Poll: Does your girlfriend have rights to look through your phone, IM, or computer? - Page 3 - GoFuckYourself.com

seeric · 04-17-2008, 10:43 PM

Women ALWAYS have a plan b. Chris Rock has a good segment in his stand up about it. In case of emergency, break glass, dick in a glass.

You're case is a little different, mine are mostly friendships that get too close. Yours was kind of planned from what I remember.

All I want you to do is be happy. If that is happening then fine. If not, and you are doubting it, then summer is coming and both of you may be better off.

JDog · 04-17-2008, 11:30 PM

I don't think they should go through, neither should a guy go through his womans phone. I never once did. Phone bill was even in my name at one point and I NEVER checked to see who she was calling.

The only time she read stuff was when I let her use my computer (she hadn't moved her computer in yet and was going to check her bank account online). I let her use my computer to check it and I had a trillian window open with a co-worker which we were just laughing about something but she took offense to it. Now I agree that was my fault and don't blame her for reading the couple sentences since it was RIGHT there.

But if she went through my phone I'd cause all hell.

NickB. · 04-17-2008, 11:31 PM

LOL, simply never.... ever ever ever.....

farkedup · 04-17-2008, 11:35 PM

cover your tracks better dude! if she's worth keeping around just keep in your head that she'll be looking so simply delete naughty txt messages and those long phone calls (I sure do)

[ Nate ] · 04-18-2008, 03:26 AM

You should have 'FUCK NO' as a poll option.

campimp · 04-18-2008, 05:09 AM

i hate when my girlfriend looks through my shit
i have my computer password protected, so that stops her from turning on my computer, but everytime i leave the house or room or something she will try to look around if i dont turn the damn thing off

i have absolutely nothing to hide on here... but its just a matter of privacy and personal space. we live together, so there is very little that is "just mine". let me at least have my own computer!!!!!!!!!

Lil Miss C Cups · 04-18-2008, 05:17 AM

Well! Not to sound too deep and meaningful, but a relationship should be based on trust and if she knows you don't want her to look through your stuff then she should respect that and stop doing it. If she continues doing it then it can only go downhill. She sounds very insecure - I'm sure you're a nice guy, but does she have good reason to feel this way I wonder?!

themonk · 04-18-2008, 05:24 AM

what the fuck are u talking about .. they only have the right to get fucked ;)

Honez · 04-18-2008, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Imortyl Pussycat

herein lies your answers. it's very obvious to me that you are in love with this girl or would not be taking this to the masses to help you deliberate on it (you would have dumped her immediately) nor let her live with you. "she made something out of nothing", it was not nothing to her and that is what you are seeking to better understand. a real relationship is about compromise and seeing through your loves eyes to relate and work through issues, hence "i guess if i saw....." you are on the right track with the bit that i quoted from your own type. "the diff between me and her" no two people can think or understand or rationalize in exactly the same way. that is why we argue so much with the one we love the most. we want desperately for them to see situations identically to the way we do but it's not possible and we would tire of them if they were that boring and predictable. i too, find things hysterical when i joke in a personal way with someone of the opposite sex only to learn that i really hurt my favorite person's, your pals, feelings and disrespected him. we all have different breaking points and lines in the sand as to respect issues. be open, quiet voiced, coming from a position of love and understanding and beat this issue dead once and for all with her and move forward. you love the spanish flame, dont put it out, accept the spice

Marry me

CarlosTheGaucho · 04-18-2008, 10:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxjay

LOL...Carlos it's "latinas" and not "latinos" - a "latino" is a guy. I'm sure it's all good for some people but I don't swing that way.

Shit, that's a BAD typo..

I mean it had to be the recent latina girl, who made me talk almost openly about my experience. I guess I was in euphoria. I never do that. I am not that kind of guy who would walk around and talk shit like "Ah that was a damn sodomy, balls up the ceiling, cock swinging all around the place, she was moaning like a mowing machine!" and all kind of shit..

To me, it's ridiculous and it's basically like saying "OH I love my dick, listen what the dick has to say .." so I just don't do it, I keep it discrete and the only ones entitled to SEE what's going on are ladies.

Anyway, I owe you a steak and a bottle of precious booze, I am sure you're gonna do the right thing and deal with the latina romance in style.

payd2purv · 04-18-2008, 10:54 AM

I am going to stick my 2 cents in to raise my post count.

This is not an issue about "rights" It doesn't matter if your girlfriend has the right to look thru your stuff.

She should trust you enough to not feel any need to and you shouldn't give her any reason to not trust you.

This relationship should just end.

Without trust you can't have a relationship it will just turn into insane madness sooner or later when the jealous paranoid untrusting person in the relationship snaps... like they ALWAYS do...

hollinator · 04-18-2008, 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxjay

LOL...I know, it takes A LOT to make me settle with one girl...A LOT. I've enjoyed a single life that most would envy. I know she's a catch, that's why I stayed with her.

