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mule · 04-20-2003, 10:42 PM

LOL, might have BEEN Boneprone

LadyMischief · 04-20-2003, 10:43 PM

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Originally posted by mule
LOL, might have BEEN Boneprone

SHHHHHHHHHHHH.. Nobody's supposed to know that. Don't give it all away NOW!

SothArtist · 04-20-2003, 10:44 PM

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Originally posted by Gimmy
once a girl grabbed my ass.....I think it was a girl

LOL

B Sandwich · 04-20-2003, 10:45 PM

i had the axe effect happen to me once

mule · 04-20-2003, 10:49 PM

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Originally posted by B Sandwich
i had the axe effect happen to me once

You're the guy who robbed AussieRebel's house?

Sarah_Jayne · 04-21-2003, 01:18 AM

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Originally posted by gothweb

Yes, "our". Vail and I have been together for more than 3 years, and now *we* have a new girlfriend. The first time, and it's wonderful.

as someone with a husband and a boyfriend, I have to say that it is indeed great.

digihax · 04-21-2003, 01:21 AM

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Originally posted by Jamdin
I have only had one woman hit on me. Thank goodness she used closed fist since her nails were three inches long.

foolio · 04-21-2003, 02:26 AM

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Originally posted by vegas2003
I'd like to know SERIOUSLY-for all the guys here-has a girl ever actually approached you and hit on you when you were not looking for it? rather than the guy having to be the 1 to make the 1st move-I'd just like to know how rare it is for a girl to be the aggressor. and if this HAS happened to you, what were the circumstances?did she like your clothes, car, looks...

Ya, all the time. See - I have a 9 inch dick (limp) and when I go to the club I let it hang out while I dance. The flock to me when they see my rod hanging out.

Porn Mickey · 04-21-2003, 02:54 AM

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Originally posted by asuna
yeah I've had a girl come up to me and hit me... bitch

same thing,same answer

slavdogg · 04-21-2003, 03:19 AM

lets see
3 weeks ago walked into a club and 15 mins later an asian chick hit on me. I hate asian bitches but i must have been horny or something. An hour later she took me to her house and I banged her twice. It never fails, all the asian chicks say to me "oh no, you so beeeg"

last year in Vegas.
In Mandaley Bay around 1am was trying to find my last cig to smoke and call it a night a cute young chick came up to me. Went to the center bar, had a beer, took her to my room. She saw my sleeping cousin, woke him up and got tag-teamed with 2 money shots. That was fun, he still talks about it.

I aint a playah or a pimp and dont play one on TV, but to answer your Q vegas2003, Shit happens

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slavdogg · 04-21-2003, 03:22 AM

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Originally posted by gothweb

Yes, "our". Vail and I have been together for more than 3 years, and now *we* have a new girlfriend. The first time, and it's wonderful.
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Originally posted by sarah_webinc

as someone with a husband and a boyfriend, I have to say that it is indeed great.

huh, i dont get it.
How does that work ?

04-21-2003, 03:25 AM

Excuse me I know I'm not a man. But ....but but .. I am one of those woman who loves to flirt and chasse the man.. I am not agressive but man!!! It turns me ON big time... I have to be the one initiating the signs of Maybe will play...

Sarah_Jayne · 04-21-2003, 03:26 AM

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Originally posted by slavdogg

huh, i dont get it.
How does that work ?

Well, it takes work and it is different for everyone. In my case I have a husband that I love and will be with until 'death do us part' and I have a boyfriend that started as a 'fuck buddy' but has become a friend as well. I am happily loyal to the two of them. They both know and approve of each other. Other people - as I am guessing is the case with Gothweb - share the third person with their orginial partner. Is it always easy? no. Are they worth the complication? Yes.

slavdogg · 04-21-2003, 03:34 AM

Sarah, interesting....
as long as everyone is happy more power to you guys

Sarah_Jayne · 04-21-2003, 03:50 AM

thank you...as soon as one of is unhappy it will stop. I hope that doesn't happen.

04-21-2003, 03:51 AM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
Well, it takes work and it is different for everyone. In my case I have a husband that I love and will be with until 'death do us part' and I have a boyfriend that started as a 'fuck buddy' but has become a friend as well. I am happily loyal to the two of them. They both know and approve of each other. Other people - as I am guessing is the case with Gothweb - share the third person with their orginial partner. Is it always easy? no. Are they worth the complication? Yes.

Do you consider yourself in the Swingers Lifestyle?
Nothing wrong with that... It enhance a couple sex life when of course both are commited and have a solid relashionship... It can be a exciting experience when all consent adults involved have chemestry... Swingers terminogy varies depending on a couple needs or fantasies...
WEll sweety enjoy if it make you 2 happy ! Sex is an " ART " Ans its damn good!

