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Mr Pheer 01-20-2012 12:55 AM

She may indeed hope to pay her affiliates...

But there is a big question to be asked here. If her income has dropped so much that she cant pay her mortgage for 4 months (meaning that her mortgage company has most likely started foreclosure proceedings unless she has a loan modification) then how will she make payments to affiliates?

Sounds like there is no more traffic, rebills are dying, and the money well has dried up. How do you pay people with no money? Apologies dont pay bills, especially with how (rudely) she just shut off everything and now its like, oopsie my bad.

Spunky 01-20-2012 01:04 AM

Hopefully it all works out in the end.you laid it down.make em believe

Nicky 01-20-2012 01:08 AM

No worries people, they were just "borrowing" your money. :Oh crap

RyuLion 01-20-2012 01:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky (Post 18699847)
No worries people, they were just "borrowing" your money. :Oh crap

:Oh crap:Oh crap:Oh crap :helpme

TurboAngel 01-20-2012 06:18 AM

You all are crazy too think it's her. LMFAO

Fletch XXX 01-20-2012 06:22 AM

LOL i thought this was a joke thread.

anyone who plays with fire shall be burned.

no way this is her right? LOLOLOL maybe she should start a design company...

Failed 01-20-2012 06:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Far-L (Post 18699799)
Dudester Bro-diddley...

As long as I have been in biz I have had plenty of no-pays, late-pays, delays, way-laids, and checks in the mail promises... If someone tells me they intend to pay then I give them the benefit of the doubt first. So your analogy is not even accurate or informative; it is just sophistry to try and make your point but it is baseless and misleading. If they say they will pay then what is the harm in giving them the benefit of the doubt?

Give you an example, just so you understand that without having all the facts, you shouldn't accuse them of stealing based on assumptions.

We once had a vendor that was half our total income literally close shop overnight, take all the money, the lists, data, etc. and move to a desert island. Now that was an event that we had zero control over which instantly cash strapped us, but the worse problem was that part of what we should have been paid was also owed to other producers like Dave Cummings.

Now we knew we would never recover a dime, but Dave still expected to be paid. Due to the circumstances we delayed payment, Dave was not happy, but we eventually rebounded and paid him. Were we stealing from him? Never. Was he paid. Yes. Did it take a while to make good and was it a messy pain in the ass to deal with? Yes and yes. Did Dave think we were stealing from him? Probably. Did he realize in the end that we were not. YES.

Don't assume anything. And if someone says sorry and I will pay then what should be asking is "when and how" not saying pretty much only "fuck you". What good is that going to do?

And yes, I do believe it is possible to accurately pay back every penny with a proper audit of their transactions.

They just shut down the program without warning and said that's it, no more payments, no more rebills, that's it. I don't know how much clearer a case of theft can be. This is no different from epass leaving stranded money in your account and closing, no different.

If you choose to give the benefit of the doubt to a thief, that's on you. This passive, and forgiving attitude towards thieves is one of the reasons they are allowed to thrive in adult. For christ's sake Mallick was called a stand up guy and thanked the other day. When will people learn?

seeandsee 01-20-2012 06:23 AM

paying people is nice step

cherrylula 01-20-2012 06:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Failed (Post 18699342)
Here we go, just like the last thread. Bros incoming to defend stealing from affiliates :thumbsup

Pretty much, and most likely isn't even her posting. But she's still hot! :1orglaugh

DWB 01-20-2012 06:29 AM

You are doing the right thing, even if you're taking lumps along the way.

cherrylula 01-20-2012 06:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr Pheer (Post 18699833)
She may indeed hope to pay her affiliates...

But there is a big question to be asked here. If her income has dropped so much that she cant pay her mortgage for 4 months (meaning that her mortgage company has most likely started foreclosure proceedings unless she has a loan modification) then how will she make payments to affiliates?

Sounds like there is no more traffic, rebills are dying, and the money well has dried up. How do you pay people with no money? Apologies dont pay bills, especially with how (rudely) she just shut off everything and now its like, oopsie my bad.

WTF? Don't go posting sound business logic in this thread! What's wrong with you?!?@! :1orglaugh

no matter, dammit! She's still hot!!! LOL

DWB 01-20-2012 06:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Far-L (Post 18699799)
Dudester Bro-diddley...

