My First Personal Hate Letter, how to respond? - GoFuckYourself.com

Allison · 04-23-2010, 09:23 AM

I received this email this morning in response to
http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/

"Your article in the Daily Princetonian today was reprehensible. I cannot believe you are actually trying justify your corporate smut peddling in the pages of a college newspaper. Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America. To say otherwise is disingenuous. I don?t know how you sleep at night."

It's taken me 9 years in this industry, to get my first personal hate email.

Suggestions on how to respond?

Spudman · 04-23-2010, 09:25 AM

don't dignify it with a response, that will piss them off the most

Barefootsies · 04-23-2010, 09:26 AM

That's one of the funniest things I have read in a while.

Thanks for the laugh.

FreeHugeMovies · 04-23-2010, 09:27 AM

Ignore it

Daddy Big Nuts · 04-23-2010, 09:28 AM

was it from a man or a woman?

FreeHugeMovies · 04-23-2010, 09:28 AM

I got this yesterday.

Name: Keepfuckingaroundasshole

My price range is: Up to $250,000

I intend to buy in about: 30 days

Email: everytimeyoufuckwithmine@imgoingtofuckwithyours

Phone No: 704-555-1212

Message:
You're a deceitful piece of shit with too much time on your hands. Fuck off asswipe. You don't want to fuck with me. You're a good guy with good friends....I'm a bad guy with bad friends. I promise you that you'll be sorry.

Allison · 04-23-2010, 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daddy Big Nuts

was it from a man or a woman?

From a man.

TheDoc · 04-23-2010, 09:32 AM

Funny stuff... Make sure you print and frame it, then take a picture of it with all your female staff holding it, and send it back to the person with a thank you.

Sly · 04-23-2010, 09:35 AM

Have Q write up a three-page response even a Nobel laureate could not understand, LOL.

Daddy Big Nuts · 04-23-2010, 09:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allison

From a man.

Interesting. My hate mails are always from wives of customers....which makes a response really easy.

Im a smartass ....I'd ask him what disingenuous means....

BradM · 04-23-2010, 09:37 AM

There's no need to respond. Let him hate everything and continue to live your life. This is a pretty insignificant person.

TheDoc · 04-23-2010, 09:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDoc

Funny stuff... Make sure you print and frame it, then take a picture of it with all your female staff holding it, and send it back to the person with a thank you.

Add to that, the girls should all have tall black boots on, with all the men under them and the boots pushing down on them... put the power structure forward, this guy hates strong women - it has nothing to do with porn.

ottopottomouse · 04-23-2010, 09:38 AM

Two choices

Ignore it - they want attention.

Or

Send them a 1 month pass to the topbucks sites. Log the use of the pass. In a months time do another article about how hypocritical people are that they will send you hate mail but happily visit your sites for 9 hours a day

Sly · 04-23-2010, 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDoc

Add to that, the girls should all have tall black boots on, with all the men under them and the boots pushing down on them... put the power structure forward, this guy hates strong women - it has nothing to do with porn.

This is starting to sound like a fetish of yours. I had no idea.

luv$ · 04-23-2010, 09:43 AM

Really well written article - good work and I think you did a great job on getting your points across.

Except for this part - don't tell me there was no pun here:

Quote:

The central thrust of my point is that it simply isn?t the place of anti-porn feminists...

OBJECTIFIER!

Domain Diva · 04-23-2010, 09:44 AM

Simply ignore it .......to reply shows the writer they have connected with you and you have listened to thier views thus leading to more communication from them and the circle of hate will begin.....it doesnt take much to set those type of firecrackers off.

Fetish Gimp · 04-23-2010, 09:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ottopottomouse

Send them a 1 month pass to the topbucks sites. Log the use of the pass. In a months time do another article about how hypocritical people are that they will send you hate mail but happily visit your sites for 9 hours a day

Simple, yet beautifully Machiavellian

JFK · 04-23-2010, 09:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allison

I received this email this morning in response to
http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/

"Your article in the Daily Princetonian today was reprehensible. I cannot believe you are actually trying justify your corporate smut peddling in the pages of a college newspaper. Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America. To say otherwise is disingenuous. I don?t know how you sleep at night."

It's taken me 9 years in this industry, to get my first personal hate email.

Suggestions on how to respond?

dear sir, thank you for your point of view, unfortunately yours and mine differ. Yours AV

TheDoc · 04-23-2010, 10:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly

This is starting to sound like a fetish of yours. I had no idea.

Nothing like a smart and powerful women that knows how to take control!