Sarah_Jayne · 04-21-2003, 03:56 AM

i don't really consider myself a swinger as I am loyal to those two men. Sometimes I wonder if I am polyamorous but have not been able to make that full mental leap yet. So, not sure..just know I care about two people - albeit it one is my husband and therefore I have that everyday life bond with him.

gothweb · 04-21-2003, 04:03 AM

In terms of how it works... As the lady says, "different for everyone".

With the exception of married couples who just do it for the sex, who are generally called "swingers", we generally lump ourselves into the category of "polyamory", but there is very little in common between each situation. Except, of course, the polyamory bit-- believing it is possible to love more than one person.

Of course, there are people in the middle, like Sarah, who have a relationship but aren't sure about the "love". Personally, I am not in love with "C" yet, but see it as a real possibility. To me, as long as you believe in the theoretical possibility of loving more than one person, and trying to do something about it, you are "poly".

How does it work for us? We looked for a long time for the perfect girl. Then, one night, she found us. It is still very new, at the new relationship phase.. It just happens to be four relationships in one.

Ian & Vail
Ian & "C"
Vail & "C"
Ian & Vail & "C"

Vail and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. We live together, work together, have a joint bank account, etc. Whenever we can, we spend time with "C". She comes over a lot, and we go out together a lot. We have one on one time, or time with all three of us.

If anyone was uncomfortable with any of the stuff that arose from the unusual geometry of the situation, we'd talk about it. Though, that's what we wound do if it was 1 on 1. It's really almost exactly like a 1-1 relationship, except for the math.

Sarah_Jayne · 04-21-2003, 04:13 AM

one of my friends that is very definitely poly (has three gf's all live in the same house..all are into each other) explained it to me like this:

They say the chances of finding real love is one on a million. How many million people are in this world?
#

Herb Kornfield · 04-21-2003, 06:53 AM

Ian,

The new love is the sweetest, just be careful not to get to far out there with her. Strange thoughts will creep into your head man.

Me and Mrs K had a few girlfriends, The fun you have is amazing and but, you are walking a VERY slippery slope.

Be careful and remember where home is no matter what.

Other than that, have the time of your life man, do it now, cause, when you are 80 and in a chair as a old bloke, you can comfort yourself with the thought that back in the day, you had GAME

Joe Sixpack · 04-21-2003, 07:04 AM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
one of my friends that is very definitely poly (has three gf's all live in the same house..all are into each other) explained it to me like this:

They say the chances of finding real love is one on a million. How many million people are in this world?
#

Do you think your friend has actually met even one million people, let alone three million people?

Sounds like a cop out for someone who wants more than one girlfriend.

Not that I'm against that, of course. I just doubt he has "true love" with all three of them.

Lane · 04-21-2003, 07:16 AM

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Originally posted by vegas2003
I'd like to know SERIOUSLY-for all the guys here-has a girl ever actually approached you and hit on you when you were not looking for it? rather than the guy having to be the 1 to make the 1st move-I'd just like to know how rare it is for a girl to be the aggressor. and if this HAS happened to you, what were the circumstances?did she like your clothes, car, looks...

yea, but almost always they're not hot at all.

gothweb · 04-21-2003, 07:39 AM

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Originally posted by Herb Kornfield
Ian,

The new love is the sweetest, just be careful not to get to far out there with her. Strange thoughts will creep into your head man.

Me and Mrs K had a few girlfriends, The fun you have is amazing and but, you are walking a VERY slippery slope.

Be careful and remember where home is no matter what.

Other than that, have the time of your life man, do it now, cause, when you are 80 and in a chair as a old bloke, you can comfort yourself with the thought that back in the day, you had GAME

Romance is always a slipperly slope. It does seem very likely that we will both fall for our new girlfriend pretty heavily.. and that's exactly what we're hoping for. We would never let this come between us, but other than that it is the highest priority.

gothweb · 04-21-2003, 07:41 AM

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Originally posted by Joe Sixpack

Sounds like a cop out for someone who wants more than one girlfriend.

...

I just doubt he has "true love" with all three of them.

Why?

lEricPl · 04-21-2003, 09:03 AM

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Originally posted by DrewKole
A few years ago, I lived in a really nice apartment complex... and I'd usually park right in front of my building, and there was this really cute chick downstairs that would always wave...

Late one night, like 4am or so, she comes knocking on my door trashed, aparently she knocked on everyones door in the building, searching for me, at 4am, cuz she was so fucked up.

