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BradM · 01-23-2005, 11:13 PM

I haven't asked a chick out in a long ass time because I haven't had the self confidence. But I feel pretty good lately and there's a girl I am eyeing.

I have NO idea what to say or do to get to her. She works at the movie store I go to and we talk for a few mins every time I am there. She seems to be receptive and smiles a lot when we chat... so I GUESS there are some signs there. I play it cool and such and she always seems excited to chat.

What can I say to NOT sound like a moron? Every time I think of something it sounds pitiful.

Thanks.

MetaMan · 01-23-2005, 11:14 PM

run your asshole with cool water cologne, show up and pull out your giant twang, u will have her in no time.

Chris Malais · 01-23-2005, 11:15 PM

Tell her what line of business you're in.

Spunky · 01-23-2005, 11:16 PM

Very casual...just slip in how about a drink or dinner on a specific day..if she is busy then ask..when is good for you..if she still makes excuses..forget her and move on

wargames · 01-23-2005, 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradM

I haven't asked a chick out in a long ass time because I haven't had the self confidence. But I feel pretty good lately and there's a girl I am eyeing.

I have NO idea what to say or do to get to her. She works at the movie store I go to and we talk for a few mins every time I am there. She seems to be receptive and smiles a lot when we chat... so I GUESS there are some signs there. I play it cool and such and she always seems excited to chat.

What can I say to NOT sound like a moron? Every time I think of something it sounds pitiful.

Thanks.

Dont make it seem like its a date when asking her. Start off slow something like coffee.

WWC · 01-23-2005, 11:16 PM

" Would you like to have dinner or lunch with me sometime " always works.....dont get to creative, you might look like an ass.... :-)

Persius · 01-23-2005, 11:17 PM

hmmmmmmmmmmm lemme think

BradM · 01-23-2005, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Chris Malais

Tell her what line of business you're in.

She looks pretty innocent. I think that's something I'd slip in a few months down the road.

BVF · 01-23-2005, 11:17 PM

Say, "What are you doing later on?"...She'll say blase blah and then you ask for her phone number. Then when you call her, ask her if she'll go out and then you don't have to do it face to face.

I wouldn't ask her out at the store though...I'd get her phone number....UNLESS she hinted to you that she wanted to do something that night and then you would just ask her to go have something to eat after work.

WiredGuy · 01-23-2005, 11:18 PM

Just be yourself and ask, make sure you appear confident though when doing it. Good luck.
WG

Alex · 01-23-2005, 11:18 PM

First of all lets face reality.

1. Its a him.

But for your sake ill play along.

Find out "her" intrests. Maybe she likes comdey shows, rock bands, horror movies, etc.

Lets say "she" likes watching comdey.

Get two tickets at your local comedy club Since your in socal, i recommed the pasadena ice house comedy club. Then next time you see "her" tell "her" that you happen to have an extra ticket to see a comdey and ask if she would like to go.

Persius · 01-23-2005, 11:18 PM

" hey, we have talked a few times and you seem like an interesting person, i was wondering if i can have some coffee with you sometime "

Chris Malais · 01-23-2005, 11:19 PM

If she laughs at you, you can laugh at her and hop into your nice car.

Napolean · 01-23-2005, 11:19 PM

easy "i just saved 10-15% on my car insurance with geico... wanna fuck?"

r3ap3r · 01-23-2005, 11:19 PM

Ask her to a movie, lunch, coffee, dinner, etc. You have so many options. If she's digging you too then you shouldn't have a problem.

Persius · 01-23-2005, 11:19 PM

is this the hollywood video in OC..... time for persius to take a visit

Sosa · 01-23-2005, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Persius

" hey, we have talked a few times and you seem like an interesting person, i was wondering if i can have some coffee with you sometime "

You come up with that all by yourself?

MetaMan · 01-23-2005, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Persius

" hey, we have talked a few times and you seem like an interesting person, i was wondering if i can have some coffee with you sometime "

lol imo interesting is a bad word to use with a chick.

wargames · 01-23-2005, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Persius

" hey, we have talked a few times and you seem like an interesting person, i was wondering if i can have some coffee with you sometime "

Exactly keep it simple.

Persius · 01-23-2005, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

lol imo interesting is a bad word to use with a chick.

worked for me , let them figure out your motives

reynold · 01-23-2005, 11:21 PM

Just be yourself and use all your wit and charm.

Spunky · 01-23-2005, 11:22 PM

How about some balls slapping on your ass? Chicks dig that

BradM · 01-23-2005, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Persius

is this the hollywood video in OC..... time for persius to take a visit

Back off playboy! ;)

Good tips here guys thanks.. just be myself is a bad idea. Ill have to compose myself and appear together and then ask casually to go for a coffee or get her # if all else fails.

Persius · 01-23-2005, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Back off playboy! ;)

Good tips here guys thanks.. just be myself is a bad idea. Ill have to compose myself and appear together and then ask casually to go for a coffee or get her # if all else fails.

im jk bro

please take pics

theking · 01-23-2005, 11:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradM

I haven't asked a chick out in a long ass time because I haven't had the self confidence. But I feel pretty good lately and there's a girl I am eyeing.

I have NO idea what to say or do to get to her. She works at the movie store I go to and we talk for a few mins every time I am there. She seems to be receptive and smiles a lot when we chat... so I GUESS there are some signs there. I play it cool and such and she always seems excited to chat.

What can I say to NOT sound like a moron? Every time I think of something it sounds pitiful.

Thanks.

Fucking pathetic...aren't you?

tyler86ed · 01-23-2005, 11:33 PM

"So what are you doing later on? Want to go grab some coffee?"

Chris Malais · 01-24-2005, 12:04 AM

You- "Hey, do you fool around?"

