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Kanoealoha · 07-11-2003, 08:23 AM

So my cousin, "Jen" went out with some older guy, she's 16 he's 30 something (I know stupid girl and guy)

Anyway, he convinced her to take some photos... and now about 2 months later they broke up.

She asked for the photos and the negatives and he said that since it was his camera he was only going to give her one set of the photos, he would keep the negatives and the 2nd sec.

A week after they break up a friend of that fucker walks up to her and give her this sleazy look and tells her I see you've been added to "the book" She told him to fuck etc...

So besides beating this guy to a pulp, what the fuck am I suppose to do? She won't tell me his name...

And sexwise they did nothing wrong, age of consent in Hawaii was 14 now is 16, its the photo part...AND the fact that this fuck has done it before...

12clicks · 07-11-2003, 08:28 AM

If it were me, I'd ask to see the pics "just so I could get to the bottom of things"

Kanoealoha · 07-11-2003, 08:31 AM

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Originally posted by 12clicks
If it were me, I'd ask to see the pics "just so I could get to the bottom of things"

hehe...Well I have seen her naked...as I'm a girl so its no biggie to me, but that was awhile ago...

The Heron · 07-11-2003, 08:37 AM

What site is she on??

Buff · 07-11-2003, 08:37 AM

I don't know if there's a whole lot you can do.

liquidmoe · 07-11-2003, 08:40 AM

Looks like she gave consent to take those pictures and she is/was of legal age so you arent really left with much recourse, unless you can find a creative lawyer that can come up with something. But hey, a good beating goes a long way sometimes.

Kanoealoha · 07-11-2003, 08:40 AM

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Originally posted by Buff
I don't know if there's a whole lot you can do.

I was thinking I could call the police, but she just really doesn't want the pics seem by more ppl...

But he still is in possesion of CP...so wtf?

GRRR idiot kids

rooster · 07-11-2003, 08:42 AM

just burn his house down. alittle gasoline and a match should do the trick

Kanoealoha · 07-11-2003, 08:43 AM

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Originally posted by rooster
just burn his house down. alittle gasoline and a match should do the trick

see I didn't think of that...but that is a solution...

loverboy · 07-11-2003, 08:44 AM

it seems that the pix are out in the open anyways... you can't do anything more i guess.

sweetums · 07-11-2003, 08:53 AM

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Originally posted by liquidmoe
Looks like she gave consent to take those pictures and she is/was of legal age so you arent really left with much recourse, unless you can find a creative lawyer that can come up with something. But hey, a good beating goes a long way sometimes.

She may have given consent to having sex with this ass....but, she didn't consent to him publicizing her pics. I do agree though that seeing a good lawyer might be in order though.....seems more people are afraid of being potentially sued then of going to jail

Kanoealoha...you're a good friend to be concerned. This guy's a predator....boy needs to learn a real important lesson about how you treat people in life...one way or another.

Good luck

neewwman · 07-11-2003, 08:58 AM

If the pictures are lascivious it is CP under Federal law even if she above the age of consent under Hawaii law.

Kanoealoha · 07-11-2003, 09:00 AM

"Jen" doesn't want to take legal action as then the whole island knows...and well you can guess how that all goes.

So, skip the legal spect...how should he be fucked up?

Buff · 07-11-2003, 09:01 AM

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Originally posted by Kanoealoha

I was thinking I could call the police, but she just really doesn't want the pics seem by more ppl...

But he still is in possesion of CP...so wtf?

GRRR idiot kids

Well, the good thing is that very few people will look down on someone for something they did when they were 16 and foolish.

Gemini · 07-11-2003, 09:06 AM

It's time to call the areas Prosecutors office gf. Age of consent has no bearing on the laws covering photos. And in most states that age of consent only applies if the guy is under a certain age. They can charge him with a multitude of other things besides statutory rape.

In alot of these cases they will keep it on the QT and if it turns out that they DO charge him, she will be shielded from the press due to her age. It's a faxt that these dirtbags tend to get worse each time they get 'away' with something. Whats next? A 13 yr old??

Herb Kornfield · 07-11-2003, 09:06 AM

Here is a view to check out.

If this guy has a book of photos with other girls, good chance that he can get popped for CP with just an tip to the police and no one ID'ing themselves.

Perverts like this are what gives all adult a bad name in peoples eyes. That is sick shit and needs to be stopped. Someone did that to my daughter Iwould have them in the can wearing orange in no time.

Dont resort to physical violence. Just fuck up their world by a free trip to jail and the detainee has no idea who did this to him as well to fuck up his mind.