All sorts of hitting on me, asks me to come down and have some drinks with her, I do.... she was a painter, and noticed she had paint on her clothes, so she proceeded to strip down to her panties. And asked me if I thought she had a nice body, blah blah blah, used to be a cheerleader blah blah blah...

She told me a few min before that she had a bf who was out of town, etc... and I dont play the assisting to cheating game... Cuz I know how it feels to be that other guy.

So... I complimented her on her tits, and left...

She came by one other time, all trashed, and called me gay because I wouldnt fuck her...

Girls who hit on me really heavily scare me... =/

That's Great.

Froey Twe · 04-21-2003, 09:48 AM

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Originally posted by DrewKole
A few years ago, I lived in a really nice apartment complex... and I'd usually park right in front of my building, and there was this really cute chick downstairs that would always wave...

Late one night, like 4am or so, she comes knocking on my door trashed, aparently she knocked on everyones door in the building, searching for me, at 4am, cuz she was so fucked up.

All sorts of hitting on me, asks me to come down and have some drinks with her, I do.... she was a painter, and noticed she had paint on her clothes, so she proceeded to strip down to her panties. And asked me if I thought she had a nice body, blah blah blah, used to be a cheerleader blah blah blah...

She told me a few min before that she had a bf who was out of town, etc... and I dont play the assisting to cheating game... Cuz I know how it feels to be that other guy.

So... I complimented her on her tits, and left...

She came by one other time, all trashed, and called me gay because I wouldnt fuck her...

Girls who hit on me really heavily scare me... =/

Posted by: 420
yeah this one time a girl hit on me in the club. she wanted to come back to my place. as soon as we got there she gave me a blowjob and just as i was about to cum i grabbed her pussy... only to find a penis. so i fuck trannys now.

I always knew that you were a homosexual, but now at least you
admit to it, you should really hook up with 420 you guys would
make a great couple.

traffictrader · 04-21-2003, 10:28 AM

happens in bars and clubs all the time. Chicks are always after the guy that isn't interested in them, esp. if you are in a large group of guys, and all the other ones are going after her.

Ohter than that, it's only happened once, in a class in college. I took a class with my friend, and this girl was in his lab group, so they always sat together, and I was always on the other side of him. She ending up getting a crush on me and asked me out to coffee.

We ended up dating for a few months.

eddie-executive · 04-21-2003, 11:14 AM

This is kinda off subject but kinda applies to being hit on, I'll never for get it. I was like 16 or 17 and i was working selling fruit off the truck down in wildwood nj. I took this job beacuse i could meet all the hot girls off the beach in their bikinis. The one day 2 smooooookin hot girls come up al wet in their little bikinis. They started shootin the shit like hello how you doin and shit. Then out of the blue i got to real nice smiles and seductive looks out of them and they said you gonna hook us up? They said there money was back at the hotel, we're hungry can you hook us up

A couple minutes later half the tailgate was gone of snacks and fruit. I think they took half a watermelon too

I got fired that day because i couldnt explain wy there was no money and half the truck was gone,haha. Im sorry when i see tits hangin out, wet body,mmmmm ill give it all up

. Man i love the shore in the summer plenty of stories.

TheFLY · 04-21-2003, 11:38 AM

99.9% of women are afraid of me -- for good reason.

Gutterboy · 04-21-2003, 12:39 PM

I always wait for women to express interest first. Someone got it right when he said women do that quite often, but many times guys just don't get the signals.

Anyway, it works pretty well for me. The one relationship I had where I went after the girl was a total disaster.

Herb Kornfield · 04-21-2003, 04:54 PM

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Originally posted by TheFLY
99.9% of women are afraid of me -- for good reason.

The Deil has pics from vegas pete that state otherwise, lol

Herb K

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gothweb Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Back in the USSA Posts: 8,849	In terms of how it works... As the lady says, "different for everyone". With the exception of married couples who just do it for the sex, who are generally called "swingers", we generally lump ourselves into the category of "polyamory", but there is very little in common between each situation. Except, of course, the polyamory bit-- believing it is possible to love more than one person. Of course, there are people in the middle, like Sarah, who have a relationship but aren't sure about the "love". Personally, I am not in love with "C" yet, but see it as a real possibility. To me, as long as you believe in the theoretical possibility of loving more than one person, and trying to do something about it, you are "poly". How does it work for us? We looked for a long time for the perfect girl. Then, one night, she found us. It is still very new, at the new relationship phase.. It just happens to be four relationships in one. Ian & Vail Ian & "C" Vail & "C" Ian & Vail & "C" Vail and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. We live together, work together, have a joint bank account, etc. Whenever we can, we spend time with "C". She comes over a lot, and we go out together a lot. We have one on one time, or time with all three of us. If anyone was uncomfortable with any of the stuff that arose from the unusual geometry of the situation, we'd talk about it. Though, that's what we wound do if it was 1 on 1. It's really almost exactly like a 1-1 relationship, except for the math. __________________ Photos by Ian X.: Distinctive photos of goth babes. Blood Money:Your traffic, my sites, our money. MojoHost: Still the best.

