First of all lets face reality.
1. Its a him.
But for your sake ill play along.
Find out "her" intrests. Maybe she likes comdey shows, rock bands, horror movies, etc.
Lets say "she" likes watching comdey.
Get two tickets at your local comedy club Since your in socal, i recommed the pasadena ice house comedy club. Then next time you see "her" tell "her" that you happen to have an extra ticket to see a comdey and ask if she would like to go.
