has a girl ever approached you and...?
 

I'd like to know SERIOUSLY-for all the guys here-has a girl ever actually approached you and hit on you when you were not looking for it? rather than the guy having to be the 1 to make the 1st move-I'd just like to know how rare it is for a girl to be the aggressor. and if this HAS happened to you, what were the circumstances?did she like your clothes, car, looks...

A few years ago, I lived in a really nice apartment complex... and I'd usually park right in front of my building, and there was this really cute chick downstairs that would always wave...

Late one night, like 4am or so, she comes knocking on my door trashed, aparently she knocked on everyones door in the building, searching for me, at 4am, cuz she was so fucked up.

All sorts of hitting on me, asks me to come down and have some drinks with her, I do.... she was a painter, and noticed she had paint on her clothes, so she proceeded to strip down to her panties. And asked me if I thought she had a nice body, blah blah blah, used to be a cheerleader blah blah blah...

She told me a few min before that she had a bf who was out of town, etc... and I dont play the assisting to cheating game... Cuz I know how it feels to be that other guy.

So... I complimented her on her tits, and left...

She came by one other time, all trashed, and called me gay because I wouldnt fuck her...

Girls who hit on me really heavily scare me... =/

has only happened with me once. She turned out to be a slutty bitch who was just using me for sex and money... the sex part was fine for a while... until I found out how many guys she had been with...

:feels-hot

It didnt last long though :)

yeah I've had a girl come up to me and hit me... bitch:mad:

Our new girlfriend approached me. She had noticed me around for a while, and not long after we first talked she got a little drunk and admitted to being interested. It was the first time I had been chatted-up... by a woman.

Life has been amazing ever since.

I don't think I have ever once went up to a girl and tried to hit on her. They always come after me for some reason

I have only had one woman hit on me. Thank goodness she used closed fist since her nails were three inches long.

"Our" what in the hell....




I wish more women would take the first step. Why the hell is it always guys?

All the time..:thumbsup

Yes, "our". Vail and I have been together for more than 3 years, and now *we* have a new girlfriend. The first time, and it's wonderful.

yea... just about 30 mins ago...
she was horny :Graucho

Happened to me on a number of occasions. I never and I mean never under any circumstances try to dress well. In fact, I just grab random things out of my clean laundry basket (yeah I never fold shit either) and just put it on in the morning. So it wasn't my clothes. My car is nothing great either, so it's never the car. Further I am pretty arrogant yet I get hit on a lot. In fact, I am slowly coming to a conclusion that the less effort I put into "my image" the more I get hit on.

I get hit on the most at night clubs. You know how guys usually try to score some by showing off their skills and dancing close to a bunch of chicks? I've done that too but I simply stopped. Now, it works quite the opposite, I just dance and chicks walk up to me and start grinding. I usually return the favor.

gym sock

My hubby and I share girlfriends too :) It's the only way to be! I generally pick his for him though, I'm better at picking them up :P

not once, or maybe i havnt noticed it.. but if so.. she would got a nice doggy style pounding

We figured we'd never find someone, since we were looking for a relatively simple and old-fashioned relationship, except for the number of people involved. She's the only girl for us. :)

what do you mean by that?

congratulations.. It's nice when you can find one like that..they're hard to find for sure. She's a keeper. Generally for us they are just for sex, not really relationships, but if one happens to come along who's great for us, we keep em around for a while :)

Don't watch the Discovery Channel / life network / TLC??

Most of the time women DO make the first move...just have to be looking for the right things...


I've had a handful of girls come right up to me, but they were all throwbacks :thumbsup

You hold the secrets of the universe in the palm of your hand, don't you?

Guide me, oh wise one!

You said they always come after you for some reason...thought maybe you were stuffing a gym sock.

You know...a joke.

right on, just didn't get what you meant by it.

yeah this one time a girl hit on me in the club. she wanted to come back to my place. as soon as we got there she gave me a blowjob and just as i was about to cum i grabbed her pussy... only to find a penis. so i fuck trannys now.
:stoned

I have never had sex with someone who wasn't a keeper, I'm weird that way. Things are still new with our new girl, but everything is very sweet and if I have my way, she will be around for a long long time.

Nah...I don't hold any secrets. Of the women I have had some sort of relationship with, it's about a 50/50 split on who approached who.