Please don't even let her know I posted this thread. :-)

I would never do that

Seriously. Good luck - I think you will figure it out

nico-t · 04-18-2008, 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxjay

LOL...Carlos it's "latinas" and not "latinos" - a "latino" is a guy. I'm sure it's all good for some people but I don't swing that way.

lol.... reminds me of a crappy dutch pop singer broad (pretty hot chick) who probably tries to break through internationally with her english spoken ' j-lo' kind of music. She released this song where she the hook is 'NOooo, Im no Latinooo' it just fucking cracked me up... NO SHIT, BITCH! hahahaha

BOSS1 · 04-18-2008, 01:08 PM

do what u gotta do playa

Loryn · 04-18-2008, 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by payd2purv

I am going to stick my 2 cents in to raise my post count.

This is not an issue about "rights" It doesn't matter if your girlfriend has the right to look thru your stuff.

She should trust you enough to not feel any need to and you shouldn't give her any reason to not trust you.

This relationship should just end.

Without trust you can't have a relationship it will just turn into insane madness sooner or later when the jealous paranoid untrusting person in the relationship snaps... like they ALWAYS do...

If everyone ended their relationship because of one of the people feeling a little distrust at some point in their relationship, than everyone would have to break up. Nothing is perfect, there is no Utopia. I don't know how many times I have to explain this! haha

If you can tell me that you NEVER EVER felt a little distrust towards someone you loved then you better finish that sentence with either, I AM NOT HUMAN, or I DO NOT UNDERSTAND OR REMEMBER MY OWN FEELINGS!

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04-17-2008, 11:30 PM	#102
JDog Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Canby, OR Posts: 7,453	I don't think they should go through, neither should a guy go through his womans phone. I never once did. Phone bill was even in my name at one point and I NEVER checked to see who she was calling. The only time she read stuff was when I let her use my computer (she hadn't moved her computer in yet and was going to check her bank account online). I let her use my computer to check it and I had a trillian window open with a co-worker which we were just laughing about something but she took offense to it. Now I agree that was my fault and don't blame her for reading the couple sentences since it was RIGHT there. But if she went through my phone I'd cause all hell. __________________ NSCash now powering ReelProfits.com ALSO FEATURING: NSCash.com :: SoloDollars.com :: ReelProfits.com :: BiminiBucks.com :: VOD PROGRAMS COMING SOON: Greedy Bucks :: Vengeance Cash NOW OFFERING OVER 60 SITES CONTACT :: JAMES SMITH :: CHIEF TECHNOLOGY OFFICER :: ICQ (711385133)

04-17-2008, 11:35 PM	#104
farkedup Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Kalamazoo, MI Posts: 2,490	cover your tracks better dude! if she's worth keeping around just keep in your head that she'll be looking so simply delete naughty txt messages and those long phone calls (I sure do) __________________ -- QUOTE ME IT MAKES ME FEEL SPECIAL --

04-18-2008, 03:26 AM	#105
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04-18-2008, 05:24 AM	#108
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04-17-2008, 10:43 PM	#101
seeric .......... Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: .......... Posts: 41,917	Women ALWAYS have a plan b. Chris Rock has a good segment in his stand up about it. In case of emergency, break glass, dick in a glass. You're case is a little different, mine are mostly friendships that get too close. Yours was kind of planned from what I remember. All I want you to do is be happy. If that is happening then fine. If not, and you are doubting it, then summer is coming and both of you may be better off.

04-17-2008, 11:31 PM	#103
NickB. Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 8,855	LOL, simply never.... ever ever ever.....

04-18-2008, 05:09 AM	#106
campimp Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Gamehendge Posts: 1,340	i hate when my girlfriend looks through my shit i have my computer password protected, so that stops her from turning on my computer, but everytime i leave the house or room or something she will try to look around if i dont turn the damn thing off i have absolutely nothing to hide on here... but its just a matter of privacy and personal space. we live together, so there is very little that is "just mine". let me at least have my own computer!!!!!!!!!

04-18-2008, 05:17 AM	#107
Lil Miss C Cups Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: London Posts: 99	Well! Not to sound too deep and meaningful, but a relationship should be based on trust and if she knows you don't want her to look through your stuff then she should respect that and stop doing it. If she continues doing it then it can only go downhill. She sounds very insecure - I'm sure you're a nice guy, but does she have good reason to feel this way I wonder?!

04-18-2008, 10:54 AM	#111
payd2purv Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Toronto Posts: 2,727	I am going to stick my 2 cents in to raise my post count. This is not an issue about "rights" It doesn't matter if your girlfriend has the right to look thru your stuff. She should trust you enough to not feel any need to and you shouldn't give her any reason to not trust you. This relationship should just end. Without trust you can't have a relationship it will just turn into insane madness sooner or later when the jealous paranoid untrusting person in the relationship snaps... like they ALWAYS do... __________________

04-18-2008, 01:08 PM	#114
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