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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
how far does it go though? sexual orientation isn't a choice...so being into bondage a choice? is getting turned on by animals a choice? is being a pedo a choice? is liking whatever kind of music a choice? is being religious a choice? is everything pre determined? if not, it seems people like to pick and choose what is and what isn't.
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I am very into many aspects of BDSM. At no point in time did I have the mental light bulb of "hey, I think that the notion of licking boots will make my pussy wet from now on".
It just is what it is.
Now, do I have a choice as to whether I decide to act upon the desire to lick the boots? Of course.
And it is possible the desire to lick was formed by a culmination of events. A perfect storm of events that led to it, perhaps with a genetic predisposition toward it. But it is as much a part of me as my brown eyes.
What I choose to do about it is where free will comes in to play.
That's my
