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mmcfadden 06-16-2010 06:10 PM

So do you want to put sites on my server or no?

Argos88 06-16-2010 08:15 PM

You don't use BACKUPS in your dedicated SERVER?

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digitaldivas 06-16-2010 08:19 PM

..............good luck!

ShellyCrash 06-16-2010 08:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Agent 488 (Post 17250706)
huh i love the jewcat but try and let any bill go that late ... a month late and you're sent to a collection agency.

phatservers is going way beyond what any company would do here ...

I'm not suggesting 4 months wasn't excessive, just suggesting there may have been a different and possbily more mutually benificial way to handle it. I think the servers should have been taken offline being so behind, just suggesting maybe having a larger gap between taking them off line and erasing the data. Just my opinion reading over what was written, not blindly defending JewCat and not hating on the hosting company whatsoever, just making a suggestion. It wasn't 4 months of radio silence, Jewcat was making efforts to catch up. Wiping the servers when you already have half the past due amount deposited and pending seems a little hardcore. That's all.

mmcfadden 06-16-2010 08:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ShellyCrash (Post 17254462)
I'm not suggesting 4 months wasn't excessive, just suggesting there may have been a different and possbily more mutually benificial way to handle it. I think the servers should have been taken offline being so behind, just suggesting maybe having a larger gap between taking them off line and erasing the data. Just my opinion reading over what was written, not blindly defending JewCat and not hating on the hosting company whatsoever, just making a suggestion. It wasn't 4 months of radio silence, Jewcat was making efforts to catch up. Wiping the servers when you already have half the past due amount deposited and pending seems a little hardcore. That's all.

This is how I see it. I have tons of data stored all over the place that come together in a nice, neat place called my server.

If my host ever wiped my shit out without telling me I would not sit down, nor accept that it was my fault. Fucking A, times are tough, sometimes people steal all your money, sometimes your site doesn't do well, sometimes... well whatever...

If a host took down my site, fine. If a host deleted all my shit there would be fuckin' hell to pay. And I'm not talking about obscene phone calls...

fuck this shit!

signupdamnit 06-16-2010 09:09 PM

ALWAYS have *local* backups not just remote backups with the same hosting/server company as I have seen many suggesting. If your sites change often and are not static there is little excuse not to have at least one local or otherwise off-site backup that is no more than a month old. You never know what can happen with your host or what they will do. Mistakes can be made as well as misunderstandings. If you don't have a local or offsite backup which is no more than a month old, start working on it right now or first thing in the morning. Better yet try to automate it completely. For example You can have your server admin set up some scripts to do the job on the remote end and place the backups in a special directory and then set something up on your local machine to download the backups from the server on a regular basis to a special hard drive. If you use Linux at home you might even set up sshfs ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SSHFS ) to directly (by mounting a local HDD on the remote server) place the backups in a local subdirectory for you. Note possible security implications of doing this however.

Anyway, Good luck Angry Jew Cat.

nickutis 06-16-2010 09:33 PM

a guy with 80000K/year is late 4 months on HOSTING payment? i find no excuse on this shit

will76 06-16-2010 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat (Post 17249592)
The backups are from February, which will save some of my older stuff, and I'm not sure how much of it yet. There's only a handful of projects I really want to see saved here, and most of the heavy work went into them starting January/February, so I dunno what will be recovered. I never chose to pay extra for backups. Again, my own fault.

They said they had everything backed up and would give it to you when you paid up. You said you just paid up. So what is the problem, they can put everything back how it was ?

Quote:

Originally Posted by ShellyCrash (Post 17254462)
I'm not suggesting 4 months wasn't excessive, just suggesting there may have been a different and possbily more mutually benificial way to handle it. I think the servers should have been taken offline being so behind, just suggesting maybe having a larger gap between taking them off line and erasing the data. Just my opinion reading over what was written, not blindly defending JewCat and not hating on the hosting company whatsoever, just making a suggestion. It wasn't 4 months of radio silence, Jewcat was making efforts to catch up. Wiping the servers when you already have half the past due amount deposited and pending seems a little hardcore. That's all.

