Can I give my "girlfriend" just a dvd player for her 21st bday? - GoFuckYourself.com

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:10 PM

My "girlfriend"s 21st bday is tomorrow, she just moved into a new place and one of her old roomies took the dvd player (to england). So they have just been watching em on their laptops or whatever.

Can I buy her just a dvd player or is that too sappy?

I gotta buy her flowers too don't I? I don't want to spend too much because I don't want her to think I totally like her still because I don't want to hurt her feelings too bad when we inevitably break up for good.

But I want to watch dvds at her place when I'm over on a larger screen...... can I just buy her a dvd player and no flowers or will she get really pissed?

detoxed · 09-19-2004, 01:11 PM

buy her a dvd player and a box of condoms

BradM · 09-19-2004, 01:11 PM

Buy yourself a new one and give her your old one. No point in getting too pimp on her.

Chris · 09-19-2004, 01:11 PM

ermm from what I know the dvd player that they took to england would be almost useless unless they took a collection of dvds they bought here

and buying a dvd player for a 21st birthday? that is pretty fuckin cheap dont ya think ?

Persius · 09-19-2004, 01:11 PM

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Originally posted by BradM
Buy yourself a new one and give her your old one. No point in getting too pimp on her.

wow how cheap can you get LOL!

Nicky · 09-19-2004, 01:13 PM

Buy her a dvd player and some flowers, thats like max 100bucks man.......thats not even gambling money......

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:13 PM

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Originally posted by JupZChris

and buying a dvd player for a 21st birthday? that is pretty fuckin cheap dont ya think ?

Kinda.

60 bucks...same as flowers. My real question is will she freak out because of the lack of romance in the gift? I don't want to buy her both she'll totally think we are like FULLY back together when I just want 50% of the relationship.

Will she freak at a dvd player gift?

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:15 PM

I dunno if I'm really gonna get any answers here if I don't know myself....I just want to still get laid, but not have her think im soo lovey dovey with her by giving her both flowers and dvd player (poor art students would consider this a generous gift I think)

SEObot · 09-19-2004, 01:16 PM

Dont get her anything

brand0n · 09-19-2004, 01:16 PM

get her a bottle of champagne

BradM · 09-19-2004, 01:16 PM

Don't listen to any of us. None of us get laid on a regular basis.

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:16 PM

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Originally posted by brand0n
get her a bottle of champagne

got her a bottle of moet two nights ago when she got back from out of town. i'll probably bring another one tomorrow, but mostly for my own benefit.

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:17 PM

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Originally posted by BradM
Don't listen to any of us. None of us get laid on a regular basis.

Now THAT is a good point. GFY advice on women should be followed in the opposite, maybe that's the way to go.

Phoenix · 09-19-2004, 01:17 PM

if you can..i wuld get her a nice dvd player and some movies.

dont worry about being sappy..if you have to worry about that..you have the wrong girl

Paul Waters · 09-19-2004, 01:19 PM

Her is a Paul Water's tip for you.

Buy her the dvd player. Give it to her unwrapped and say that you knew she needed it, but you want to take her out to get her something personal.

Take her out, and

1) Buy her a single long stem rose.
2) An expensive chocolate
3) A teddy bear
4) Some lingerie

She will love you. And she will tell all her girlfriends how wonderful you are.

So when the two of you break up, the girlfriends will be all over you.

jt420 · 09-19-2004, 01:21 PM

get her the dvd player and a bottle of something very nice for her 21st. that way you can get her drunk, she wont realize how cheap the gift is, she might put out, and if she passes out you can watch dvds

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:22 PM

the last two posts are making a lot of sense!

Raf1 · 09-19-2004, 01:25 PM

buy her the dvd player. What difference does it make what she thinks if you plan on breaking up with her not too long from now

zazzouche · 09-19-2004, 01:31 PM

From a female?s point of view! Get her the DVD and let her know that you wanted to get her something she did not have. Get her flowers and take her out for dinner.

Follow Paul?s advice but wrap the damn thing, girls always like to open presents.

Think of it as an investment LoL

polish_aristocrat · 09-19-2004, 01:34 PM

I thought your girls are usually younger than 21.

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:35 PM

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Originally posted by zazzouche
From a female?s point of view! Get her the DVD and let her know that you wanted to get her something she did not have. Get her flowers and take her out for dinner.

Follow Paul?s advice but wrap the damn thing, girls always like to open presents.

Think of it as an investment LoL

I guess I'll probably go all the way. Blah.

pushpills · 09-19-2004, 01:37 PM

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Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
I thought your girls are usually younger than 21.

She is...untill tomorrow.

Now that I'm 21 I've been dating 21 and older in addition to this girl (because of our makeup breakup bullshit I feel I can date other girls while dating her)

last 2 girls I fucked besides her were 23 and 26.

brizzad · 09-19-2004, 01:37 PM

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Originally posted by BradM
Don't listen to any of us. None of us get laid on a regular basis.

lol i wouldnt say none.. more like most gfyers

some of us are in steady relationships with horney girls and can tap that ass whenever

Paul Waters · 09-19-2004, 01:42 PM

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Originally posted by zazzouche
Follow Paul?s advice but wrap the damn thing, girls always like to open presents.