As long as I have been in biz I have had plenty of no-pays, late-pays, delays, way-laids, and checks in the mail promises... If someone tells me they intend to pay then I give them the benefit of the doubt first. So your analogy is not even accurate or informative; it is just sophistry to try and make your point but it is baseless and misleading. If they say they will pay then what is the harm in giving them the benefit of the doubt?

Give you an example, just so you understand that without having all the facts, you shouldn't accuse them of stealing based on assumptions.

We once had a vendor that was half our total income literally close shop overnight, take all the money, the lists, data, etc. and move to a desert island. Now that was an event that we had zero control over which instantly cash strapped us, but the worse problem was that part of what we should have been paid was also owed to other producers like Dave Cummings.

Now we knew we would never recover a dime, but Dave still expected to be paid. Due to the circumstances we delayed payment, Dave was not happy, but we eventually rebounded and paid him. Were we stealing from him? Never. Was he paid. Yes. Did it take a while to make good and was it a messy pain in the ass to deal with? Yes and yes. Did Dave think we were stealing from him? Probably. Did he realize in the end that we were not. YES.

Don't assume anything. And if someone says sorry and I will pay then what should be asking is "when and how" not saying pretty much only "fuck you". What good is that going to do?

And yes, I do believe it is possible to accurately pay back every penny with a proper audit of their transactions.

Good post. :2 cents:

Fletch XXX 01-20-2012 06:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cherrylula (Post 18700201)
Pretty much, and most likely isn't even her posting. But she's still hot! :1orglaugh

you and a very limited few posting here are actually females, the rest have a guy posting on the nick, even if just half the time.

cherrylula 01-20-2012 06:32 AM

Hey... may this all get sorted out though. I just think since nothing changed on her site, prior to making this thread, y'all being trolled. :2cents

TurboAngel 01-20-2012 06:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fletch XXX (Post 18700208)
you and a very limited few posting here are actually females, the rest have a guy posting on the nick, even if just half the time.

I think you have a great point!


:thumbsup

suesheboy 01-20-2012 06:55 AM

She needs to start stripping 7 days a week starting tonight.

This is either a bullshit hacked account or what I would classify as the most spoiled, self centered, stuck up, deluded, uneducated, thieving bitch yet. Her excuses are not just laughable, but should be presented in business 101 classes as a classic case of what not to do and then TO SHUT THE FUCK UP UNLESS YOU HAVE MONEY IN HAND.

Many of the female "stars" in this business are in for a rude awakening when they grow old and have not socked a lot away for their future. Few are 10's AND mental giants at the same time.

Put a bag over your head and see how "smart" and "interesting" you still are to men. Let's see how brilliant you are in another biz without men looking at your tits.

I know this may sound harsh but someone needs to set these kids straight. Too many of you blow smoke up the asses of these ladies since grade school and their world view is very distorted.

Would love to see the brilliant state of mind she was in when she came up with the idea to post here.

asspussy02 01-20-2012 07:04 AM

interesting thread

beerptrol 01-20-2012 07:15 AM

she'd probably make more money doing a national lot lizzard tour

Panky 01-20-2012 07:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by the Shemp (Post 18698631)
password: straightwhiteteeth...?

:1orglaugh

DarkJedi 01-20-2012 07:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HotMelissa (Post 18698198)
please be patient everyone will get there money

it's "their", you dumb fuckign cunt

CaptainHowdy 01-20-2012 07:45 AM

You're hot hence you're forgiven, Melissa ...

DarkJedi 01-20-2012 07:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just Alex (Post 18698569)
How is Fieldhouse doing? New record coming out any time soon?



:1orglaugh

candyflip 01-20-2012 07:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Far-L (Post 18699573)
You didn't pay attention in history class. We have gone after "bros" with multi-year lawsuits for stealing, so even if it is ONE PENNY then I have an issue with stealing.

The point here though, which you didn't address, bro, is that how is it stealing if they say that they are going to make good on every penny? They made a mistake and intend to make good on it. What more do you need bro? Some bro-love from the bro-haters?

The business was shit so she bailed taking the money. Now she's back, hasn't paid her mortgage in 4 months and you really think she's going to be able to pay people back?

Come on now. You're MUCH smarter than that.

iSpyCams 01-20-2012 07:53 AM

I never promoted her but I have been screwed by multiple programs in and out of Adult.

I think there are many people here who can attest that you don't have to be a thief to go broke.

