it definitely is! well, I suppose it depends on your partner, whether she will consider it as cheating or not. As for me, I don't think it's good.

:thumbsup :1orglaugh

you're not on this earth to fuck as many bitches as you can, you're here to find a mate, reproduce and care for it's upbringing to make sure your genes are passed on and taken care of.

THAT IS THE MEANING AND GOAL OF LIFE - TO REPRODUCE AND MAKE SURE YOUR OFFSPRING GROWS UP STRONG WITH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER'S SUPPORT.

So to all you professional daters, femanists and haters - go enjoy your 3somes, orgy gangbangs and constant std tests. It might work for you, but there are some things more important in life than seeing how many people you can screw in an hour.

People need to frame this post and hang it on their refrigerators. This is sooooo true. My s/o says EXACTLY the same thing and I couldn't agree more.

:1orglaugh

Congrats! That makes you and your s/o two of the most narrow minded, intollerant people on the board :thumbsup where would you like your prize sent?

Morning J-$! Look..I appreciate your stand and if monogamy serves you well you should stick to it. My goal was simply to broaded peoples minds a bit around here. There is no one way for every marriage or relationship. How would everyone here like it if we were made to live by the rules of the church?

My wife and I love and respect eachother on every level. We just experience one part of our lives differently than other people. That in and of itself doesn't make it wrong...just different. I am just amazed that people...especially here...would fault our choice when we have a great mariage.

I am not asking anyone to conform to what works for us..dont ask me to conform to what works for you.

"In America, through pressure of conformity, there is freedom of choice, but nothing to choose from."
Peter Ustinov

"Communism is the death of the soul. It is the organization of total conformity - in short, of tyranny - and it is committed to making tyranny universal."
Adlai E. Stevenson

"Follow the path of the unsafe, independent thinker. Expose your ideas to the danger of controversy. Speak your mind and fear less the label of "crackpot" than the stigma of conformity."
Thomas John Watson, Sr.

"Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth."
John F. Kennedy

"If we cannot now end our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity."
John F. Kennedy

This shit is so funny

Well, you're definitely NOT a psychic, toddler!

I'm 28 year old fit woman -- girl-next-door look, and I use condoms EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX with anybody who IS NOT my primary partner. Only idiots who fuck around without using protection get STDs... maybe YOU could tell us about that! Oh wait.. you're probably the type of guy who's too afraid to even get tested for STD's (and yet probably also complains about wearing condoms... LOL)

Hmmm... and you are NOT a horny sexual creature who likes to fuck new people every once in a while? So... how many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime... just 1? That would totally explain why you're so frustrated when you see someone like me who gets everything I want in bed without burning in hell for it or contracting any easily avoidable STDs.

I'd wish you a nice life... but it seems that you'd much rather be miserable and unfulfilled!

I didnt watch Oprah, but I say no.. its not cheating

Oprah is an idiot :2 cents:

Because married men want to see OTHER women naked as well :) If you dont, you havent been married long enough.

i like how everyone has "self control" and procliams themselves in the moral right.

maybe you also have a lower than normal sex drive? you're insecure? too shy? horribly unnatractive? erectile dysfunction? heigene issues? have low self esteem and can't approach girls or girls are not attracted to you? maybe you are just an idiot that gets shot down all the time by the opposite sex? maybe you weigh 300 pounds and smell bad?

the list could go on forever.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Wow, I'm still laughing over some of the replies in this thread...

"cheating" is defined by the people in a relationship. Of course there are other things that make a relationship work, besides fidelity. Things like trust, truthfulness, communication, you know, those other words that define a person's character.

Girls should be soft, and they should smell good. Who doesn't (except for the obvious, which would be gay men) like to be around girls? I've probably been to more strip joints that most of the guys in this thread -- with people from the business and with people I've dated. Do I think it's a big deal? No. Of course I also realize that while some guys may not have it figured out, they are just dollars when a stripper looks at them.

Yes, I know there are strippers that add a little extra in the champagne room, and yes, I know there are strippers that will end up back at the hotel with guys that come into the club.

