01 PM

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Originally posted by POV Porn guy

That's kinda good if you leave out the "I've secretly stalkered you forever" bit. Tell her that she's just a friend, before she does to you. Get her on the prowl for you, instead of you to her. Cook her dinner, warm up the jacuzzi & rub her feet... and tell her it's getting late and get outta the hot tub if you get turned on. But, whatever you do, don't hit on her. Drive her crazy and make her beg you to fuck her. And ICQ me in the morning & tell me how it goes.

Wouldn't work on her...

Peter Romero · 12-31-2003, 05:05 PM

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Originally posted by Brad Xtremepay

Wouldn't work on her...

Women love confident men. Or you can just fake it till you make it. Either way - it always works.

Juicy D. Links · 12-31-2003, 05:08 PM

Stick it in her ass , she will fall in love with you

Brad Xtremepay · 12-31-2003, 05:09 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
Stick it in her ass , she will fall in love with you

Women don't work the same way as you Juicy, dearest.

GonePhishing · 12-31-2003, 05:12 PM

Good luck tonight man! Let us know how it goes!

vas · 12-31-2003, 05:12 PM

your in the friend zone... no chance.. next....

tootie · 12-31-2003, 05:18 PM

Good luck, Brad!

POV, I think it would be SO romantic to find out a guy had been feeling that way about me for years. I'd be very flattered and I'd probably melt.

Hopefully she'll feel the same way about it that I do.

Peter Romero · 12-31-2003, 05:20 PM

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Originally posted by Brad Xtremepay

Wouldn't work on her...

Hey, you are the one who asked for advice. This is some of my best work here. Go ahead, fuck up a good thing by "Confessing" to her - that only makes you a liar & a wimp begging for her approval. Fuck that, you are a man, a catch for her after all these other "Loosers" (your words) so do it man!!! With balls flyin!!! Don't tell her how much you want her, tell her how much she wants you. And act like you are going to kiss her neck at midnight... and just smell her... and back away & shake her hand. This should make her lunge at you. Women don't decide if they will fuck you upon meeting you, but will decide "NOT" to sleep with you imediately if you say or do something stupid.

Brad Xtremepay · 12-31-2003, 05:22 PM

POV: I do respect your opinion... but it's just not how I do things. If she doesn't take me for who I am then it was not meant to be.

I can't do things like you're suggesting - too bold.

Arousal Design · 12-31-2003, 05:27 PM

Dude, not for nothing but, if you've been friends for that long, and you dont know if she likes you as more than just a friend, she probably doesn't.

By all means go for it anyways you really have nothing to lose but when a chick likes you, you often times can just "tell".

Peter Romero · 12-31-2003, 05:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brad Xtremepay
POV: I do respect your opinion... but it's just not how I do things. If she doesn't take me for who I am then it was not meant to be.

I can't do things like you're suggesting - too bold.

I never asked you to change who you are - I sugested that you are a hunka hunka burning love baby, let her throw herself at you, by paving the way with a little set-up foreplay. Women love foreplay. Be patient and if it is right, she will fall in love with you, don't scare her away.

blackmonsters · 12-31-2003, 05:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brad Xtremepay
Alright. I know GFY isn't the best place to ask this sort of thing... but I know there is good inside of you, I can feel it! (Luke Skywalker)

Anyways. I have a friend I have known for like 6 years. We grew up together. She was always a trouble kid and I was always there to bail her out of situations.

I've sat by idley as I judged every one of her boyfriends and judged correctly on every one of them. I know her better than her parents do.. or for anyone for that matter.

She just broke up with a guy she was with for a year in October. She's over him... but shes now looking around the market for a new guy.

Now the real kicker comes into play here.

I love this kid.
She's everything I want in the world and I have known it for years. But I have never told her how I felt because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I don't think she has EVER clued in... and I have no idea how she feels about me.

What I do know is if I do tell her how I feel I know we could still remain friends. So I am not worried about that. I am worried about the rejection - I want to spill my heart to her... but will she just go "oh..." and say "sorry kid, we're just friends."

