Why do girls like to dance so much? - GoFuckYourself.com

Brown Bear · 10-10-2002, 02:58 AM

I have my own theory, but I wanna hear what you guys think.

pink_in_the_middle · 10-10-2002, 03:03 AM

what makes you think of these things? lol
well my theory is that girls who can dance are good lovers

Dancing lets you let loose..it's very relaxing and feels good. It's a turn on...good exercise. It's fun plain and simple

Sorry to ask this but r u male or female? No really I have no clue thats why I'm asking. If you're a femal that doesn't enjoy dancing then come over here and let me show you how to let loose

bhutocracy · 10-10-2002, 03:03 AM

crabs

[Labret] · 10-10-2002, 03:07 AM

It panders to every womans need for "look at me! look at me!"

They only have meaning in their lives when someone is paying attention to them.

geejay · 10-10-2002, 03:09 AM

cuz we look so good when we dance

titmowse · 10-10-2002, 03:16 AM

chicks invented the arts, dincha know?

[Labret] · 10-10-2002, 03:18 AM

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Originally posted by titmowse
chicks invented the arts, dincha know?

*sigh*

Not before I am about to go to sleep.

Tipsy · 10-10-2002, 03:20 AM

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Originally posted by geejay
cuz we look so good when we dance

I'll go with that. There's obvious exceptions but generally they just don't look as stupid as most men trying to dance.

titmowse · 10-10-2002, 03:24 AM

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Originally posted by [Labret]

*sigh*

Not before I am about to go to sleep.

oh i would so love to play...

ADL Colin · 10-10-2002, 03:33 AM

Dancing - that strange ritual. Like most sociological questions, I would think there are many reasons rather than just one. People like to dance to meet people, express oneself, be a part of something, to feel good (exercise), or to show off their dancing skills or their body. Some people must also experience something they would call "spiritual" while dancing. At least, my father's hippy friends at Grateful Dead shows a few years ago seem like they did.

It seems to me, from being at clubs, that as many men like to dance as women. I haven't seen the male/female ratio at a line dance. Maybe someone could report.

Another interesting question, why do some people experience embarassment and feel uncomfortable when they dance?

pink_in_the_middle · 10-10-2002, 03:38 AM

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Originally posted by Colin
Dancing - that strange ritual. Like most sociological questions, I would think there are many reasons rather than just one. People like to dance to meet people, express oneself, be a part of something, to feel good (exercise), or to show off their dancing skills or their body. Some people must also experience something they would call "spiritual" while dancing. At least, my father's hippy friends at Grateful Dead shows a few years ago seem like they did.

It seems to me, from being at clubs, that as many men like to dance as women. I haven't seen the male/female ratio at a line dance. Maybe someone could report.

Another interesting question, why do some people experience embarassment and feel uncomfortable when they dance?

I get a bit uncomfortable when I dance (seriously) for kelly. It's alot easier to dance when intoxicated

I dunno how to explane it..i guuess i get scared thinking " what incase he doesn't like it"

I mean i know he will but i always think it. When i'm drunk helll who gives a shit

When intoxicated you're not really giving a crap what other ppl think of you. It's your time to make an ass of yourself

ADL Colin · 10-10-2002, 03:42 AM

"It's your time to make an ass of yourself"

Are you talking about dancing or posting? ;-)

pink_in_the_middle · 10-10-2002, 03:45 AM

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Originally posted by Colin
"It's your time to make an ass of yourself"

Are you talking about dancing or posting? ;-)

i'm sorry did i make an ass of myself in my post?

mGreg · 10-10-2002, 03:52 AM

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When intoxicated you're not really giving a crao what other ppl think of you. It's your time to make an ass of yourself

hahaha i love getting to that stage

ADL Colin · 10-10-2002, 03:57 AM

"i'm sorry did i make an ass of myself in my post?"

No, I was speaking generally. Despite the rumors PunkWorld is spreading, I'm nice. Don't you know?

Firehorse · 10-10-2002, 04:15 AM

Dance serves many purposes. It is a form of self expression, it is part of courtship ritual, or a precursor to sexually connecting with someone, or a way to meet people, communicate non verbally, exercise, or release tension, a way to temporarily transcend thinking and accentuate feeling.

