An observer's commentary on continuing drama in GFY - GoFuckYourself.com

SxDx · 09-27-2006, 02:31 PM

I haven't been on GFY all that long, but the GFY back and forth drama is always amusing to me. What I don't get is...

#1 we're all here to help each other make money in this industry that we share. So, we should try to build each other up and not break each other down.

#2 if individuals have such a problem with one another, I was always taught that you settle them toe-to-toe, man-to-man. Calling someone names like 'faggot' or 'idiot' in a public forum over a computer has always seemed juvenile to me for obvious reasons and ultimately, it accomplishes nothing.

#3 if you've got a legit problem with someone, call me crazy, but I think it should be settled in private. I can see where calling someone out on the board is sometimes a last resort to achieve a desired outcome, but often times it seems as though it's the first knee-jerk reaction that people have.

Just my

and that's all.

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TampaToker · 09-27-2006, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by SxDx

I haven't been on GFY all that long, but the GFY back and forth drama is always amusing to me. What I don't get is...

#1 we're all here to help each other make money in this industry that we share. So, we should try to build each other up and not break each other down.

Wrong and sooner you learn that the better you will be

Serge Litehead · 09-27-2006, 02:34 PM

gfy is gfy, it has its own common sense

BoyAlley · 09-27-2006, 02:34 PM

Here let Teh BoyAlley helps you:

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Originally Posted by SxDx

#1 we're all here to help each other make money in this industry that we share. So, we should try to build each other up and not break each other down.

This is not good for generating thread views.

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Originally Posted by SxDx

#2 Calling someone names like 'faggot' or 'idiot' in a public forum over a computer has always seemed juvenile to me for obvious reasons and ultimately, it accomplishes nothing.

Actually being called a faggot all the time on here makes me lots of monies.

For Real.

Really.

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Originally Posted by SxDx

#3 if you've got a legit problem with someone, call me crazy, but I think it should be settled in private.

You are crazy. Think of how many thread views you're losing by keeping it private!

BoyAlley · 09-27-2006, 02:36 PM

BTW: Welcome to GFY See David:

After Shock Media · 09-27-2006, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by SxDx

#1 we're all here to help each other make money in this industry that we share. So, we should try to build each other up and not break each other down.

Because some of those that some of us work with feel the need to screw others. So shit hits the fan.

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Originally Posted by SxDx

#2 if individuals have such a problem with one another, I was always taught that you settle them toe-to-toe, man-to-man. Calling someone names like 'faggot' or 'idiot' in a public forum over a computer has always seemed juvenile to me for obvious reasons and ultimately, it accomplishes nothing.

Name calling does nothing aside from getting a small laugh if it was funny enough. Problems aired in public though typically end up with a solution and often very quickly for the person that was screwed.

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Originally Posted by SxDx

#3 if you've got a legit problem with someone, call me crazy, but I think it should be settled in private. I can see where calling someone out on the board is sometimes a last resort to achieve a desired outcome, but often times it seems as though it's the first knee-jerk reaction that people have.

Drama stuff typically could and should be handled in private I agree. Often that does not work out though or they just ignore you. Drama should never be knee jerk either though and it is important to think it out.
However when potential drama also effects more than one person and those people may not know they are getting screwed, it does not seem right to keep it private. If you think so still, then your in violation of your #1.

Just my

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ronaldo · 09-27-2006, 02:39 PM

I think you're overestimating the intelligence level that exists on GFY and you're DEFINITELY off base as to why many are actually here (#1).

Dirty F · 09-27-2006, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by SxDx

Calling someone names like 'faggot' or 'idiot' in a public forum over a computer has always seemed juvenile to me for obvious reasons and ultimately, it accomplishes nothing.

Yeah, i hate it when people do that!

SxDx · 09-27-2006, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by BoyAlley

Here let Teh BoyAlley helps you:

This is not good for generating thread views.

Actually being called a faggot all the time on here makes me lots of monies.

For Real.

Really.

You are crazy. Think of how many thread views you're losing by keeping it private!

hahaha...I hear ya. But think for a sec...this thread has already gotten some good views in the few minutes it's been up. more then any other thread I've ever posted. So, whether I truly believe everything i said or not, I must've posted this thread for a reason

squishypimp · 09-27-2006, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by SxDx

I haven't been on GFY all that long, but the GFY back and forth drama is always amusing to me. What I don't get is...

#1 we're all here to help each other make money in this industry that we share. So, we should try to build each other up and not break each other down.

#2 if individuals have such a problem with one another, I was always taught that you settle them toe-to-toe, man-to-man. Calling someone names like 'faggot' or 'idiot' in a public forum over a computer has always seemed juvenile to me for obvious reasons and ultimately, it accomplishes nothing.

#3 if you've got a legit problem with someone, call me crazy, but I think it should be settled in private. I can see where calling someone out on the board is sometimes a last resort to achieve a desired outcome, but often times it seems as though it's the first knee-jerk reaction that people have.

Just my

and that's all.

great points, i especially like the #2 rule. seems like everyone resorts to calling each other names on GFY, its a pitty...

Dveron · 09-27-2006, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by squishypimp

great points, i especially like the #2 rule. seems like everyone resorts to calling each other names on GFY, its a pitty...

Shut you sig-whoring ass up already

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SxDx Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: SoFla Posts: 2,254	An observer's commentary on continuing drama in GFY I haven't been on GFY all that long, but the GFY back and forth drama is always amusing to me. What I don't get is... #1 we're all here to help each other make money in this industry that we share. So, we should try to build each other up and not break each other down. #2 if individuals have such a problem with one another, I was always taught that you settle them toe-to-toe, man-to-man. Calling someone names like 'faggot' or 'idiot' in a public forum over a computer has always seemed juvenile to me for obvious reasons and ultimately, it accomplishes nothing. #3 if you've got a legit problem with someone, call me crazy, but I think it should be settled in private. I can see where calling someone out on the board is sometimes a last resort to achieve a desired outcome, but often times it seems as though it's the first knee-jerk reaction that people have. Just my and that's all. __________________ Hundies.com - $35/Trial Signup - All Exclusive!! scott (at) dnav.com (dot) com ICQ: 242-444-884

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