How can I go about this the right way... and tell her how I really feel?

I hate to be the one to tell you..... BUTTT!!!

Forget about her; you fucked up! Never become a chicks friend if you want to fuck her. She totaly views you as mush right now, ya know, the sensitive guy she can talk to. Unless she somehow falls in love with you you will never hit it.
She wouldn't fuck you now unless she thinks it will last forever.

You got one shot at it though. She needs to see you in a situation where you "don't give a fuck" and she's on your side.
For example (some asshole picks a fight with you and he's totally out of line and she knows it. Go ahead and deck the motherfucker and beat his ass good. Then grab her by the hand and haul ass outta there and when you get to the car grab her and plant your tounge down her throat.)

I know that sounds far fetched to some people but that's the only way to change your image dude.

You may be able to get away with just flairing up at some asshole and making threats to bash his face. If she grabs you and pulls you away from the fight fake like she has to hold you back so she has to wrap her arms around you and then let her pull you away and go straight to a hug. Then say something like
"Yeah, baby you're right. I don't need a fight , I need you. Let's get outta here so I can show you how I feel about you".

Be strong motherfucker. Be the "Alpha Male" and herd that pussy!

Brad Xtremepay · 12-31-2003, 05:38 PM

Ehhh... shit. That almost made too much sense.

reynold · 12-31-2003, 05:43 PM

Tough spot to be in. One wrong word / move and friendship has "changed".... If she's interested in you too, just wait for it.

Quote:

Originally posted by Brad Xtremepay
Alright. I know GFY isn't the best place to ask this sort of thing... but I know there is good inside of you, I can feel it! (Luke Skywalker)

Anyways. I have a friend I have known for like 6 years. We grew up together. She was always a trouble kid and I was always there to bail her out of situations.

I've sat by idley as I judged every one of her boyfriends and judged correctly on every one of them. I know her better than her parents do.. or for anyone for that matter.

She just broke up with a guy she was with for a year in October. She's over him... but shes now looking around the market for a new guy.

Now the real kicker comes into play here.

I love this kid.
She's everything I want in the world and I have known it for years. But I have never told her how I felt because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I don't think she has EVER clued in... and I have no idea how she feels about me.

What I do know is if I do tell her how I feel I know we could still remain friends. So I am not worried about that. I am worried about the rejection - I want to spill my heart to her... but will she just go "oh..." and say "sorry kid, we're just friends."

How can I go about this the right way... and tell her how I really feel?

banshman · 12-31-2003, 05:48 PM

Dude, if you've only known her for 6 years yet you've "grown up with her", I would have to guess that you are both quite young.

Women are very unpredictable when they are young, you're not going to find one answer that is guaranteed to work. Your best bet is to be straightforward, no games or tricks.

If she has no clue that you like her, that is obviously the problem! If you don't go for the close, you will never make the sale. Be the alpha male, remember, you're doing her the favor.

pornguy · 12-31-2003, 05:50 PM

Sorry . Can't be much help without photos of her..

Nude if ya gotem..

Other than that, keep the frinedship and find another G/F

myjah · 12-31-2003, 05:52 PM

you'll never know til you try. spill it. things will go as they should

12-31-2003, 04:20 PM	#1
Brad Xtremepay So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 2,000	Need some advice - serious people only. Alright. I know GFY isn't the best place to ask this sort of thing... but I know there is good inside of you, I can feel it! (Luke Skywalker) Anyways. I have a friend I have known for like 6 years. We grew up together. She was always a trouble kid and I was always there to bail her out of situations. I've sat by idley as I judged every one of her boyfriends and judged correctly on every one of them. I know her better than her parents do.. or for anyone for that matter. She just broke up with a guy she was with for a year in October. She's over him... but shes now looking around the market for a new guy. Now the real kicker comes into play here. I love this kid. She's everything I want in the world and I have known it for years. But I have never told her how I felt because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I don't think she has EVER clued in... and I have no idea how she feels about me. What I do know is if I do tell her how I feel I know we could still remain friends. So I am not worried about that. I am worried about the rejection - I want to spill my heart to her... but will she just go "oh..." and say "sorry kid, we're just friends." How can I go about this the right way... and tell her how I really feel?