Women dig to do this thru dance generally more than men.

I am sure there are many more reasons.

Rocky · 10-10-2002, 04:30 AM

doesn't dancing lead to sex

TDF · 10-10-2002, 04:31 AM

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Originally posted by Rocky
doesn't dancing lead to sex

dirty dancing does..and lots of baby pedes

Rocky · 10-10-2002, 04:37 AM

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Originally posted by toodamnfli

dirty dancing does..and lots of baby pedes

are there any pedes in Belize?

TheFLY · 10-10-2002, 04:39 AM

Labret is right. If they need to dance so bad -- why don't they dance at home? Some of my girlfriends did dance at home which I thought was cool -- but most of the time they need that group therapy. But I think it's a little more than that...

I think dance is really a complicated subject actually... if it wasn't 5am I wouldn't be talking about this either hehe... On the rare times that I have smoked weed -- a few things happen. 1. My appreciation for music is heightened... I can go into a state of euphoria where I feel like I am in sync with the fucking universe -- this music has been created just for me -- and there is an integration of the creation of the dance <-> creation of the music that is free of the limitations of time and space... This is a very personal experience and I'm not one of those social smokers that sits around laughing about stupid shit just to be "happy"... Needless to say -- I turn up the volume to the max... and I don't even think about it -- I just get up and start dancing... as if by instinct. Ordinarily this never happens -- even if I am drunk out of my mind. Sometimes I wonder if my parents smoked too much weed when I was conceived for me to need a drug to experience the joys of dance that "normal" people enjoy without too much thought... LOL. These dance sessions usually turn sweaty and intense where my mind is working in high gear... last time it happened I was doing all sorts of analysis on the qualities of movement... the visualization of the character of movements, accelerative qualities, tension vs. relaxation and other dualities, as well as volumes of other shit that would flip out your mind... The end result is that I'm sweaty, exhausted, and feel fantastic... if anyone were to witness what I actually did they would probably need to see therapist afterwards -- their ego would be challenged and they would probably lose consciousness... LOL Otherwise I don't care to or feel the need to dance in public... It seems that girls are more easily able to tap in to that sort of euphoria...

I think your upbringing has something to do with it also -- it's a matter of training... like martial arts...

One more thing... think about the beat when multiple people dance in a group. People are incorrect to think that there is one correct way to move to a "beat" -- take a simple example -- move up and down -- one person can move up to the beat -- the other person down to the beat... If everyone is moving up and you are moving down -- you seem to be off beat -- but in reality it's all the same beat... Exactly the same way a rapper can change the tempo from fast to slow and still be on point even though the beat has not changed... Anyway so dancing in a group you become syncronized/integrated into some kind of wierd movement orgy where you relinquish some of your decision making process whether you realize it or not -- you may think that you are original or have some kind of self expression -- but in reality you are being influenced by those people dancing around you...

Scootermuze · 10-10-2002, 05:35 AM

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Originally posted by Colin

Another interesting question, why do some people experience embarassment and feel uncomfortable when they dance?

Just as those who like to dance for the, "Look at me" attempt, there are also those who are self-conscious who think, "Oh no.. everyone is looking at me.."

Dax · 10-10-2002, 06:15 AM

Dancing is good for women to show off.. like someone said is all about attention. If it was not for attention why would a girl get on a stage/speaker and dance with sexual tones?

Is all about: Watch how good of a fuck I can be, I can move like this and I would be the best fuck of your life... So then guys can hit on her and she has her attention and has her choice...

If you all have not been to Miami, you gotta go dancing down here.. is something different.. is ALL ABOUT SEX....

Peace!

Carrie · 10-10-2002, 06:21 AM

For some of us, it's not a question of "why do I dance", but "how can I not??"
The bass pumping through your chest, the lights all around you, the music is calling and you just can't stop yourself... you've gotta just GO...
And then you're out there, and it's just the music and you. It's not "ooh look at me" - the other people don't matter at all - it's something intensely personal, powerful, and uncontrollable...
It's an escape. You can get out there and just let go, get lost in the music and just BE part of the whole thing for a few short minutes...
And then the song ends and you're back in this shitty world.
How can you NOT get out there and dance?

