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selena · 04-26-2011, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Do you really think they "go gay" or is it possible that they were gay the whole time and try to adapt to societal norms in order to avoid some of the opinions in this thread?

Sly's post for $200, Alex.

Speaking of hate speech, I hate when people say that sexuality is a choice. I do not know anyone who chose to be turned on by whatever turns them on. It just happens. I like guys, the OP likes girls. Neither of us chose that, it just is what it is.

Or is she just uber special, and got to make a choice that I didn't get? If so, I feel choice deprived.

Reason for Edit: 100 Non-Choosers

BlackCrayon · 04-26-2011, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

I would like to hear one straight guy come out and say "I sat in bed thinking one morning at the age of 8 and decided that I like women."

I like women. Nice big, soft tits. Nice round ass. Why? I haven't the slightest idea! I just do. I can't imagine a gay man is any different.

I often wonder what different experiences (if any) gay people have had that differ from straight? what % of gay people were abused as a child? what % of gay people come from single parent homes? of course there is little to compare it to since the majority of the population is straight..

BlackCrayon · 04-26-2011, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by selena

Sly's post for $200, Alex.

Speaking of hate speech, I hate when people say that sexuality is a choice. I do not know anyone who chose to be turned on by whatever turns them on. It just happens. I like guys, the OP likes girls. Neither of us choose that, it just is what it is.

Or is she just uber special, and got to make a choice that I didn't get? If so, I feel choice deprived.

Reason for Edit: 100 Non-Choosers

how far does it go though? sexual orientation isn't a choice...so being into bondage a choice? is getting turned on by animals a choice? is being a pedo a choice? is liking whatever kind of music a choice? is being religious a choice? is everything pre determined? if not, it seems people like to pick and choose what is and what isn't.

SleazyDream · 04-26-2011, 12:30 PM

bann Holly, she's using the word LEZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

selena · 04-26-2011, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

how far does it go though? sexual orientation isn't a choice...so being into bondage a choice? is getting turned on by animals a choice? is being a pedo a choice? is liking whatever kind of music a choice? is being religious a choice? is everything pre determined? if not, it seems people like to pick and choose what is and what isn't.

I am very into many aspects of BDSM. At no point in time did I have the mental light bulb of "hey, I think that the notion of licking boots will make my pussy wet from now on".

It just is what it is.

Now, do I have a choice as to whether I decide to act upon the desire to lick the boots? Of course.

And it is possible the desire to lick was formed by a culmination of events. A perfect storm of events that led to it, perhaps with a genetic predisposition toward it. But it is as much a part of me as my brown eyes.

What I choose to do about it is where free will comes in to play.

That's my

CaptainHowdy · 04-26-2011, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

It is called "art" me touching myself is a artform

webair · 04-26-2011, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Holly Lez!

And you are a moron.. I am a dyke and if I ever met you I will be the biggest cunt you will ever meet!

Sly · 04-26-2011, 12:43 PM

A gay mans favorite childhood toy was Lincoln logs.

True story.

CaptainHowdy · 04-26-2011, 12:44 PM

Homosexuality can be cured btw ...

Sarah_Jayne · 04-26-2011, 12:58 PM

The attitudes of people in the porn industry towards sexuality never fails to stun me.

Kiopa_Matt · 04-26-2011, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by dyna mo

well, that's rly what it boils down to eh. i wonder. for example, those guys that live married lives, raise kids, all that, then divorce and go gay. i've seen that happen several times and wondered what the underlying motivation was for making the switch at that time in their lives.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm guessing most of those people are older, and in their 50s / 60s, right? I chalk that up to simply societal stigma. When they were a young buck of 22yo, you simply weren't allowed to be gay. I grew up in a small, redneck oil patch town myself backs in the 90s, so I could just imagine what it would have been like in the 60s or 70s.

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Originally Posted by dyna mo

seems to me there could be other factors besides genetic.

And that's the million dollar question. Nobody knows. There's been decades of research done, and still no conclusive evidence whatsoever on what causes sexuality. I'm not a doctor, so personally, I don't give a shit. I just know there's zero chance my sexuality is changing, everyone is dealt a hand of cards in life, and the hand itself doesn't matter so much, but how you play it does.

TangibleAsset · 04-26-2011, 01:15 PM

I realize that this isn't a democracy but does anyone else think -LOL-'s ban was a bit unjustified? This board is filled with people flaming each other. I mean he did call her a "dyke cunt" but she admitted to being one like two posts later, lol.