Mail him lots of gay porn to jail that way he can be guarenteed to be someone's bitch and get the feeling of being violated.

pheal · 07-11-2003, 09:08 AM

Damn, I don't understand. Someone is fucking with your family man! I know maybe it's because I got some italian blood but I would have broken this guy's neck. Tell your cousin to give his name and go find him. Then beat him till he gives the pics.

Honour your family because there's nothing more important.

Kanoealoha · 07-11-2003, 09:09 AM

If I could get her to tell me who this guy is, do you think an Anonymous call to the police would do any good?

Gemini · 07-11-2003, 09:24 AM

A 'tip' would no doubt get him arrested but the police would still have to ID the girls in the pics... The question is, does your cousin want all the other girls searched out? Or would she prefer to put the guy away herself and save the other girls the anguish of going thru court? With the one witness and the pics for backup as to other times he did this, they may leave the other girls alone.

They would keep the courtroom closed and sneak her in and out easily enough to protect her ID since she is under 18. Or might use a remote location with video. There is no way they could or would even try him without at least one witness on that stand. Thats not the way the law works. No matter how we may hate that part of the legal system (in this case), you still have the right to face your accuser.

Kanoealoha · 07-11-2003, 09:26 AM

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Originally posted by Gemini

They would keep the courtroom closed and sneak her in and out easily enough to protect her ID since she is under 18. Or might use a remote location with video. There is no way they could or would even try him without at least one witness on that stand. Thats not the way the law works. No matter how we may hate that part of the legal system (in this case), you still have the right to face your accuser.

Damn I just don't know if she'll do it...

Its hard on a small island you know...

Edit: I just can't spell today

Easton · 07-11-2003, 09:35 AM

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Originally posted by Kanoealoha
GRRR idiot kids

exactly... she walked right into it

Gemini · 07-11-2003, 09:38 AM

Personally I can only try to imagine how hard it is to live on a small island. ;-) The hubby lived for about a yr in a very small town and he hated the fact that if you took your shower every night at 9pm, that after a week the whole town knew it. lol All I remember is always living in a large(r) city so never dealt with the small population thing.

In this case you need to use the tact that she needs to shut this guy down before he gets worse. They get braver and braver with time. Ask her flat out if she wants to read where this jerk kills some 10 yr old in a year or two? And could she live with that in her head, knowing she could have shut him down? If she says she could, then she has-had no business saying she was able to act on the age of consent.

We have a local creep. He used to run up to women with a camera while he was naked. Snapped a pic of the womans reaction. Just last week, he GRABBED a woman that he did that to and tried to drag her into an apartment building. Alot of people sort of chuckled about the naked and pic part (it went on for a year or so) but NOW its serious. Who knows what he will graduate to next. Its pretty obvious what his intentions were when he tried to take the woman into a building and out of sight.

07-11-2003, 08:23 AM	#1
Kanoealoha Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Happy Valley Posts: 1,261	What would you do? So my cousin, "Jen" went out with some older guy, she's 16 he's 30 something (I know stupid girl and guy) Anyway, he convinced her to take some photos... and now about 2 months later they broke up. She asked for the photos and the negatives and he said that since it was his camera he was only going to give her one set of the photos, he would keep the negatives and the 2nd sec. A week after they break up a friend of that fucker walks up to her and give her this sleazy look and tells her I see you've been added to "the book" She told him to fuck etc... So besides beating this guy to a pulp, what the fuck am I suppose to do? She won't tell me his name... And sexwise they did nothing wrong, age of consent in Hawaii was 14 now is 16, its the photo part...AND the fact that this fuck has done it before...

07-11-2003, 08:28 AM	#2
12clicks Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: God's right hand Posts: 19,800	If it were me, I'd ask to see the pics "just so I could get to the bottom of things" __________________ I'm not a dinosaur, I'm a crocodile. I've seen dinosaurs come and go and I'm left unimpressed.

07-11-2003, 08:58 AM	#12
neewwman Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Los Angeles, CA, USA Posts: 1,737	If the pictures are lascivious it is CP under Federal law even if she above the age of consent under Hawaii law. __________________ Porn Wealth Everything the newbie adult webmaster needs to know. Buy it, or sell it through our 50% affiliate program!