Bake · 10-10-2002, 06:22 AM

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Originally posted by [Labret]
It panders to every womans need for "look at me! look at me!"

I thought it was so they didnt have have to bore us with chit chat ? but I might be wrong ?

Wilbo · 10-10-2002, 06:32 AM

Women like to dance cuz men put money in their garter belts :-)

Ross · 10-10-2002, 06:50 AM

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Originally posted by geejay
cuz we look so good when we dance

really? Even if you look like this???

Lovely.....

ADL Colin · 10-10-2002, 07:30 AM

"And then the song ends and you're back in this shitty world. "

WTF?! When did the world get shitty? I love this place. I am having a GREAT time.

UnseenWorld · 10-10-2002, 09:42 AM

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Originally posted by titmowse
chicks invented the arts, dincha know?

That's why there are so many famous chick artists.

UnseenWorld · 10-10-2002, 09:46 AM

It's an exhibitionistic outlet. Because the female sexual role involves attracting attention from suitable partner, it's a "strutting their stuff" thing.

cherrylula · 10-10-2002, 09:47 AM

Because it ends with an "ugly bed dance", if done correctly.

steffie · 10-10-2002, 09:54 AM

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Originally posted by [Labret]
It panders to every womans need for "look at me! look at me!"

They only have meaning in their lives when someone is paying attention to them.

That's the only reason I go dancing
Gimme Attention, more attention, everybody come and look at me

Fuck it I am going out tonight

Xhale - Frederick MD - Ladies Night!!!

Cya There

Pornwolf · 10-10-2002, 10:07 AM

Dancing normally leads to sex if you are any good.

salsbury · 10-10-2002, 10:33 AM

i think it's an attention thing, too. but then again, so is just being at the club in the first place.

i hate to dance, i know several girls that like it and want me to dance with them. why? i'm guessing it's because they know it makes me uncomfortable. its a power thing for them.

Lev · 10-10-2002, 10:41 AM

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Originally posted by [Labret]
It panders to every womans need for "look at me! look at me!"

They only have meaning in their lives when someone is paying attention to them.

very true

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10-10-2002, 03:33 AM	#10
ADL Colin Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Tube Titans, USA Posts: 11,929	Dancing - that strange ritual. Like most sociological questions, I would think there are many reasons rather than just one. People like to dance to meet people, express oneself, be a part of something, to feel good (exercise), or to show off their dancing skills or their body. Some people must also experience something they would call "spiritual" while dancing. At least, my father's hippy friends at Grateful Dead shows a few years ago seem like they did. It seems to me, from being at clubs, that as many men like to dance as women. I haven't seen the male/female ratio at a line dance. Maybe someone could report. Another interesting question, why do some people experience embarassment and feel uncomfortable when they dance? __________________ Adult Date Link - $50 PPS starting NOW! -- good and JUICY! skype = "adultdatelink"

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[Labret] Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: Са́нкт-Петербу́рг Posts: 10,945	It panders to every womans need for "look at me! look at me!" They only have meaning in their lives when someone is paying attention to them.

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geejay Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 14	cuz we look so good when we dance

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ADL Colin Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Tube Titans, USA Posts: 11,929	"i'm sorry did i make an ass of myself in my post?" No, I was speaking generally. Despite the rumors PunkWorld is spreading, I'm nice. Don't you know? __________________ Adult Date Link - $50 PPS starting NOW! -- good and JUICY! skype = "adultdatelink" Last edited by ADL Colin; 10-10-2002 at 03:58 AM..

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Firehorse Desire it and have it!!! Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: www.fuckwithfire.com ICQ 512915 Posts: 30,767	Dance serves many purposes. It is a form of self expression, it is part of courtship ritual, or a precursor to sexually connecting with someone, or a way to meet people, communicate non verbally, exercise, or release tension, a way to temporarily transcend thinking and accentuate feeling. Women dig to do this thru dance generally more than men. I am sure there are many more reasons. __________________ MySweetEbony

10-10-2002, 04:30 AM	#17
Rocky Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Living Off The Grid Posts: 3,022	doesn't dancing lead to sex __________________ Are you down with Sin?

