Originally Posted by selena

I am very into many aspects of BDSM. At no point in time did I have the mental light bulb of "hey, I think that the notion of licking boots will make my pussy wet from now on".

It just is what it is.

Now, do I have a choice as to whether I decide to act upon the desire to lick the boots? Of course.

And it is possible the desire to lick was formed by a culmination of events. A perfect storm of events that led to it, perhaps with a genetic predisposition toward it. But it is as much a part of me as my brown eyes.

What I choose to do about it is where free will comes in to play.

That's my