When they back it up, it doesn't really matter if they delete it off the server. They should be able to put it right back then once he is paid. If they deleted his stuff and they didn't make a copy of it then yeah, that would be harsh. But they said they backed it all up, so really if they put it back then it is irrelevant.

will76 06-16-2010 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat (Post 17252066)
To clear anything up, here's the situation as of early this year. I was earning well and spending money like a mad fool late in 09 and coming into 2010. When that whole credit card fiasco hammered mainstream rebill offers I lost two of the best converting offers I had. I was getting $55/lead with payouts on demand from the network I was promoting through. Basically i got an instant payout whenever I wanted it, and I was growing fast. I was pouring money into longterm SEO projects and custom scripts to automate the building process, that wound up going nowhere. As soon as my campaigns went to hell I stopped and began spending foolishly on new PPC campaigns and burnt off a lot of money fast failing to find anything that stuck again. When offers started coming back, payouts had been significantly decreased, and finding a new offer that even converted on par was hard. That combo made making monies again difficult.

Where I was bringing in $500 daily in profit through November I was up to almost $1k/day by Christmas, almost overnight I found myself putting out hundreds a day with a negative return. I essentially went from the high point in my online career looking like the sky was the limit, to square one. You also gotta figure in my "nigga rich" spending on pointless new shit. New snowboard gear, new computer, buying rounds like crazy. Expensive Christmas gifts for the family and other dumbshit.

At this point I started experimenting with mainstream niche affiliate stores, which were doing well for small startups, but take time to build, and are slow going building up those earnings again when you're collecting 4-15% commissions. The intention was to continue rolling with this type of project. Mainstream niche stores coming into now were my primary earner. Most of which were built up SINCE the last available backup. Which leaves most of my promising projects toast.

My truck caked out on me and left me with a massive bill. Living in a resort town I continued partying spending more money that I probably shouldn't have. Expenses were racking up, and recovering my old earnings back to a point where they were enough to live off still was cutting it close. hence why I was quick to accept the offe4r of good paying job when it was offered to me again about a month back.

First priority was getting my truck running and insured again. I sent over an initial payment to cover what I could after getting my truck running again on my first paycheck, which I also hd to pay rent, insurance and my other bills out of. Getting back to work cost me a fair share to start with. new tools, new work gear, yadda yadda. I had hoped that the partial payment would buy me some til the next payday to cover my remaining debt. I guess it didn't. My fault.

The niche affiliate stores were showing promise, but take time to build up. My s4rver was down, a few people here new the situation and were waiting for things to come back up. I would have continued building them over the summer, and with things on course again, by fall I should have had a reasonable base built back up. With the start I had gone though, I just don't feel like starting over again. So be it. I'm working with a good company, collecting good paychecks on a regular schedule again, and to be honest it's kind of nice. It's not a bad life.

Come fall I'll take my layoff, and join what is formally referred to as the "EI Ski Team". I started in this whole business with the only intention being a way to pay for my snowboard seasons while I drank, got high, and enjoyed the slopes every day. God bless communism and it's support programs. So y, I'm essentially better off with no online income, which would hinder my employment insurance payouts, lol. So this winter I'll be snowboarding on the taxpayer's dime. Fuck it. This was never a career for me, just another job. All I've done is found a new one. Hell, it's the "Albertan Dream". Make big money for a few months, get layoff, then cruise by on EI payouts for the rest of the year.

I'll still be around in the future once in a while. But I'm an official surfer now. :1orglaugh

If you (or anyone else reading that may fall into the same trap) can learn anything from this, it is....

don't spend money as fast as you can make it. It is everyone's natural tendency to spend more as they make more. It is very damaging for several reasons.

1. Most people that start making "mad money" all of a sudden, it rarely lasts long. Easy come, easy go.. while maybe not the best expression because you were working hard, it does play out pretty much that way.

2. When people start making more money they dig themselves into a hole. They go buy that nice car but instead of paying cash for it, they put a little money down and finance the rest. SO what it has a $750 a month note, hell they making that now in 1 day. Then when the money runs dry they can't afford $750 a month so they lose the car, lose the little money they put into it, and destroy their credit and now have no vehicle ( <- worse then they started). You can substitute house for car in the same scenario. People also run up lots of credit card debt as they make more money because they think " I will pay it off next month" etc... Which never happens and then when the monthly payments get high right about the same time their income tanks.

3. People neglect their business and spend the money on bullshit. Like in your case you put no money aside for your future business expenses. You should have built up a reserve of at least 12 months for hosting, etc... to cover your business expenses before you started blowing money on buying expensive christmas presents. You need to have money for bad stretches to get you through them to the next good run. When you blow all of your money on bullshit and then you hit a bad stretch you wind up not being able to pay for hosting and you got out of business.