At the end of the day, in a good relationship, you know what and where the boundaries are, because you've communicated the truth of how you feel about things with your partner, and vice versa. Then you either trust your partner or you don't. And if you don't, there's nothing in your relationship that a stripper can break, since it's already broken.

I don't really understand the swinger lifestyle, more in the fact that it's not something I would choose personally, but I don't condescend to it and I don't judge it. To each his own, and as long as both halves of the relationship are in agreement on the boundaries, then hey, it's no one else's business if you ask me.

There's a reason why Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors...

ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!! :1orglaugh

A-Fucking-men

I've been to soo many stripjoints lately that its starting to get boring sometimes. Do I tell my girl I went..Yeah, does she care...NO. Why not? cause she trusts me and knows its just entertainment for me.

Haha, I hear you on the boring part.

I think the moral of the story is CHEAT on your partner because he/she will too!
:upsidedow
nah really, the moral is, going to the strip club isnt cheating. actually it helps you not to cheat

I've had this fight more than once in my life...DAMN

So am I the only one here that thinks a bad or "boring" night at the stripclub is one in which no soilage occurs??

I mean if you are in Vegas, and pay all that cash for a dance you better get some soilage.. Some stains.. Something..

Or else whats the point right?



I mean my bud Son Of Rage wears Swim Shorts to the Club for this very reason..

#1 you feel much much more of that VEGAS GRIND with ultra thin swimshorts with no undies.

#2 Its an easy wipe and clean after soilage.

http://boneprone4life.com/rage3.jpg

and

#3 The Chicks Dig it.

I think that paying admission buys you the nudity... but when you are willing to pay more for a private "dance", there should be "more".

One year, my sweetheart and I celebrated an anti-Valentine's day by going to a strip club where he bought me my first ever lap dance. Well... for my cash, I was hoping for more than I got! I think that if you're going to pay for extra attention, you should be allowed to have more priviliges -- like having their grinding dance be so hot that it makes you cum in your pants.

I would have loved to cum in my panties from her gyrating body -- but that wasn't the service she was selling. Because I didn't really get anything "extra" from the experience, I kinda thought it was a waste of my cash!

I mean look how satisified my boyz look after coming out of Cheetahs with their pants soiled...

Look at that smile..

Rage's hand is covering his stain in his pants.

But thats the beauty of swimshorts!

http://boneprone4life.com/cheetah1.jpg

How can something so fun, be ohhh so wrong??

FYI, if you want to know which kind of swimshorts feel best for that Vegas Lapdance Grind, come see me in Vegas..

Ill be your shopping consultant.

BP4L

I like you :thumbsup A little blunt but honest. If you plan on being out at Internext, Brandi and I would like to buy you a drink..or 5

pervert.

Oooohhhh... thanks for the offer, nastyboy! I'd love to see what you do to live up to that name!

Unfortunately the boss isn't bringing me to Internext this year! Wah! Something to do with the outrageous costs of attending. I'll keep working on him though... see what I can do to change his mind... LOL!

BP you rock dude....lol :thumbsup

Wrong on all counts. You've made some rather poor assumptions based on my response. I, OTOH, made some rather realistic assumptions based on yours. I'd ask you to post pics to prove you are in fact 'girl next door look', but anyone can post a pic.

I'm quite happy with my life, and quite content to remain faithful to the woman I love. No whore on a message board will change that.

Wow... just look at the high regard you have for sexually empowered women! I bet your mommy is SO proud of you! Would you like another bucket of mud to sling at me or would you like to return to that high horse of yours and ride off into the sunset with your better-than-thou morality?

Nope :thumbsup

You let your man hang out with the BP4L in Vegas?

The last time he had anything to do with the family, he was going to the Spa with my wife..

That was as far as he handle..

LOL! Thus the name :winkwink:

No.

There's a delta of about "7" from there :)

going to a stipclub is not cheating, getting a lapdance comes too close, going private (even if its only striptease) is over the line

definately not cheating!