Holly Lez! · 04-26-2011, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

bann Holly, she's using the word LEZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL you can't Eric gave me this name! TADA .. oh and hi Scott

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 04-26-2011, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by selena

I am very into many aspects of BDSM. At no point in time did I have the mental light bulb of "hey, I think that the notion of licking boots will make my pussy wet from now on".

It just is what it is.

Now, do I have a choice as to whether I decide to act upon the desire to lick the boots? Of course.

And it is possible the desire to lick was formed by a culmination of events. A perfect storm of events that led to it, perhaps with a genetic predisposition toward it. But it is as much a part of me as my brown eyes.

What I choose to do about it is where free will comes in to play.

That's my

I'm nekkid 'cept for my dirty Doc Martens...

ADG

Holly Lez! · 04-26-2011, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by TangibleAsset

I realize that this isn't a democracy but does anyone else think -LOL-'s ban was a bit unjustified? This board is filled with people flaming each other. I mean he did call her a "dyke cunt" but she admitted to being one like two posts later, lol.

LOL well hmm I think Eric might have banned him for other reasons than just calling me a name.. but I don't know..But he can call me whatever cause he don't pay my rent so I could give two shits mmmkay..

Sarah_Jayne · 04-26-2011, 01:21 PM

Often, and I am mostly talking from my own life here, the idea that you could play it straight in life is a nagging voice in your head and you try to do everything you can to fit into the expected mold. Some people can convince themselves that they are actually happy that way. They probably actually love the straight partners they are with but know that it doesn't feel right but struggle on for the sake of that love and for an 'easy' life. Then there the others that can only repress their real feelings and desires for so long and then simply have to get out of the straight relationship because they are finally admitting to *themselves* that their feelings are real and can not be fought.

Just because you are born some way (and I fully believe I was born bisexual) doesn't mean you are comfortable with it from birth or that you can easily shake the expectations of family and society.

I am pretty sure though that we all love watching straight people debate the truth of our emotions as if they aren't real emotions if the general population votes no.

Holly Lez! · 04-26-2011, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by pornopete

The boards called gofuckyourself. Stop being a whiny little fag and go fuck yourself.

LOL you! I aint whiny and if you don't like it don't read it or comment on it mmmkay..

The Porn Nerd · 04-26-2011, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Eric

Somewhere along the lines you guys keep missing the part where this is not a democracy.

THIS is why I always pay my Tribute to King Eric.

So okay, personal attacks are out but what about personnel attacks?

PR_Glen · 04-26-2011, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_MaxCash

Often, and I am mostly talking from my own life here, the idea that you could play it straight in life is a nagging voice in your head and you try to do everything you can to fit into the expected mold. Some people can convince themselves that they are actually happy that way. They probably actually love the straight partners they are with but know that it doesn't feel right but struggle on for the sake of that love and for an 'easy' life. Then there the others that can only repress their real feelings and desires for so long and then simply have to get out of the straight relationship because they are finally admitting to *themselves* that their feelings are real and can not be fought.

Just because you are born some way (and I fully believe I was born bisexual) doesn't mean you are comfortable with it from birth or that you can easily shake the expectations of family and society.

I am pretty sure though that we all love watching straight people debate the truth of our emotions as if they aren't real emotions if the general population votes no.

general population? You mean 99.9999% of the people who aren't 'truly' bisexual?

Sexual habits and orientation aren't even the same thing, I can visit Africa and that doesn't make me African ;)

Sarah_Jayne · 04-26-2011, 01:48 PM

And how do you know who is truly bisexual, truly gay or even truly straight? then if you can somehow know that who gets to be the judge? Surely not the actual people with the emotions and desires? No, that should left up to some third parties that apparently know all about us and what is in our heads and hearts.

Go on..use your judging powers...am I truly bisexual?

TheDoc · 04-26-2011, 01:52 PM

Ahhh... clearly LOL isn't an advertiser. Don't forget people, if you want to talk trash you need to pay the man first.

Supz · 04-26-2011, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Holly Lez!

I agree totally which was my point.. if you are gonna start with rules about hate speech than you have to include all hate speech... Which won't get people to stop how they think.

It doesnt say anything about hate speach, it says about racism. This is not a democracy. No racism. that is the rule. Not, No Hate Speach.

As someone else mentioned. racism and sexism are 2 different things, yes they are both hate speach, but not the same thing, and the rule states racism. They don't have to change it to be fair because this is an internet message board. It does not have to be fair. It is there rules. This is just how the internet is. It never has been a democracy and never will be. Whoever owns a site / chatroom / forum makes there own rules. If they want to ban your ip for no reason they can. It is what it is.