Bryan G · 04-23-2010, 10:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allison

I received this email this morning in response to
http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/

"Your article in the Daily Princetonian today was reprehensible. I cannot believe you are actually trying justify your corporate smut peddling in the pages of a college newspaper. Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America. To say otherwise is disingenuous. I don?t know how you sleep at night."

It's taken me 9 years in this industry, to get my first personal hate email.

Suggestions on how to respond?

It's probably from Donny

fatfoo · 04-23-2010, 10:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allison

Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America.

More words should be said about this. There are different types of pornography. There is even pornography with clothed females? What? This means everything can be labeled pornography. Extreme hardcore porn vs softcore porn or women in bikinis. These are all different things. Yes, pornography can be poison. You see, it really does depend on the details. Sometimes people even make extreme violent porn. Any attractive woman showing a lot of skin can be labeled pornography. It does indeed need more explanations about this. Maybe you should explain what exactly you are doing to prove your point in a persuasive way. Give details. What you are not doing (violence, etc.) is also important.

Redmanthatcould · 04-23-2010, 10:12 AM

I'm thinking the only responsible reply would be goatse.

Major (Tom) · 04-23-2010, 10:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allison

I received this email this morning in response to
http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/

"Your article in the Daily Princetonian today was reprehensible. I cannot believe you are actually trying justify your corporate smut peddling in the pages of a college newspaper. Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America. To say otherwise is disingenuous. I don?t know how you sleep at night."

It's taken me 9 years in this industry, to get my first personal hate email.

Suggestions on how to respond?

I get 6 a day. I love them. I even have a hate mail email addy. I'm going to start posting them on my site soon.
Don't sweat it, it's the internet.
duke

Major (Tom) · 04-23-2010, 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VS_Jeff

I'm thinking the only responsible reply would be goatse.

brilliant my friend!
duek

D-Money · 04-23-2010, 10:24 AM

I wouldn't respond to it. You won't change his mind with any rational response.

kristin · 04-23-2010, 10:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DukeSkywalker

I get 6 a day. I love them. I even have a hate mail email addy. I'm going to start posting them on my site soon.
Don't sweat it, it's the internet.
duke

I've seen some of these mails, they are pretty humorous.

I see why you might get a few more than Alli.

MaDalton · 04-23-2010, 10:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Platinum Bryan

It's probably from Donny

Redmanthatcould · 04-23-2010, 10:37 AM

Also, you could try to get some cues from Maddox.

Eric · 04-23-2010, 10:40 AM

about time you joined the club!!!

Ignore it, people that write shit like that feed off the response, and there is nothing you can say to them to think differently than they already do. Lack of response usually leads them to believe you were unaffected by it, which is exactly how you should treat it.

E

lazycash · 04-23-2010, 10:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fatfoo

More words should be said about this. There are different types of pornography. There is even pornography with clothed females? What? This means everything can be labeled pornography. Extreme hardcore porn vs softcore porn or women in bikinis. These are all different things. Yes, pornography can be poison. You see, it really does depend on the details. Sometimes people even make extreme violent porn. Any attractive woman showing a lot of skin can be labeled pornography. It does indeed need more explanations about this. Maybe you should explain what exactly you are doing to prove your point in a persuasive way. Give details. What you are not doing (violence, etc.) is also important.

Brilliant advice.

nation-x · 04-23-2010, 10:41 AM

ignore it... this person will never change their perspective and you will waste your time replying. In addition, your reply will fuel his/her activism.

LAJ · 04-23-2010, 10:43 AM

It took you this long to get a hate letter?? You clearly must not be doing something right!! ;)

Seriously tho.. unless you are getting death threats, you ignore.

CIVMatt · 04-23-2010, 10:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allison

I received this email this morning in response to
http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/

"Your article in the Daily Princetonian today was reprehensible. I cannot believe you are actually trying justify your corporate smut peddling in the pages of a college newspaper. Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America. To say otherwise is disingenuous. I don?t know how you sleep at night."

It's taken me 9 years in this industry, to get my first personal hate email.

Suggestions on how to respond?

Response:

Sorry I can't hear you over the sound of me masturbating

Sands · 04-23-2010, 10:57 AM

I will assist you with a response:

Dearest sir or madam,

Thank you for your message. I value the logic-deprived assertions of double-digit IQ holders. They say that laughter is the best medicine, and you've added two years to my life. As for how I sleep at night, it's on a really expensive bed that allows me a rejuvenatory 8 hours of snoring bliss because, as you may know, peddling smut can take a lot out of you.

Stay golden Ponyboy,

-A

ShellyCrash · 04-23-2010, 10:58 AM

I got a death threat via home phone once. I was alot younger then and I responded something to the effect of "I'd like to see you come here and try it." Then I looked up the # from the caller ID and saw he was only about a 3 hr drive away. Oops.