Her- "No"

You- "well then, do you Mind if I set you on your back and fool around for about 10 minutes?"

Chris · 01-24-2005, 12:07 AM

didnt bother reading the thread but bro
just be like hey wanna catch a movie or something simple like that
if she will go to the movies then she is surely down for dinner
switch it up
after you hit the movies aftwards bel ike " are you hungry or want to go grab some ice cream " .. i would say drink but you are under age still ;)

xxxdesign-net · 01-24-2005, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by BradM

What can I say to NOT sound like a moron? Every time I think of something it sounds pitiful.

Thanks.

First off.. say that the porn vids you are renting are for a shy friend *wink*

Varius · 01-24-2005, 12:43 AM

Ask her out to do something one night. I would stay away from asking her to lunch or coffee, because then she might immediately label you as a potential friend...that would be bad if you want more.

If she gives you an excuse that she can't, but offers another night or something, that's cool. If she just gives excuses, don't try too much just accept she's prob not interested.

Oh and I probably wouldnt' ask her out to the movies seeing as how she works in a video store hehe =)

EDIT: Just ask her out straight, don't try to find a clever way to do it or you'll end up sounding like a fool

Persius · 01-24-2005, 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxdesign-net

First off.. say that the porn vids you are renting are for a shy friend *wink*

Rorschach · 01-24-2005, 12:56 AM

"I'm a fat spotty geek who bangs around from one sleazy penis pump company to another and enjoys frequent masturbation, would you like to see my pallid and undersized hard on?"

KRL · 01-24-2005, 12:57 AM

Tell her you're Mr. January in the 2005 Men.com Calendar.

BradM · 01-24-2005, 01:27 AM

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Originally Posted by KRL

Tell her you're Mr. January in the 2005 Men.com Calendar.

I only agreed to do that because you insisted I was sexy.

VIPimp · 01-24-2005, 01:29 AM

BRAD tell her this....

You know what I heard when I first saw you here? .......
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BEEEEUUUUUUUUU BEEEEE UUUUUUUUUUUU

AVM · 01-24-2005, 01:33 AM

Tell her you were a former Top 50 company traffic manager.
Handling 500,000,000 impressions monthly for over two years.

If that doesn't sell her, nothing will. G/L

Persius · 01-24-2005, 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by VIPimp

BRAD tell her this....

You know what I heard when I first saw you here? .......
BEEEEUUUUUUUU BEEEE UUUUUUUUUUU
BEEEEUUUUUUUUU BEEEEE UUUUUUUUUUUU

it was the ambulance coming to take me away because the sight of you made my heart stop.

TheEbonyFelony · 01-24-2005, 01:35 AM

I See A Lot Of You Lack True Social Skills

TheEbonyFelony · 01-24-2005, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Rorschach

"I'm a fat spotty geek who bangs around from one sleazy penis pump company to another and enjoys frequent masturbation, would you like to see my pallid and undersized hard on?"

VIPimp · 01-24-2005, 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Persius

it was the ambulance coming to take me away because the sight of you made my heart stop.

yep gets them everytime

BradM · 01-24-2005, 01:41 AM

BEUUUUUU!!! Will do Cory, will do.

Persius · 01-24-2005, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

BEUUUUUU!!! Will do Cory, will do.

Bradm i hope you know this is from the movie a night at the roxxbury

Carmensita · 01-24-2005, 12:47 PM

ask her if she would have like to catch dinner or a movie, if she shuts you down it wasen't ment to be,

ULVideo · 01-24-2005, 12:51 PM

Walk up to the counter an lick your eyebrows.

Phoenix · 01-24-2005, 12:52 PM

just engage her in conversation again..and when the opportunity presents itself...like maybe she says...i had a wickedtime at the park or museum...coffee store (prety much whatever she gives you to work with) thats when you say oh wow..that sounds really cool or interesting...Do you want to try/do that one day?

Girls give you all the ammo you need..just listen to them

VIPimp · 01-24-2005, 12:54 PM

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pushpills · 01-24-2005, 12:54 PM

as her to lunch while your in there checking out some classic movie.

if she says no, hit her over the head with a blunt object, take her home and put her in your freezer, then "date" her at your convenience.

CybermedAndy · 01-24-2005, 12:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris Malais

Tell her what line of business you're in.

tASSy · 01-24-2005, 01:00 PM

have you considered colouring your hair pink? i hear it gets all the ladies!

but really, maybe making a change that she notices for a conversation piece, if you're bold like that, would work. good luck!

nofx · 01-24-2005, 01:18 PM

say "if i had a shotgun you know exactly what I'd do, I'd point it up at the sky and shoot heaven on down for you"

and you can thank Sublime for that

01-23-2005, 11:13 PM	#1
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	I need help asking someone out I haven't asked a chick out in a long ass time because I haven't had the self confidence. But I feel pretty good lately and there's a girl I am eyeing. I have NO idea what to say or do to get to her. She works at the movie store I go to and we talk for a few mins every time I am there. She seems to be receptive and smiles a lot when we chat... so I GUESS there are some signs there. I play it cool and such and she always seems excited to chat. What can I say to NOT sound like a moron? Every time I think of something it sounds pitiful. Thanks.

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Varius Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: New York, NY Posts: 6,890	Ask her out to do something one night. I would stay away from asking her to lunch or coffee, because then she might immediately label you as a potential friend...that would be bad if you want more. If she gives you an excuse that she can't, but offers another night or something, that's cool. If she just gives excuses, don't try too much just accept she's prob not interested. Oh and I probably wouldnt' ask her out to the movies seeing as how she works in a video store hehe =) EDIT: Just ask her out straight, don't try to find a clever way to do it or you'll end up sounding like a fool __________________ Skype variuscr - Email varius AT gmail

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