Aside to guys: Always listen to a female when she is giving advice about how to treat females.

But zazzouche a followup... Is not unwrapping and seeing a DVD player not a bit of a let down?

Perhaps getting the teddy bear in advance and having it wrapped is better?

Sly · 09-19-2004, 01:45 PM

Buy her the DVD player and go rent some sappy movie that she likes.

mardigras · 09-19-2004, 01:46 PM

I'd say get the DVD player (wrapped or not) and announce you're taking her to dinner of her choice. After that it's only as romantic as you mutually allow it.

xNetworx · 09-19-2004, 02:25 PM

Just give her a nice hard fuck and she should be happy!

But...........21 is kinda special. Buy her some new tits! Its the gift that keeps on giving.

pure energy · 09-19-2004, 07:53 PM

Buy her a DVD and 6 dozens of red roses!

Spunky · 09-19-2004, 07:55 PM

Buy her a DVD and give her a nice rump fuck

reynold · 09-19-2004, 07:56 PM

why not?. it's not that bad.. shell be happy for that.

BrainDead · 09-19-2004, 07:59 PM

a dvd player will do! i think she'll like it! it'll be more sweet if you'll give her flowers also!

pornkitten · 09-19-2004, 08:03 PM

girls want something personal and sentimental that says I love you like jewlrey. A diamond heart pendant from kay is perfect or a bracelet. You dont have to spend a lot but then she has something to show off to her friends. Like see how much he likes me!

abyss_al · 09-19-2004, 08:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pushpills
My "girlfriend"s 21st bday is tomorrow, she just moved into a new place and one of her old roomies took the dvd player (to england). So they have just been watching em on their laptops or whatever.

Can I buy her just a dvd player or is that too sappy?

I gotta buy her flowers too don't I? I don't want to spend too much because I don't want her to think I totally like her still because I don't want to hurt her feelings too bad when we inevitably break up for good.

But I want to watch dvds at her place when I'm over on a larger screen...... can I just buy her a dvd player and no flowers or will she get really pissed?

just throw in a movie she likes and youre good to go

shell think it was so sweet of you to get her the player and her fav movie

TurboAngel · 09-19-2004, 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Paul Waters
Her is a Paul Water's tip for you.

Buy her the dvd player. Give it to her unwrapped and say that you knew she needed it, but you want to take her out to get her something personal.

Take her out, and

1) Buy her a single long stem rose.
2) An expensive chocolate
3) A teddy bear
4) Some lingerie

She will love you. And she will tell all her girlfriends how wonderful you are.

So when the two of you break up, the girlfriends will be all over you.

Yea, you have to have it wrapped.

zazzouche · 09-19-2004, 09:00 PM

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Originally posted by Paul Waters
Aside to guys: Always listen to a female when she is giving advice about how to treat females.

But zazzouche a followup... Is not unwrapping and seeing a DVD player not a bit of a let down?

Perhaps getting the teddy bear in advance and having it wrapped is better?

Why would a DVD be a let down? You know you can shower your girl with gifts every day, week, month or year but a thoughtful gift like a DVD that both of you will enjoy is really sweet. (just don?t tell her you realllllllyyyy want to watch DVDs)

Sometime women appreciate a thoughtful gift more than an expensive gift.

Good Luck! And you can hit me on ICQ 12150439 any time for advice.

Scootermuze · 09-19-2004, 09:04 PM

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Originally posted by pushpills
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i'll probably bring another one tomorrow, but mostly for my own benefit.

Sounds like that's why you're wantin to get her a dvd player too..

Goatse · 09-19-2004, 09:10 PM

It depends on the type of relationship you have with her. You can give her the DVD player, but make sure to do something romantic and unexpected so that she can have wonderful memories of that day. Why don't you hide diamond earrings in the DVD box?

goBigtime · 09-19-2004, 09:17 PM

The answer is simple.

Buy her the DVD player, and load it with a VCD that you make with your CD-R (easy) that displays a vase of roses with Happy Birthday Whateveryournameis on it.

something like this might work....

But someone should photoshop that "I Love you bit" and say "This doesn't mean we're fully back together." Or whatever you want to say.

Anyway, the flowers will never die or grow old (just like your love for each other... bahahah) and you'll seem like the most romantic and creative guy ever. Yay for grogans.

Screaming · 09-19-2004, 09:17 PM

buy her the dvd player and a movie she likes that should make it better

GonZo · 09-19-2004, 11:38 PM

Steve Grogan--

Buy her ticket to Atlanta...Ill take care of the rest. 21 is a bit old for me but Ill help you out.

BigWebRev · 09-19-2004, 11:42 PM

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Originally posted by GonZo
Steve Grogan--

Buy her ticket to Atlanta...Ill take care of the rest. 21 is a bit old for me but Ill help you out.

lol....true

block · 09-19-2004, 11:42 PM

Sounds like a good present to me....

Reak · 09-19-2004, 11:45 PM

a dvd player cost 50 bucks, she will suck your cock for it..