C H R I S · 04-26-2011, 02:03 PM

Thread Delivered......

Hi Holly!!!

LOL @ LOL

selena · 04-26-2011, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude

I'm nekkid 'cept for my dirty Doc Martens...

ADG

There is a limit on how dirty they can be.

I like military shiny.

Jakez · 04-26-2011, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by WarChild

It's stupid that racist posts are banned. You never solve issues by sweeping them under the carpet. If people want to make racists posts and generally make an ass of themselves, better to let them do it and expose their self rather than force them to stay quiet and hide the fact.

Nobody finds it the least bit ironic that the leading message board for an industry that exists only because of the right to say, publish or create something others might find distasteful actively suppresses free speech?

Who gives a fuck if what somebody has to say is hateful or in poor taste? Just so long as it's not an attempt to incite violence, we shouldn't be trying to censor any speech period.

Fucking cry babies.

Holly Lez! · 04-26-2011, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by C H R I S 2.0

Thread Delivered......

Hi Holly!!!

LOL @ LOL

Hi Chris! LOL at this thread and how mad people are over one question

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 04-26-2011, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by selena

There is a limit on how dirty they can be.

I like military shiny.

Good! I expect them to be "military shiny" when you are done licking them...

ADG

spazlabz · 04-26-2011, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_MaxCash

Go on..use your judging powers...am I truly bisexual?

dunno.... but I'd watch it!

SmokeyTheBear · 04-26-2011, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Holly Lez!

If racial slurs are against the rules here why not ban homophobic slurs as well? Hate speech is hate speech!

banning homophobic slurs would imply heterophobic slurs are ok.. shame on you..

papill0n · 04-26-2011, 10:25 PM

fuck off faggots and suck my cock on the way out

brassmonkey · 04-26-2011, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by papill0n

fuck off faggots and suck my cock on the way out

AmeliaG · 04-26-2011, 10:38 PM

Go Holly!

Holly Lez! · 04-26-2011, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by AmeliaG

Go Holly!

Hey how are you? Long time!

shade001 · 04-27-2011, 12:00 AM

Personally, I find labels very limiting. Why on God's green earth is someone's sexual orientation so important that we refer to them that way as if it defines their whole life?

That being said, anyone on a forum called Go Fuck Yourself whose little feelings needs to be protected deserves to be made fun of a bit. We're all too self-important for our own good.

This is life, people, It ain't supposed to be fair.

Sarah_Jayne · 04-27-2011, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by spazlabz

dunno.... but I'd watch it!

That's the fun part of bi...watching *and* joining in are sometimes welcome

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Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	Often, and I am mostly talking from my own life here, the idea that you could play it straight in life is a nagging voice in your head and you try to do everything you can to fit into the expected mold. Some people can convince themselves that they are actually happy that way. They probably actually love the straight partners they are with but know that it doesn't feel right but struggle on for the sake of that love and for an 'easy' life. Then there the others that can only repress their real feelings and desires for so long and then simply have to get out of the straight relationship because they are finally admitting to themselves that their feelings are real and can not be fought. Just because you are born some way (and I fully believe I was born bisexual) doesn't mean you are comfortable with it from birth or that you can easily shake the expectations of family and society. I am pretty sure though that we all love watching straight people debate the truth of our emotions as if they aren't real emotions if the general population votes no. Last edited by Sarah_Jayne; 04-26-2011 at 01:23 PM..

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Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	The attitudes of people in the porn industry towards sexuality never fails to stun me.

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TangibleAsset Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 406	I realize that this isn't a democracy but does anyone else think -LOL-'s ban was a bit unjustified? This board is filled with people flaming each other. I mean he did call her a "dyke cunt" but she admitted to being one like two posts later, lol.

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Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	And how do you know who is truly bisexual, truly gay or even truly straight? then if you can somehow know that who gets to be the judge? Surely not the actual people with the emotions and desires? No, that should left up to some third parties that apparently know all about us and what is in our heads and hearts. Go on..use your judging powers...am I truly bisexual?

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shade001 Confirmed User Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 396	Personally, I find labels very limiting. Why on God's green earth is someone's sexual orientation so important that we refer to them that way as if it defines their whole life? That being said, anyone on a forum called Go Fuck Yourself whose little feelings needs to be protected deserves to be made fun of a bit. We're all too self-important for our own good. This is life, people, It ain't supposed to be fair.