First of all, making an announcement that they were closed and there would be no more payments is way more ballsy and honest than any of the scumbags that have ripped me off ever were. As a creditor I know from experience that it is much easier to make the right decision when you know you are fucked than if you are being strung along with false hope.

Also coming back around and stating an intent to pay everyone back is a move you don't often get from thieves.

DarkJedi 01-20-2012 07:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 18700255)
This is either a bullshit hacked account

it's not hacked... she really IS that fucking stoopid

DarkJedi 01-20-2012 08:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pompousjohn (Post 18700354)
Also coming back around and stating an intent to pay everyone back is a move you don't often get from thieves.

what the fuck is she gonna pay people back with? her ass?

she's broke and this thread is a desperate attempt to sucker back the idiots into sending her sales

Fletch XXX 01-20-2012 08:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pompousjohn (Post 18700354)

Also coming back around and stating an intent to pay everyone back is a move you don't often get from thieves.


thats right, scammers are the ones who keep coming back and doing it over and over again.

lol

the Shemp 01-20-2012 08:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Panky (Post 18700324)
:1orglaugh

i saw her in Vegas in 2004...she was cute but the one thing i remember most is the bedazzling white teeth ...whiter than a picket fence ... gleeming like a porcelin toilet ...
thank god i had my dark iridium aviators on ...

Herb Kornfield 01-20-2012 12:03 PM

loose the suitcase pimp and get a man that can take care of you .... problem solved..

Johny Traffic 01-20-2012 12:31 PM

Quote:

NEXT WEBCAM SHOW :
October 4th, 2009 at 8:30 P.M. EST
http://www.melissamidwest.com/main.html


Hopefully I still have time to catch it?

LiveDose 01-20-2012 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkJedi (Post 18700367)
what the fuck is she gonna pay people back with? her ass?

she's broke and this thread is a desperate attempt to sucker back the idiots into sending her sales

I bet some people would accept that as payment.

suesheboy 01-20-2012 06:30 PM

looks as if she bailed or sobered up

alias 01-20-2012 06:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 18700255)
She needs to start stripping 7 days a week starting tonight.

This is either a bullshit hacked account or what I would classify as the most spoiled, self centered, stuck up, deluded, uneducated, thieving bitch yet. Her excuses are not just laughable, but should be presented in business 101 classes as a classic case of what not to do and then TO SHUT THE FUCK UP UNLESS YOU HAVE MONEY IN HAND.

Many of the female "stars" in this business are in for a rude awakening when they grow old and have not socked a lot away for their future. Few are 10's AND mental giants at the same time.

Put a bag over your head and see how "smart" and "interesting" you still are to men. Let's see how brilliant you are in another biz without men looking at your tits.

I know this may sound harsh but someone needs to set these kids straight. Too many of you blow smoke up the asses of these ladies since grade school and their world view is very distorted.

Would love to see the brilliant state of mind she was in when she came up with the idea to post here.

Pretty realistic statements, solid rant. :2 cents:

iSpyCams 01-20-2012 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LiveDose (Post 18700955)
I bet some people would accept that as payment.

Especially the ones who didn't make the minimum payout

BV 01-20-2012 07:09 PM

I'd hit it.

Failed 01-20-2012 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pompousjohn (Post 18701595)
Especially the ones who didn't make the minimum payout

Not worth it, I want my 40 bucks.

Jakez 01-20-2012 07:56 PM

There is a very simple solution to all of this:

1. Let everyone who is owed money run a train on you.
2. Tape it.
3. Sell it.
4. Pay affiliates back.
5. Profit!!!
6. Retain all affiliates and gain many more who all hope you will screw up again.

pocketkangaroo 01-20-2012 08:02 PM

Hate to say it, but you aren't sorry for not paying your affiliates. You're sorry that your plan to keep the money didn't work out long term. You made a bad business decision that hurt others financially and it's biting you in the ass.

I don't care if people promote your program or what happens. But lets stop pretending you are sorry for what you did. You're not, you're sorry your plan didn't work out.

Midwest Shane 01-20-2012 08:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 18701557)
looks as if she bailed or sobered up

No reason to go back and forth with everyone, I need to pay and when I do people will know I was telling the truth. I can't argue because all of you are right I messed up nothing more I can say. Sorry again!

midnightio 01-20-2012 09:15 PM

I like the train idea. Choo-choo!


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