07-11-2003, 09:06 AM	#15
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	It's time to call the areas Prosecutors office gf. Age of consent has no bearing on the laws covering photos. And in most states that age of consent only applies if the guy is under a certain age. They can charge him with a multitude of other things besides statutory rape. In alot of these cases they will keep it on the QT and if it turns out that they DO charge him, she will be shielded from the press due to her age. It's a faxt that these dirtbags tend to get worse each time they get 'away' with something. Whats next? A 13 yr old?? __________________ <center><a target="_blank" href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac"><img border="0" src="http://216.130.172.224/gfy/gsig.gif" width="490" height="100"></a><br><a href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac" target="_blank"><b><font face="Arial"><font color="#FF99FF"> Buy me away from Slavedriver Smokey!<br>It's May Sig Sweeps!<font></b></center>

07-11-2003, 09:24 AM	#19
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	A 'tip' would no doubt get him arrested but the police would still have to ID the girls in the pics... The question is, does your cousin want all the other girls searched out? Or would she prefer to put the guy away herself and save the other girls the anguish of going thru court? With the one witness and the pics for backup as to other times he did this, they may leave the other girls alone. They would keep the courtroom closed and sneak her in and out easily enough to protect her ID since she is under 18. Or might use a remote location with video. There is no way they could or would even try him without at least one witness on that stand. Thats not the way the law works. No matter how we may hate that part of the legal system (in this case), you still have the right to face your accuser. __________________ <center><a target="_blank" href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac"><img border="0" src="http://216.130.172.224/gfy/gsig.gif" width="490" height="100"></a><br><a href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac" target="_blank"><b><font face="Arial"><font color="#FF99FF"> Buy me away from Slavedriver Smokey!<br>It's May Sig Sweeps!<font></b></center>

07-11-2003, 08:37 AM	#4
The Heron Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Michigan Posts: 4,488	What site is she on??

07-11-2003, 08:37 AM	#5
Buff GFY Assassin Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 2,993	I don't know if there's a whole lot you can do.

07-11-2003, 08:40 AM	#6
liquidmoe Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NY Posts: 4,994	Looks like she gave consent to take those pictures and she is/was of legal age so you arent really left with much recourse, unless you can find a creative lawyer that can come up with something. But hey, a good beating goes a long way sometimes.

07-11-2003, 08:42 AM	#8
rooster Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 2,384	just burn his house down. alittle gasoline and a match should do the trick

07-11-2003, 08:44 AM	#10
loverboy When it rains, it pours Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 20,609	it seems that the pix are out in the open anyways... you can't do anything more i guess.

07-11-2003, 09:00 AM	#13
Kanoealoha Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Happy Valley Posts: 1,261	"Jen" doesn't want to take legal action as then the whole island knows...and well you can guess how that all goes. So, skip the legal spect...how should he be fucked up?

07-11-2003, 09:06 AM	#16
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Here is a view to check out. If this guy has a book of photos with other girls, good chance that he can get popped for CP with just an tip to the police and no one ID'ing themselves. Perverts like this are what gives all adult a bad name in peoples eyes. That is sick shit and needs to be stopped. Someone did that to my daughter Iwould have them in the can wearing orange in no time. Dont resort to physical violence. Just fuck up their world by a free trip to jail and the detainee has no idea who did this to him as well to fuck up his mind. Mail him lots of gay porn to jail that way he can be guarenteed to be someone's bitch and get the feeling of being violated.

07-11-2003, 09:08 AM	#17
pheal Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 219	Damn, I don't understand. Someone is fucking with your family man! I know maybe it's because I got some italian blood but I would have broken this guy's neck. Tell your cousin to give his name and go find him. Then beat him till he gives the pics. Honour your family because there's nothing more important.

07-11-2003, 09:09 AM	#18
Kanoealoha Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Happy Valley Posts: 1,261	If I could get her to tell me who this guy is, do you think an Anonymous call to the police would do any good?

07-11-2003, 09:38 AM	#22
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	Personally I can only try to imagine how hard it is to live on a small island. ;-) The hubby lived for about a yr in a very small town and he hated the fact that if you took your shower every night at 9pm, that after a week the whole town knew it. lol All I remember is always living in a large(r) city so never dealt with the small population thing. In this case you need to use the tact that she needs to shut this guy down before he gets worse. They get braver and braver with time. Ask her flat out if she wants to read where this jerk kills some 10 yr old in a year or two? And could she live with that in her head, knowing she could have shut him down? If she says she could, then she has-had no business saying she was able to act on the age of consent. We have a local creep. He used to run up to women with a camera while he was naked. Snapped a pic of the womans reaction. Just last week, he GRABBED a woman that he did that to and tried to drag her into an apartment building. Alot of people sort of chuckled about the naked and pic part (it went on for a year or so) but NOW its serious. Who knows what he will graduate to next. Its pretty obvious what his intentions were when he tried to take the woman into a building and out of sight. __________________ <center><a target="_blank" href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac"><img border="0" src="http://216.130.172.224/gfy/gsig.gif" width="490" height="100"></a><br><a href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac" target="_blank"><b><font face="Arial"><font color="#FF99FF"> Buy me away from Slavedriver Smokey!<br>It's May Sig Sweeps!<font></b></center>