Is it cheating if a guy with a girlfriend gets a lapdance at a stripclub?
 

Well, is it??

I think it kinda is, because he's getting his dick grinded by some other girl, and what if he has an orgasm or something? Isn't this cheating?

it is not CHEATING, but it's a shitty thing to do to your gf-

have you been in vegas this january.. ? :glugglug

naw, but when the girl sleeps with the marching band behind your back, you've got problems! :warning

HAHAHA depends on good the lapdace is!!

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Yeah, i agree, it's pretty shitty. But what if the guys says he doesn't mind if the GIRL gets a lapdance from a male stripper or whatever, is it still just as bad?

Who the fuck would get an orgasm from a little grinding? LOL! Are you still in high school or something? :winkwink:

DH

men need a change every now and then and it's better if they get it from some one time stripper then a new girlfriend

Most Men will always cheat regardless how sexy their wife and regardless if she licks his asshole or not.

I'm not talking about ME, I'm worried that the GUY I'm with will have one. I think it's fucked up to go get lapdances when u have a girlfriend.

If my old man went out to a strip club and DIDN'T get himself a kickass lapdance, I would smack him upside the head so hard when he got home his dick would invert. WTF? WHO CARES! He's not sticking his dick in her, it's masturbation with more visual stimulation, and with his clothes on. What's the big deal? Cripes. He's bringing the sexual energy home to me. *drool* (Side note, I almost ALWAYS go to the strip club with the guys, I get the lap dances free)

that was what i came here to post

I give you 2 6 months and its over unless you start facing reality REAL quick here

How is getting a "lapdance" considered a change? If its just a dance that you can't even really get off on, then what's the major change??

And it's a stripper, it's not some neighboor or something

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I agree phogirl-stripclub patrons should be single guys who can't get girls

How about you eat the same meal for every single meal every single day for the rest of your life.

Now add ketchup.

An improvement, no?

How is it masturbation? I mean he's not gonna jerk off in the club. And the stripper isn't gonna touch it with her hands either, its just dancing/grinding/whatever, quite different from masturbation i would think.

Exactly! I love strippers, myself. :)

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Good point.. which does raise the question, has anyone got off by going to a strip club?

You seem to be forgetting that sexual arousal is 90% MENTAL. Therefore anything that can be percieved as sexually arousing could be considered masturbation. And you said yourself if she's "grinding on his dick", that would imply SOME form of contact, would it not? Just because he's not using his hands doesn't mean he won't get off.

cheating can be debated, some couple let others fuck others is that cheating "no" but if your girlfriend doesnt want you at the strip bar its disrespectful and considered cheating. your doing something that in her eyes is not allowed.

Uhhh, sorry but I believe in momogomy. I eat bread every day for breakfast and I'm just fine, thank you. Not everyone who works in adult is a swinger.

Why should they?

I have I have! And I've been dragged on stage by strippers to be summarily molested, too.

It's men not adult boy are you about to face reality soon.

Like I said 6 months and its over

And why is it swinging to see strippers? There's no sex involved. It's called "adding spice".

I agree 100 percent.

Pics?

The whole point of him going is to have fun with his friends, so he claims, don't worry about me, I've got plenty of spice.

Hey Mr. Tushy, you got some brains in that there head of yours! lol.

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depends on the circumstances (as most things do)...

depends on what type of relationship they have, ie openess to such activities...

but seeing as to how most relationship are not open to that kinda shit, then yeah that is jacked up :)

Variety is the spice of life. Why should anyone be jealous of some chick who's paid to show off her body when he's coming home to you, or at least he should be, and he's doing it because he wants what YOU have. If he wanted the stripper, I'm sure he could find a way to have what he wanted if it WASN'T you. If he wanted to "cheat", he would do it, and you sure as hell wouldn't know about it. He's at least being honest and telling you where he's going.. Shouldn't that count for SOMETHING?

Uhh, wrong, we've been together for almost 6 years, we just never had this problem because was a minor when he went to prison, and he's 22 now, so he can go now, he couldn't before!

If suckin aint fuckin ..... a lap dance sure isn't :2 cents:
Cheers,
BV

No, if a guy cares about a girl he should respect what she's comfortable with, and if she's not comfortable with something he
should respect that. I don't feel it's a huge thing for a guy to give up, I feel it's something minor, it's not like I'm asking him to buy me a fucken car or go to the moon or anything, it's a small compromise, and if a guy cares about a girl he should be willing to sacrifice to make her happy.

i take it nobody has had their significant other sleep with the marching band behind their back :Oh crap

Face reality quick and I mean REAL quick.

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If he was in prison for a long time, those years don't count. It's far different having a relationship with someone in forced confinement then it is with someone out here in the real world. Fuck, if he was locked up, TELL him to take his ass out to the strippers, he needs to experience life a little. It's better you know where he is anyways than him going ANYWAY and you NOT knowing what he's up to.

And let me get this straight.. WHAT exactly do you do in the industry? You can be in the adult industry, but it's NOT cool for your man to get a lapdance from some stripper? Ok... dual standards there..

Or are you NOT in the adult industry? Correct me if I'm wrong, but this is an ADULT WEBMASTER BOARD.. and this smacks of bigtime hypocracy.

I have been to plenty of clubs where the chick will try to pull it right out of your pants. There are a lot of clubs out there that do not stop at the grinding. I do not think that a harmless little lapdance is cheating, as long as your chick knows where you are. If you ask her and she has a problem then don't go, simple as that. Now if you dump a load in your pants while getting a dance you also do not belong there...that just fucking wrong:1orglaugh

shes about to learn what men are it's ok give her some time.

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Does anyone donate you money?

They're going to do that whether or not they go see strippers, if they're so inclined... Getting a lapdance is not going to sway them either way if they aren't.

My ex was the biggest slut the world has ever seen, but i'd STILL smack my husband if he didn't get a lapdance. Why should he miss out because of my hangups? (and if I still have hangups about something that happened years ago, why haven't I gone to seek counselling yet?)

a couple people have. you should. in fact, i think everyone on this board should send me JUST ONE DOLLAR.

that's not much to ask!

I sell memberships to paysites as a reseller. And ??? Because I
sell porn I'm supposed to like strippers and hookers??? WTF?

Not everyone that sells porn likes strippers and living live on the wild side. I only sell it behind the computer, it's not like I'm really deep into it, fucking on cam or anything.

Is getting fucked by the entire chain gang considered cheating?

Men cheat get used to it, I bet he already fucked someone and you don't know.

Now one day you will find out, depending how smart you are it can be tonight or in another 6 months.

Just asked my girlfriend what she thought about the subject. She said she wouldn't mind me getting a lapdance, just so long as i was coming home to her. But even still, i don't think i'd feel right actually getting one, but that's just me.

girls cheat too, and they can lie better :warning