Semi-Retired-Dave · 09-19-2004, 11:46 PM

Go to Radio Shack, they are about 35 bucks nowadays. Make sure to also get her Titantic, a Coke and a smile and call it a day.

helen of TOY · 09-19-2004, 11:47 PM

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Originally posted by GonZo
Steve Grogan--

Buy her ticket to Atlanta...Ill take care of the rest. 21 is a bit old for me but Ill help you out.

oh please!

Vitasoy · 09-19-2004, 11:52 PM

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Originally posted by goBigtime
The answer is simple.

Buy her the DVD player, and load it with a VCD that you make with your CD-R (easy) that displays a vase of roses with Happy Birthday Whateveryournameis on it.

A burned vcd?

Don't cheap out on the movie!

tical · 09-20-2004, 12:09 AM

give her a dvd player box w/ a brick inside

then when she says wtf, you say "ha! you thought i was gonna give you something cheesy like electronics on your special day, no way!"

then go out for pizza

WarChild · 09-20-2004, 12:12 AM

Take her out for a cheap dinner and spend the $60 getting her really, really, really drunk.

Hit her in the pooper when she passses out. Film it. Sell it. Buy yourself a new home theatre and hotter girl with proceeds.

Okay, okay .. Maybe that's not a very good idea.

Give her the DVD player, but to take the "just friends" edge off the gift, include a sappy girl movie.

xclusive · 09-20-2004, 12:23 AM

Go to a pawn shop and get her a $20 dvd player and the a cemetary to get some nice fresh free flowers. That way your out only $20...

Marcus Aurelius · 09-20-2004, 12:25 AM

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Originally posted by BradM
Don't listen to any of us. None of us get laid on a regular basis.

speak for yourself! well im married so it really doesnt count.

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pushpills Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: CHICAGO Posts: 3,700	Can I give my "girlfriend" just a dvd player for her 21st bday? My "girlfriend"s 21st bday is tomorrow, she just moved into a new place and one of her old roomies took the dvd player (to england). So they have just been watching em on their laptops or whatever. Can I buy her just a dvd player or is that too sappy? I gotta buy her flowers too don't I? I don't want to spend too much because I don't want her to think I totally like her still because I don't want to hurt her feelings too bad when we inevitably break up for good. But I want to watch dvds at her place when I'm over on a larger screen...... can I just buy her a dvd player and no flowers or will she get really pissed?

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pushpills Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: CHICAGO Posts: 3,700	I dunno if I'm really gonna get any answers here if I don't know myself....I just want to still get laid, but not have her think im soo lovey dovey with her by giving her both flowers and dvd player (poor art students would consider this a generous gift I think)

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SEObot So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Texas Posts: 223	Dont get her anything

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Paul Waters Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Toronto, Ontario Posts: 4,402	Her is a Paul Water's tip for you. Buy her the dvd player. Give it to her unwrapped and say that you knew she needed it, but you want to take her out to get her something personal. Take her out, and 1) Buy her a single long stem rose. 2) An expensive chocolate 3) A teddy bear 4) Some lingerie She will love you. And she will tell all her girlfriends how wonderful you are. So when the two of you break up, the girlfriends will be all over you. __________________ Paul

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pushpills Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: CHICAGO Posts: 3,700	the last two posts are making a lot of sense!

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zazzouche Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 113	From a female?s point of view! Get her the DVD and let her know that you wanted to get her something she did not have. Get her flowers and take her out for dinner. Follow Paul?s advice but wrap the damn thing, girls always like to open presents. Think of it as an investment LoL

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xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	Just give her a nice hard fuck and she should be happy! But...........21 is kinda special. Buy her some new tits! Its the gift that keeps on giving.

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reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	why not?. it's not that bad.. shell be happy for that.

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BrainDead So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,536	a dvd player will do! i think she'll like it! it'll be more sweet if you'll give her flowers also!

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Goatse Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,086	It depends on the type of relationship you have with her. You can give her the DVD player, but make sure to do something romantic and unexpected so that she can have wonderful memories of that day. Why don't you hide diamond earrings in the DVD box?

09-19-2004, 09:17 PM	#38
goBigtime Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,761	The answer is simple. Buy her the DVD player, and load it with a VCD that you make with your CD-R (easy) that displays a vase of roses with Happy Birthday Whateveryournameis on it. something like this might work.... But someone should photoshop that "I Love you bit" and say "This doesn't mean we're fully back together." Or whatever you want to say. Anyway, the flowers will never die or grow old (just like your love for each other... bahahah) and you'll seem like the most romantic and creative guy ever. Yay for grogans. Last edited by goBigtime; 09-19-2004 at 09:20 PM..

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WarChild Let slip the dogs of war. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Bermuda Posts: 17,263	Take her out for a cheap dinner and spend the $60 getting her really, really, really drunk. Hit her in the pooper when she passses out. Film it. Sell it. Buy yourself a new home theatre and hotter girl with proceeds. Okay, okay .. Maybe that's not a very good idea. Give her the DVD player, but to take the "just friends" edge off the gift, include a sappy girl movie.

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