Happens to me all of the time. However, it's mostly fugly chicks! Every once and a while it will be a hottie.

-I wear average clothes
-drive an average jeep
-have average looks

...dont know what the deal is.

awesome.. Vail is a hottie too so you're a lucky man :)

It happens to me quite abit, but not nearly as much as when I had long hair... Mostly married women back then....

it honestly happens all the time but its almost postive any chick that does it is a little slut but hey isnt that why we are trying to pick up a chick so we can take em home and shag em ? :)

:thumbsup

yeah..that's about the average.. Men get hit on all the time, but most of them don't see it. My hubby, a chick practically has to get naked and shove her pussy in his face before he knows she's hitting. Some guys just don't pay attention so they don't KNOW when the chick is "making the first move".

Thanks... I know!

We should let these nice people get back to the subject at hand, now. ;)

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh you just made my day

lolol I turn 40 this year and I still don't know. Guys are a lot simpler heh

I get hit on occasionally. It's not too common because I am not particularly pretty, but it happens :)

The best/worst was this woman I worked with at a market research place. She started out just complimenting me and flirting and eventually it got to where she was reaching over and rubbing my cock and balls through my pants. She did this shit at work, with people all around. She was crazy. This went on for a long time, but I already have a girlfriend so I would always brush her off and tell her to cut it out. Eventually, I was moved downstairs to do a different job and she didn't have access to me.

I've had women grab my ass, give me free shit where they work, blah, blah, blah. The one thing all have in common: every single woman who has really hit on me since I left high school has been black. I think black women are just bolder and maybe like big men more than white girls. That's fine by me, though, I love black women.

SpaceAce

Very good observation :glugglug

I'll tell you when women start hitting on you all the damn time.

As soon as you get married...Or serious about a relationship. The homewreckers can smell it a mile away I suppose.

exactly

i was at a punk concert a few years ago trashed on pills, just got done puking all over the back of my friends car, and some girl came up to me and started hitting on me. i could barely see straight, but i got the number and eventually got tha pussy! :winkwink:

best one i had was online instead of offline. For years I was trying to get a nice hot older chick from AOL, to no avail. Then one day I get an instant message from an older chick, 40 years old, when I was totally not looking for it. I thought something was up, prolly a guy, she send me a pic that looks like Halle Berry, no shit. We talked on the fone a few times, she was real kinky... a teacher too (high school) / Finally we met, she gave me a ride from work, we went to a park, and she literally jumped me. It was so unreal.

Actually...not to come off like I'm tryin' toot my horn or anything...more often than me approaching women, they approach me. I'm not sure what it is cuz I'm no GQ lookin' dude or anything. One girl recently told me that it was cuz I looked very approachable & that if she did get shot down that I looked like a guy that would let her down easy rather than be a prick about it. I really don't care either way cuz it makes my life a WHOLE lot easier this way. :winkwink:

once a girl grabbed my ass.....I think it was a girl :(

girls always come to me, i very rarely go after a chick...

When I was younger and went to bars it happened often. I've had women, come right out and ask, you want to fuck. First time I was shocked. If you want to really have some fun find a menopause haven bar in your area, most mid to large cities
have' em.

It happens to me often. And it frigging ALWAYS happens at yje wrong time...like I just have a new girlfriend, I'm just about to fly to the other side of the world, etc. Conversely, it never happens when I would really like it to.

I used to put that down to being unlucky. Then one day I got to thinking about it, and realised that all those times had one thing in common: at all those points in time I was very self-contained, confident, self-sufficient, in other words I didn't look as though I needed it. Which is a powerful aphrodesiac: people are attracted to (the illusion of) success.

Riches/cars/clothing never had anything to do with it.

Ah, missed your reply...that's it, yes :)

One time a girl grabbed my ass right as my wife turned away. Not long after, she kissed me during another opportunity. I told my wife about it instantly and she told me she wasn't surprised at all! :-) Hmmm. I wonder how much they talk?

Comes of being a woman but thinking like a man, most of the time. I see things from a man's point of view but with the knowledge of a woman's motivation :)

Whoever it was, you can be sure Boneprone fucked it! :P

sometimes, but its usually dogs. Like the chick that delivered my pizza that looked half retarded. If I would have gave the bow wow a poke maybe I would have got my food free.