ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!! Freak! :winkwink:

hi there woj :)

No, of course not

damn, missed :)

I'll be there BP! :thumbsup

just started watching :P

1) I feel sorry for you because you hate women
2) Ignorant because you refuse to accept that men do exactly what you say (and correctly so btw) women do.
3) Ignorant because in your world " a pearl" can only be one thing
4) Ignorant because you are defining sexually liberated as "worthles slut"

Someone must have hurt you bad and for that I feel badly but it IS ignorant to now generalize your beliefs into a global fact.

Don't think it's cheating but i could see how females would have a a probelm with it. I wouldn't want my girl going to see some male strippers

I don't think going to the strip club is cheating. I go to the chippendale style strip club shows in Austin, so I'd be a bitch if I told my man he couldn't go to the strip club. He goes every once in a while, and no it's not cheating unless he's fucking her in the parking lot afterward.

I appreciate your stance and find it interesting...can you explain why?

It's cheating if you are doing something that your significant other doesn't accept and you are aware of it.

i'm watching oprah and shes evil.... no wonder so many women who watch that show are unhappy....

Thank God for Tivo! I'll be here at the office all night :Oh crap

Its not cheating if it involves strippers..or hookers...or occurs in a different area code...

Matt

Don't you mean zip code?

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if going to a strip club is cheating well then all married men have cheated. hasn't anyone ever heard of a bachelor party? what the hell do you think goes on there? lol ridiculous.....

People keep trying to mistakenly link romantic love with sexual urges, in that if you "love" your partner enough, all of your sexual urges will simply go away. And how well has THAT theory worked over the past span of human civilization? Even with the threat of death, torture, public humiliation, and such ON TOP of the supposed "love" that married people have for one another, people still fuck around! In fact, I would bet that the more "modern" civilization gets, the more fucking around happens!

There is NOT an inverse relationship between getting my sexual needs met and how much I love my man. My needs are my personal needs for sexual gratification -- and they exist regardless of whether or not I am single or attached. This whole thing that keeps people fearful of sexuality -- their own urges, their partner's potential opportunities for infidelity -- is the big problem, in my opinion!

You know what's funny? I don't hide the fact that I like to fuck around. I'm a kinky bi swinger chick who is former talent. I put that whole "especially if they don't get caught" bit in for all the people who get their action on the side and then get up on their high horse to point their finger at those of us who are honest about what we do.

You mention having to find a pearl among the sluts -- well, you're still fucking the sluts, aren't you! Fucking girls who like to fuck -- and yet women are the evil ones! Do you even see your hypocrisy? Probably not!

In the meantime, I'll just be here having a wild threeway with my b/f and his good buddy and cumming my face off, waiting for an answer from frustrated ol' you!

Just like last year...

Till the sun comes up.. Breakin Daylight at Rhino with the BP4L.

It's different for every couple because everyone couple draws their lines differently, some are even swingers...

but in my opnion I think it's cheating because guys usually end up getting lap dances where the strippers grind them until they come , play with their dicks through their pants while they are giving them a dance and I heard that some guys even wear a condom during the dance in case they cum. Sorry, to say but I think this is cheating and on par with prostitution.

If the guy goes to a classy place and just WATCHES the stage, then that's fine. But if a guy gets physical contact with the stripper grinding him until he gets or orgasm and plays with his dick, that to me is cheating.

There are forums on-line where guys even ask each other which stripclub to go to get the best "mileage" and which dancers are the best at giving didrty dances and making them orgasm... It's not innocently just looking at naked women on the stage and just giving tips, they are getting physical contact.

How would you feel if your significant other just got dry hunped by a stranger? And if you don't like the thought of that, WHY would it make it any different if the stripper was getting paid for it? It's the same thing to me, except when a guy goes to a stripper the INTENT is usually to get off.

Also, the guys don't just get dances, the strippers sit on their laps usually, and kiss their cheeks, stroke their faces and talk to them. In my opinion that is totally inappropiate when you are in a relationship.

All that money the guy is spending on strippers should go to his girlfriend or wife. GUYS, how would you like it if your girl spends her money on random men she doesn't even know? It's betrayal on more levels than one, and can
be a dealbraker in a relationship.

Also for the guys that go to strip clubs, if you do that, I hope you feel fine if your girl goes to a club and gets grinded by a studly male until she cums.... there should be NO double standards.

Great insightful posts, Jackie! And welcome to the board!

another fucked up response full of conjecture....geez!

I hope not otherwise my wife and I are cheating on eachother together... :uhoh

isnt that what their there for,so you dont cheat,you can go and get lapdance or two and get it out of your system right?

Only if the guy isnt black!

Other than that.. Grind away!

That would be another way of cheating. why going to those kinds of places which you know in the first place that you will be having a contact with those flirty sluts? once you get there you know already what to happen and that to me is the cheating part...why go there if you have your girl already? just to have fun? i don't think that would be fun if one day you will discover that your girl is also doing that??? guys think first of your partner before getting into a very complicated thing....think of the "what if's" before doing something.

You are 100% correct...

Now about the sites that give the reviews about milage, can you post that??

It could be intresting.. Just to look at that is..

And second, I think its ok to spend the money on the stripper If There is enough money to go around and you arent taking it from your gal its ok..

In my book, $200.00 for a good Grind is ok..

Anymore and its too much..