12-31-2003, 04:26 PM	#3
GonePhishing Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Blah Posts: 2,474	Have you ever left the door slightly open as a tester? I mean ever mentioned in passing the possiblity that you two could get together? Also, will you be with her tonight? Drunk and or happy with a girl that is a friend on new year's eve may allow you two some conversation time. I guess, I would start by taking a small risk, and suggesting it to see if there is a response to it. If there seems to be, try to ease into talking about it more. I think you would be able to tell if you poked around a the subject a little. I think most people will push along an idea if it is one that they have secretly hoped for. Good Luck with her! __________________ If Biff Fucks My Mom... I Might Never Be Born...

12-31-2003, 04:26 PM	#4
TheJimmy ICQ- five seven 0 2 5 5 0 Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 10,747	"Suck me beautiful..." ok ok ok...I had to, but sersiously? be honest and direct, and try to do that during the right time, ...check with and go with your gut feeling...timing and being congruent with what you say and your true feelings is a big factor in pulling off successful communication... and best of luck to you...if it was meant to work out it will...if not, you choose to be open and honest with your friend... as for fear of rejection...that's always a possibility, but it's a good thing to learn and break through...I'm of the belief that in order to get what you want in life you have to be willing to be rejected or fail many times along the way...it's just a step towards getting what you want ;) __________________ Investor with 5m - 15m USD to invest. Do you have a site or network of sites earning 50k - 200k a month income? Email your contact and preliminary data to: domain.cashventures (at) gmail.com....Please...no tire kickers...serious offers and inquiries only.

12-31-2003, 04:27 PM	#5
Wiseman Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 2,990	DUDE YOU ARE A PUSSY!!! Fuck her in the ass and if she likes it ask her to marry you!!! LOLOL Kidding man Sounds like you may need to let her know man!!! Nothing wrong with that!!! __________________ []E-mail: [email protected][]ICQ: 109726012[*]AIM: QbWiseman

12-31-2003, 04:28 PM	#7
SCOOTER Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 4,010	Brad , Telling her will not Screw up your friend ship, if you guys are true friends. I know tons of people were friends before they got hooked up. So what would you do? 1. Not telling her how you feel. Wonder what if, the rest of your life? 2. Telling her and finding out her feelings? Good luck Bro __________________ Scooter [email protected]

12-31-2003, 04:24 PM	#2
detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	Send her to me

12-31-2003, 04:29 PM	#8
tootie Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Planet Earp Posts: 6,041	New Year's Eve is PERFECT! Go to a celebration with her (or watch it with her on TV.) A few seconds before midnight tell her you can't make it through another year without telling her how much you've loved her for so long. And kiss her RIGHT at the stroke of midnight! I'm getting chills just thinking of the romance! __________________

12-31-2003, 04:30 PM	#9
frippeno Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Addison, TX Posts: 133	In all seriousness, it is tough to get a woman to see you as a lover once she has seen you as a friend. Tough, but not impossible. If you don't try, you will regret it. So do your best, make your move, and let the cards fall as they will. Yes, I am dear Fucking Abby __________________ it only took one brick to make that window drop

12-31-2003, 04:31 PM	#11
JFPdude Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Mountains of Western North Carolina. Posts: 4,027	If she is that good of a freind you need to ask yourself what will happen if the relationship (if she agrees to one) if you and her don't work out as a couple. Also you need to sit her down and tell her how you really feel and listen to how she feels. The key is not only telling her how you feel but listening to her also.

12-31-2003, 04:32 PM	#14
EZRhino Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: couch Posts: 6,258	Sounds like you are the only one that believes that there is something to ruin. You obviously you know her better then she knows you. Believe me if she thinks of you as you do her you guys can be a great couple. If she doesnt, then lose the friendship becuase she is just using you to bail her out when she needs it. BTW, she will never change, so dont even attempt to go out with her to fix her. She stomp your heart before she even realizes what has happened.

