Is going to the Strip club cheating?
 

I don't think so! I enjoy going to the titty bars with my hubby once in a while... Anyway watch Oprah today it's all about men and Strip clubs! :thumbsup

Just wondering why would y hubby go to a stripclub if he can get a lapdance from his wife?

I think we should all just admit that we like to fuck around! I like to fuck around, I've always liked to fuck around, my guy likes to fuck around, I like to fuck people who like to fuck around -- variety is the spice of life!

What I think is so funny is that everybody pretends they don't fuck around -- when most people would (if they thought they'd never get caught)!

Admit it -- we're all horny sexual creatures who like to fuck new people every once in a while!

its not cheating if they don't know about it.

Only if he's getting his dick sucked.

My fiance and I agree thta it's not cheating. WHether I'm with her or with the guys, there's never any jealousy.

Finally! Honesty! :bowdown

No it's not cheating.

I know here in Newfoundland its the safest place for a man to be, the men aren't allowed to touch the women and lapdances are illegal. Granted some women still do them on the side :) But I go with my man and a pile of friends of ours all the time we love it.

Smurfette

Honesty perhaps, but I'm glad we're not together.

You know what before modern civilization a lot of people did a lot of things that you would not, could not and should not get away with today.

I don't care what you believe and if you and your spouse both accept infidelity in your marriage more power to you. Most of society can control their urges and remain faithful. If you choose the right person to spend the rest of your life with fidelity should not be an issue.

I don't like to fuck around. I prefer monogamous relationships, to be honest.

lol ... there is no such thing as cheating. Cheating is a boundary you've got to decide with your hubby. Strip club is in the gray zone

No its not cheating, its fun

Agreed! :thumbsup

yeah me too. having a drop dead gorgeous gf helps too.

Steve...we have always gotten along but that last part of your statement is hugely arrogant. What you are proposing is that there is one right way for every relationship....your way.

I don't think it's cheating.
I like going to the strip club with my wife occasionally. It's funny. :)

Hmmm, this might get interesting.

ok not joking help me out why would I wanna go to a stripclub with my gf? lotsa clubs here strip swinger sex everything so Im missing out on something right.

What do you guys do there. Sit. Drink. Get horny. Go home and fuck? Not kidding Id love to know.

Yeah really KimmyKim! I am amazed at how closed minded some people in the adult industry are. I'm certainly not saying everyone should believe as Brandi and I do but for fuck sakes we should be allowed to live our lives in a manner that best suits us.

Some of these fucking idiots sound as repressive as the right wing, so called christians we have to deal with.

and THAT's the reason why i hate women. especially the "they would if they knew they wouldnt get caught" part . unstable creatures. even when they act like their shit dont stink, deep inside they're still whores. please note that i am generalizing here - and that we're living in a democracy where 51% = TRUE
you have to find a pearl within the sluts; and if you get the right one it also means a hundred other guys are dating worthless sluts that would sleep with me any day of the week.
please dont criticize me for exposing the truth, i do not have issues, im too damn good looking for my own good, there is no excuse for what ive just said, its simply true. (51% true that is) that women are easier to influence.I am not speaking of MEN as I am a heterosexual so please get off my dick with any lame bullshit you can try to counter attack with

You're only missing out if you desire to go but don't.

yet another repressed, ignorant statement

I'm having so much fun reading the replies!!!!! :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I dont no. Been there lots since one of the models we worked with worked at one. Nothing there Im missing. Id rather get my own private gf lapdance :)

amen.

its funny, i just was talkin to a few people about this the other day. i was with a guy friend and he made me horny (not on purpose and i didnt let him know that he turned me on) but its amazing how just being HUMAN, you get turned on by others. has nothing to do with love & blah blah blah....im fucking human first.

Me too..good post!

you just found out youre outa whisky right?

It's not cheating at all

Relax and have a good time. Women are beautiful, everything about them is beautiful. I like to go, sit back, and watch. It doesn't get me horny. It's just a nice environment to be in imo.

I really don't think going to a strip club is anywhere near the realm of cheating. I'm not a cheater, never will be, never have been.

Wow, one statement from one woman on the board brought this on? Holy MOLY! Have you ever been to a convention and gone to a strip club with any of these people? You'd honestly have to call bullshit on your own "generalization". Andtoo damn good looking? C'mawwwn.

See this is the perfect example...In your case you aren't missing out on a thing. Your preferece is admirable because you are staying true to what you and your gf want " rather get my own private gf lapdance"

Now what would not be admirable is if you wanted to go but didn't because you were afraid of what others would say or because of some bullshit guilt issue. Or worse your relationship was so weak with your wife that you couldn't bring the issue up.

it depends on what they are doing in the strip bar and what is accepted by ones significant other to think of it as cheating or not.

Heya Uno.

Ok, I get it. Envirement is cool. I visit places where its cool too. Own spot, drinks I like, girls that are cool to talk to. So I dig that.

No cheating here... its fun!

You dont think so??

What if your man was at Cheetahs or Rhino with me in Vegas, and I got em some dances from the BP4L Approved dancers in the back, and they Lapdaced and grinded em and rubed em with a dry hump till he soiled his Pants..

Would that be cheating to you??

If not, tell em to hit me up on icq..

I need to make my roster out for January for who hangs with the BP4L this year at the club..

Tell em to bring a change of clothes.

Cool.

were good. I can bring anything up. I wouldnt care what others say. It just doesnt attract me. My gfs gorgeous a lot younger and a dessert every day again. That helps.

:1orglaugh

Same goes to you.

I'll hang with ya...my wife would encourage it...matter of fact this past Fri she brought two strippers back to the office for some off camers fun. Hell she'd probably be pissed if she wasn't invited.

going to a strip club here can very quickly become cheating. Sex is legal. And about 60 to 80 for an hour. 30 to 45 for a quickie.

Depends if you partake in extras behind the shades. The club scene in San Francisco are basically brothels masquerading as high class strip clubs, no one goes to these places for anything other than sex.

i'm not allowed within a 1-mile radius of strip clubs anymore

yet i shoot hardcore porn content, so go figure... LOL

depends on whether the strip club is on the outskirts of Montreal or downtown.

:winkwink:

simply going doesn't make it cheating. Cheating implies deception and lies. For example I can go to a club and if I DIDN"T get my dick sucked my wife would be dissapointed.

have her come over to my house while u are out :thumbsup

i agree.

well I didnt read most of the replies but so far i have one guy just saying he disagrees with no argument whatsoever (if being right is ignorant then fuck me silly, or prove me wrong), one guy who thinks im out of whisky, and one bitch (i mean girl) who doesn't believe I am that good looking, and honestly, i cant blame you since this is GFY. my only point here is that women stereotype men as cheaters, when they are way better hypocrites than us. if you wanna live in denial and not admit to yourself that a girl craves the cock just as much as you like pussy, then you'll be happy all your life. and stuck up, and self absorbed. but happy. I still dont see where I was wrong, as no one seems to turn any of my statements around. Now sherie I would like to insist on the 51% part; if you cannot recognize that 51% of women have cheated throughout their whole life, i will eat my own dirty boxers :) this said i will be accepting comments and replying early tomorrow. you take care now children xxx

sometimes we play that game...she goes one place...I go to another then we meet back up and share the stories :thumbsup

You must have been spending all your time in English class looking in the mirror.