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TheFLY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: http://www.thefly.net/ --- Quit your job and live off steady traffic. Posts: 11,856	Labret is right. If they need to dance so bad -- why don't they dance at home? Some of my girlfriends did dance at home which I thought was cool -- but most of the time they need that group therapy. But I think it's a little more than that... I think dance is really a complicated subject actually... if it wasn't 5am I wouldn't be talking about this either hehe... On the rare times that I have smoked weed -- a few things happen. 1. My appreciation for music is heightened... I can go into a state of euphoria where I feel like I am in sync with the fucking universe -- this music has been created just for me -- and there is an integration of the creation of the dance <-> creation of the music that is free of the limitations of time and space... This is a very personal experience and I'm not one of those social smokers that sits around laughing about stupid shit just to be "happy"... Needless to say -- I turn up the volume to the max... and I don't even think about it -- I just get up and start dancing... as if by instinct. Ordinarily this never happens -- even if I am drunk out of my mind. Sometimes I wonder if my parents smoked too much weed when I was conceived for me to need a drug to experience the joys of dance that "normal" people enjoy without too much thought... LOL. These dance sessions usually turn sweaty and intense where my mind is working in high gear... last time it happened I was doing all sorts of analysis on the qualities of movement... the visualization of the character of movements, accelerative qualities, tension vs. relaxation and other dualities, as well as volumes of other shit that would flip out your mind... The end result is that I'm sweaty, exhausted, and feel fantastic... if anyone were to witness what I actually did they would probably need to see therapist afterwards -- their ego would be challenged and they would probably lose consciousness... LOL Otherwise I don't care to or feel the need to dance in public... It seems that girls are more easily able to tap in to that sort of euphoria... I think your upbringing has something to do with it also -- it's a matter of training... like martial arts... One more thing... think about the beat when multiple people dance in a group. People are incorrect to think that there is one correct way to move to a "beat" -- take a simple example -- move up and down -- one person can move up to the beat -- the other person down to the beat... If everyone is moving up and you are moving down -- you seem to be off beat -- but in reality it's all the same beat... Exactly the same way a rapper can change the tempo from fast to slow and still be on point even though the beat has not changed... Anyway so dancing in a group you become syncronized/integrated into some kind of wierd movement orgy where you relinquish some of your decision making process whether you realize it or not -- you may think that you are original or have some kind of self expression -- but in reality you are being influenced by those people dancing around you...

10-10-2002, 06:15 AM	#22
Dax Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: USA Posts: 3,161	Dancing is good for women to show off.. like someone said is all about attention. If it was not for attention why would a girl get on a stage/speaker and dance with sexual tones? Is all about: Watch how good of a fuck I can be, I can move like this and I would be the best fuck of your life... So then guys can hit on her and she has her attention and has her choice... If you all have not been to Miami, you gotta go dancing down here.. is something different.. is ALL ABOUT SEX.... Peace!

10-10-2002, 06:21 AM	#23
Carrie Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Virgin - nee Posts: 3,162	For some of us, it's not a question of "why do I dance", but "how can I not??" The bass pumping through your chest, the lights all around you, the music is calling and you just can't stop yourself... you've gotta just GO... And then you're out there, and it's just the music and you. It's not "ooh look at me" - the other people don't matter at all - it's something intensely personal, powerful, and uncontrollable... It's an escape. You can get out there and just let go, get lost in the music and just BE part of the whole thing for a few short minutes... And then the song ends and you're back in this shitty world. How can you NOT get out there and dance?

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Wilbo Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Baltimore Posts: 2,082	Women like to dance cuz men put money in their garter belts :-)

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cherrylula lol Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15,969	Because it ends with an "ugly bed dance", if done correctly.

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10-10-2002, 10:33 AM	#33
salsbury Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Seattle Posts: 1,070	i think it's an attention thing, too. but then again, so is just being at the club in the first place. i hate to dance, i know several girls that like it and want me to dance with them. why? i'm guessing it's because they know it makes me uncomfortable. its a power thing for them. __________________