With the drycleaning bill and the admission to get into the club, I feel anything under 300.00 is a great deal..

Unless the girl is Black, Asian, Or Mexican.. Then Id skim 35% or so off that figure.

ding ding ding...we have another winner :321GFY

I still feel it's cheating and wrong! Even if you can justify the payments ...

The only way to circumvent this problem is to find a man who doesn't go to strip clubs and fuck whores, make sure that YOURS is one that doesn't, because if he is one that DOES he will not change no matter what. I have learned this the hard way. The majority of men do like to go to strip clubs and fuck whores on the side (and thereby endangering the lives of their girlfriends and wives with deadly diseases).

Now if a guy was in a strip club and some drunk stripper started to suck his dick for free in VIP, would any man have the willpower to say no? It's better not to put yourself in that situation in the first place. And some strippers DO date their customers, I have heard of this happening ocassionally.

As for the sites, I did A LOT of research on strip clubs and read sites like stripperweb.com, and usasexguide.info (that's where I found posts about whores and strip clubs) and to reveal the TRUE nature of men. A lot of these men are married too and post tips on how to fool their wives and think up excuses so they don't get caught. They are all pigs!

Fact is most men are pigs and always want more, they are never happy and appreciate what they have.

Please..for the love of men and those of us who have sane relationships...become a lesbian...you'll be happier.

Was OPRAH just plugged on GFY? :helpme

Lol.... No, I'm a webmaster. But just because I SELL porn on the net doesnt mean I have to live a wild and hedonistic lifestyle. Sorry, but I think a guy getting his dick grinded till he cums is cheating, and sorry but I believe in monogamy and being FAITHFUL.

Porn to me is just product. I don't care wtf I sell as long as it makes money. I don't GIVE A FUCK if other people want to swing or get gangbanged, I ONLY care about things that affect me personally. But in my personal life I expect my significant other to be FAITHFUL to me and not go to strip clubs.

of course not

I remember when Scott took me to the Grand Prix. I heard it's closed now though.

i wouldn't want my girl around a bunch of half naked men grinding on her

I have been to strip clubs in lots of different cities and I have never had an orgasm in one. So I guess I don't cheat but why would you not discuss it before hand? "Honey, if you go don't suck the titties!" Problem solved.

er. no?! To adult businesses, that's like saying the boardroom is off limits! lol

Then again, I am not the type to fuck strippers. I'm in a secure relationship, and my girl knows I'm not going to go run off with anyone. ...so if I go to a strip club at a show with other webmasters, it's no problem.

We actually used to say zip code, but then Atlanta got two new area codes, so you are pretty safe where ever you may be :-)

Matt

http://www.augustnight.com/gfy/billclinton.jpg

I did not have sexual relations with that woman

because his wife usually has a big fat ass

:2 cents:

No....Neither is Bukkake! :pimp

men are pigs and always want more?

i think most men YOU HAVE KNOWN just regret coming home to a bitch like you.

men are men. woman are woman. we are different animals completely. different needs, wishes desires, fantasies etc. why can't you just accept that we are different? why does a man have to be inferior just because YOU are threatened by his behavior?

and keep thinking you are going to find a guy that's not attracted to naked bodies that aren't yours. how fucking stupid is it for someone to work in porn and have a mentality like that?

I'm guessing you are A: male B: weigh in around 300lbs, or C: carrying every STD known to man.

And no, we're not 'all horny sexual creatures who like to fuck new people every once in a while'.

nope....

She enjoys it more than me :thumbsup

Nope it's still open for business! :thumbsup

Duhhhh.... of course I know that men have fantasies, but there is a difference between having a fantasy and ACTING IT OUT.

Also, the thing about men being different, I really think that women are JUST as horny as men, women just have been conditioned by society to appear more demure and virginal, but now that society is loosening up, men are becoming threatened by women's sexuality.

Basically I don't care what I sell as long as I make money, it's all about money and sex sells best of course! I respect other people's desires to get gangbanged, be swingers, whatever but it's just not for ME. Because I expect someone to be faithful to me doesn't mean that I don't respect other people's rights to be wild or whatever. I am only concerned with what affects me PERSONALLY, I DO NOT CARE about other people's sexual behaviours, only that of my significant other!!

Because people have urges to fuck around doesn't mean they have to fullfill them. That's what makes us different from animals: self-control!

men are becoming threatened by womens sexuality? sorry... seeing my balls dangle from any girls chin is no threat at all. I don't think any other guy see's that as a threat either.

you sound really bitter and spiteful towards men? what happened to you? can we talk about this first? jesus.

woman today are no less sexual than men and no less likely to act on thier impulses and act out their fantasies. and i certainly don't think men are threatened by that... its actually the way we prefer it.

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well that nastyboy dude and that swinger bitch sure did score a few points. props for that. thing is, i dont cheat either, i have self control over myself. but i would be mad as shit if i went through all this trouble to get cheated on. your point of views seem to take away any form of commitment; should we ban marriage? should we have kids with different partners? i think nots; may be its me that's wrong. anyhow i guess its ok for a swinger couple to "cheat" on each other; same principle applies over a faithful couple. and thats when its wrong for ANY (man or woman) of the two to cheat. but you still defended your points very well, although i have not been hurt in the past, nor am i a jealous guy; im actually more independent than anything, but it has served me well thru my relations to this day. take care now.