04-21-2003, 10:28 AM	#77
traffictrader Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: ICQ# 93507395 Posts: 1,331	happens in bars and clubs all the time. Chicks are always after the guy that isn't interested in them, esp. if you are in a large group of guys, and all the other ones are going after her. Ohter than that, it's only happened once, in a class in college. I took a class with my friend, and this girl was in his lab group, so they always sat together, and I was always on the other side of him. She ending up getting a crush on me and asked me out to coffee. We ended up dating for a few months. __________________

04-21-2003, 11:14 AM	#78
eddie-executive Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 2,061	This is kinda off subject but kinda applies to being hit on, I'll never for get it. I was like 16 or 17 and i was working selling fruit off the truck down in wildwood nj. I took this job beacuse i could meet all the hot girls off the beach in their bikinis. The one day 2 smooooookin hot girls come up al wet in their little bikinis. They started shootin the shit like hello how you doin and shit. Then out of the blue i got to real nice smiles and seductive looks out of them and they said you gonna hook us up? They said there money was back at the hotel, we're hungry can you hook us up A couple minutes later half the tailgate was gone of snacks and fruit. I think they took half a watermelon too I got fired that day because i couldnt explain wy there was no money and half the truck was gone,haha. Im sorry when i see tits hangin out, wet body,mmmmm ill give it all up. Man i love the shore in the summer plenty of stories. __________________ Jealousy... is a mental cancer. ~B.C. Forbes

04-21-2003, 03:19 AM	#60
slavdogg Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 3,570	lets see 3 weeks ago walked into a club and 15 mins later an asian chick hit on me. I hate asian bitches but i must have been horny or something. An hour later she took me to her house and I banged her twice. It never fails, all the asian chicks say to me "oh no, you so beeeg" last year in Vegas. In Mandaley Bay around 1am was trying to find my last cig to smoke and call it a night a cute young chick came up to me. Went to the center bar, had a beer, took her to my room. She saw my sleeping cousin, woke him up and got tag-teamed with 2 money shots. That was fun, he still talks about it. I aint a playah or a pimp and dont play one on TV, but to answer your Q vegas2003, Shit happens )

04-21-2003, 03:25 AM	#62
Angelonfire Guest Posts: n/a	Excuse me I know I'm not a man. But ....but but .. I am one of those woman who loves to flirt and chasse the man.. I am not agressive but man!!! It turns me ON big time... I have to be the one initiating the signs of Maybe will play...

04-21-2003, 03:34 AM	#64
slavdogg Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 3,570	Sarah, interesting.... as long as everyone is happy more power to you guys

04-21-2003, 03:50 AM	#65
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	thank you...as soon as one of is unhappy it will stop. I hope that doesn't happen.

04-21-2003, 03:56 AM	#67
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	i don't really consider myself a swinger as I am loyal to those two men. Sometimes I wonder if I am polyamorous but have not been able to make that full mental leap yet. So, not sure..just know I care about two people - albeit it one is my husband and therefore I have that everyday life bond with him.

04-21-2003, 04:13 AM	#69
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	one of my friends that is very definitely poly (has three gf's all live in the same house..all are into each other) explained it to me like this: They say the chances of finding real love is one on a million. How many million people are in this world? #

04-21-2003, 06:53 AM	#70
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Ian, The new love is the sweetest, just be careful not to get to far out there with her. Strange thoughts will creep into your head man. Me and Mrs K had a few girlfriends, The fun you have is amazing and but, you are walking a VERY slippery slope. Be careful and remember where home is no matter what. Other than that, have the time of your life man, do it now, cause, when you are 80 and in a chair as a old bloke, you can comfort yourself with the thought that back in the day, you had GAME

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TheFLY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: http://www.thefly.net/ --- Quit your job and live off steady traffic. Posts: 11,856	99.9% of women are afraid of me -- for good reason.

04-21-2003, 12:39 PM	#80
Gutterboy So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Dis Posts: 4,751	I always wait for women to express interest first. Someone got it right when he said women do that quite often, but many times guys just don't get the signals. Anyway, it works pretty well for me. The one relationship I had where I went after the girl was a total disaster.