4. People make bad investments when money is flowing in. (this one I have been victim of). When you making 30K a week you get a lot more risky with your money, so what if I blow 30K on a new project, that is just one weeks check. Make stupid mistakes and lose money left and right on bad projects, when you start making a lot less you will have wished you were more safe with your business decisions. It is good to diversify and reinvest into your business, but people get so risky and carefree they almost always blow it. You need to make decisions like that is the last bit of money you have to your name, not that it was just 1 week's check if it doesn't work oh well I will make more.


if nothing else learn from your mistakes.

LiveDose 06-16-2010 10:00 PM

Good luck to you.

DaddyHalbucks 06-16-2010 10:13 PM

Good luck AJC!

EliteWebmaster 06-16-2010 10:18 PM

Hey Angry Jew Cat, if you are really leaving the business and you have no use for your backups, you can send them my way ;) I have some dormant domains that could use some content :winkwink:

The Porn Nerd 06-16-2010 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by will76 (Post 17254626)
If you (or anyone else reading that may fall into the same trap) can learn anything from this, it is....

don't spend money as fast as you can make it. It is everyone's natural tendency to spend more as they make more. It is very damaging for several reasons.

1. Most people that start making "mad money" all of a sudden, it rarely lasts long. Easy come, easy go.. while maybe not the best expression because you were working hard, it does play out pretty much that way.

2. When people start making more money they dig themselves into a hole. They go buy that nice car but instead of paying cash for it, they put a little money down and finance the rest. SO what it has a $750 a month note, hell they making that now in 1 day. Then when the money runs dry they can't afford $750 a month so they lose the car, lose the little money they put into it, and destroy their credit and now have no vehicle ( <- worse then they started). You can substitute house for car in the same scenario. People also run up lots of credit card debt as they make more money because they think " I will pay it off next month" etc... Which never happens and then when the monthly payments get high right about the same time their income tanks.

3. People neglect their business and spend the money on bullshit. Like in your case you put no money aside for your future business expenses. You should have built up a reserve of at least 12 months for hosting, etc... to cover your business expenses before you started blowing money on buying expensive christmas presents. You need to have money for bad stretches to get you through them to the next good run. When you blow all of your money on bullshit and then you hit a bad stretch you wind up not being able to pay for hosting and you got out of business.

4. People make bad investments when money is flowing in. (this one I have been victim of). When you making 30K a week you get a lot more risky with your money, so what if I blow 30K on a new project, that is just one weeks check. Make stupid mistakes and lose money left and right on bad projects, when you start making a lot less you will have wished you were more safe with your business decisions. It is good to diversify and reinvest into your business, but people get so risky and carefree they almost always blow it. You need to make decisions like that is the last bit of money you have to your name, not that it was just 1 week's check if it doesn't work oh well I will make more.


if nothing else learn from your mistakes.

One of your best posts ever Will. Excellent points, and I can attest to all that you wrote. I have made ALL of the above mistakes with the first flush of success with Mister Peabody World, tho the $ was more like $300 a day rather than $30,000. LOL Still, same principles apply.

Now I know better and, I think/hope/pray, just in time.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life 06-17-2010 02:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nickutis (Post 17254573)
a guy with 80000K/year is late 4 months on HOSTING payment? i find no excuse on this shit

I just started the job again last month after working online exclusive for quite a while. Obviously I have no problem paying for things now. As soon as i collected my first check back, I fixed my truck, paid my insurance, paid rent, nd sent in a partial payment for my the debt on my hosting. Covered the rest owing on my second check. Leading up to this times were getting tough. Thus why I didn't waste any time jumping at the job again when it was offered to me. They called me in the morning. I packed by bags and was out the door the next day. It's a good job, no doubt about it, sort of whyI'm not giving too much of a shit that things are gone. I can work right through the year and make a healthy $80k/year, or I can take an optional winter layoff and collect employment insurance. I'll be soaking up the benefits of socialism and snowboarding on EI. Woo hoo.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life 06-17-2010 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by will76 (Post 17254592)
When they back it up, it doesn't really matter if they delete it off the server. They should be able to put it right back then once he is paid. If they deleted his stuff and they didn't make a copy of it then yeah, that would be harsh. But they said they backed it all up, so really if they put it back then it is irrelevant.

Things are paid up, waiting to see what comes of the backups still. They are a little old and most of my newer work is probably turfed. Still waiting to see.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life 06-17-2010 02:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by will76 (Post 17254626)
If you (or anyone else reading that may fall into the same trap) can learn anything from this, it is....

don't spend money as fast as you can make it. It is everyone's natural tendency to spend more as they make more. It is very damaging for several reasons.