I consider myself lucky nothing else ever came of it. In hindsight "Wrong number" probably would have seen the best response.

The world is filled with nutjobs. Best to ignore it when you can. Responding only feeds the trolls.

Tom_PM · 04-23-2010, 11:10 AM

I'm too busy putting on make up and adjusting my bra to understand your letter. *giggles* *blush*

Does this reply make me look fat?

xxx ooo

troncarver · 04-23-2010, 11:12 AM

tell them you take ambien

and that you and rodrigo laugh all the way to the banks together

D Ghost · 04-23-2010, 11:18 AM

Write an email back saying only this:

"Well, that sounds like a personal problem."

;)

P.S. - great article btw...

SimonScans · 04-23-2010, 11:20 AM

Did they use a name? I like to re-cycle names of people of have annoyed me by using their names for models. Or by giving models who've annoyed me stupid names.

http://www.simonscans.com/models/sho...hp?modelid=260

But as a general rule, don't talk to civilians about porn, its not something they can understand.

Topbuxom Lea · 04-23-2010, 11:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly

Have Q write up a three-page response even a Nobel laureate could not understand, LOL.

That's fucking priceless....

I'd write back and tell him "If your dick is the size of your brain, you're in a lotta trouble pal"

or the classic:

"opinions are like assholes...thanks for yours"

-L

Chosen · 04-23-2010, 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FreeHugeMovies

Ignore it

Screwed Up · 04-23-2010, 12:11 PM

You could fill a book with these hate mails. Nobody has done this already?
Forget about a book, make it a series...

Jman · 04-23-2010, 12:15 PM

Best response is sometimes no response at all.

will76 · 04-23-2010, 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allison

I received this email this morning in response to
http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/

"Your article in the Daily Princetonian today was reprehensible. I cannot believe you are actually trying justify your corporate smut peddling in the pages of a college newspaper. Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America. To say otherwise is disingenuous. I don?t know how you sleep at night."

It's taken me 9 years in this industry, to get my first personal hate email.

Suggestions on how to respond?

why would you waste your time to engage this person. There is ZERO you can say to change their mind. If you could make pigs fly in front of their eyes they would still not listen to anything you have to say about porn.

Just shake your head and laugh at them and forget about it.

Allison · 04-23-2010, 12:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SimonScans

Did they use a name? I like to re-cycle names of people of have annoyed me by using their names for models. Or by giving models who've annoyed me stupid names.

http://www.simonscans.com/models/sho...hp?modelid=260

But as a general rule, don't talk to civilians about porn, its not something they can understand.

Haha, that's great!

Pornopat · 04-23-2010, 12:28 PM

Just ignoring is simply wrong.
Ask the person to clarify his point of view.
After you receive the 5 pages on which he will be working for days thinking you will actually discuss it with him only then you ignore him.

kristin · 04-23-2010, 12:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SimonScans

Did they use a name? I like to re-cycle names of people of have annoyed me by using their names for models. Or by giving models who've annoyed me stupid names.

http://www.simonscans.com/models/sho...hp?modelid=260

But as a general rule, don't talk to civilians about porn, its not something they can understand.

Nice, I see this man in our next Gay Military update. =)

BruceM · 04-23-2010, 01:36 PM

It only seems right that you trick them into going to meatspin.com

atom · 04-23-2010, 01:54 PM

http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/

OMG the comments left on here are priceless! Especially Lensman

Good article Allison.

Barefootsies · 04-23-2010, 01:55 PM

Some funny replies in this thread.

04-23-2010, 09:23 AM	#1
Allison Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: http://www.topbucks.com Posts: 2,068	My First Personal Hate Letter, how to respond? I received this email this morning in response to http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2010/04/22/25971/ "Your article in the Daily Princetonian today was reprehensible. I cannot believe you are actually trying justify your corporate smut peddling in the pages of a college newspaper. Pornography is poison, addictive, and destructive of families across America. To say otherwise is disingenuous. I don?t know how you sleep at night." It's taken me 9 years in this industry, to get my first personal hate email. Suggestions on how to respond? __________________ Allison President TopBucks.com\| PinkVisual.com\| [email protected] Follow Me on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/PV_Alli ICQ: 120353154 Check out PVLocker.com

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04-23-2010, 09:38 AM	#13
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04-23-2010, 10:12 AM	#22
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04-23-2010, 10:37 AM	#28
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04-23-2010, 10:40 AM	#29
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04-23-2010, 10:41 AM	#31
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04-23-2010, 10:43 AM	#32
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04-23-2010, 10:57 AM	#34
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