12-31-2003, 04:34 PM	#15
xanx Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Orlando, FL Posts: 3,711	she probably thinks your GAY for knowing so much about her other men

12-31-2003, 04:37 PM	#17
Peter Romero Long time no happy ending Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: San Diego CA Posts: 10,578	Don't be a wimpy guy. Make her pick up on you, or make her attracted to you - www.doubleyourdating.com __________________ POVCash [email protected] See them all here: http://www.Petergirls.com

12-31-2003, 04:39 PM	#19
Trent Edison Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Freeport 7 Posts: 6,132	WTF? Another one? __________________

12-31-2003, 04:42 PM	#20
Ice Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Sunny California Posts: 26,053	Hope my advice helps ya bro.... __________________ icq 1904905

12-31-2003, 04:46 PM	#21
Brad Xtremepay So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 2,000	Hey Ice... you'll be happy to know I just called her, going to get together with her tonite at a small new years party. Going to take her aside... and pull tooties line on her, mixed with whatever my heart spits out at the time. Thank you all for the advice. I don't think I have ever been this confident. I'm a little shaky from being nervous - but I will be happy to get it off my chest at least. And of course I want the optimal answer... but at least I will have said my peace. Because I honestly didn't know how long I could keep bottled up for.

12-31-2003, 05:00 PM	#23
NetRodent Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: In the walls of your house. Posts: 3,985	Good luck! __________________ "Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats." --H.L. Mencken

12-31-2003, 05:08 PM	#26
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	Stick it in her ass , she will fall in love with you

12-31-2003, 05:12 PM	#28
GonePhishing Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Blah Posts: 2,474	Good luck tonight man! Let us know how it goes! __________________ If Biff Fucks My Mom... I Might Never Be Born...

12-31-2003, 05:12 PM	#29
vas Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Toronto Posts: 562	your in the friend zone... no chance.. next....

12-31-2003, 05:18 PM	#30
tootie Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Planet Earp Posts: 6,041	Good luck, Brad! POV, I think it would be SO romantic to find out a guy had been feeling that way about me for years. I'd be very flattered and I'd probably melt. Hopefully she'll feel the same way about it that I do. __________________

12-31-2003, 05:22 PM	#32
Brad Xtremepay So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 2,000	POV: I do respect your opinion... but it's just not how I do things. If she doesn't take me for who I am then it was not meant to be. I can't do things like you're suggesting - too bold.

12-31-2003, 05:27 PM	#33
Arousal Design Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Connecticut. Posts: 1,358	Dude, not for nothing but, if you've been friends for that long, and you dont know if she likes you as more than just a friend, she probably doesn't. By all means go for it anyways you really have nothing to lose but when a chick likes you, you often times can just "tell". __________________ Make Major Bank With Major Personality - NaughtyBank! Featuring NaughtyAllie and NaughtyJulie!

12-31-2003, 05:38 PM	#36
Brad Xtremepay So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 2,000	Ehhh... shit. That almost made too much sense.

12-31-2003, 05:48 PM	#38
banshman Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: The Mist Posts: 142	Dude, if you've only known her for 6 years yet you've "grown up with her", I would have to guess that you are both quite young. Women are very unpredictable when they are young, you're not going to find one answer that is guaranteed to work. Your best bet is to be straightforward, no games or tricks. If she has no clue that you like her, that is obviously the problem! If you don't go for the close, you will never make the sale. Be the alpha male, remember, you're doing her the favor. __________________ !

12-31-2003, 05:50 PM	#39
pornguy Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Homeless Posts: 62,911	Sorry . Can't be much help without photos of her.. Nude if ya gotem.. Other than that, keep the frinedship and find another G/F __________________ PornGuy skype me pornguy_epic AmateurDough The Hottes Shemales online! TChicks.com \| Angeles Cid \| Mariana Cordoba \| MAILERS WELCOME!

12-31-2003, 05:52 PM	#40
myjah Back in the harbor Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 11,482	you'll never know til you try. spill it. things will go as they should __________________ VP of Marketing AVN Media Network Skype: AVNJill [email protected]