1. Most people that start making "mad money" all of a sudden, it rarely lasts long. Easy come, easy go.. while maybe not the best expression because you were working hard, it does play out pretty much that way.

2. When people start making more money they dig themselves into a hole. They go buy that nice car but instead of paying cash for it, they put a little money down and finance the rest. SO what it has a $750 a month note, hell they making that now in 1 day. Then when the money runs dry they can't afford $750 a month so they lose the car, lose the little money they put into it, and destroy their credit and now have no vehicle ( <- worse then they started). You can substitute house for car in the same scenario. People also run up lots of credit card debt as they make more money because they think " I will pay it off next month" etc... Which never happens and then when the monthly payments get high right about the same time their income tanks.

3. People neglect their business and spend the money on bullshit. Like in your case you put no money aside for your future business expenses. You should have built up a reserve of at least 12 months for hosting, etc... to cover your business expenses before you started blowing money on buying expensive christmas presents. You need to have money for bad stretches to get you through them to the next good run. When you blow all of your money on bullshit and then you hit a bad stretch you wind up not being able to pay for hosting and you got out of business.

4. People make bad investments when money is flowing in. (this one I have been victim of). When you making 30K a week you get a lot more risky with your money, so what if I blow 30K on a new project, that is just one weeks check. Make stupid mistakes and lose money left and right on bad projects, when you start making a lot less you will have wished you were more safe with your business decisions. It is good to diversify and reinvest into your business, but people get so risky and carefree they almost always blow it. You need to make decisions like that is the last bit of money you have to your name, not that it was just 1 week's check if it doesn't work oh well I will make more.


if nothing else learn from your mistakes.

Looking back on it now, the biggest mistake I made was believing that it wouldn't end, or that I could recover quickly from things going down. Wasn't the case. Shit pretty much came to a screaming halt the moment I lost my one specific offer at $55/lead. That offer was hot hot hot.

In reality I got lucky and hit the right spot at the right time, and ade a good run of it for a couple months. Truthfully I was probably about 2 months late for the really sweet spot, but I did get a taste of what it's like.

JaneB 06-17-2010 07:30 PM

That sucks. Good luck with your new job. I hope that everything works out for you.

2012 06-17-2010 07:34 PM

now you can spend ALL DAY at /b/ ! you got the life pimp !



keep on truckin playa :thumbsup

Jim_Gunn 06-17-2010 07:54 PM

Don't most dedicated server plans ask you for a credit card to auto-bill monthly instead of making the customer pay monthly bills separately each month via a web based form or snail mail?

Alky 06-17-2010 08:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat (Post 17252141)
There is an old backup. I'll see what comes out of it. There are a couple projects that I started right around then that may be salvageable. More than likely I'll just sell off whatever is remaining. The promising earners I had together were all newer niche stores built since the last backup.

I might change my mind in a while and see where I can continue going with that game plan. but t the moment I'm looking at the very least taking an extended break from things. A lot of it depends what I see come out of these old backups. If there's anything decent leftover I'll probably just move it to a cheap virtual server and let it live itself out and collect whatever change it brings in.

Why would it be a old backup? The host probably took an image of the drive before the cleaned it off.

topnotch, standup guy 06-17-2010 09:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alky (Post 17258872)
Why would it be a old backup? The host probably took an image of the drive before the cleaned it off.

One would think.

JustDaveXxx 06-19-2010 11:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by will76 (Post 17254626)
If you (or anyone else reading that may fall into the same trap) can learn anything from this, it is....

don't spend money as fast as you can make it. It is everyone's natural tendency to spend more as they make more. It is very damaging for several reasons.

1. Most people that start making "mad money" all of a sudden, it rarely lasts long. Easy come, easy go.. while maybe not the best expression because you were working hard, it does play out pretty much that way.

2. When people start making more money they dig themselves into a hole. They go buy that nice car but instead of paying cash for it, they put a little money down and finance the rest. SO what it has a $750 a month note, hell they making that now in 1 day. Then when the money runs dry they can't afford $750 a month so they lose the car, lose the little money they put into it, and destroy their credit and now have no vehicle ( <- worse then they started). You can substitute house for car in the same scenario. People also run up lots of credit card debt as they make more money because they think " I will pay it off next month" etc... Which never happens and then when the monthly payments get high right about the same time their income tanks.

3. People neglect their business and spend the money on bullshit. Like in your case you put no money aside for your future business expenses. You should have built up a reserve of at least 12 months for hosting, etc... to cover your business expenses before you started blowing money on buying expensive christmas presents. You need to have money for bad stretches to get you through them to the next good run. When you blow all of your money on bullshit and then you hit a bad stretch you wind up not being able to pay for hosting and you got out of business.

4. People make bad investments when money is flowing in. (this one I have been victim of). When you making 30K a week you get a lot more risky with your money, so what if I blow 30K on a new project, that is just one weeks check. Make stupid mistakes and lose money left and right on bad projects, when you start making a lot less you will have wished you were more safe with your business decisions. It is good to diversify and reinvest into your business, but people get so risky and carefree they almost always blow it. You need to make decisions like that is the last bit of money you have to your name, not that it was just 1 week's check if it doesn't work oh well I will make more.


if nothing else learn from your mistakes.

WOW!! Great post dude!! Will76 is always a great read.:thumbsup




Ohhh And good luck to you Angry Jew Cat. I have always loved your board contributions.:thumbsup

Emil 06-19-2010 02:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky (Post 17249442)
Don't your host have a backup?

Never trust your host when it comes to backups. I learned it the hard way.

st0ned 06-19-2010 03:05 PM

Sorry to hear about this. I had a server fail once (not due to non payment) and lack of backups set me back 6+ months of work as I lost 100+ sites in one blow. I know all about the spending habits also once you reach an income level which you have never seen before. Adult is definitely tanking and I am trying my best to move most of my interests elsewhere, though once you get in here and have a network of 1,000+ sites it seems to be a black hole which you can never get out of.

At any rate good luck in your future endeavors. I am pretty sure we had similar interests in regards to marketing so if you put anything up for sale feel free to email me, I am always buying.


Quoted for truth:
Quote:

Originally Posted by Emil (Post 17263562)
Never trust your host when it comes to backups. I learned it the hard way.

:2 cents:

Brujah 06-19-2010 03:44 PM

Scary story with some great lessons to be learned about keeping your own backups. Rsync can do this for you and run automatically each night and probably be finished in 10 minutes or less in most cases.

AngusAl 06-19-2010 05:38 PM

Amerinoc/Phatservers has always gone above and beyond with anything I have ever needed and that includes billing problems I've had in the past.
Not saying anything about Jew Cat but I want to make sure people know that Amerinoc/Phatservers is the best internet company I have EVER dealt with and I've been about since about 2001 :)

Sorry to hear of your problems Jew Cat and best of luck. If you have an 80k a year job then it sounds like you still landed on your feet! :)

TheSenator 06-19-2010 05:41 PM

So, what was "Angry Jew Cat" main job in the adult biz?

maccsta 06-19-2010 05:54 PM

bye bye.

icymelon 06-19-2010 06:47 PM

if you want to unload some domains cheap hit me up.

chronig 10-22-2010 11:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat (Post 17249485)
It's all my own damn fault for keeping shitty backups, and getting abehind on a payment. Amerinoc switched to their new payment ticket system, I kept sending in my payments directly, which apparently means they weren't tracked in the system. I always pay by eCheck which added and extra 6-8 days for payment to clear. Used to get a lot of leeway with Phatservers and hosted with them for a long time. If I got behind a month, I just doubled up the next month and it was never problem. Now you get automatically wiped after 45 days overdue by the system with no human review. Combine my month behind, with the pyment not tracked by the system and my eCheck setting me back, I surpassed their threshhold and everything got shitcanned. Apparently there's some old backups kicking around, not sure I even care at this point, but I'll see what's left over.

I got a solid $80k/year job right now doing track inspection for CN. I only planned on working til the end of summer, but with this turn I think I might just bite the bullet and kiss the net goodbye and run with it.

I dunno. Pretty much put the nail int he coffin of my internet career though. I haven't even started totaling the total value of what I've lost.

If anyone followed what I was saying about my poor money management at the end of last year, they'd know I made a lot of money in a short period doing some mainstream stuff, and spent it all very poorly on investments which were left half finished and unusable until they were finished. Pretty sure all that is gone, along with a lot of other stuff. I have rough backups kicking around for a lot of stuff, but it will take a lot of time to put it all back together and get things back in order. Don't know if I care to do it.

Poor management on my part sunk the ship.

Guess you got fired from your day job since you still spend all your time on GFY... :disgust

Agent 488 10-22-2010 11:33 AM

leaving again?

Sid70 10-22-2010 11:39 AM

80k job is fair substitute. U can always can do porn part-time.


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